Thank you so much for all your response(s) . I agree with Londoner, it is my choice to remain a virgin till I marry.

It is not about winning brownie points or expecting my husband to be one also. It is simply what I expect of myself! I am in no way prudish and I can assure you that I'll be able to teach a thing or 2 about bedroom antics to future beginners once I get started! {Joke.} I  believe that sex involves giving yourself to the person you are with. I don't believe that its in sleeping with many people that you gain experience or become 'really good'- sometimes the 'experience' you gain is not to the taste of your current partner.

Of course, I am not interested in a guy who has been around the block so much that you could fill a market square with girls he has slept with. I do however pray for a decent and honest man with good character; who loves God. As for myself, for those who have touched on the subject, I am a good person, beautiful within and without. (I am often told)

Once again, thanks for your feedback, it is much appreciated!

Hi! I am honestly looking for some genuine and constructive feedback. I am 29 years old and I am a virgin. Do virgins still exist? I guess so, cause I'm one! Surely I can't be the only one?!? {lol} Have I had serious relationships in the past? Yes. History: I left my ex boyfriend in Nigeria to pursue a masters in the UK but the relationship suffered because of the distance. I took time out to heal after we broke up and to figure out what I wanted out of life so I didnt date for a couple of years. Now I'm back on the dating scene and I'm sincerely amazed by how much emphasis is placed on sex. The guy referred to above was not my first boyfriend. I guess I was lucky to be with guys who respected my choice. Dont get me wrong;   I am in no way prudish. Some days I think my desires will get the better of me and I might just be tempted to drag one of my poor ununsuspecting male colleagues into the broom cupboard at work{laugh} Just kidding! The point is as a christian the bible categorically says no sex outside marriage and so I have chosen to conform to that. I'm not perfect; not in the least but since the bible is so clear on the subject, I am constantly surprised by the reaction I get from men, even christian ones. While talking to some of my male friends who know I am a virgin, I often get a lot of 'oh, I wont hook you up with that guy cause he needs a girlfriend who wont say no to sex'. And when I meet guys (even christian ones who you would expect to understand as they porport to share the same faith) Sex comes up by the second date!
So my question is, are there any single guys over 27 out there who won't insist on sleeping with a girl before marriage? I say 27 because I think the older men get, they seem to become jaded. (Actually that goes for both guys and girls) Guys who would not have necessarily insisted on having sex with their girlfriends when they were in their early 20's change by their late 20's. Perhaps because of the kind of girls they've been with or the cards they've been dealt or its just the way men are? I don't know.
Am I  pretty? Yes. Am I intelligent? Yes. Do I have a good career? Yes. These things are beside the point. The question remains, are there any guys out there who would appreciate and understand the values I hold dear?

I am new to this site so go easy on me with your responses - I notice some replies are not exactly kind {Smile}