Ephatah:
Be good for you. Not for him. Don't cheat. It degrades a person. Can anyone talk to him? There's the prayer of covenant. Remind God of the covenant of your marriage. Then ask him to remove all third parties from your marriage. Keep the faith. I wish you well

Everything for 9ja na spiritual and God. Na why we still dey backwards in development

If you like go meet pastor, alfa or babalawo. Dem go just chop your money. You go end up nacking them self, all in the name of locking your husband to your side. E do one married woman na, pastor even give am belle self join, tell her make she say na her husband own

Madam observe that man well and correct your mistakes. Simple! He is your husband yeah, why don't you talk to him or you dey fear am?

GO0DHardDick:


She hated you for not being a Simp and you did very well for dumping her.

She's still pain that you dumped her. Leave her let her heal. The fact she's now a feminist says a lot. She's now a bitter toxic girl and must be avoided

What are my chances of us nacking now she's a fully grown woman and why do you think I did very well in dumping her?
I actually thought but my move was dumb and naive because we were very young then. All this happening in 2019
Never met a girl loving and loyal as her maybe because we were 19. She was doing too much with the future plans another reason for breaking up
"She's now a bitter toxic girl and must be avoided" Please explain this too baba, I'm open to learning and new discoveries

YourGFsnatcher:

She Don dey knack now

Yes na. I go reach out to her anytime I enter Lagos, make I see how e go play

YourGFsnatcher:

Once you dey Town, she go knack you.
Who you come swy knack

She be Virgin. Na because of nack I breakup with her. He pain her die, I wait make she go Uni before the breakup has excuse. Omo that girl love me that year sha. Now she be feminist

epainos:

Yes, I agree. This issue is about two people who want to live together. See...it is very hard for two people to live together these days...and religious books have predicted it.

My own is that Africans have chained their women too long..and these girls are wild now. Yes, demons will use many of them because they feel they have arrived..

So, I know myself only. My take is...if marriage is not working, it is not by force. Las las...the society will be like the US. Shikena.

See...if you don't see the right person, don't let anyone force you. Japa from pressure so you don't carry a bad thing. Soak yourself in abroad life so that even if you get old, their government can take care of you...not here in Naija we depend on children. Japa...if your faith does not go against finding a lady to give you a child without marriage and you have an agreement that she cannot claim more than the agreed reward, go for it.

I don't support sex outside marriage, but to me..we will have no choice but to normalize it very soon. This is the reality.

It is extremely hard for two adults in this present generation to live peacefully together.

Na why I dey fear marriage be that. It's becoming too overrated in Nigeria

GO0DHardDick:
Damnit!

The average Nigerian girl cannot get over her ex, especially if you're the one that dumped her. I can confidently tell you you'll remain stuck in her memory forever because she'll never forget about you. If you try reaching her again to knack her, na straight free ticket be that because she'll always come back for you to knack her simply because she hasn't gotten over u no matter how many years it takes.

Dear men, always be the first to dump her and end the relationship, this gives you higher chances of chopping her kpekpus anytime anyday twice on Wednesday night. Moreover it also shows you're in command and control of the relationship and can decide to end it whenever you want.

But I broke up with mine because she was a Virgin and not ready to nack and she hates me ever since. We haven't seen since 2019 after the breakup. She block me on IG recently when I try to follow and didn't even save my new number on WhatsApp. Her account on IG, she wrote Feminist

YourGFsnatcher:
Dear Nairaland girls,

I have been wondering If it is Truly possible for a girl to get over her ex especially when she has the chance to meet him again. I know when you don't see it will seen like it's all over.

Why I am asking is ALL my exes, anytime I'm around where they are, no matter how bitter they were about the break up always don't hesitate to meet again when I ask them to.

I have not had any resistance from any of my exes to meet again even those we haven't spoken for years due to distance or somthing.

And yes, we do " have fun" anytime we meet even when they are in a new relationship.

That really makes me scared because I feel like the girls I'm dating are also unable to resist a request from their exes to meet even when they tell me how much they won't go back, but it's very difficult to believe especially when there's an opportunity to see again.

So ladies, can you truly get over your ex even when you have the opportunity to meet again?

Omo my own ex block my number. Even when I get new number she no save am for WhatsApp. She block my new IG too but I never try to tell am make we see because I no dey Lagos. I go try that one sha soon make I see. We break up since 2019, I have been single ever since but I dey nack

DGimmick:
you nailed it broderly, na japa levels I dey grind for like this

Oyibo worst bros

BigBlackPreek:
I am 31 and never had a girlfriend before. I am a chronic introvert. we are into this together. introverts trends to marry the best partner. Lionel Messi is a very good example. do your own research on that and you'll get to know introverts ends up with the man/woman....

Oga Messi marry him childhood sweetheart

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/12407968/lionel-messi-wife-antonella-roccuzzo/

DGimmick:
on the contrary dear, I have zero time for such, I've forgotten the last time I had an erection, I'm either sleeping or multiplying my $,yanking off is for jobless individuals infatuated with sex

Oga you dey lie

Classcaptain1:
E mean say your soapy game go tight. It is because of you that Unilever will never leave this country...

I swear. E do me gan

DGimmick:
I'll chin up when I'm outside Africa, I wonder how you manage these girls

Bro, all are the same oh, make them no whine you. Those ones even worst

DGimmick:
At age 25
girlfriends; 0
kisses ; 0
sex; 0
hugs; 0

it's not that am not attractive, infact girls even make advances at me but what can I say, I think I'm the worst introvert on earth

Na small small, you never wise. When I was 19, one girl like me but I couldn't make advances. Fast forward to today she say all those time way she dey beg me make I carry her go Coldstone, if to so I gree we for don nack since. Now e go hard small because she don wise

epainos:

What is evil there? So you want a woman whose husband is fvcking around to wait till she is infected? Right? You want a man beating the wife to kill her...right?

So, it is Holy Holy Holy Holy Holy for men to be the gods in Nigerian homes and behave like nonentities? Right?

Bro...if you don't pity these ladies who are suffering in Nigerian marriages, you are the real evil person.

Men in Nigeria are evil. Na dem only dey inside that marriage...women are so maltreated in Nigeria...yet, evil people like you tag them badly.

I thank God for these girls coming out. Very good. I love the way they are bold...and I praise God for tech... and the opportunity to Japa.

Evil man...treat your wife very well like yourself. If you mess up and you think the society will be on your side to force her in the marriage, you will lose your children and another man will take over.

Treat your wife well. If you know you aren't goong to treat her well....do not get married. Marriage is not by force...enslaving her is not what you should do.

If you try it...you go collect. So, I am happy you are scared of marriage. That nonsense your papa did...and your mama endured ....dont expect these girls to take such nonsense.

Treat your wife well. Else...you go collect!

Mr. EVIL!!!

But bro even women dey do men nowadays oh. Sometimes man can no dey at fault but the woman wan sitdown ontop am. Women dey go lie to travel abroad nowadays when husband do nothing. You no hear Do2tun matter?

jetson06:
Madam I feel your pain, but you don't have the right to tell your husband how to use his dick. You did not create him or pay his way through school. Therefore, you are not in the best position to tell him what to do. If he wants to keep frolicking with women, it is his problem not yours. If you are tired of the marriage, do yourself a big favour and get a divorce. You women are the ones pushing your men outside of the house because una no wan submit to male authority. You want to eat your cake and have it. The game of life, is not played that way. A man will always be a man. My candid advise is that you work on yourself and go learn a skill. I will advise you to go take some tech classes like Scrum, PMP, AWS, Azure etc.

Quick question. Why is a man allowed to cheat and a woman not allowed in Nigeria?

GloriousGbola:


Come here - I want to beat up and humiliate your nether regions .

Let's have some breaking and entering and aggravated assault with a deadly weapon

You have been a bad girl and now your going to get it

That girl na literate ashawo

BigBashiru:


You forgot to mention something....most girls already have had their fun before deciding to get married while the man was either doing born again or was working too hard....so it's unfair to tell the man to stick to one woman who has had her fun who you are not her first...why shouldn't the guy hv his fun too??

Na so one girl tell me. "Make I dey do my thing now so If I marry my eye no go dey up"

Shey the man no go enjoy when him don work all him youthful years while you were flexing with older men?

Times has change
Marriage is becoming overrated

NB: Correct me if I'm wrong

epainos:


Hmmm!

The solution to this issue lies with at least 1 year of separation so that you can be normal again. You can't make a sound decision in the state you are in because you know everything is against you. The Nigerian society and the law are even against you...not to talk about families and people who will shut you up. Many of them are even doing it here now.

See...the most recent strategy girls use now is to travel abroad and the man will even sponsor it. If you think you can make him look into travelling abroad, use it. Caregivers in the UK are there, and it is the fastest. Use everything to make him accept it, or if you can pay for it without his knowledge, do it. Even if you are a professor in Nigeria, just take that route and check out for your sanity. You will be ok there and leave the care job.

If you can afford school fees, look into Canada and prepare for it very well. If you are capable of doing it...it depends on you.

Just Japa. I will say leave him or don't leave him. You will decide after you settle down there. What you need is a space to decide what you should do. If children are involved, you may have to prolong your silence even after you get there. A lady went for Care Job and when dependence was still easy to bring to the UK, she just behaved like a foo.l. She went first, and the kids were with the man....all visas ready. The man even sold all his properties later cos his wife was always giving him good news. He said his children cannot leave him ooo...and bla bla bla. That he wanted to be sure. When he saw it clearly that it was a good move, he said ook I can sell my properties and the kids and I can join you. The babe kept silent. When they arrived at the airport...it was there the girl went with her lawyer...she collected the kids...and showed UK immigration evidence she had piled up against the man. Lol. Domestic violence, reckless financial attitude, adultery, and many other things. Right in his face, Madam cut him from being her dependent and collected all her children. Lol. The man saw stars. The UK was even lenient, and they told him he had 1 full month to leave if he could not get a job that could sponsor him to stay. Lol. And even if he has it, he will have to go to court to take the kids. See, madam is even praying for him to get a job that will sponsor him...cos he doesn't know that the real wahala will start. Why? Madam's lawyer is ready to make him pay for all the children...and they will proceed with divorce formally. Lol. So, better for the man to return to Naija and forget about the kids and the girl. Another man will take the kids...and madam has already changed their surnames. Lol.

So, Japa! Make sure that you are the main applicant oooo. Let him be the "attachment"...lol.

JAPA!!!

Ah. Evil Evil Evil Evil!
I dey fear marriage I swear

franchasofficia:
Easier said than done.


Or let me say, easier typed as a comment than put into practice



Women should enjoy their life well well while single cos that is their best time in life while men's best time starts from 35yrs above and ag this age most men are financially buoyant and married, and they must recover what they lost when young while the ladies were enjoying all manner of male attention and pampering lol




Childbirth changes women. She might still look beautiful outside with nice clothes, fashion sense and body packaging, but only Oga knows that the value is no longer the same like before no matter how hard Madam tries to package after childbirth lolz

You talk something here oh because I am very young and hustling right now very hard. The girl I like same age as me 23, too like money and I can't take full responsibility (when I no dey craze). Na so she dey change boys like cloth to live life but I told her e no go last because even if I end up marrying her out of love immediately she no sharp again let say age 40 na there my own start. First to do no dey pain

NB: She say she like me though so I no dey reason boys wey she dey follow because I no get money

Correct me if I'm wrong

DatoDatuk:
Remove only one from this

Omo na Fish oh