₦airaland Forum

Hmmmmmm! This is cerebral disorder and sclerosis ,it is the confusion of the mind.
For me it is a psychological thing,the problem from the brain.
It is also a spiritual thing,highly spiritual,such individual are simply possessed by a demon that is responsible for such behavior.
I want to please beg us to simply pray for such persons we know around that one day God will deliver them and heal them.
A typical example is someone who is MAD, such individual will never know the state he/she is,they believe others are mad and they are sane.
I pray for everyone who has been possessed by such DEMON god will deliver them divinely and heal their mind in Jesus name.

Pastor, I want to tell you that, this is one of the miseries in marriage that will be unfolded in marriage, especially for those of us who are Christians and believe in the doctrine of NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE.

Before marriage my expectations was very high about sex with my wife, even though we had talked extensively about it before marriage and I already knew that my wife had no interest as much as I do because of the rape attack she had when she was much younger. Even though I had the believe that all shall be well when we get married, I planed to take my time to tutor her in various way and material I could lay my hands on, which I did after our marriage. I really tried but it yielded nothing much compare to my expectation.

At a point I got frustrated and began to have the same feeling as you mentioned, I wouldn't know who exactly to talk to, because I wouldn't want my wife or myself to be ridicule. The truth is that everyone has their own marital issues and some person might not know how to manage the issue for you but rather complicate it. So I began to talk to God directly the way I was feeling at that time. I was basically asking for GRACE everyday from God, initially it was not easy for me at all ,because all those fantasies and dreams of my sex life in marriage never come through. But, later on I found grace to maintain myself and carry my cross. You also can ask for grace from God and God will give you. There are graces, you will only access if you can ask for it.

Now my testimony is that my wife is better even though not exactly what I expected.

I will like to mention this, most of us men don't know how to make love at all. pre-intimacy is key, you must make her enjoy whatever you are doing with her even without you penetrating her. Make her enjoy it first, be patient with her, women are slow in picking up in getting aroused and when they are cut off it could be frustrated because, it will be a journey of begin again. Make her climax or reach Orgasm and see if she will not change or be asking for it. Know her interest and then you will be getting along gradually.

Check out her daily activities if it is tiring kind of daily activities (Stress).

Pastor, I have to stop here. There are many factors responsible. Above all, there is nothing prayer can not do. Talk to God about it. But first do you best and shower love on your wife and you will see a change in Jesus name.



All the best.

I will advice you to apply to NGOs, they have such job nature.

Yoruba think (ronu). It is very important that we the Yorubas begin to think and turn a new leave, because it has always been our way of life to be used against ourselves,against our fellow brothers and sisters.
We never support our fellow brother or sister ,we are easily used against each other. The Igbos we not do that,the hausas will never do that.
In our Political histories we have recorded many time character trait repeat itself severally.

Adetunji should not gbabode for the yorubas, he should not be Judas Iscariot, A torn in the yoruba flesh,he should not be Achan in the camp o.

Lastly, the yorubas should be careful too in whatever we are doing, as good as we are fighting for the emancipation of the yorubas, we should also take time to look inward and apply caution,define our mission and vision clearly, so that we can easily identify anything that we don't represent as we journey through the cause we are fighting.

I don't don't have anything against Sunday Igboho but this is my kind advise to the yorubas: Sunday Igboho should not allow his followers to start committing atrocities using his name, oppressing others and hiding under Sunday Igboho.

And we should not also turn Sunday Igboho to the likes of Adedibu who became too powerful for even the Nigeria state at that state and so many atrocities were committed ans Ibadan became oppressed.


YORUBA RONUUUUUUUU.

Repent of this kind of decision because it lead to prostitution i.e changing of men at will without query or stress .
God distaste such.This is what lady's and women world is turning into.End time spirit.

Aright lady, I respect your decision but the possible resultant effect of your decision could be prostitution except you fit hold body which i am not sure you can do. in short you want to be free being under any man's control so that you can be changing them like cloth without stress.
my advice to you is repent and be born again.