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LOL.

OYA CARRY Buhari GO PUT FOR ASO ROCK NA. FOOLS BE MAKING NOISE ANYHOW.

Okay.

nagoma:
BUHARI-
the People's general, an officer and a gentleman
Law and order makes a nation, same law for rich and for poor.
the man who walks his talk ,Personal riches are not his worldly objective
A nationalist who wants to see Nigeria great and respected
A man focused and upright & not given to temptations
tea totaller non smoker seeks for altruism and a society just and prosperous.
Chains of property, foreign accounts , fleet of jets and cars and other lusts are weaknesses for a leader.
Real strength is of character, real wealth is the wealth of all, real nation is a just nation.
A man of experience , never haughty or arrogant yet head and shoulder above the midgets.
Unassailable ,incorruptible, tested and trusted - use him while he is available.
buhari - hated by criminals, loved by all who love justice.
Vote Buhari/Osinbajo for Nigeria's redemption from it's present status of a FAILED STATE.

Same law for rich and poor you say? Then why hasn't Buhari started his 14years jail term. As a leader willing to enforce law, he should be leading by example don't u think so too?

UniqueGem:
OP,thank you so much 4 ur observation,it is only a blind and ignorant fool that will believe that cert is real. Below is a screen shot of my comment earlier today.
It happened exactly as I predicted it. If they say GEJ is clueless, Buhari is even lower than clueless becos he made mockery of a very 'crafty' Tinubu by remembering exam number of 53years ago all of a sudden.
Buhari cannot remember his current phone number.
Buhari cannot remember his running mates name.
BUT Buhari remembers his exam number from 54years
back
Isn't this an awesome miracle?

Kudos bruv! once GEJ is re-elected, he needs good analysers like you in nabbing criminals like Buhari. GEJ till 2019

UniqueGem:
You've been to all this hotel? Hmmm, we know thy occupation already. #InoTalkAnytinOoo

#NAILED.

UniqueGem:
Nairaland ladies are the worst set of "liars" and "hypocrites" I have ever come across. All of em be forming decent woman but will melt when a drug baron says 'hi'.

#yeah bro nail them harder.

Newkidoo:
Why are u scared of being embarrassed!! This guy, are u sure you are 24 sha.. U never live life oo.. Life come with its own embarrassment so why are u scared of being embarrassed.. If you have never being embarrassed in your life.. I believe you will experience one soon.. U get embarrassed and u move on..

I'm not scared of being embarrassed, I just can't let a 'lady' to embarrass and disgrace me because of 'love'. I rather keep my feelings to myself.

Evina:
I totally get it.
It is just that everyone knows that in this age, you really don't have to "walk up to/approach a girl".

Friendships can start at any place/time. You don't have to start saying "I like you" when you only just met. Let your actions speak.

Thanks Maam.

Evina:
Do you socialize at all?
Maybe you should ask your friends to have you match made.
So you mean no girl has flashed you green light? Even lemon green?

I don't think you're getting the purpose of the thread. Even as I've had ladies showing interest, I haven't been able to approach them. Though a lady have approached me before, I didn't like her and I told her things the way they where. 'I don't buy the frnds match making stuff, it doesn't sound secure to me.

Evina:
Why?

Read my original post again. Though red flagged dating while I was in school, it helped me focus.

Evina:
Have you dated before?

No I haven't.

phatjoe50:
spread mat

Don't dare sit/lay on that mat ooo. You better contribute or park ur mat.

Newkidoo:
First, build your confidence
2. Just go and meet any girl.. Talk to her anyhow.. Just say anytin.. U mite be disgraced or embarrassed or even worse (slap) but with time, u will build ya confidence and with time, you will understand women..
3. Work on yourself (personality, attitude, dress, speech and most of all your appearance..)
4. Have u tried online dating!! Try it
5. Ask your friends (males) how they do it..

LoL!!! Bro at my age, I don't think I can stand being embarrassed or disgraced by a lady. I'm above that na, I'm not a teenager or something. I can do it once and get it right. Thanks sha.

Sunkyphil:
NO BIGGY JUST WALK UP TO ANY ONE U LIKE,U CAN START UP A CONVO WITH DEM,FROM THEIR U START FAMILIARIZING......

Yes. I know basically I have to walk up to them and start a convo, but the problem I have is the convo, what sort of convo? I planned something like:
Me: hello
Her: hi
Me: what's good? Hope u're having a nice time?
Her: yeah thanks, it's been fun.
Me: cool. So what are you doing?
Her: nothing exactly.
Me: okay, I have a prob that I'll like you to help me with.
Her: what's it?
Mebring out movie for the day collection) okay actually I came here to see a movie but I'm having a hard time choosing from this, this and this and maybe this too. If you were in my shoes, which would you go for.
Her: why not watch this?
Me: hmmm, why? Have you seen it before?
Her: no.
Me: wow!! Why not we go see it to together.
Her: would have love to but
Me: cuts in ... If its about the movie ticket, don't worry I'll get two.
....... Okay from here, my problem with the above convo is;
What if her replies doesn't correelate with this?
What if she is not interested in seeing the movie? What do I do?
Isn't it dangerous showing you have money to take her to the movies the first day you meet her?
How do I start the "I like you" convo while seeing the movie? Or before the movie starts?

Ladies and Gents, please I don't know what's wrong with me and I really need to get over this problem.
I can't seem to summon courage to walk up to a girl i like and talk to her. Okay, I'm 24, a graduate and an IT consultant working in a reputable firm in lagos. Atleast I believe I'm comfortable, and I also believe I have the looks to get any lady I want. But the problem is 'I Judge myself before performing' on the 25th, I went to see a movie in genesis deluxe alone becos I only have few frnds(males) and they all went out with their GFs. So while waiting for the movie time, I decided to hang around. I saw many guys both ugly and handsome trooping in with so many cute/beautiful girls. I became sad and worried about my person, I saw like 2 to 3 girls I liked and wanted to approach, but I didn't have the confidence, after planning what to say in my mind, I'll just be like 'common sly this sounds boring and won't work'. Thoughts like this and even more berating ones came to my mind for over 2hrs that I waited before entering the cinema. So this new year, exactly 1st of jan, I'm planning a revolution, I need a new me, I want to share lonely times with someone who cares, please ladies and gents, I need you to tutor me on how to approach, maintain confidence, what to say, what to ask for and what to expect. Please and Please I don't need insults, I just need help. Thanks.
NB: please I chose Jan 1st becos we all know it's the most significant day in a year, so I want to start something significant in my life.

Oga scrypt, we the SSCE holders nko? Any hope for us?

Jessyj616:
Any more questions? If yes, ask away. If not, brb.

How often can I call her? And should the calls be just
Her: Hello
Me: Hi babe watzup
Her: notin much, just here and you.
Me: Cool. How was the day hope you had fun?
Her: not really, was kindda boring tho.
Me: oo I see ....
Please add more convo to this because I fumble a lot during phone calls.
And again should I be thinking about seeing her again already. If not, how soon should that come?

Jessyj616:
@ Slyder
thumbs up.
Ill assume you know the basics cause you did them--
find, interest,invest, reward. Thumbs up once again.

Whatever you did to spike her interest in you . Keep doing it but make it spontaneous not pre meditated. Keep your chats interesting. Maybe give her a cute nickname.


You want her as a girlfriend or something?
Chill, dont ask...you might make her suspicious of your intentions and she might bring up the 'i have a bf shit' just start behaving like her bf.... You can say something like ...dear how are you? ....babe have you eaten?... Where are you now?etc


whatever you do, pls dont dwell on the question of her bf....even if she brings it up, she is probably getting emotionally attached and uses that as a shield....just ignore it or say something that walks around her defences....

Can you pls suggest a cute nick name? And yes I want her as a girlfriend. How spontaneous can I call her from now? Called her yesterday and I haven't called her today. Should i call her tonight? Should I always call her in the morning or otherwise?

Since the seats where already occupied, they should have given him a BENCH in one corner, if he likes he should lay on it. #nonsense

emusmith:
If it were you... How would you have reacted?

Don't be too hasty to criticize/ judge?

Just today, you went to your friend's house after she assured you both were gonna talk and have a nice time, and you saw her having other guests and chatting happily. Hah!

You even missed other important engagement just for this...

How would you feel now?

# I'm not supporting his actions. All I'm saying is, he is not a kid, and he made sacrifices to be in that event #

How would a star of his calibre be that undermined

Taaaa!

This is not just a meeting with frnds, it's an official gathering involving other elite celebs. He came "LATE", which is very disrespectful to the occasion and the guests there too. Even the president has no right to come late to an official meeting.

RichieBrown:
would have done the same.....let's reason,u are a star celebrity and u get nominated in a mid class award runch,yet u grt there n no table is reserved for u,its bad

Please why is nobody talking about him coming "LATE"? What has happened to being punctual for an official meeting? If you ask me, I think he was the one being disrespectful to the occasion and other guests. Even The President has NO right to go late to an official meeting, it's rude to other officials.

Ipledge:
I guess u didn't follow this season football,magic has been the best defensive midfielder this season not Bpl and champions league...hazard and Oscar this season are better than last season.

Bro, I've followed more closely than you'd believe. Matic av been good so far, that's indisputable. But handling a very physical Matuidi and an athletic Motta is a failed task. Even Fellaini managed to keep matic busy in Man Utd vs Chelsea game, talk more a Matuidi and Motta together. Get real pls.

Moz22:
is it not the same motta that played for barcelona abegggggiii

okay sir. Hope he handles Moura too.

Moz22:
u seem not to know chelsea too well... This is a much different side from last season. Nothing has really changed @PSG even with the inclusion of David luiz. Matuidi can be a beast but Matic can single handedly handle both him and Motta(old fashioned) as for Veratti, he is too feable to be recognized as a force in the middle of the pack that contains the likes of fab, matic, and oscar. Take out sentiments, PSG dont stand a chance.

My humbe opinion!

Lol!!! You mean Matic will single handedly handle Matuidi and Motta? When did you start watching football please? Yesterday I guess.

killercute16:
and they still chop 3 goals against Barca.

How many you chop against Newcastle?

Slyder:
Please I need your help, it's urgent. I just met this girl on Saturday, I think she's practically into me, we gisted for long(neutral gisting ooo) she requested to give me her number without me asking, I already called her this sunday evening, just to know whatz up with her and for her to get my number. Please I don't want her to slip away like the others have, but I don't know how to go about getting her. Anybody here should suggest steps abeg. I need it badly.

My OGAs @ the top, abeg help ooo.

Jessyj616:
After a while You are comfortable. She is comfortable. Let the flirting begin! (if it has not already begun)

Please I need your help, it's urgent. I just met this girl on Saturday, I think she's practically into me, we gisted for long(neutral gisting ooo) she requested to give me her number without me asking, I already called her this sunday evening, just to know whatz up with her and for her to get my number. Please I don't want her to slip away like the others have, but I don't know how to go about getting her. Anybody here should suggest steps abeg. I need it badly.

Oga Femmy. When will another batch of bold 5 arrive?

iv4fb:
Bro go back to your shoe business, reading and comprehending is a difficult task. Hopefully, if you sell well, poverty will leave your rank.

Okay sir. Duely noted. Thanks for the wish too.

UniqueGem:
If your Brain and eyes are really complementing each other, i believe you'll notice and understand the apostrophe on my "can' ". You're really confused because you don't seem to know what you've been arguing about. BTW; you sound POOR and PAINED. Like Billyonaire asked earlier, Are you poor?

I tire for the guy ooo. Na poverty i blame sha.

gloryaaa: who says its not bout liking him or not m still trying to knw in cos some guys can b annoying sometimes bros I dan ansa ur question no ask anoda 1

one more tin pls. Please will u cum and announce here wen it's officially a yes?