Family › What Was The Feeling Like When You Got Your First Car? Pls Share Your Experience by slan87(op): 10:47am On Feb 18, 2023 |
As we all know there is always a first time for everything in life. To everyone who own a car, what was the feeling like when you bought your first car?
Were you able to sleep over the night? How did you celebrated it? What brand of car? How did you cope in terms of maintenance? Did you regret buying the car or it was a good move? |
Phones › Re: Blackberry Q10:U Need The Screen To Fix Mine.. by slan87(m): 9:19pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Bodmum: Working very well, sire. How did you get it downloaded? |
Phones › Re: Blackberry Q10:U Need The Screen To Fix Mine.. by slan87(m): 8:58pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Bodmum: my passport is serving me very well. We dey together bro, Does opera mini works on your phone? It doesn't work here |
Phones › Re: Blackberry Q10:U Need The Screen To Fix Mine.. by slan87(m): 8:55pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
advanceDNA: Balckberry Q what?? I use BlackBerry classic bro, no bigg |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by slan87(m): 2:40pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
Masterdazhem: BRAND NEW!!! LG Dual Inverter AC 1.5 HP for Sale 230k (Slightly Negotiable)
Serious buyer only!
Whatsapp 070_4377_814 Your location? Can we deal @ 180k |
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Technology Market › Re: SOLD Slightly Used 6kg Gas Cylinder With Original Burner SOLD by slan87(m): 11:03am On Feb 10, 2023 |
uniquetechng: I will attach the pictures later Patiently waiting |
Family › Re: Generator.. Generator... Generator.... by slan87(m): 6:09pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
missbae: Sumec fireman Spg1800...1.1kva 43k |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by slan87(m): 10:03am On Feb 05, 2023 |
[quote author=avast01 post=120636159][/quote]How much is it? |
Phones › Re: Brand New Blackberry Bold For 65,000 Naira by slan87(m): 2:19am On Feb 03, 2023 |
LittleBigDick: Yes
I use three of them
They work very good Am using the blackberry classic presently, |
Family › Re: Nairalander Needs Advice Regarding Mum And Wife by slan87(m): 1:45pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
Klass99: If I understand you correctly wifey expects that if you're sending money to your folks, you should send the same amount to her folks too, am I right?
I don't know about the both of you, but if it were me I will do right, do good and do well by my parents, to the best of my ability without looking at what my spouse is doing for their parents or looking to them to do right by my parents for me, when I am still alive, working and earning.
Occasionally, I may ask my spouse to please pick up the slack for me and send something to my folks, if it's a rough month financially and I can't do so. If hubby on his own sends something to my parents without me asking I will be glad and appreciative. But to badger and hound him about it or pick a fight over it, when my hands are not broken, my brain is not malfunctioning and my siblings haven't passed yet........make I bend first.
Aged parents are a vulnerable set of people who need support, care and help the most, especially if they were good parents who did well by you. Additionally their youth and strength are gone, so if you don't help them as a child who has the capacity to do so, no be ment be that?
Usually siblings band together to take care of their parents, it's either they all contribute a monthly sum to be sent home or one sibling sends an allowance of say 50k for February, another does so for March and the responsibility is rotated that way on a monthly basis. It is not that you will go and marry someone's child then want to push the responsibility for your own parents onto them as well.
Honestly, I mean no offence but you and your wife are annoying! Sending money to your folks shouldn't be a bone of contention, where one or both of you start lying or hiding to send money home. You just nailed it. Barman, abeg give her anything she wants to drink |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by slan87(m): 8:05am On Feb 02, 2023 |
[quote author=avast01 post=120567175][/quote]How much are you selling? |
Family › Re: Sumec Fireman 30000eq Gen For Urgent Sales by slan87(m): 11:27pm On Jan 30, 2023 |
peretei2024: Location: Lagos
Price: #100,000
Thanks so much Last price? Where in lagos precisely |
Family › Re: Sumec Fireman 30000eq Gen For Urgent Sales by slan87(m): 10:35pm On Jan 30, 2023 |
peretei2024: I have Sumec Fireman 3.5kva gen for urgent sale.
If interested please contact me on : 08062493145.
Thanks Add location for prospect buyer |
Family › Re: Little Giveaway by slan87(m): 1:29pm On Jan 30, 2023 |
Cherish233: Confirm ur name Seen bro, God bless you more |
Family › Re: Little Giveaway by slan87(m): 1:19pm On Jan 30, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Little Giveaway by slan87(m): 1:19pm On Jan 30, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Little Giveaway by slan87(m): 1:15pm On Jan 30, 2023 |
3078854553, FIRST BANK |
Family › Re: Nairalander Pay For My Wife's C/S Bill Yesterday. by slan87(m): 8:30pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Mr dada, Na daada will you always witness for the rest of your life n your generations to come |
Family › Re: Who Still Remembers This Gadget? by slan87(m): 5:03am On Jan 27, 2023 |
Surest radio to listen to ERINKERINDO with a loud volume so that other neighbors can also listen without moving out of their house.
I miss the siren |
Romance › Re: My Sexcapades In University And How It’s Almost End My Life by slan87(m): 7:16pm On Jan 24, 2023 |
You too like to withdraw 10k Lol |
Romance › Re: Confession Of Oga Boy by slan87(m): 5:17pm On Jan 24, 2023 |
Mention me when you drop other lines |
Romance › Re: Confession Of Oga Boy by slan87(m): 2:47pm On Jan 24, 2023 |
Am enjoying your story |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by slan87(m): 10:01pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
morakinyo20: A friend is relocating and the following items are up for sale (all are slightly negotiable)
NOTE: Some items are available while others can be picked at the date stated infront.
1. Samsung 42" F5300 Series 5 Smart Full HD LED TV - 120k - available January 27th
2. LG Front load Washing Machine F10C3LDP2 - 100k - available January 27th
3. Dstv Explora 1 with full accessories & remote with an active compact plus bouquet just subscribed on the 13th of January 2023 - 65k - available January 27th
4. Wooden TV stand with two drawers - 20k.- to be collected immediately
5. Binatone 5 litre electric kettle - 10k- to be collected immediately
6. 32" LG Led TV- 60k - to be collected immediately
7. DSTV 6s decoder- 8k - to be collected immediately
8. Beko Gas cooker with 4 burners and gas oven + grill - 65k - available January 27th
9. Duravolt 18 inches Rechargeable fan - 15k -to be collected immediately
10. 3 seater, 2 seater and 1 single seater leather sofa chair -130k- to be collected immediately
11. 6x6 bedframe and mattress - 80k - to be collected immediately
12. Haier Thermocool 259l chest freezer - 180k - to be collected immediately
LOCATION: Lusada, Agbara, Ogun State PHONE NUMBER: 07011686118, WHATSAPP: 07030326774 @bolded, 10k? Waybill on me to abeokuta |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by slan87(m): 1:05pm On Jan 17, 2023 |
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Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by slan87(m): 12:53pm On Jan 17, 2023 |
Uniquewise: Fan for sale
Like new
35k firm
Call/Whatsapp 08059054222 How many inches? |
Family › Re: House Clearance Sales ..... JAPA STUFF by slan87(m): 8:10pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Dododawa01: Good Afternoon everyone,
The following house items are available for sales
*OX ADJUSTABLE STANDING FAN* - 12K
*OXYGEN STANDING FAN -* 10K
*ARCO STANDARD MATTRESS* - 70K
*EUROSONIC MICROWAVE* -20K
*DEEP FRYER* - 15K
*CLASSIC DINNING TABLE WITH 6 CHAIRS* - 50K
*COMPLETE SET OF SITTING ROOM CHAIR* - 100K
*ORL INDUSTRIAL STANDING FAN 26"* - 30K
*32 INCHES LG TV* - 50K
*MATTRESS with 9" -* 25K
*Elepaq EC 3000 CXS Generator* - 50K
Location: Abeokuta, OGUN STATE
Contact: call or WhatsApp the following nos: 08038636424, 08110953643 No cylinder for sale? Am also in abeokuta, adigbe |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by slan87(m): 1:07pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
grafixdon: Hydraulic floor jack
25k 07030504600 Lagos How many tons? 10k? |
Romance › Re: My Sexcapades In University And How It’s Almost End My Life by slan87(m): 10:04pm On Jan 12, 2023 |
Continue |
Health › Re: For The First Time Of My Existence On Earth I'm Having Suicidal Thoughts! by slan87(m): 5:20pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Waqes900: This really touch me, thanks do you happen to know any support groups in Nigeria. Not @ all, you can create a trend to ask here also. |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by slan87(m): 8:36am On Jan 05, 2023 |
22teddybear: Lot of Household Items on Clearance Sales in IBADAN.
4 seats dinning set - 60k Complete set of sofa - 50k TV stand - 18k 49" LG TV - 70k GoTv cable with antenna and wire- 5k Dressing mirror with a seat - 30k Everlasting shoe rack - 10k one 6x6 bed with side drawer - 40k one 6x6 mouka mattress - 30k one 4x6 bed with side drawer - 30k two 4x6 mattresses - 10k each Toasting machine - 5k 207L capacity refrigerator with top freezer - 70k 12.5KG gas cylinder - 10k 6KG gas cylinder - 5k Quality center rug - 15k Wardrobe - 20k Center Table - 5k Wall Mirror - 500 TV shelf(rack) - 4k Very sound 4.5KVA Elepaq Generator - 100k One roll Wallpaper 2k Two big water drums - 3k each Other plenty medium and low size water drum - any amount � One high grade footmat - 2,500 Pressing Iron - 4k Plastic reading table and 2 chairs - 2k and 1k each for the chair[b] Curtains - 10k[/b] Plenty other kitchen utensils and bowls - any amount�
Please, if you are interested in any of the above items, kindly reach out on WhatsApp or call on 08135six55744 for pictures and others Serious buyers only and each buyer will be responsible for inspection and pick up.
Thank you! Kindly upload the picture of the bold items |
Health › Re: For The First Time Of My Existence On Earth I'm Having Suicidal Thoughts! by slan87(m): 1:51am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Elzazzi: Hope I'm creating this thread in the right section, since depression is about the mental state of one's mind, so I thought of putting it in the health section. Please it might be a little bit lengthy but just take your time and read through. Before I proceed, I will like to make it clear that I'm not creating this thread to solicit for financial aid or whatever you might think of. I'm here to seek the opinions, thoughts and views of my fellow nairalanders on this t thread and that is even the major reason why I'm using my real handle.
Who knows if those that might have been going through similar terrible challenges can find succour on this thread also. You can't tell you know ??
You know there will get to some point in a man's life when things do not go in the right direction even after he has deployed various machanisms within his reach. At that point he needs to speak out and seek advice. I have seen how Nlanders contribute intelligently to topics of discuss and that's why I'm using my real handle to post this here.
For 26 years of my existence on the face of this earth, I'm having serious suicidal thoughts of jumping into the Lagos lagoon. Where I live isn't far from the third mainland bridge by bus anyways. I came from an average Home and I have been an introvert all my life. I rarely make friends because I spend most of my time reading online articles, journals and books. I also spend much time on nairaland. I graduated from secondary school in 2013 but had to hustle and raise money before I finally got admission in 2019 at one of the federal school. I'm the first son of 6 children and most time I feel like i have failed. My parents have been extremely supportive also.
I have deployed various mechanisms and ideas over the years to better my life but if just seems year by year it gets worst. I can't start going into details but at this point my life is hitting the rock bottom. Maybe there is something I might not be doing rightly or is it because I'm irreligious ? My parents have really tried a lot for me and it's really painful that at this stage I can't do anything for them.
I'm also good at being an OAP and also a media personality. I used to anchor talk shows as a teenager in church back then. But I think me being an introvert hasn't really helped also because I do not socialise and shy. I'm seeking opinions on what I can do. Ideas, thoughts and opinions will be deeply appreciated. Thanks! Look behind you, you will see a lot of reasons to be grateful for. No matter what you are going through, always look behind you cause am very sure someone somewhere is looking @ you n still praying to be like you. Things are hard generally, but suicidal is an option my brother. Like someone said, when God picks up your call just for a month, you go forget say you done suffer for 10years before. Things will surely get better for you, it's just a phase in life you need to go through & for you to be able to appreciate God more when things get better. |