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FamilyRe: How Can He Take Custody Of His Son by Smartdoctor(op): 7:52pm On May 03, 2024
cococandy:
That’s insane. What kind of STDs does the baby have?

Might also be a result of sexual abuse since the baby is left on their own without supervision.
Is jock itch and candidiasis
FamilyRe: How Can He Take Custody Of His Son by Smartdoctor(op): 7:09am On May 03, 2024
Ahniin:
From you or madam?
From her. She saved several numbers on her phone with "my brother 1, my brother 2 and so on." But her husband found out when he picked her call at night when she went out without her phone and one of the numbers with my brother called. The first word from the caller was " baby boo check your WhatsApp " then the husband now waited for her to come and unlock the phone to read the said WhatsApp message. Behold! and there were so many sexting across her chat contacts
FamilyRe: How Can He Take Custody Of His Son by Smartdoctor(op): 6:50am On May 03, 2024
Ahniin:
What a mother cry.
I still insist you guys have a round table talk(I hope the mother isn't scared that once she releases the child to you,her meal ticket is gone)

Chai. . poor baby.

May I know what even led to the divorce?
Was domestic violence involved?
Same infidelity
FamilyRe: How Can He Take Custody Of His Son by Smartdoctor(op): 11:23pm On May 02, 2024
MrBrownJay1:
here again:
All these have been tried. But the stubborn mother wouldn't allow these work. Thou, we have in mind that even if it has to be righteous to see that the child lives a healthy life, we will
FamilyRe: How Can He Take Custody Of His Son by Smartdoctor(op): 11:20pm On May 02, 2024
Ahniin:
Snuck in on the mother,whisked the child n vamoose.... what's hard there to decode?
Oshé
FamilyRe: How Can He Take Custody Of His Son by Smartdoctor(op): 11:13pm On May 02, 2024
MrBrownJay1:
hopefully he has a plan B, C and D... if the child is left in mother's care.
Please what are these plans likely to be sir?
FamilyRe: How Can He Take Custody Of His Son by Smartdoctor(op): 11:10pm On May 02, 2024
MrBrownJay1:
again, you need to have concrete proof that the state of the child is due to the reckless actions of the mother.... so if all the above you mentioned can be contracted while in contact with other kids at kindergarden or in the compound where they live, then your whole plot will fail.

have you tried talking to mama? have you tried co-parenting? have you tried being closer to the child so that you can be more present in his life to monitor his/her wellbeing? remember, no matter how hard you hate that woman or what type of reckless life she lives, she IS and will STILL remain the child's mother and therefore would have rights to have access to the child.
The child is currently undergoing treatment in the hospital and the dad is constantly with him since a week. He's intention is to keep up with the child till the fixed date of the hearing in the court so that he present these evidences
FamilyRe: How Can He Take Custody Of His Son by Smartdoctor(op): 11:06pm On May 02, 2024
Ahniin:
The other bitter sored side of divorce.its now the grass that's suffering it.

Secondly you don't expect the condition of the child to look posh based on they're in the village ravaged with so much crawling insects and the rest,so the child skin must be affected.
It takes a smart n vigilant mum to ensure the child looks healthy n well kept.

3rdly...The mother whoring and keeping multiple sex poachers as partner says alot about her kind of person.

My only painment here is the child paying and contracting these diseases due to the stupidity of both adults she chooses as PARENTS.imagine a toddler of 1year 3 months.

THE SOLUTION.....kindly have a calm heart to heart talks with the mother to allow you care for the child(please don't be harsh with words and don't even make attempts to forcefully take the child n abscond to your base.

Nada must happen to that child,she/he must be priotised

Appreciated 👍 lots of people advised her to allow the father take custody even her own blood sister but she refused
FamilyRe: How Can He Take Custody Of His Son by Smartdoctor(op): 11:02pm On May 02, 2024
fyzaila:
The boy is still very young quite alright, but with a good lawyer you can win the case with this evidence and provided you have a significant and well trusted someone who can take care of the baby very well.

The mother is very careless. Guys should stop jumping into marriage for one useless reason or the other. Don't just choose a wife, choose a good mother for your child please.
Thanks
FamilyRe: How Can He Take Custody Of His Son by Smartdoctor(op): 11:01pm On May 02, 2024
MrBrownJay1:
taking a child from a breastfeeding mother is never ideal but if the safety of the child is in jeopardy, then no judge will refuse to take the child away from reckless mother.... the issue is that you need CONCRETE PROOF to show that the state of the child is a direct result of the mother's actions, and not that the child is just catching common sickness (like any other child would at such age)
The result of the diagnosis is available
FamilyHow Can He Take Custody Of His Son by Smartdoctor(op): 10:42pm On May 02, 2024
Good evening guys, please I need an urgent legal advisors in the forum to assist my cousin brother.
He had divorced and sent her wife back to the village for the past six months ago.

But the court asked him to be paying a certain amount of money monthly for the child's wellbeing which he has been doing.

But unfortunately the effect of the money has never been significant by looking at the physical appearance of the child.

He always sends relatives to check on the child of which several reports have reached him about how the boy is always been abandoned to be wandering about alone while the mother will be hanging out with friends.

What strucked him to his nerves was the recent report about the child been seriously sick and rumours that the mother now deals with several sexual partners while still breastfeeding the child....
He travelled from Abuja immediately to his hometown to retrieve the boy via court order but unfortunately the court denied him because the baby is believed to be too young at 1 year and 3 months old.

Now that the court had adjourned the case till 28th this month, he however decided to stay put in his hometown to treat the baby. The baby was taken to the hospital. the doctor took off his clothes and to our greatest suprise, the child's body looks so rough, rashes and boils all over her armpit down to his genital region.

Laboratory test was carried out and the report showed that the child have sexually transmitted infections. Fungi infection (,jock itch) and candidiasis.

All these evidences have been push to the judge phone and what we are afraid of, is the possibility of the judge cautioning her to take care of the child and allow her to continue taking the child's custody.
Can he take the child forcefully after having all these evidences against the mother?

PoliticsRe: Nicholas Ukachukwu: Real Story On Demolition Of Igbo Man Property In Abuja– Wike by Smartdoctor: 1:55pm On Apr 03, 2024
Igbo people don see shege finish for this country. Make dem no go increase foodstuffs price and blame it on tinubu becoz of this matter for fct
PoliticsRe: Kaduna Government Dismisses Bashir, El-Rufai Son’s Attack by Smartdoctor: 5:39pm On Apr 01, 2024
IslamWhat's Your Favourite Sura Of The Qur'an Since Ramadan by Smartdoctor(op): 1:45pm On Mar 29, 2024
Share your favourite Sura of the Qur'an since you've been reciting in this holy month of Ramadan. Mine is suratul muluk
May Allah SWT make it easy for us and accept all our duplications as act of ibadah as he grant us our sincere heart desires in this holy month. [b][/b] jumaat Mubarak

BusinessRe: Crypto King, Sam Bankman-Fried Sentenced To 25 Years In Prison by Smartdoctor: 9:48pm On Mar 28, 2024
emkz:
Great.

In all the Binance and crypto wahala in Nigeria, I have learnt one important lesson.

If Nigeria ever goes to war, some Nigerians will never support Nigeria. They'd rather support foreigners and jubilate if Nigeria collapses.

Imagine the attack on the presidency and CBN when CBN went after Binance.

Imagine the attack on Nigeria when the Binance executive escaped.

We must always unite in defense of our country.

Check the American media whether anyone would support Sam Bankman-Fried. You won't find any. But Nigeria?

Why are we always our own enemies?
Such Carlos and inhuman characters are only exhibition of people from Afghanistan in Nigeria
CrimeRe: Nigerian Arrested At Thai Airport After Swallowing 69 Packages Of Drugs (Pics) by Smartdoctor: 11:00am On Mar 27, 2024
One of the son of the Israeli has been caught on drugging
Foreign AffairsRe: Israeli Troops Raid Gaza's Al Shifa Hospital(photos) by Smartdoctor: 4:07pm On Mar 18, 2024
All these igbos that we all sidelined in Nigeria think Israel Sabi their existence.
Make Una keep on pushing fake news into this platform
PoliticsRe: Hardship Will End Soon, FG Tells Aggrieved Nigerians by Smartdoctor: 6:51am On Mar 01, 2024
Mr. President, the hardship can only end if you ask all the state governors to clamp down on these igbos hiking prices of commodities even though dollar is depreciating against naira
Jokes EtcCommercial Mini Bus (korokpe) With Dual Transmission by Smartdoctor(op): 9:46am On Dec 13, 2023
Shey nah only in Nigeria they designed this abi nah so Chinese take bring am

TV/MoviesRe: Multichoice Hikes Dstv, GOTV Prices After $72m Forex Loss by Smartdoctor: 12:05pm On Dec 09, 2023
Mrfeel:
Lies like these are only heard on nairaland,the faceless forum
Sorry dear. You must elevate from poverty next year. I know you're pained
TV/MoviesRe: Multichoice Hikes Dstv, GOTV Prices After $72m Forex Loss by Smartdoctor: 8:44am On Dec 09, 2023
Their decoder go don roti finish for canal by now. I threw the shit outta my car when I was going to work r months ago
IslamRe: When Nafila (voluntary) Prayers Not Allowed! by Smartdoctor: 9:43am On Dec 08, 2023
This narrative does not concur with the teaching of the Quran and Hadith pls. Discard it
PoliticsRe: Gunmen Stole Kogi Gov’ship Election Petitions From Tribunal Secretary – Police by Smartdoctor: 8:01pm On Dec 06, 2023
adecz:
undecided



Yahaya Bello is running a mafia
family in Kogi State..

It's unfortunate that the Igala people
have been cowed into silence and are
now being treated like second class
citizens..

Ebira by nature are very wicked
and are well known for "village people"
affairs. For several years in the 80s and
90s, there was a permanent curfew in
Ebira land, due to their murderous,
bloodthirsty activities in Ebira land.❗️❗️❗️


Ebira, Tufiakwa❗️❗️😐😐😐
Nah power wey one tribe finally collect from greedy igala people nah im you dey get erection on top like this
PoliticsRe: Lawyers Accuse SDP's Ajaka Of Planing For File Petition Through The Backdoor by Smartdoctor: 7:55pm On Dec 06, 2023
yussybenayu:
which one exactly did they rigged against you? It is a shame you are looking for excuse to justify election rigging. Too bad your excuse is still base on ethnic sentiment. Only a shameless person find excuse for irregularities
You should be appreciating ebira people for giving you people the chance to rule that state since inception. Una too greedy and heartless.
PoliticsRe: Lawyers Accuse SDP's Ajaka Of Planing For File Petition Through The Backdoor by Smartdoctor: 6:14pm On Dec 04, 2023
yussybenayu:
I can clearly see reason for this your emotions. Support for your own tribe. That is not a problem. For whatever reason you chose to support APC or Bello is not my problem but we can't watch you people legitimise corruption in the name of fight for tribal supremacy. We are not living in an animal kingdom. We have law and must abide by it.
wére, did you remember the law when you guys were rigging election for 16 years and falsified population count In those your deserted villages ?
PoliticsRe: Tribunal Grants Ajaka, SDP Access To Kogi Election Materials by Smartdoctor: 10:54am On Nov 26, 2023
The igalas are too greedy and from history, it was the reason the tivs in Benue state massively killed them before an ebira politicians late A.T Ahmed pittied their miserable lives by making late Audu Abubakar the first governor of the state and since then,. This local people have not been listening to power rotation as agreed.
Painful part is that, the state was created by general Ibrahim badamosi babangida for takpa, okun and ebira people. Igalas were brought in to join them due to the horror they were facing in Benue and they're in Kogi grabbing power as if the state is their ancestral investment. Okun people will complete their own 16 years after ebira is done with theirs. Take heart ❤️
PoliticsRe: INEC Declares APC's Usman Ododo Winner Of 2023 Kogi Guber Election by Smartdoctor: 12:21pm On Nov 13, 2023
Kyase:
Dino no even see 50k votes cheesy

Labour.
567

Like after 5 na 6 and after 6 na 7

😆😆😆😆😆😆

And to the gentleman down
Benue politics is not the same as Kogi
No deceive our brothers into something they may regret


In benue a party can field Tiv/Tiv ticket and win convincingly
[b][/b]b]Even when the igala were in Benue, they felt marginalised by Tivs

And the igalas are now claiming they're the majority in a state created for ebira and Yoruba people from Kwara
Autos2005 Nissan Sunny For Sale by Smartdoctor(op): 5:01pm On Nov 01, 2023
Manual transmission and is working perfectly no issues.
Location: Agege
price is 850k
WhatsApp: 09028514597

Nairaland GeneralThe Ohinoyi Of Ebira Land Has Passed Away by Smartdoctor(op): 7:09am On Oct 29, 2023
The king of ebira land popularly known as ohinoyi of ebira land in Kogi central district has been reported to have joined his ancestors at the early hour of Sunday morning Oct 29th 2023.
May his soul rest in peace.

IslamRe: Difference Between Riba-based Banks And Islamic Banks by Smartdoctor: 8:47am On Oct 28, 2023
WiszyFraud:
The ₦50 being deducted on every transaction is the FG’s stamp duty charge which is applicable to every bank in Nigeria.. If the transaction is below 10k, you won’t be deducted.

You should report to the bank’s customer service if you notice any additional charges when you recharge.

I’m an atheist, but i can confidently tell you that Jaiz bank is a really great bank to save your funds with.
Would do just that. Thanks 👍

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