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I might be a man.u fan but today I'm routing for my homeboys Kelechi and Ndidi.

Ole and his weird last minute substitutions though.

Ole had better not add or minus anyone on that pitch but for a yellow card or an injury.

Ole just keeps making expensive subsitutions ( like let me lock the game now since i have an advantage,a lone goal advantage at that ) even when a game has not been won,it doesn't always work like so with modern day football. He should be firm,take control and dominate especially when you have an early advantage.That black guy is yet to fit into the team. Maguire just complains and nags all the time instead of coordinating that defence (very unreliable back four) while De Gea's form keeps fluctuating. The players just lack a winning mentality,like anyhow it goes. Even when Liverpool or Man City is losing a game, you will still have this fear and respect for them. Very unfortunate.

Fair enough.....better than a loss.

Rashford didnt need to stop that.

Rasford appearing just too casual in this game.

Lol...i know there is no age limit to education but bros haba..all na hustle..kai naija ?...we are just capable of anything. It is not easy choosing to be positively different but it is still a personal choice to make.

The feeling of a come back win is fulfilling on a different level......just a little more consistency in their play so they don't drop points. Great game.

And the service chiefs are still receiving their salaries and allowances.....smh.

Ever wondered why the Havard trained and top ExxonMobil Exec Ibe Kachikwu was unceremoniusly removed? Some things are just plain sickening to

hear when there is so much poverty in the midst of plenty,because of unchecked corruption and mal-administration which benefits these politicians.

GOD bless you real good for not just following the headline but taking time to read up....if only most of us will be patient enough to read up first....

ObaofNigeria:
This title is misleading. Klopp is saying that they actually play proper football (balanced attack and defence) but simultaneously they appear very defensive when Liverpool moves upfront.
Or that they switch easily between balanced attack&defence and very defensive&counterattack.
At least that's what I thought before I read it on naira land.
It was a compliment.

A man irrespective of whatever has a duty to protect his family. He should continue to love and assist his sisters but there should be limits. Women might have their issues but that is why the man has to create some balance. Will your sisters want some other person to come terrorize them in their homes? Your sisters will come give you headache and go have peace,while you are not having peace in your home because of what they left behind.
Women generally love attention and are territorial , men also have their own characteristics so for the sake of peace and prosperity. Like people are just so poor and back ward in mentality , kai. People should learn to get busy and be productive with their lives,how can you have so much time for another person. So much idleness and pettiness and envy and hate in the polity. Women should never ever depend on any man. So if you have a girl child,is this the orientation you want to give her? The way you respect your wife is the way others will follow suit. We take life too serious and very soon everyone will die and i mean die and be forgotten. Most times the men even die before the women so let the man imagine what his kids will be going through in his absence...the kids are always the victims. Let the wife have an over dose of patience and respect , then the man having observed that his wife is making such great effort , tries his best to stand up and set limits because you sure can not please everybody. We have not heard the man's version of the story but if all the above is true, then it is very unfortunate because he needs to be a MAN and very soon too.

Guy, once you bring your issue to the public, expect criticism. Life's actions and inactions comes with consequences; a lot of lives not just yours ends up being distorted so eschew any sense of entitlement. For now please pray for a safe delivery for that lady. Once you confirm the kids are yours, then it will be time for serious decision making. That lady with all her supposed inadequacies will be their mother and I believe you will want the best for your kids. If the kids end up not being yours, it is your discretion to act like an old friend once a while. You don't have to marry her, you don't even have to take care of the kids even if they end of becoming yours, it is all up to you because men do it but you will live with your decision because eventually it is your life; however I am very sure you know that the innocent kids deserve better. If/how you will love and wish the best for your kids and disregard who birthed them, you will decide. Everyone here is advising you on what we believe is proper. Even though Nigerian youths are allegedly 'idle and lazy' you should be happy we are still giving you our two cents despite the daily hardships we face ; in this life you can learn from a mad man.I will not judge you but I believe you should know already that perfection is utopian. The kids won't just pop out, it is a woman, someone's sister and daughter that will birthed them, try focus less on the kids now and focus on the life of the person carrying them. She has to first give birth successfully before all these arguments. May be I skipped it somewhere but she should be under going ante-natal care now so who is ensuring that goes smoothly. This is a time to pray for the safe delivery of the kids, safety of mother and child/ren then the wisdom to make the right decisions based on the outcomes of the former. NEVER ever under estimate the strength of a lady/woman irrespective of whatever let alone one that probably birthed children for you...examples abound. So try handle this thing with wisdom so you can focus on the reason you are abroad.

This pictures are too gory and disrespectful. These guys are heroes irrespective of how we perceive it . These pictures can even breed a defeatist psyche upon our troops... there really was a country.

Such brazen display of entitlement, even coming from a fully grown male...and publicly too?.. rather sickening... I'm not surprised then because his type should even be avoided as his bitterness could breed vengeance. In life you expect less because nobody really owes you nothing, either you accept it or learn it the hard way.

Please can anyone urgently assist me with a contact in the Records office of Modibbo Adama University formerly FUTY Yola ?

Will be greatly appreciated.

Mikel isn't match fit and it's putting pressure on the whole team..the coach should change the formation..why pull out iwobi ?...the mid field isn't flowing..our guys lack what to do with d ball ,no body is motivating or coordinating the boys as Mikel is off steam. It's too early for this sort of defeat...we were too casual at the beginning even when the Croatians respected us.

Yes the woman was wrong but if all men reacted same way to women issues,we will record so many obituary statistics. Attacked him first and so?The man is a uniformed man,by training and discipline he should know how to exercise his right of self defence and probably even still get the lady arrested no matter how violent she thinks she is(so if he was a cop he can't arrest a violent lady robber/killer?) . Use his combat style training to demobilse and handcuff her. She is not armed,her shoe?..hold her hand and fling it away while you leave the scene. He removed his belt to flog the woman, that was not self defence but cowardice, no proportionality. What sane man exchanges punches with a woman in public? Growing up as guys/ men,we only praise you as brave when you beat a fellow man and not when you 'chance' a female not forgetting some females can be physically stronger. The society protects women and children the more. This is not about feminism, if you beat a woman like a man for every time she provokes or attacks you,you will kill her,he is lucky she did not pass out knowing fully well he is naturally stronger. The officer should have left that scene and allow his colleagues to take over the case no matter the provocation. The mother even joined her,you see? ..just picture them fighting the man, it's wrong yes but the man should not stand to fight them,use your discretion as a uniformed man. If a man flogs his wife at home, it is seriously condemned let alone removing your belt to flog another woman and more so publicly is very degrading, haba.

At least for once something unites us,no tribal or religious lines which are ready made tools in the hands of politicians to divide us and achieve their selfish aim...use what is good about Nigeria to correct what is bad about Nigeria...our diversity should be our strength...Nigerians have the resilience to survive and succeed but for inept leadership..GOD bless Nigeria

This is a confirmation of the general sorry state of what Nigeria has become, every sector of our lives has become a victim of our failed leadership...we need more than a divine redemption.

Can we then ask ourselves why the commandant was recalled. ..was it for him to be given a medal of honour or for retribution? Answering this question might just give us a clue on how the agency perceived the man's actions. The beating of the guy in a wheelchair because he was dressed in a camouflage and d swift condemnation by the army or the recent footage about a Nigerian being deported on a KLM flight where Nigerians protested;for the former it was not that wearing a camouflage was right but the manner of enforcement-being so beaten and dehumanised ;for the latter it was not against his deportation but the manner-in handcuffs and being man handled except he was a physical threat. This is 2017, even some military laws are being challenged these days by both the constitution and in public domain even though not still undermining the internal disciplinary measures or professional ethics of the military as an institution.

That Magu has just been invited to deliver a paper in London almost immediately by Transparency International an indicator in anyway?..who still remembers the video where the Bishop of Canterbury was interrupting British PM Cameron before the Queen of England that the corruption fight in Nigeria has improved? Has ever and I mean ever in the history of this country has it been heard that you arrest Generals,Air Vice Marshall or even the supposed gods being the Supreme Court Justices?..Magu and Buhari are no angels but it's humans that must do something..a one sided fight?..no problem, another govt will come one day and also deal with the TInubu and Amaechi...we will get full cleansing that way if the circle continues..pls allow the elite and politicians fight themselves cos u and me dont have the guts except by demonstrations and may be social media..these guys always use us to achieve their selfish interests, what's your loss if they are indicted?..if only we know that life can really be better than we are getting from government presently..these old men gas failed us because they were the ones who really enjoyed this country and are just passing it on to their next generations...if you can act,act but if you can't then you don't have to always be a pessimist..hope is the reason we wake up everyday from our beds and go to hustle, it's not negotiable if not one is just a walking dead...minus sentiments but practical positive solutions please..we can do better as Nigerians because we got the natural will to survive as can be seen wherever we are in the world.

This chap writes and speaks intelligently even more than most guys that have complete waec results,this guy fought depression,he is also very positive minded right now and gainfully employed in several ways and earning a living pending when he chooses to go back to school again,he is even replying his critics in a rather matured manner..we all know the many examples of people like him who were pushed to succeed in several ways asides from getting a degree and a job...and most of all he is fit and should be healthy...working out demands a lot of discipline coupled with the fact that he was even feeling low/blue at the time...that winner attitude that got him bouncing back will sure come in handy as he faces the more challenges that life will throw at him...the guy is not even asking for your validation..while we are all entitled to our various opinions why can't we just learn the lesson,it may not be body building...read a book,learn a new language..just don't give room for negativity,i think that is just the guy's message here,lets not get it twisted.

Hello Jwillng...sorry this is coming late but could you assist send me the report to chrisakere@yahoo.com .thanks

See the way AxaMansard is being given free advertorials here because of their professionalism. Done business with about four nigerian insurance companies for long before now but must admit that those guys at AxaMansard sure understand and apply why we got a lot of world class insurance companies listed regularly on the Forbes magazine's richest companies in the USA....professionalism. No one had to market me as i walked into the office personally;their customer care is top notch and they make payments timely and with no hassles.

While admitting we can't all have same views but can't we just know when to display some serious mentality to issues...yes 'what's my own' but everything must not be funny to make sense...and all these making front page trivialises this forum...we refer and quote this forum to a lot of peeps everywhere...just too bad our young minds have denigrated this low...blame no one because despite all the agreed bad leadership ,some youths are still very inspired beyond the present. Everyone is different, yes but haba...it can't be that bad with the way the average nigerian youth wants to reason or uses the social media.

The first step to handling her issues is to keep it out of public limelight,that's why it is called a marriage...now the whole world knows what she is passing through as if it makes it any better...if it has gotten to a stage where she would depend on public validation of happenings in her private life,remembering we are in Africa..then it is sad..very sad. Like the challenges are too much for her?..cos if all marriages published their challenges publicly...hmmmm..better imagined. Accepting that your man cheats and it's ok?..and admitting same to the whole world..knowing nobody wishes to 'share',waooooo !!!..a rather bitter pill. If she can still tolerate,stay in the marriage,be industrious and take care of your kids but if you fed up,then file for a divorce before you become a mental wreck..but by all means handle your private issues privately..Life is about choices anyway,we just live with the consequences.

....yes we will try plan these things just to satisfy ourselves but there are no assurances about how things will turn out after we pass on..its your money so share it the way you want but please don't be selfish..men are scared that women will re-marry and spend on her new man,women scared that men will spend same on a new woman?..after all the i love U..hmmmm; see human beings?..kai..but why bother about what is happening on earth when everyone has prayed that you should rest in peace?..reason i always advocate you enjoy your sweat to an extent and plan the rest for your loved ones, how they spend it after u go is not your biz (they probably don't even understand how u struggled to make d money)..let the living handle their own (not like you can even do anything from wherever one is gone to)..human beings ehhh?..we are a very funny lot of species..if only men were GOD am sure they will still be wanting to run things from where they are after they die...For me its wife..and that is because she suffered too in denials and inconveniences on behalf of the family (talking for myself) and she should know what's best for the kids...how that plays out when am gone,na dem sabi...me i have gone to rest with my GOD..can't hustle on earth and in heaven too...haba !!!!..( ooooh yes am going to heaven...before nko? ).

Dolphin Estate a ghetto?...very funny...

U see despite all the jabs and good advice thrown at the OP...am impressed she replies calmly, displaying good humour, trying to respond to all, not rude as even younger chics would do...please OP having apologized and explained to this man, please give him space...you might not be married yet but he is really the 'tokunbo' with baggage having married before and even has 3kids..you will be the one to live with and tolerate all these....yes trust is an issue but he should cut u some slack, u haven't even met yet; he is supposed to just laugh it off even if he is still got it on his mind and be stylishly getting to know you deeply so you feel free to let out more, in that 'play' u would have even told him d whole truth, now he has almost created a perfect liar as he will only hear d things that are pleasant to his ear...u tolerate people cos someone else is also tolerating u...the late Bimbo Odukoya and most long married couples would say a marriage is just two forgivers living together...give this man a break and live your life to the fullest, mix and exhale...keep ya head up..let one who has never lied before cast d first stone....the last time I checked ,perfection isn't a human being...at his age and yours, all this drama ?..maturity is not a question of numbers after all.

Guy you are desperate, who gave you a deadline?..very funny...relax..just relate freely with ladies generally even these two if they still care to be your friends..in good time you will miss one of them more for whatever reason cos it's your choice to make eventually...but I wish the woman loves you more cos even though they say marriage is 50/50, I believe a woman makes the home more as a man sometimes gets too carried away hustling, I might be wrong though...just don't rush things.