Well, I too googled this subject because I am confronted with being in love with someone who says that they too love me. However, she has revealed her "Love" for a previous boyfriend she was involved with more than 6 months ago. Their relationship ended abruptly, and now he's back on the scene. She says she loves me, but needs to see him to "decide." She says she wants to continue our relationship, and she does not want to loose me because she "Loves" me. In my mind, it is not possible that she is really in love with me, because if she were, he would simply be obliterated from her mind. Perhaps she needs closure with him, but the whole thing is really making me crazy and I feel very terrible inside. I don't know how to handle this, because I really want to persue a relationship with her, but I can't share her. Do I let her go and hope that she picks me in the end? Any advice from you guys/gals?