Celebrities › Re: Iyabo Ojo Slammed With Tax Of N38 Million By Lagos Government by soliddust2020: 9:13am On Sep 13, 2019 |
Government is doing everything possible to shut down all small and medium scale businesses. You go pay waste disposal to both local and state government, signage fee, tax of various kinds. This is getting too much and at the end of the day business owners start looking for money elsewhere to pay rent and salaries. |
Travel › Re: Solving Erosion Problems In Anambra State - Photos by soliddust2020: 3:25pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Dem go still use dirty block this drainage when government do. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Police Seize Pastor Fatoyinbo’s Passport, Conduct Search On His House, Office by soliddust2020: 1:05pm On Aug 29, 2019 |
majamajic: why search his house ?
they should have smell his preeq instead They should also smell Busola kitty cat if they can detect the smell of his preeq |
Crime › Re: Elizabeth Sister Of Edith Okowa Kidnapped In Asaba, Delta State by soliddust2020: 7:05pm On Aug 28, 2019 |
In a month we will hear they have arrested and paraded the kidnappers. |
Nairaland General › Re: Snake Nearly Entered A Friend's House by soliddust2020: 5:43pm On Aug 27, 2019 |
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Properties › Re: Erosion Swallows A Building In Nnewi Anambra State (Video) by soliddust2020: 4:53pm On Aug 23, 2019*. Modified: 5:26pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
That house just got destroyed in seconds  . |
Celebrities › Re: Bikini Photos Of Ella Agu, The Face Of Nollywood 2018 by soliddust2020: 8:57pm On Aug 19, 2019 |
JAGABOO: u have her number? Yes I have it |
Romance › Re: Help! I'm Emotionally Wrecked! by soliddust2020: 10:47am On Aug 12, 2019 |
Shadbay: I've been in extreme emotional pains for the past few months. I don't even know where to start to narrate my ordeal. I do not want this experience to damage me emotionally and psychologically, that's why I'm seeking help. Please pardon the length and blunders.
Earlier this year, just two weeks after my birthday, my ex-gf (gf of almost 7 years) broke up with me. I had just visited her and left two days prior to the breakup. I went through the most challenging period of my life because I just suffered some job and graduate school rejections that period. The breakup worsened my situation and pushed me into a depression. I have never felt defeated in life till that point. She blocked me on all mediums of communication. It was too extreme. I went from 91kg to 85 kg in less than 3 weeks.
I visited her to understand the whole situation cos her behaviour was too extreme and I got a toxic dosage of embarrassments. She said she was done with me. She said a lot of hurtful things to me. The height of the embarrassments was calling her new boyfriend (barely 3 weeks after breaking up with me) right in front of me and telling him she doesn't know what I'm doing in her place. She even called some of her friends to inform them of my presence. They all sounded scared and concerned for her as if I was some kind of predator. They told her to leave her place at once and come to their place. All these calls were on speaker! This is someone I invested all these years and emotions for. I went through hell that period cos I was dealing with some other personal tribulations.
I can't imagine treating her or anybody else the way she treated me. I NEVER cheated on her, NOT ONCE or by chance! I have walked away from compromising situation countless times because I placed her so high. I had so much respect for her. She now went on to slander my name, accusing me of cheating!!! When I asked who was feeding her all those lies, she said her friends told her. How? Did I date you or your friends? It still boggles my mind to think she'll believe them and go about spreading those ugly rumours about me.
The straw that broke the camels back was when a friend of mine told me that she said she's grateful to God she didn't contract any infection/disease from me! I couldn't believe my ears. I broke down. This didn't just break my heart, it shattered my spirit. This is someone I imagined spending the rest of my life with. My whole family (even extended) accepted her as one of us.
I had to accept that things were beyond salvaging because any attempt from me to fix things kept doing the opposite. The minute it involved my sisters I had to accept defeat.
I never harmed her or attempt to lay a finger on her. I might not be perfect but I gave it my all. The situation is far worse than I described it here, it's even painful remembering them. I loved her to a fault.
I got a text from her about a month ago after I refused to answer her calls because I had just lost a loved one. She said she's getting married and hopes I find peace as she has found hers. I stared at those words speechless. The worst set of people one could ever encounter are those that hurt you, know that they hurt you and still turn around to play victim accusing you of hurting them. If there's anything I'm proud of is my level of self-control. I know few of my friends who made fun of me being extremely loyal to one girl, warning me severally that I'm wasting my time and good looks, that my youth is passing me by. At least I have a clean conscience that I never betrayed her trust. I never went about telling other people our business. Now I understand why they say good guys always finish last.
Women don't deserve loyalty, forget all their cliche that men are not faithful and honest. I went the faithful, loyal path what did I get in return? Venom! I feel repulsed when I hear women say "Men are dogs", "Men always cheat".
I just don't want this experience to turn me into something I'm not or make me an embittered soul. I'm traumatized beyond words. This was my first and only relationship and I gave it everything. I'm in my mid-twenties and I don't think I can ever love genuinely again. I need mature advice on how to come out of this ordeal a better person. I don't want to transfer any aggressions or micro-aggressions on anybody because of this experience. Please mature advice needed. Thank you. Op I was once in your shoe twice, I felt very bad and depressed when the second one happened because I also lost my dad that period. I moved on with my life and became friends with them, today I am married to an amazing woman and blessed with a beautiful daughter. The two of them self no even get boyfriend self, them don cross 30 oh |
Technology Market › Re: Buy Plasma, Lcd And Led Televisions For Affordable Pricein Lagos. by soliddust2020: 5:57pm On Aug 10, 2019 |
acunon: Samsung 48" Smart Full HD 1080p Active 3D LED TV with Wi-Fi Ready Bluetooth TinzenOS Satellite turner for free to air Stations
Features
Smart hub Wifi direct Low power consumption Full HD Panel (1920x1080) HDMI (4x 2.0) USB (3x 3.0) Optical drive HDMI-ARC (2x) Headphones Stereo DVB T/T2/C/S2 WiFi (n-standard) MPEG4 HEVC Active 3D TinzenOS Smartphone app DTS Premium Sound quality 5.1 Motion and voice control recognition Satellite turner for free to air Stations 2014/2015 Local Dimming And lots more
Model Code : UE48H6410
Price : 105K
Condition : Like new Is this still available? |
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Crime › Re: Man Intercepts An Airplane In Lagos (Photos) by soliddust2020: 12:50pm On Jul 19, 2019 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: I Need A FEMALE Roommate In Abuja by soliddust2020: 7:48am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Op to find free constant to.to  |
Properties › Re: . by soliddust2020: 8:10pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
Ella2Cool: I am a girl How do I reach you. Drop your number let me call you |
Celebrities › Re: Monalisa Stephen Finds Krest In Nairobi, Shows It Off by soliddust2020: 9:37am On Jul 17, 2019 |
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Properties › Re: . by soliddust2020: 12:16pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
Are you a boy or girl? |
Politics › Re: Presidential Panel Seals Senator Nwaoboshi's Properties In Abuja, Delta & Lagos by soliddust2020: 6:56am On Jul 14, 2019 |
Ned Nwoko just they play the role of village people for Nwaboshi matter. Cartege Cinema still Dey opened for Asaba abi na my eyes they deceive me. |
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Christianity Etc › Re: I was The Chief Priest Of BlackAxe At UNILORIN - Pastor Fatoyinbo (Video) by soliddust2020: 9:50am On Jul 07, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: Okowa Donates N6m To Family Of Slain DELSU Undergraduate by soliddust2020: 10:05pm On Jun 27, 2019 |
martineverest: the most painful part is the way she died No one deserves to die like that. |
Business › Re: Kenneth Bramor's "Expensive" Convoy Trapped After A Downpour by soliddust2020: 6:58pm On Jun 27, 2019 |
If I be this guy na spaceship I go order to come pick me. |
Politics › Re: Okowa Donates N6m To Family Of Slain DELSU Undergraduate by soliddust2020: 6:56pm On Jun 27, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: Okowa Donates N6m To Family Of Slain DELSU Undergraduate by soliddust2020: 6:44pm On Jun 27, 2019 |
No amount of money or compensation can bring back this girl, but this will go a long in the fight for justice. If found guilty the suspects should be convicted according to the law. I pray her family gets justice |
Politics › Re: My Predecessor Spent N2.3bn On Burial In Five Months – Bauchi Gov by soliddust2020: 6:54am On Jun 24, 2019 |
Is it government that is supposed to bury individuals? So this guys pray for their citizenstod die in other to loot. |
Christianity Etc › Re: "When You Kill Someone, His Blood Will Be On Your Head": How True Is This? by soliddust2020: 9:15am On Jun 23, 2019 |
Killing someone is a huge sin on it’s own. The blood is on your hands, that’s why when you are around killers you are never comfortable without you even knowing. There is this aura that follows killers. |
Business › Re: Badagry Market Where Dried Snakes Are Sold by soliddust2020: 10:46am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Ikem11: He is the senior supervisor at that market. Do your research well  no let them ban you till 2080 |
Business › Re: Badagry Market Where Dried Snakes Are Sold by soliddust2020: 9:05am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Lalasticala must be singing oh Lala. I know lala must be a major share holder in that market. |
Education › Re: NOCEN Anambra Student's Rag Day Costume Got People Talking (Photo) by soliddust2020: 7:36am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Village people fit permanent e rag ministry |
Nairaland General › Re: Awkward Ways Some Lagosians Urinate On The Street (PHOTOS) by soliddust2020: 4:48pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Shibaraba: Autojosh na ajebutter Forget lagosian things. When piss hold you for night and you dey drive onto 100 kmph for roads like okene road wey be say na tiff full there you go park well enter bush abi? Oga we dey piss inside plastic bottle on top high speed. The feeling too sweet. Piss plus speed. When e full just fling am outside. Hehehehe Ever wondered why it's not safe to drive over a sealed plastic bottle? Na piss full am I thought I was the only one who love to pee inside plastic bottle while speeding. Speeed + pee = cum  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Prophet Jeremiah Delivered Man Who Came To Attack Him With Live Cobra (photos) by soliddust2020: 8:54pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
Circus show  |
Politics › Re: Senator Omo-agege Kneels To Greet Buhari In Aso Rock [VIDEO] by soliddust2020: 12:00pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
Omo Agege knows no loyalty, a very ambitious man |
Politics › Re: Ovie Omo-Agege Biography: 9 Facts About The Deputy Senate President by soliddust2020: 4:24pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
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Health › Re: Which Swallow Would You Recommend For A Diabetic by soliddust2020: 9:12pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
Younghacka: My Dad Is Diabetic And He Has Been Having Issues With A Choice Of Swallow.
Eba(Garri) And Loi-Loi(Fufu) Are Out Of The Equation Because Of Their High Starch Content.
He Was Using Plantain Flour But He Complained Of Constipation And He Stopped Using It. . . He Was Also Using Wheat Flour But He Stopped Due To Some Health Complications (I Think Something Concerning Blood Group O+).
Any Advice Or Experience Will Be Appreciated.
P.S: For Some Months Now He Has Not Eaten Swallow, Just Diabetic Rice And Other Food Suitable For Diabetics, But We Are Nigerians And Man Must Swallow. My mum has been diabetic for more than 12 years. She eats wheat and Amala. The size or quantity matters a lot, he should eat less. He should also eat swallow early around 6.30 or 7pm. |