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SportsRe: CAN U17:nigeria Vs Cote D'ivoire..5:15pm Nigerian Time.live On NTA by soderican(m): 6:36pm On Apr 27, 2013
I tire oo..wateva happened 2day
georgee: Have they started? bn tunning my TV up and dwn 4d past 30mins now, nt seen any station airing it.
BTW, why is this nt on the front page??
CelebritiesRe: Beyonce And Jayz Show-Off Their Daughter Blue-Ivy by soderican(m): 12:23pm On Apr 26, 2013
I love nairaland
PoliticsRe: Is Nigeria Really Unsafe? by soderican(m): 11:18pm On Apr 25, 2013
Laff wan tear my belle
iamswizz: its safely unsafe to say its safe but all the same. it is unsafely safe
CelebritiesRe: D'banj, Killz And Burnaboy Chilling (Picture) by soderican(m): 8:08pm On Apr 25, 2013
Is d 3rd guy not burnaboy?
RomanceRe: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by soderican(m): 8:35pm On Apr 15, 2013
I feel u.don't give up on ur emotions. U r nt alone in this.there r so many ladies out thr that also having this attraction for dominating and violent guys,aggresive love-making and all.Don't feel bad,I repeat,don't.be yourself so far it makes u happy but if u start harboring negative thots bot dis feeling,u can call me for moral advise on soderican@yahoo.com,07039186458
Mindependent: I am very attracted to guys that are very er...dominant and in a way, bad. Say, abusive, treat you like a posession, jealous, aggressive- IN and OUT the bedroom.

I have been in an abusive relationship and even though I know its wrong and dangerous, It used to excite me when I was threatened or attacked.

I know its really bad, but its the only thing that seems to excite me, like if a guy i like just grabs my wrists or pulls/pushes me against something or tells me what to do it really turns me on (outside the bedroom).

I also have dreams where Im my partners posession and he has full control of my life.

I get really bored of 'normal' guys if they dont seem to have this controlling/possessive streak. I dont know how to break the cycle and its hard to seek out these sorts of guys as its not really something you admit is it.

Is this normal?

Ive also always had a fear of men since I was very young (though im not sure why) but i used to be terrified of older men.
IslamRe: MEND Threatens To Bomb Mosques & Assasinate Imams by soderican(m): 2:01pm On Apr 15, 2013
I guess it wz announced b4 d policemen were found dead in B.Y abi?
pDude: When Boko Haram want to bomb, they don't issue threats and shyt. They just bomb and come out and tell you that they bombed.

MEND has been issuing threats since kingdom come. All talk, no substance.
CelebritiesRe: Highest Paid Nigerian Actresses & Their Fees Per Movie by soderican(m): 7:23am On Apr 10, 2013
Studio CFR: And whatz uche jombo doing n that list?

She Ibo girl and her mumu over zealousness
First of all,go Pick beans.Don't just h8.
PoliticsRe: Is Amnesty The Solution To Insecurity, Terrorism & Boko-Haram Crises? by soderican(m): 11:49am On Apr 09, 2013
Idi Amin: My group is warming up. We shall k?ill all abokis in the south east and demand 4 amnesty too. Who are they deceivin, nort'hern elders my foot
U r on point!
RomanceRe: Funny And Suprising Things Girls Like About Guys by soderican(m): 1:45pm On Mar 19, 2013
eddyj36: i av marks nd spaced tooth.. Maybe you like moi.. But seriousely would you give ur child marks at this age? Since u like it on others..
Ugly bro
RomanceRe: Let Him Spend A Night With Your Wife Get 10million Naira Cash!!! by soderican(m): 1:39pm On Mar 19, 2013
Na so..

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