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CelebritiesRe: Chinedu Ikedieze “aki” And Wife Having Fun Together by smithadam: 9:47pm On Jun 30, 2015
how many times will this pix come up angry angry angry
CareerRe: Why Are Some Female Customer Care Assistant Bankers Hyper-reactive? by smithadam: 2:48pm On Jun 12, 2015
barrnchedo:
Do me a favour please: pick up your dictionary and check the meaning of hyper active.
oga.. check am well na hyper reactive the guy talk na.. no be hyper active...abi too much garri don dey affect ur visual capabilities? angry angry
EducationRe: See What A University Student Still Does by smithadam: 2:25pm On Jun 01, 2015
what is your own business with how people handle their property? undecided undecided
PoliticsRe: Great Reception For Jonathan & Wife On Their Arrival At Port Harcourt by smithadam: 2:43pm On May 29, 2015
and so? undecided
CelebritiesRe: Is Kcee Making A Conscious Attempt To Steal The Iyanya Look? by smithadam: 1:29pm On May 21, 2015
people who have made it in life and you guys keep bugging ursef over their issues undecided
Science/TechnologyRe: Prosthetic Electrodes Will Return Amputees' Sense Of Touch by smithadam(op): 9:09am On May 21, 2015
However, Moran's team must first determine how much sensory information is actually encoded in natural systems before they can begin incorporating them into people. They'll do so by implanting prototypes into the forearms of "nonhuman primates" and monitoring the stimulation of peripheral nerves using a technique known as current steering. "We want to see what they can perceive," Moran said in a statement. "If we stimulate this sector of the nerve, that tells them to reach to one side in a standard reaching task. We want to figure out how small we can make the stimulation so they can still sense it." With that data in hand, the team expect they'll be able to develop more accurate sensor suites in future prosthetics, like the Luke Hand that DARPA is already building.

Science/TechnologyProsthetic Electrodes Will Return Amputees' Sense Of Touch by smithadam(op): 9:07am On May 21, 2015
For all the functionality and freedom that modern prosthetics provide, they still cannot give their users a sense of what they're touching. That may soon change thanks to an innovative electrode capable of connecting a prosthetic arm's robotic sense of touch to the human nervous system that it's attached to. The device is part of a three year, $1.9 billion DARPA project and is being developed by Daniel Moran and his team at Washington University in St. Louis. The electrode, technically called a macro-sieve peripheral nerve interface, is comprised of a thin contact lens-like material less than 20 percent the diameter of a dime. It reportedly allows its users to feel heat, cold and pressure by stimulating the ulnar and median nerves of the upper arm.

PoliticsRe: Photo: What Is The General Telling Prof Yemi Osinbajo? by smithadam: 4:19pm On May 14, 2015
very simple ''meet my vp''
EducationRe: 50 VOCABULARIES Of Patrick Obahiagbon &their Meanings. by smithadam: 11:22am On May 14, 2015
MR op u repeated perfidy twice with two different meanings

may be you mendacious yourself..............just saying undecided undecided undecided
PoliticsRe: Buhari’s Victory: Woman, With 40 Day Old Baby, Treks To Abuja To Fulfil A Vow by smithadam: 7:37pm On May 12, 2015
this issue is becoming irritating undecided undecided





modified...is irritating
FamilyRe: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by smithadam: 12:22pm On May 12, 2015
suggyspic:
They meet 9yrs ago through a friend while he was developing his property. Initially he wanted a fling with her but as the relationship progressed, he saw the gentle and unique person in her. she confided in him how she was raped by 3 boys in the community and how her family could not follow up the case at the station because they were poor. The police was demanding so much from her poor parents to prosecute the boys. The families of the boys threatened to deal with her family if they are jailed. Her family been strangers had no choice but to close the case at the station. she forgive the boys and left it to God to judge.

Nonso listened as glory amidst tear was narrating her past. He promise not to ever hurt her, while the relationship lasted. One thing lead to the other and eventually Nonso married glory in 2009 when she was 3months pregnant. The marriage was the talk of the town as the community (were she was raped) never believed she would ever get married. Nonso and glory lived within the same community.

Five years in the marriage she could not get pregnant again after she lost her initial pregnancy. Nonso became a laughing stock from his friends who knows her story and advise him not to marry her. He tried all he could medically for her to get pregnant but non was forth coming. The lab result reveal he had low sperm count while his wife had some infection and hormonal imbalance. Nonso did not believe the lab test. He went out and cheated on his wife. The lady (outside) got pregnant and told Nonso. Nonso did not believe her, but told her to abort the baby if it was true. The lady informed Nonso's sister, who advise her to keep the baby that she would take care of her and the baby.

She gave birth in January this year. (beautiful baby girl) and Nonso learnt about it in March. Nonso could not believe the conspiracy, he accuse his sister of deliberately trying to brake his home, he vowed not to have anything to do with the lady and his child. Nonso's wife heard about it (God knows who told her), she confronted Nonso who did not deny or accept but told her the hold truth. Rather than stand by her husband, she dropped her wedding ring and parked out of the house.

I have deliberately changed names to cover identity. Please advise.
Is nonso under a spell?
would you advise the lady to abort the girl considering the yrs of searching for a child?
Now that the child is born, is nonso action still logical?
if you are the wife, would you end your marriage?
is there a way out? No insult Please, the deed has been done.


if the deed has been done which we know cant be undone what are u now saying? undecided
PoliticsRe: Buhari Welcomes President Of Chad, Idris Deby At The Defence House Abuja. Pix by smithadam: 6:49pm On May 11, 2015
why na.... why both of them squeeze face like say person drop rotten fish there.....no smile at all.
CrimeRe: Prostitutes Beat Up Pastor In Calabar by smithadam: 4:11pm On May 11, 2015
hmmmm... even that supposed eye witness must be a regular of that brothel too.. just saying
Romance7 Reasons She Will Lock You Out Of Her Heart by smithadam(op): 6:59pm On May 09, 2015
I frequently hear about the walls women have put up these days when it comes to men. Women, as a whole, are more skeptical of men's intentions. They are generally more unapproachable. They are -- let's face it -- suspicious of men.

But there is another harsh reality we need to discuss when speaking about these issues: There is good reason for it. Women have not become more jaded or discouraged over time without a cause.

Women would not feel let down by men if men were not letting them down. They would not feel disappointed by men if men were not disappointing them. They would not feel like they need to pick up the slack if men were not leaving it behind.

While this may sting for the guys to read, real-life experiences speak for themselves.

So, what are the things men are doing that cause women to lock them out of their hearts?

1. You bring up sex too early on.


I've said it before and I'll say it again -- I think if two consenting adults are enjoying each other's company and both choose to spend the night together, then that is fantastic! No judgment passed.

But too often it is initiated without really gauging a woman's interest and the brakes immediately come on. How many men are out there just trying to be nice in order to get something they want from a woman? From this very woman you are out with? If you have any real, genuine interest in her, make sure she knows that your sights are not just set on one goal.

If a man is truly interested in a woman, the time frame matters less and less, because time together is what he is going for, regardless of what they're doing (or not doing).

When a woman feels as though you are just trying to use her or are being disingenuous, she will immediately lock you out. Women are getting tired of being played by the "bad boy," and are beginning to wonder where the good guys really are.

2. You call and/or text her too much.

There are a lot of men who figure that the harder they try, the more serious she will think he is. The reality of this is that there is such a thing as trying too hard and if she hasn't returned your call(s) or text(s) for awhile, you should probably cool your jets a bit.

Yes, people are often attached to their phones, but they also live busy lives and are sometimes maybe just not in the mood to talk to anyone. If you smother her too much she's going to see you as a stage five clinger and never let you get any further than you've already gotten. Sometimes the easiest way to lose someone is to want them too badly.

3. You don't give the relationship the attention it deserves.

Healthy relationships are not a part-time commitment. The woman you are with is not just another option or a way to pass your time, and she shouldn't be made to feel like she is.

When you are with her, be with her. When you are not with her, let her know you're thinking about her. A relationship is a team, and teams fall apart when one of the members doesn't pull their own weight.

She needs to know that you will be there for her during good times and during bad times. If you always seem to be just "sort of kind of" committed, she will eventually realize she is better off being single or finding someone who gives her what she needs.

4. You lack basic etiquette and manners.

Basic table manners and just common courtesies are seemingly more and more rare. Things as simple as texting during a date, being rude to the waiter/waitress/bartender, or any other act that shows your human decency could use a tune-up will have her heading for the hills.

5. You reveal secrets too soon.

We all have our quirks. Things that we do or enjoy that we probably wouldn't make public, and there is nothing wrong with that! In a relationship, you may even grow to love those things about each other.

But during the courtship process, bringing it up is probably not a good idea. How many women have you heard say "Are there just any normal guys left out there?" And, you might be one of those perfectly normal, kindhearted gentlemen... with sort of a weird interest that not many people know about.

Until she really gets to know you, keep those kinds of things under wraps so she will understand that it's just your quirk that might be a little weird, and not you as a person. If she finds out private things about you too early, you'll just be "that guy with that thing." Not a good look.

6. You try too hard to impress her.

Yeah, I know, you've got swag for days. A strong woman with class is not going to be impressed by your shiny watch, how much you make or what kind of car you drive. If you try to sell yourself too hard, she will see right through you and likely write you off as being arrogant. Confidence is a turn-on; arrogance is a turn-off.

If you want to go out on the weekends and pick up girls, then by all means lay all of your cards on the table. But the only possessions the right woman is going to care about are integrity, class and heart. How you will treat her is what matters, not what you can give her.

7. You lack confidence and wait too long to reveal your true intentions.

Arrogance is certainly not attractive, but neither is self-deprecation or a complete lack of self-esteem. If a woman thinks you are going to need constant reassurance 24 hours a day, you can bet she's going to step aside and let someone else give it to you. If you want a mature, confident woman in your life, you've got to understand that she wants to be an equal in a relationship, not a babysitter.

Often times guys are a little nervous about making a move or stating intent towards someone they care about because... what happens if she says no? Do we lose our friendship? Is it awkward now? And then... they just never do it.

When we perpetuate this bad habit but remain friends with the woman we are interested in, she will eventually see us as a platonic pillar in her life who she can come to with guy problems and spend nights on the couch with eating ice cream and drinking wine. Now, this might not seem all that bad -- but when you are the man in this situation and have a burning desire to be intimate with this woman, it is torture.


A good man can still be "nice" but make his intentions known. Whether it is small compliments to gauge how she reacts, putting your hand on her arm to see if she mirrors your body language, or just stepping up to ask her on a date -- women are not mindreaders any more than you are. You've gotta risk it to get the biscuit, my friend -- and you don't have to be an outlaw rebel biker in order to do it. Good men get girlfriends, too.

Have the courage to step up, and if she turns you down, at least you know where you stand with her before you become too emotionally invested.

The more effort you put into learning about women, particularly the one in your life, the more likely you are to be in tune with her feelings, emotions, likes and dislikes. This will of course lead to a smoother, happier relationship because you can anticipate her wants and needs in order to act on them. You don't need to be a mind reader, you just need to put in a little effort.

This article originally appeared on JamesMSama.com.
PoliticsRe: Atiku Abubakar's Son, Aliyu Graduates From American University Of Nigeria (Pics) by smithadam: 5:21pm On May 09, 2015
which kind tin be dat na.. abi na only his son graduate from that school? where are the rest graduand?
BusinessRe: Dangote Cannot Afford To Buy Arsenal Football Club – Etcetera by smithadam: 10:10am On May 09, 2015
u should be busy making ur own cash instead of sitting here arguing over people who are already made undecided undecided undecided
CrimeRe: 'i Went Into Robbery To Pursue My Footballing Career'-suspect by smithadam: 11:19am On May 04, 2015
flimsy excuse mtcheeeewn...



even the devil himself will tell u this is his first time of doing bad
PhonesRe: How To Identify Real And Fake Micro Sd (memory) Cards by smithadam: 10:13am On May 04, 2015
dulux07:
U still patronizing low standard stores thinkin they r reputable ones
slot is low standard? or is micro station low standard too?
HealthRe: HELP PLS...Very Hot And Badbreath Coming Out From My Nose.. by smithadam: 10:15am On May 02, 2015
hmmmmm
HealthRe: Facts About Water Consumption Might Make You More Conscious Of Your Habits by smithadam: 9:40am On May 02, 2015
ovoxo:
Oohboi! I cant xplain 2 o.

Buh ive seen sme1 dah his brain got bloated because of too much coca cola (fluid) intake
coca cola and water looks dsame to u?
am sure it has affected ur brain too undecided undecided undecided
PhonesRe: How To Identify Real And Fake Micro Sd (memory) Cards by smithadam: 9:11am On May 02, 2015
dulux07:
Jst buy ur mem card in a reputable store.
na that one fake pass undecided undecided
FamilyRe: Alert! Another Missing Child [photos] by smithadam: 3:50pm On Apr 29, 2015
that same people that took her will come and drop her the same way they came to carry her... unharmed
HealthRe: Law Passed: All Hiv Positive People Would Be Marked Near Their Genitals by smithadam: 2:44pm On Apr 29, 2015
is that how they're using their own advise which says "say no to stigmatization?" undecided undecided undecided
HealthRe: 5 Awesome Reasons You Should Sleep Naked Always by smithadam: 2:04pm On Apr 29, 2015
just in case undecided undecided undecided
CelebritiesRe: Oge Okoye’s Short Gown Causes Uproars by smithadam: 1:46pm On Apr 29, 2015
undecided undecided undecided
TravelRe: Heavy Rainfall, Windstorm Hits Abeokuta Ogun State, Destroys Properties by smithadam: 10:43am On Apr 28, 2015
hmmmm
CelebritiesRe: Kate Henshaw Looking Fierce For Stage Performance (photos) by smithadam: 10:33am On Apr 28, 2015
this lady no want grow old abi? angry angry
HealthRe: He Was Asked To Hold Torchlight While Surgeons Continue Operating His Body by smithadam: 10:31am On Apr 28, 2015
shits happens... but don't be de one it happens to u undecided undecided
CelebritiesRe: Chika Ike Celebrates Being Celibate For Five Months (pics) by smithadam: 1:30pm On Apr 24, 2015
undecided undecided undecided undecided

this is my fifteenth years without it...
CelebritiesRe: Sean Tizzle Pulls Off, Flaunts His Chest Tattoo And Six Packs by smithadam: 7:50pm On Apr 23, 2015
is that your definition of six packs? undecided undecided angry angry
EventsRe: Why Do Women Rent "Wedding Gowns "And Men Buy New Suits by smithadam: 5:43pm On Apr 23, 2015
Dbestmax:
how abt giving to dia daughter... an honor for d white though
dat one fit happen for only oyinbo land... nigerians always go for the latest trend

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