₦airaland Forum

most Nigerians have this education thing as their orientation...everybody wants to go to school..just too sad our standard is so poor now because of our greedy leaders...as yet when the opportunity comes for any..we always excel...we natural achievers...I remember when CNN even gave us that A ranking compared only to some Asian countries in a survey they conducted...lets celebrate this kid and the many others representing everything positive about Naija.

And what does your gal think?..guy please man up and be more responsible from now on..the deed has been done..learn...keep the baby and let it be your motivation to succeed..dont get her pregnant for a very long while again until u both stabilize..are u guys even enough in love to commit for marriage or its just cos of the pregnancy?..hustle well as it won't kill you but stay out of crime..please use protection next time,you need to stay healthy too..men love sex generally but try redirect the energy into more positives..keep the baby.

Please spare the OP..she admitted she is naive in matters of the heart as we can all see..she lacks the maturity to handle a distant relationship hence she allowed the second guy to get too close. My advice for you as difficult as it might sound is for you to get busy in a more creative way because of your age..it might also help you sort out yourself better but i fear you are already in too deep with this relationship talk..even talking about giving someone your virginity. Babe are you ready for marriage?..excel at other positive things and life will naturally mature you to handle matters of the heart even though females are wont to many a times get confused about these things especially when they have options...also it depends on what you term as your priorities...am sorry it seems you dont have any mature figure you could confide in but exposed to nairalanders...me inclusive...if only your parents knew what their daughter is going through...please get some positive distraction girl,a skill,a job,add value to yourselve,still too many things to achieve as your parents will not be there to provide for you forever..the ultimate man will reveal itself with time because if you continue this way you might even lose both..life aint fair and fair aint life..welcome to the real world as i pray the mistakes you will make,which we all do..will not be as devastating since your parents have ensured you lacked nothing in life..wish you all the best.

..OP..You dated this guy for this long and waited until he popped the question before realizing its an issue?..you didnt think he planned to marry you?..am happy you are sincere about your concern but please DONT marry that dude out of pity,do it when you are REALLY ready because bigger challenges will come in future that you wont remember the last time you had sex. You even remembered how many guys are at your beck and call,that you are pretty and comfortable..that he asked you a couple of times meaning he is almost like begging you?..hmmmm. You need to keep your communication flow with this guy very open and see it as your challenge if you love him that much too..You and only you know what you can live with because it will take a lot of patience and maturity..ONE LAST QUESTION - if you marry him and he doesnt improve what do u plan to do?..did i hear you say until we get to the bridge?..babe !!!!..Nairalanders will not be there with you oh...and yes you are as imperfect too but you have a choice.

Please i need the advise of all..plan applying for a student visa..as per the bank statement i intend to use a statement of account different from that which my salary is paid into but with steady cash flow as i service a loan on the salary account and the deductions thereto might tip off the visa officer...will he be interested in seeing my monthly salary inflow?..thanks all.

Please i need the advise of all..plan applying for a student visa..as per the bank statement i intend to use a statement of account different from that which my salary is paid into but with steady cash flow as i service a loan on the salary account and the deductions thereto might tip off the visa officer...will he be interested in seeing my monthly salary inflow?..thanks all.