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Lol

This mad decided not to fight Rochas himself, rather he went after his legacies..

This could only be done by the leaders of tomorrow
stewpid !diots that has allowed themselves to be pawn in the hand of self centered politicians

Nigeria is losing it, morally economically spiritually politically and what have you.. .. .

I don't even know which news trends more than the other, naira Marley or Regina Daniel

Did your not staying there elevated the standard of living of the people who elected you.

Or you wanna tell us the house you're living was not built with government money

lol

if you don't have anyone in your family watching or obsessed with zee world, you have no idea what God has done for you

It's either ambode is delirium or plain stewpid. #Governor_uncompleted_projects

Politicians and pastors are like 5&6

International fool, in a country where you're never wanted, who is supposed to avoid nightclubs or public gathering if not you. he's lucky to have left there in one piece.

My brother was singing praises of it to me,
was a guest for a while
then ichommy told me I could have an account on it,
was thrilled cos I realized I could also make contribution..

Funny enough, my brother who introduced me to NL is still a guest till date.. .. .

Good for him at least he carry cup

Barcelona duo, Coutinho and Suarez were pictured together at Anfield posing for a picture with the Liverpool logo...
Ahead of the game tonight

My thoughts goes directly to computer village, this might soon be the fate of some of the traders in hub. #iyaloja #babaloja

Just like we have the real Facebook app and the Facebook lite app CR7 is the real one while this dude right here is the lite version.

The priest is a cheerful giver.
Go ye into the world and multiply......

Somebody should please tell this young lady room kindly stop lying, it's not gonna help her career.
Cook indomie and sell for inside CU,
Pweeeees......

YES

If we stop electing our ancestors as our leaders

I really don't have any meal ��secret or anything but I last long enough to satisfy my partner

Everyday for the thief one day for the owner

But what's with Nigerians and stripping criminals unclad.

Doubt if this ever happened...
But what do I know

She should be in jail, lol ���

Can't believe we're gonna be starting a new week with this kinda news,
God save us all.. .. ..

Pictures or.. .. .. .

Kendumazy:
You need to show some actions that she doesn't really matter since she doesn't want to do the right thing or doesn't respect your feelings. You need to show some actions that you can live without her. If you show these actions and she doesn't bitterly apologize to save her marriage. Then, you need to work on separation cos your peace of mind is one of your most priorities. Sorry, if I sound as if I want to destroy your marriage. Hell No! The truth is that, it takes iron hand and iron heart to handle a kind of your woman.

The day mosquito patches of your scrotum is the day you'll realize that not cases are solved with violence..
My advice
make your findings and get your facts right, but stay calm in the process, allow her do her thing, don't restrict her,
Your findings will determine your next line of action.. .


ALL THE BEST BRO.. ..

domino4211:
With all the money,Adekunle Gold is always looking like a begger.

Don't get it twisted,
the idea is to be rich not to look rich

Question of the day
Chosejust one

Disgraced television icon Bill Cosby was handcuffed and taken into custody Tuesday to begin a minimum three-year prison sentence for sexually assaulting a woman at his Philadelphia mansion 14 years ago.


The 81-year-old, once beloved by millions as "America's Dad," is the first celebrity convicted and sentenced for a sex crime since the fall of Harvey Weinstein ushered in the #MeToo movement and America's reckoning with sexual harassment.

Found guilty on April 26 of drugging and molesting Andrea Constand, a former university basketball administrator, Cosby was impassive when Judge Steven O'Neill handed down the sentence in Norristown, Pennsylvania.

The judge rejected a defense request to release Cosby on bail pending an appeal. The now frail entertainer was slapped in handcuffs, and led out of court in his shirt and braces, his tie and jacket removed.

It makes him one of the famous Americans ever sent to prison in a country where fame, wealth and expensive lawyers have tended to help celebrities avoid the full arm of the law in the past.

"You were convicted of a very serious crime," O'Neill told Cosby. "No one is above the law."

His sentence means that Cosby can apply for parole after three years. His requests will be reviewed by a special committee and can be rejected up to a maximum sentence of 10 years behind bars.

O'Neill also branded Cosby a "sexually violent predator," a humiliating designation that will force him to register with police for the rest of his life and to submit to mandatory counseling.

Prosecutors had demanded five to 10 years, after the three counts of aggravated indecent assault were merged into one, saving him from a theoretical maximum sentence of 30 years.

- 'Victory in my heart' -

The actor was filmed being put in the back of a vehicle, to be taken first to Montgomery County Correctional Facility, before the Pennsylvania Department of Corrections and then onto a state prison.

Around 60 women, many of them onetime aspiring actresses and models, have publicly branded Cosby as a calculating, serial predator who plied victims with sedatives and alcohol to bed them over four decades.

Several of his accusers held a lengthy and tearful press conference hailing his prison term and saying they were finally able to turn the page on years of horrific memories.

"Today I feel a victory in my heart and my soul," said Sarita Butterfield, a onetime Playboy Playmate who accuses Cosby of raping her in 1978 in a house in Massachusetts where he was staying with his family

"Today I'm free."

Sunni Welles, 70, said Cosby drugged and raped her twice in 1965, destroying "very much a part of my life" and paid tribute to Constand, the only one whose claims were recent enough to be prosecuted.

"If she hadn't been able to stand in court, we wouldn't be standing here today," Welles said.

Defense lawyers wanted Cosby confined to house arrest, as he has been since his conviction, arguing that he is too old and too frail -- the actor says he is legally blind -- to endure a correctional facility.

"It's been a long time coming, but today, justice has been served," chief prosecutor Kevin Steele told reporters.

"Finally, Bill Cosby has been unmasked and we have seen the real man as he is headed off to prison."

- 'Crushed my spirit' -

But Cosby's camp remained defiant, lashing out at the district attorney and denying that the star was given the right to a fair trial.

"These injustices must be corrected immediately," spokesman Andrew Wyatt told reporters, hitting out against "lies."

"We know what this country has done to black men for centuries. So Mr Cosby is doing fine. He's holding up well."

Once a towering figure in late 20th century American popular culture and the first black actor to grace primetime US television, Cosby was a hero for decades, particularly among African Americans.

Across the television-watching world, he was revered for his signature role, affable obstetrician and father Cliff Huxtable on "The Cosby Show," which ran from 1984-92. Yet even after being convicted, he expressed no public remorse.

He declined to testify in court or produce any witnesses to emphasize past years of philanthropic work as mitigating circumstances in his favor. His wife, Camille, did not attend the sentencing hearing.

"Bill Cosby took my beautiful, healthy young spirit and crushed it. He robbed me of my health and vitality, my open nature and my trust in myself and others," Constand wrote in a five-page impact statement.

"I'm a middle-aged woman who's been stuck in a holding pattern for most of her adult life, unable to heal fully or to move forward.

Although HIV prevalence among adults is much less (2.9%) than other sub-Saharan African countries such as South Africa (18.9%) and Zambia (12.4%), Nigeria has the second largest HIV epidemic in the world. This is largely due to the size of Africa’s giant population. This means 3.6 million people were living with HIV as at 2016.

Because HIV is one of the STDs without cure, it is still perceived with a lot of stigmatization in Nigeria. Many couples only test for HIV whereas there are other killer diseases more devastating than HIV.

Here are 5 Sexually Transmitted Diseases as deadly as HIV.

Chlamydia

While chlamydia can be treated by antibiotics, if left untreated, chlamydia can cause infertility in men, Pelvic Inflammatory Disease, increased risk of contracting HIV.

It can also lead to miscarriage, and/or pre-term labour in women. Additionally it can cause premature delivery, conjunctivitis, lung infections, pneumonia, and ear infections may occur in new-borns born to mothers with chlamydia.



Hepatitis

Hepatitis is one of the leading causes of liver cancer. It has no cure. Most cases of hepatitis don’t cause symptoms and most adults can fight the infection on their own. If you have hepatitis B, your best option is to speak to your doctor about checking your liver and your medication options to lessen symptoms. Immune system modulators and antiviral medications can help slow the virus’s damage to your liver. Hepatitis C is the most serious of the hepatitis infections and one of the top causes of adult liver transplants in the world.

Herpes

Herpes is spread through skin-to-skin contact. It is incurable. Many people with herpes may not know they have it because they show no symptoms. However, when there are symptoms, they come in the form of painful sores around the genitals or anus.



HPV

Human papillomavirus is extremely common. About 9 out of 10 sexually active people will contract HPV. About 90 percent of these infections go away within two years of detection. However, HPV is still incurable and, in some cases, it can lead to: genital warts, cervical cancer, etc.

The Internet Is Cracking Up Over This Bear’s Reaction To This Couple Getting Married At The Zoo
This couple decided to get married at Minnesota Zoo and ended up with some truly spectacular wedding photos, including getting hilariously photobombed by a Russian grizzly bear.

The images, taken by Chris and Kristy Photography, have since gone viral as people can’t get enough of the bear’s outrageous facial expressions, it looks thoroughly unimpressed with the situation unfolding in front of it! “The pictures were the photographer’s idea,” the groom explained. “They said it was very fortunate to get a picture with one of the local denizens; the animals typically go in for mealtime when we’re allowed to wander prior to the ceremony. This Russian grizzly bear was the only one kind enough give us his ‘blessings’.”

Perhaps this will start a new trend of zoo weddings? The groom understands people’s concerns about the way some zoos operate, and made it clear that Minnesota Zoo satisfied his concerns about animal welfare at the venue. “There are some less than amicable zoos’ in the world that are like prisons,” he explained. “But I’d like to think that our chosen venue, the MN Zoo, is not among them since it’s state owned and not a Zoo for the sake of profit. If I’m not mistaken, they also perform many functions critical to wildlife rehabilitation and preserving species approaching extinction.”


If you are thinking of doing likewise and getting married at a zoo, please choose carefully! Scroll down below to check out the hilarious pictures for yourself, as well as some other occasions when animals decided to get involved in people’s ‘perfect’ moments.

“So we got married at the Zoo”

How well do you know your wife? There are many married men who do not understand their wives.

A man needs to know different things about his wife to keep her happy. Failure to know some of these things spells doom for your marriage, Mark Merrill states.

1. Her love language

Every woman has a taste and preference when it comes to relationships. It is advisable to understand the love language of your woman. Determine some of the things that make her want never to leave you. Be that man who gives her more reasons to live.

2. Her favorite thing

All men should know the things that their wives enjoy most. Does she enjoy being taken out? Does she enjoy sex? Well, be keen to know these things so that you can pay attention to them.

3. Her biggest fear

What does your wife fear most? These are the things that could ruin your marriage. Find out these things so that you can handle them in time for the sake of your marriage.

4. Things that make her feel valued

Women want men who make them feel valued. Determine some of the things that make her tick. Do these things regularly. She will dearly love you if you understand and do the things that make her feel valued.

When younger we make various choices without the future in mind. Sometimes those choices bite us in our mid-life. These are some of the things one might regret when they're 50 years:-

1. "Marrying the wrong person"

When you're young, check your motives for marrying. Don't marry to copy your peers, or for social standing or out of pressure. Marry for love and companionship, marry the right person, marry your best friend. For if you marry the wrong person or for the wrong reasons, you will have to put up with that person the rest of your life. Things might get worse between you two; then depression, physical abuse, affairs, pain, shame, court cases, bitterness will define your mid-life years all because you chose the wrong one. Things will get worse when children are involved. Make the right choice of a spouse when you are young.

2. "The opportunities you did not seize"

When you are younger many doors will open, you will get many chances. Many young people let these opportunities go because of fear, laziness, or pride; yet when younger and with more energy is the best time to start a venture and a name for yourself. Some think the opportunities are too big for them. Take advantage of them or one day when you're older you will want to go back and grab those missed chances.


3. "The bridges you burned"

When we are younger, we care little for relationships, what most think about is getting money and moving up the ladder of success at all cost. Many use and trample on people to progress, they take relationships for granted, messing up bonds, sleeping with people for personal gain. But these bad actions will catch up with you ahead, then you will realize how empty life is without love and friends, when you will have success but no one around you or no one to trust you.

4. "The child you aborted"

You are a young lady, you get pregnant and you are scared. You take the aborting option quickly thinking of that moment. But when you are much older, you will look back and wish you kept that baby. When you will be rich and successful you will wish that child you gave up on would be around to enjoy the fruits of your hard work. Being a single mother doesn't mean you can't make it in life or you can't find a man in future.


5. "The child you rejected"

Young man, you impregnated a woman, she told you she's pregnant with your child. You rejected her and the baby and ran away. But years later when you're 50 something, you will wish you were responsible back then, you will wish you manned up and became a father to that child. You will see that child excel and become an adult but will have no claim to that grown child who you rejected from the beginning. You will regret being a Dead Beat Dad by choice

6. "The marriage you destroyed"

So you get married to your good fiance; the first months in marriage were good but shortly after, with your money and charm, you started having affairs. You became unfaithful. Your spouse begged you to stop, your children started hurting, your marriage was collapsing. One day when you are older, it will hit you how foolish you were to destroy the good marriage you had began to build for mere temporary thrills in affairs that did you no good. You will realize the damage you caused to your children and spouse.

7. "The God you disowned"

When you are much older you become wiser, God becomes more real as you see life in a more meaningful way.But don't wait to get older to start enjoying a relationship with God. Know God when you are young, build your future with God. Don't be a young rebel who runs back to God when age catches up.

8. "The body you messed"

You have only one body to live with all your life. The cigarettes, the alcohol you are abusing, the drugs you are taking, the unhealthy food you're consuming; all that will destroy you slowly. When you are 50 and lifestyle diseases catch up with you, you will wish you took care of your body when younger, that you exercised more; but now the damage is done.


9. "The time you wasted"

The time you are wasting when younger in worry, wrong relationships, laziness, being a couch potato, giving excuses and pursuing meaningless things; you will never get it back.

10. "The dreams and talents you shelved"

Are you talented when young; are there things you love to do and you are good at them? Nurture those talents, exploit them, don't give up even if you encounter set backs, don't give up on your dreams. If you give up, when you're older you will look at your peers who stuck to what they love and made it and think to self, "That could have been me"... Pursue a career, study a course you love. Don't waste years of your life in a field that doesn't fulfill you.

11. "The name you defamed"

When you are older, a legacy is very important, the value of your name is crucial. You will ask yourself what is your reputation, what are you leaving behind? Your legacy is a sum total of your actions since youthful days. We write our biography by how we live life everyday. When you look back your path and you see the mud you threw at your own name, the shame you attracted and the little value you have added to the world; you will regret.


12. "The wealth you threw away"

Are you riding on good money during your productive years? Earning good money?... Don't throw away that money in clubs, reckless living and wasteful shopping. Invest with that money, widen your revenue stream, make that money work for you and keep it safe to take care of you in your older years. Leave an inheritance for your loved ones so that you will never say "I wish I knew better"

13. "The good love that got away"

Is there that great person in your life loving you good? Don't push that person away, or else that person will walk out your life and you will never ever find someone that incredible and who connects with you all your life. It will torment you to grow older with thoughts of "What if I was still with that person?"

14. "The parents you despised"

When younger, it is easy to show contempt to your parents; what do your parent's know? They are old-fashioned, shady and small -minded. But your parents are still your parents whether you agree with them or not, whatever their style. Don't let your parent die or age separated from you, reconcile and make up. When you get older, you will realize why your parents wanted to be close to you. The older you get, the more you see the value of love and relationships.

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I need urgent advice. See eh, my business has always done so well and I am good at saving money. I and my husband shared the bills. He pays school fees and other hefty expenses while I feed the family. Sometimes it is hard for him to get money to pay for the school fees and he sometimes asks me if I have, occasionally I have helped out but I noticed he will keep depending on me to keep helping out. When I say I don’t have, the school fees money will them come out from somewhere and he will pay it, but if I said I have, he will not find the money o. So I learned to say I don’t have so he will be forced to find it, and he has been doing it.




We don’t have property at all, we pay rent. I have been asking him to buy land but he has been postponing saying he doesn’t have money. I saved up enough money to buy land and I even saved up money to build a bungalow for us. All behind his back, because I know he will take the money from me and use it for something else if I say I have the money. So I decided to buy land and build the bungalow behind his back. I build 5 bedroom bungalow and I thought he will be happy and proud of me. I told him I have a surprise for him. I took him to the new bungalow which I have even furnished. I then break the news that it is our own and he was so shocked he nearly passed out. He then became very angry that I did such a project behind his back and that it is an insult to him. He said it means he means nothing to me for me to pretend I don’t have money and then go behind him and build such a house. Every room has toilet and bathroom, 2 parlours, big compound already fenced with interlocking tiles. Now furnished. I have been begging him since that I did it for our own good. His name and my name are in the C of O but he said he will never move into that house built behind his back and is talking about ending our marriage. He says he tells me everything he does but I betrayed him by hiding what I was doing. I told him is because I was afraid he will take the money off me as he has done before and I felt we needed to make progress and stop paying rent. At least it will save him rent money forever. This man is still angry o and wants to go and see my people to end the marriage



Please what did I do wrong? I thought I was being a good wife.... I feel so sad. I love my husband and I want to save my marriage. What do I do?