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Jennyclay:
Biko, I wasn’t defending anyone

My major concern was he should have just ended the relationship than going through these stress.

He can just report her to her parents or siblings, then end the relationship. Simple as ABC.

I’m 100% certain the man isn’t a saints.

Childish men everywhere!!

Of course he ended the relationship but with evidence because if he just walk away, she will do it to another man ,her family will think he is the problem and she will play the victim just like you women are known for

And as for saying the man isn't a saint, you are just being emotional and pained that the woman was caught because he is not the one caught sleeping with 4 opposite gender .

You don't have to be a saint to expose a sinner.You just have to be the one who was wronged and before I forget, what is your definition of childish ?

So a woman who slept with 4 men is not childish but a man who decided to do the right thing is the childish one Abi?

Madam stop deceiving yourself
You understand what am talking about
You women are so manipulative in nature sha

Ilamina:


I can't cook. No degree

What do you think

Find something meaningful to do with your life and stop creating useless threads

You hacked her WhatsApp. You found out she's selling nudes to other men. She won't send you nudes. She won't sleep with you. She told you to wait until wedding night.

What are you waiting for? A gift wrap?

Jennyclay:
Childish man.

You could have just ended the relationship in peace than going through all these stress

As if he’s a saint

Shior!!!

You're defending a woman who slept with 4 men while engaged. You're attacking a man who exposed her. That tells me everything about where your loyalty lies. And it's not with truth

He didn't just dodge a bullet. He dodged a nuclear bomb.She played a stupid game and won a stupid prize. He played it smart and walked away free. Justice was served. Cold. Public. Deserved

The "rejected stone" became the cornerstone because it was strong. Not because it was old

The pastor is right. And she's saying what most Nigerian churches are too prudish to admit

Marry who fits you. Don't marry who you want to change

She's not wrong

QuinQQ:
Actually true. Because men can't be trusted when it comes to that thing and everyone knows it. No one will believe you're innocent.
But this woman is wrong about children lying - children rarely lie about such things.

See these bloody manipulator

As for me, it's a 50 50 thing for me
My babe self know me.As you dey trygive to these girls,try dey receive from them too.
As them for favours, make them invest
Or better still just dey your dey

Goo0dHardDick:
You don't borrow women money! U only give out what you know you can let go.

Shaa apologize for the harsh tone you used

She opened up to me last night claiming i don't love her the way she does
I kept her calm sha.
We are good now
Thanks for the advice

Na man wey no get level they share house chores with him wife

What is all this?
Of what use is the benefit of this useless fight to the economy of this country

spinna:
I just knew she'd be hot. Strangely most of these cases in the West, the female teacher is attractive.

what is hot about a woman assaulting a minor ehn

Jakumo:
My goodness, this woman is really sexy and fit, despite being 35 years old. Aged 15, I would have been delighted and eternally grateful if a woman with these good looks decided to share carnal knowledge with me.

Too bad she tried to get a minor to mount her, because there would have been no shortage of men over 18 who would gladly do the honors.

Guy, you be confirm simp
So this all you have to say about sexual assault because it's coming from a woman abi
But if na man do am now we no go hear word again

Any woman with that mentality has no business with marriage in the first place

Imalwayshorny:
I hear say phyna and nkechi blessing get nairaland account


If you want to confirm quote me for their nairaland account link

That one na their papa business

BigYash:
🤣

That's their normal bait..

Go beg her na. You will learn in a hard way

what normal bait?

And you and who's learning the hard way?

Funny enough,Atiku fit come do well as Nigerian President ooo

Countersam:
Bro accept my condolences in advance because girls of nowadays ehn ,she will easily cheat on your if she remembers you cannot dash her 20k. Besides in relationship not everyone understands the difference between borrowing and free giving

Bro this girl really helped me honestly.There was a time I was very down financially.Even for house nobody help me.This girl was my saviour then.I cant forget this particular period
Thanks for your opinion though

BigYash:
How u go borrow woman man.. Recipe for Disaster.. Two things are involved.. Fight or you just let the money go..

Why won't she give you attitude,when what she came for was the money. You said she liked you...

Yes she likes you,cux of money...

If you were giving her money,do you think she will be giving you attitude?

Oga if you no get wetin u wan use money do.. send it to your mom to buy airtime

I don't think she is in for my money because there was a time I was down and she really helped me.Infact,this just crossed my mind now
She deserves better

Gotocourt:
Naso my werey Ex wey still be my Fu<K mate.

She told me she wants me to lend her some money which I dodged . She now told me she needs someone who will give her money and won't stress her during payback .

I referred her to opay, pampay, fair money .

Be wise guys.

Nigeria is a struggling old man with no direction

Samantha125:
So when are you planning on doing the needful so that I can start preparing my traveling documents to come and chop the famous jollof rice?

When it's time we will let you know

Samantha125:
You can apologize for being harsh, but not necessarily for demanding your money back since she had agreed to pay you back.

In my opinion, I don't think couples who are planning on building a future together should be lending each other things like money, it should rather come as a gift to avoid unnecessary conflicts.

Exactly what i told her.I told her that she should have asked.Instead of telling me to borrow her.I will give what I can.
Well it's fine. I will apologize to her.We will have a good bedtime anytime she comes around again
I believe we will be fine
I just like the fact that, she likes me before we started dating.

slimjohn2k5:
Dont u know that you dont borrow ur babe, wife etc money.

She used the word borrow in order to get the money.

Stephen0mozzy:
OP, she's hurt. Nor mind the wereys above.

You sef don confirm say she be nice girl and also she dey generous towards you too - so nor try to make her pretend to be friendly with you again. Tell her you are sorry for the tone with which you asked for the money back (you sef say you were harsh) - a girlfriend expects Palmpay to be harsh for a loan, they don't expect their boyfriend to be harsh too.

And there's nothing weak about apologizing that you handled a situation wrong to a woman. Go tell her sorry bro. Don't give her space or return the attitude. Buy her something small that she likes (since she's not in town, send her small airtime of like #777 naira - yes na weird money amount, but na to start conversation, tell am say she's your perfect number 😝😝).

If you find a good girl, don't treat her like the other whwwerey girls

Thanks for this bro
I really appreciate 🙏

Samantha125:
Apologising is very important in a relationship or marriage because it helps couples move past conflicts and rebuild trust between them.

I'd probably also continue giving you that silent treatment if you don't apologize because I always own up and apologize where I feel that I was wrong or for the sake of peace.

let me tell you what happened.I lent her 20k of whichshe claimed she would return on her pay day.She refused to return it.I decided to ask about it because I knew if she didn't pay that day, she will probably keep procastinating it.So had to ask her and it was during the conversation I became harsh.She return the money and have been acting cold since then.
This morning now she left without even informing me of leaving.I knew the coldness is still there
Should I be the one apologizing again,even after I acknowledge to her that I was harsh?

Sonnobax15:

Bro,you F up by lending a woman whom you're currently dating money. What you should have done was to simply tell her that you don't such amount of money to give out at that moment,but can only manage to lend her 5k. At least,that wouldn't have had effect on you even if she fail to pay you back

It's well tho. She'll be fine las las cuz na so majority of bannies brains dey wired.

my brother, she know say I get that kind money for hand that moment and base on say she dey very broke, I just say make I give borrow am
Thanks for your contribution boss