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This might be really expository to us all. A 2000 years old church was just destroyed in Gaza. No one is spared in Gaza, whether you are a Muslim, unorthodox jew or Christians. Provided you aren't in support of Zionism, you are automatically an enemy, a terrorist, and your life ticks and could flash out anytime


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Yelling at him could diminish the love he has for you gradually... Be careful... Some men don't speak out but they hurt internally when their wife yell at them... My sincere advice, discipline yourself.... Just take a deep breath when you are about going high or just walk away from the discussion
Better still kiss him and softly tell him, you were about yelling again but you are trying to quell it with the kiss... All the best

She's taking your love towards her for granted... She's painting you the evil already..... She ain't really in love with you again, she is in love with the other guy, but it's also difficult for her to tell you... She's just looking for an excuse to throw you into the bin and that she just did.... A very strong red flag.... You will regret it if you go ahead.

Can I get your WhatsApp number?

@arinpe16: Thank God for the home that Allah has blessed you with. A husband and kid inclusive.
First: Regarding prayers, Allah said in Quran 23:1-10 regarding the characteristics of believers
Verse 1: Successful indeed are the believers
Verse 2: Those who Offers their prayers with full submissiveness and solemnity.
Verse 3:Those who turn away from evil,false,vain talk
Verse 4:Those who pays their Zakat
Verse 5: Those who guides their chastity from illegal sexual intercourse
Verse 6: Except from their wive/Husband
Verse 7: But whosoever seeks beyond all these ,they are the transgressors
Versr 8: Those who are faithful to their Duties, moral responsibility,trust and covenants
Verse 9: And those who strictly guide their five daily prayers at their fixed stated times
Verse 10: They are indeed the inheritors
Verse 11: Who will inherit the Paradise and dwell therein forever.
You see this chapter of the Quran lays emphasy on the importance of strictly observing the five daily prayers especially at its stated times. People who do that and observe the othef characteristics in the chapters are the true believer and not just a muslim by name or physical appearance. Allah doesnt need our prayers, but he instructed us to do it to know which of us will be obedient and submissive even during the prayers as some people just pray physically without any submissiveness.

Although, i think your husband might be wrong in his approach, but sincerely, if truly he wants you to pray regularly,then he wants the best for you in this world and the hereafter.
You have not mentioned he physically abuse use(beats), that means he is not the violence type and maybe only sees the threat as the only option he has to make you better

He might have married you knowing you dont pray regularly, but maybe he also doesnt realise the importance of prayers then, He might have listened to a lecture somewhere or read somewhere about the importance of prayers thats why he now disturb you now about it.

My dear sister, Allah wants to make you better by using your husband as a tool for you, it doesnt cost much, Remember also that your happiness in the hereafter lies with how well you make your husband happy now. Put a smile on his face by praying regularly, even though your intention should be to please Allah as stated in the verses above.

Lastly, no truly well that your kids needs to be happy and you wont want to wonder what psychological impact it could have on them if you are divorced. Its really unimaginable my dear

May Allah bless your home with sound eeman and all that your heart desire.Ameen

unleemited:
Where is your bus leaving from? How much is it? Did you make reservations earlier?
I plan to go out for enquiries today as i have not made concrete arrangement yet due to some factors. Your response would be appreciated.

I made reservation on Sunday at ijora. Straight to sokoto camp. #10500
13 sitter hummer box

iamwizzle:
Leaving lagos for sokoto dis evening...ny soko kopa

Leaving tomorrow morning by God's grace from Lagos at ijora