@Poster -- you need to discuss with your woman, indentify the various sources of funds. budget and plan within your budget. if i come for your wedding and i dont eat, as long as you guys live happy after, i am ok. 80% of big wedding have crashed today.

i also intend to get married by december next year, i dnt even kno who i am getting married too, but i already have drawn out a budget, he that fails to plan will definately plan to fail.