nickkylawve:
I'll feel bad tho I think I should let go of him I no longer fit to b his girl I know he can't just forget this !! painful sha

Yea that's just it. But you can still hang around and convince him that you're a changed person. Who knows, he might come around

nickkylawve:
hm this so touching

Ok lemme ask you
Assuming you saw a picture that your boyfriend snapped in another girls room how will you feel?

nickkylawve:
what if she changes ? Can you build back the trust?

If you cut a rope and try to tie it together will it give you the original length?

nickkylawve:
like goin out with some1 snapd in d person bedroom bla bla bla nd den u get to see d pics on her phn nd she lied to u abt it nd eventually u finds out what will u do if she begs nd promised nevr to..... u get NA I dnt wanna gv u d full details just ans

I get u. This is just the same shit my babe did. We're together now but the love diminished I must tell you. He might understand, he might not. But why do girls lie about shit like that. Just asking

ozy4christ:
den join naval

Or should I join BH. I heard he's serving in maiduguri

nickkylawve:
Wat if she cheated on u nt by sex ooi how will u feel?

What other type of cheating are you talking about

eyeon:
Strike! Signed, Management.

They should hold buhari responsible for it because cash is not circulating

jessejagga:
shld I call dis karma? ?

I am confused.

A boy I beat up back then in primary school is now in the Nigerian Army. He poses with guns on Facebook, and looks like he hasn't forgotten.

BREAKING NEWS: . PUBLIC ANNOUNCEMENT! . National Association Of Boyfriend (NABF) are sorry to announce that their will be a commencement of strike from 1st week of December 2015 to 2nd week of January 2016 due to lack of insufficient fund in the aforementioned association, we sincerely apologize for any inconvenience that may occur during that period. . This is to enable the members of NABF to buy something for their mothers with the little money they have because you girls have been eating since january.
Atleast, we got National Association of Sugar Daddies (NASUD) who are ever ready to take over from dey boys & even perform better in all ramifications. . On behalf of NABF, I assure all ladies or rather our future wives that we will continue our Dating/ Friendship after 2nd week of January 2016 that the strike we be called back! Please bear with us. Thanks, Signed: For the association. . For more inquiry, contact

Hello Nairalanders, I have been a member on this forum for a while now and I have been enjoying this forum.
I'm here to share with you guys something that happened to me.
My name is irrelevant and I work with NBL. My pay is ok and I live comfortable with a car. There's this girl that I was dating and we were doing just fine. She's a student of Oko poly while I'm a student of Esut and also working. One faithful day, she called me to inform me that she will be coming to Enugu for a friend's birthday party and that after the party, she will spend the weekend with me before going back to school. She also said that she will be coming with her friend which I accepted because I stay in a 3 bedroom apartment. I was on morning duty when she called that they're already in Enugu and that she will be helping her friend prepare for the birthday. So I decided to see her after work. After work and the birthday party, we had fun along with her friend. Before we could get home it was already late so I decided to rest as I will be working 12hrs the next day.
Her friend was busy watching movie so I showed her an empty room to sleep whenever she feels like as I don't like people sleeping on my couch. I woke up in the middle of the night to ease myself only to notice that the television is still on. I went to the sitting room to switch it off only to see her friend sleeping on my couch. I woke her up and told her to go to the bedroom. She left the sitting room so I switched off everything and headed back to my room. On getting to my room, I saw my babe with her friend sitting on the bed gisting in Igbo language. I'm an igbo but was born and raised in lagos. I don't speak igbo fluently but I can understand it very well but my babe thinks that as I don't speak igbo, that's there's no way I can understand it. Her friend was telling my babe that I came to the sitting room to romance her. My babe on the other hand was telling her that she's just dating me for the benefit and that I'm a fool etc. I was sitting on the bed listening to their gist. At a point, I got fed up so I went to the wardrobe and brought my I.d card. I showed them and also told them that I heard all that they said. I also told them that I would have sent them out but it will be inhuman.
I woke up around 5am to prepare for work, I also woke them up to prepare and leave that I would be mad if I come back and still meet them in my house. When I came back from work, my laptop and my dstv decoder was gone. I decided to forget about it and buy another one. One of my friend kicked against it. He called and threatened her so she called me and apologised and promised to bring them back. When I went to her place to collect it, she told me that she is pregnant for me.
She brought out lab report to back it up. I wasn't afraid as I know that I can take care of her and the baby. I told her that I will only accept the baby if and only if she agrees to follow me to my company's hospital for another test. She accepted and we scheduled an appointment. I went to her place to pick her up and we went to the hospital. I met my doctor and told him that my fiance is pregnant but we want to be sure that the baby is still there. The doctor took us to his office and said that it will cost us 2000 so I gave it to him. He excused himself and said he will be right back. As the doctor went out, after a few minutes my babe also went outside. I sat down quietly thinking of what next to do when the doctor came back but my babe wasn't yet back. I called her phone but she wasn't answering so I decided to go outside and look for her. On stepping out I saw her sitting on my car bonnet. I told her that the doctor is waiting for her but she said I should come to where she was sitting. I met her, she started smiling and said I should forget about the lab test that I have passed her test. I gave her the slap of her life out of anger, pushed her out of my car and drove off.
Right now I'm thinking of going to the other hospital where she collected the other lab report from with police and arrest whoever that signed it

Happy New month to all of us and may we not celebrate Christmas with empty pocket

Sure bro. I fully understand now

PunkyVeer:
It seems two years is a lifespan of most relationships these days.

Back to your question, well I haven't a clue what she meant by respect either. What one considers disrespect varies from person to person. Were you considerate of her feelings & stuff like that? Also maybe the way you spoke to her. I know I feel disrespected when someone speaks to me anyhow, like they're falling off the roof. Your situation is too vague, only she'd know about the disrespectful part was for her.

Na only her know ooh.

Sabrwahaqqo:
MaD gyal

She found someone wd a bigGa dikc

MoRe money / brigHter future

Or maybe hEr miNd Haven't been knowing peaCe for shE'd have been fUcking da new guY behind yA baCk.

In ShOrt, thAt was a CooKed excusE to leAve yoU

AbI Na yestErday she reaLised uve nat bin rizPekting her?

Don't worry yaseLf ma NiggA

ThiS is onE af thE reasoNs why one should haVe mulTiple dateS iF yoU get whata mEan

I de feel you bro. Will give it a try

Sabrwahaqqo:
MaD gyal

She found someone wd a bigGa dikc

MoRe money / brigHter future

Or maybe hEr miNd Haven't been knowing peaCe for shE'd have been fUcking da new guY behind yA baCk.

In ShOrt, thAt was a CooKed excusE to leAve yoU

AbI Na yestErday she reaLised uve nat bin rizPekting her?

Don't worry yaseLf ma NiggA

ThiS is onE af thE reasoNs why one should haVe mulTiple dateS iF yoU get whata mEan

I de feel you bro. Will give it a try

Dear romancelanders
I have been dating this girl for over two years now but last week she told me to find another person that she now have a new guy.
She said that her reason for leaving me is that I don't respect her. To be sincere I don't understand what she meant by that. Yes I know that I don't normally have time for all this romantic stuffs because am still trying to survive but I made sure that she don't lack anything.
She said I think its all about money that she deserves my respect. Am still confused about the respect issue. Please romancelanders what is that respect women needs. I really want to learn so it won't ruin my relationship again.
Thanks for your comment
(Don't mind my typing. Did the typing with my phone)

I rep sept 17th while my kid bro rep sept 15. We are happy people. Cheers

hmmmmm. I see

corpers posted to obi in nasarawa state are stranded cos the people are fighting with fulanis. No means of coming out. Pls lets pray for dem and ask the good lord to protect dem Amen