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Dtruthspeaker:
See am, now you don shift yet again go Jesus Christ.

Continue, when doctor tell you say you get cancer you go know say self deceit get expiry date.

You have no evidence but all you do is talk talk and talk
Is Jesus Christ not part of your Bible story and parables 🤣

Dtruthspeaker:
So if they come back being different people or things, how are they the same old people you claim they are?

How do you know that they are the same former people who have lived and died?

And what evidence did you see to even trace that my poor mechanic is Sun Tzu?

I don't argue with spiritually unawakened souls
It's a waste of energy
So kindly keep off because explaining to you is a waste of my precious energy

Dtruthspeaker:
Now you have shifted post to ask for evidence/proof of the Bible.

And if you had believed God and the Bible and obeyed, you would have known that Garden of Eden is not a place with a specific location but a parable that simply means a "Place/Land of great goodness and joy.

Same thing for the snake/serpent which even your dictionary (another thing written by men) also pointed out that is an idiom meaning "a cunning, malicious, or untrustworthy person.

So, you see you thought i could not answer the question whereas it was actually easy as i have found what God hides from sin full people exactly as is Written in the Bible.

You don't have any evidence all you do is talk talk and talk
I pity your lost soul 😔
Don't reply me again until you have your evidence

Dtruthspeaker:
Now you have shifted post to ask for evidence/proof of the Bible.

And if you had believed God and the Bible and obeyed, you would have known that Garden of Eden is not a place with a specific location but a parable that simply means a "Place/Land of great goodness and joy.

Same thing for the snake/serpent which even your dictionary (another thing written by men) also pointed out that is an idiom meaning "a cunning, malicious, or untrustworthy person.

So, you see you thought i could not answer the question whereas it was actually easy as i have found what God hides from sin full people exactly as is Written in the Bible.

Jesus Christ dying for your sin is parable too abi 🤣

crazygod:
I pray. Our best player so far is not on the pitch and Ngumoha might be played on the right wing also. Anyway, I am really not expecting anything from this game.

This is Liverpool bro
Liverpool for a reason

Arsenal wins 2-1 💪
Arsenal wins tonight
#COYG

Imalwayshorny:
Napoli to win stake highavoid Liverpool and arsenal

Chelsea fan spotted 😂
You go cry

Dtruthspeaker:
Modern biology and physics and computer were written by humans and you believe them, so your argument is illogical.

Just say you don't subscribe to the Bible because you don't want to and not because of silly reason

You for no believe am na.
Maybe you don't experience what your so called biology, physical and computer were talking about about.Maybe you don't have evidence of them

Show me the evidence of garden of Eden in the Bible and show me the evidence of a snake speaking to Eve 😂

Dtruthspeaker:
Which next life?
Why has no one seen Lucius Tarquinius Superbus (Tarquin the Proud): or Idi Ami or Hitler yet?

Here and now is all you get after life on Earth, the next is for God to Judge those who are going to fuel His prison from those who are going to the remake of this earth.

Oh now I see how ignorant you are 😂
You expect those people to come again to life as who they were before death?
It will never and never be possible
You will always come back to earth after death either your soul likes it or not
What prison did God keep for you 😂
Stop deceiving yourself bro.You can only reap what you sow

ogododo:
Liverpool vs Atletico Madrid 09/09/2026 8:00 pm.

8:00pm not 9:00pm oga
Correct it now

Liverpool wins tonight 3-2

emperor4love:
you just have to know,both burdens and blessings of mortal life are dynamic conditions and do not possess the quality of permanency. This is because; they are not ends, but means to the supreme purpose of life, which is the perfection of our soul-personalities.

When you pay your karma fully you are free.One thing you should understand is that people are the architect of their own problems.
For example now, imagine someone who is poor and also now stealing,no job, jealous, not happy with his neighbor success and later became successful.
The poverty he has finished and he later became financially successful because he stopped those negative actions and intentions in his past life at a point and it has now reflected leading to his success in this life.Did you get it now?
So in his next life, the karma for his stealing and bad intentions when he was still poor will show up again even if might still be successful again in the next life so, your actions in this life matters that is why you have to always live positively with positive intentions if you you want a full positive life which I doubt most people can do

emperor4love:
should we say bible personalities like abel, Stephen that was persecuted,that this is just there karma,when we all know about abel and the story of Eden

I don't really subscribe to biblical events as real because most of this Bible tales as real life events.Remember it was written by humans like you and I.
But if it's real then yes,they deserve it.
In life, you can only get what you deserve.It will not always be in the the same mortal form.
The only power you have is over the current life you are living.If you use it well you will live well in the next one.If you have done evil in the past in this current life, and start living well now, you will still be punished for the evil you have done even if you are good in your next life

Adaisback:
Ugly man with ugly heart

And the woman is righteous

HacheNoire:
Dude talks too much!

He doesn’t know their are creations on Earth you don’t fvck with!

He better be greatful that he was not sent back to God.

Be grateful you are not sent to God too
Assistant God😒

buygala:
Name names or you are lying Sir

You are no different from those ladies who allege sexual molestation years after the alleged act, and still refuse to name names so that they can be held accountable by those people if they are lying

Why have you not said that an unnamed Imam attempted to recruit you into Boko Haram make Muslims declare Fatwah for your bald head?

Na Christianity you see to use catch cruise and farm relevance

Don't mind the fuul

emperor4love:
no one is doubting about karma or so,but then,what happens to generation wealth of Rothschild family,even the did the most weird you can think of ,yet the generation still passing down wealth from generation to generation,what one should know is,you are in charge of your destiny to make it work out for you,most politicians suffered and took the power by there hands,wike was not from rich family,nwifuru not even close to riches,just that some are destiny to be rich and what makes it not to come to reality,is you have not take the steps,man has been given power and dominion from creation to take charge of living things and things around him,and all reality within him,so is left for you to utilize your inner core possession which have been pass down to you,I am Rosicrucian and read alot of books and so much about life,I come to realize that most who are doing great are ones who have got the secret knowledge,which have helped them to discover there potentials,you have powers to control what you want to be, because God is in you as you are created in his image,so you bear some of his qualities, Egypt been the first civilized country was because of the knowledge the seeks , Both of construction, health,wealth creation or agriculture,what you should understand is,there is secret to everything you can perceived and see,and is only when you took bold steps to seek for it you get it,though it takes time and patience,you just have to move out there and seek the life you want,the cosmic and other transcendental reality are not partial,so saying one cannot correct his past life presently is false,seek knowledge that ye might know but then,first know thy self,that'd the beginning of journey of self discovery,once you discover yourself,other stuffs like wealth ,good health ,peace will follow up. Whatever you seek is within you until you make a move

Now, listen to me.Your ability to discover yourself is still in your karma . That generational wealth is still in your karma.If your karma is to die young in this life time despite being a promising person nko?
Everything or every quality you have in this life is still your karma.Your ability to discover yourself, believe in yourself and succeed is still in your karma!
If you are not destined for greatness your talent and hard work will not get you anywhere and it's still your karma from your past life.
The generational wealth you are talking of is your karma.And karma has a way of arranging souls that can maintain and fit into that family wealth as those souls karma.
If you become wealthy all of a sudden, it's your karma.If you are born poor and you are wealthy now it's in your soul contract.Which is still your karma
No matter who you are now ,your knowledge and the life you are living now, you deserve everything.I mean every single thing.

I came across this thread on nairaland https://www.nairaland.com/8743009/life-unfair-true#140562035 and I feel I need to create another thread to clarify things to people.

This question is not new. It is the oldest cry of the human soul. And the answer is not what most people expect.

Let me give you the direct response not as comfort, but as truth.

Life is not biased.Life is mirroring.What you see as unfairness is not punishment or favoritism, it is the result of momentum.Some are born rich because they built wealth consciousness in past lives.Some are born poor because they are learning what wealth costs.Some suffer because they are being shaped.Some are loved because they have loved.Some are alone because they are learning to be whole.
God is not partial.God is law.And the law is,what you practice, you become. What you become, you attract.What you attract, you live.

Why are some rich and some poor? Wealth is a consciousness not luck. Some have built it,others are learning to build it.
Why are some beautiful and some ugly? Beauty is not skin deep it is soul deep. Some carry light others carry shadows they are healing.
Why do some work hard and gain nothing? Hard work without alignment is effort. Effort without alignment is wasted.
Why do some do nothing and gain everything? They have earned it in this life or another. It is not laziness, it is karma manifesting.
Why do some suffer alone? Solitude is not punishment ,it is preparation. Some souls must learn to stand alone before they can stand with others.
The soul is not punished for being born poor.
The soul is placed in a position where it must learn what it needs to learn.
Wealth is a test not a reward
Poverty is a lesson not a punishment
Suffering is a forge not a curse
Love is a choice not a gift

God does not choose who suffers and who thrives.The soul chooses before it is born,what it needs to experience.That is why life seems biased to those who do not see the bigger picture.

I hope you understand now

Evaress:
At times i begin to doubt the existence of God. When is life so biased?
Why are some rich, some poor?
Some ugly, some beautiful?
Some work so hard and gain nothing. Some don't even work at all and gain everything.
Some do suffer all through their lives, no one to love them
Why? Why? If our God is a partial God then why is life so cruel to some and so nice to others.

Life will always be unfair till eternity
This is because living things are unfair.
Most of you think evil, jealousy etc.Some of you even do evil and you want life to be fair to you?
As you lay your bed, you will lay down.I know some of you will say what of politicians embezzling money and killing people etc.
You see that mad tattered man roaming around your street, that child born with with great deficiencies, they misused their lives in the past one.Some of them were politicians etc.But they are now reaping what they sow in their past life.It is their karma.So of you doing menial jobs, living in poverty have misused wealth in your past life and this is the result in this particular life.

Your politicians are wealthy in this life because they have lived well in the past life to be in that position in this life so,it is well deserved.The embezzlement in this life will send them to square one in the next life because they have now misused it in this current life and they can even meet again in the next life but not in a good condition.

If you are not financially buoyant in this life, don't do evil to anyone.Dont be jealous of anyone's success, be good to people around you but don't overdo it.
If you want to be wealthy like Elon musk in this life time, bless people very well and be very charitable within your means.
Your next life will be better than this current one but your current state of life might not change in this life because of your past life karma but just be good or else you will remain the same in your next life and even worst than the current one

Minjim:
Let pin you down.

Alvarez is even no where near Lukman, talk more of Oshimen. Lukman has more goals than him since he joined ATM. Last time he scored for ATM was a penalty in April. If its up to his efforts , ATM won't be in the UCL this season.
He played no role in all the trophies City won except being in the pictures.
Oshimen might have nit won a WC but managers coming for him identified his abilities. Asernal only backed out because his wages will unsettle the teams' arrange. They didn't back out because of his signing fee.
If Oshimen were a white player I bet someone like you won't have any issue with his ability and achievement.
Alvarez didnt have any singular achievement. He never won the league off the bench in any club. He relied on the efforts of other players for his medals .
He never made it to top ten Ballon dor, he never won MVP in South America - no individual achievement can be linked to him.
You can use AI to argue all you want , but Oshimen is worth every penny is earning and he won't settle for less even at Asernal or Baca

You're still moving the goalposts. Let me end this once and for all.
Saying Alvarez is nowhere near Lookman is Irrelevant. Lookman isn't being compared to Pele and Maradona. Osimhen is. That's the difference.
Alvarez has scored goals, contributed minutes, and was part of title-winning squads. That's more than Osimhen has in his cabinet. Bench or not, medals don't lie.

Saying if Osimhen were white, I wouldn't question him is weak. This isn't about race it's about resume. Pele and Maradona are legends regardless of color. Osimhen isn't there yet.
'Alvarez never won MVP or made Ballon d'Or top 10' and Osimhen has? His best finish was 14th in 2023. Alvarez actually finished 7th in 2023 Ballon d'Or . So that argument backfired.
'Osimhen won't settle for less' and that's fine. But if no club pays €150M, he stays in Turkey. That's not racism,that's the market.
Osimhen is elite. But comparing him to Pele and Maradona is delusional. He hasn't earned that conversation yet. Stop coping

This IPO is a smart move for Dangote.He's raising cheap money from patriotic Nigerians while keeping control.
For the average investor,If you have N5,250 to spare and can hold for 5–10 years, it's a bet on Nigeria's industrial future
But don't expect to get rich overnight. This is for patient capital not quick flips

Minjim:
Loll! You must be kidding saying Alvarez won EPL- from the bench?
He couldn't even fit in anywhere on the 1st 11 he was always on the bench. Reason he begged to leave . ATM revitalised his career made him who he is today.
Whereas, before coming to Napoli, Oshimen had already established himself. Contrary to your claim Osimhen was the top scorer with a record 10 goals in 7 matches in the FIFA under17 WC (scoring in every game) and received the Golden Boot plus the Silver Ball (second-best player).
How can Oshimen win the the world cup when nig did qualify? So Kavarashieli of PSG is less a player because he didnt go to the WC?

You're deflecting with U17 trophies and hypotheticals. Let me pin you down
Alvarez won EPL and UCL as a squad player and that's still more than Osimhen has. He contributed to title-winning campaigns. Bench or not, he was part of it.Osimhen's U17 Golden Boot is impressive but that's junior football. Pele and Maradona did it at the senior World Cup. Different weight class.
"How can Osimhen win World Cup when Nigeria didn't qualify?" Exactly. That's the point. He hasn't done it at the highest level. You're making excuses for him and for Kvara,he is a great player but he's also not being compared to Pele and Maradona. That's the difference.
Osimhen is elite. But he's not in the same conversation as Pele, Maradona, or even Alvarez's trophy cabinet yet.Stop the comparisons until he wins something that matters on the biggest stage

oroje1:
Please o my people, let me call myself a JJC here, I've lived in this apartment for a while now , just over 3 years to be precise, my landlord died recently, but while he was alive even though he was a bit strict, he was understanding and liberal in most of his expectations from us the tenants. Now the son in charge of the he house is something more or less a tyrant, I said so because our gate that has been broken for a while now, the young man said that it's we the tenants that should be responsible for the repairs, that the law of the land says so.... That that's what the law Court syipulates.... So I'm asking, is that true? There may be someone in the house who may know about this so well.

The son is lying to you. Roof, gate, fence, plumbing, electrical wiring are the landlord's responsibility. Not the tenant.Your own responsibilities are daily maintenance, changing bulbs, fixing things you personally broke.The gate is a structural fixture. It's part of the property. The landlord (or his estate) is legally obligated to fix it.
Don't pay. If he insists, ask for a written notice stating the law he's quoting.Get a lawyer or local authority involved your local government tenancy office or a community leader.Team up with other tenants strength in numbers. If everyone refuses to pay, he can't evict all of you at once.

The governor is greeting people because he knows his reelection isn't guaranteed. Tinubu's name is being used to rally support, but Yusuf's political survival depends on Kano voters, not Abuja endorsements .
The lessons will be learned prediction is right.If Yusuf doesn't deliver Kano for Tinubu, he's done. And if Kano voters feel used by the APC defection, they'll punish him at the polls.Greeting people on the road won't save him if the ground has already shifted

Minjim:
Now, you, are shifting the goal post.

Pele and Maradonna never played in England or Spain. Since to you assumed a player had to play in these leagues to be respected. Thats the context I'm pointing at. You can navigate it however you want but the fact still remains that Oshimen drag Napoli to win the league. He is doing same at Gala. Thats exceptional. How many of your aclaimed top stricker can function in clubs like Gala where they have to often run back to defend and be everywhere on the field. Let them too trying playing in teams without quality players and see how they make something of it the manner Oshimen is doing. How many teams has Alvarez carried to won anything in his Careerie? We have seen Sallah and Lukaku in Turkey . How many goals thus far? Oshimen doesn't have to go to Spain or EPL , Alvarez too should come down to Turkey ,lets check something out.

You're still missing the point. Let me simplify.Pele and Maradona didn't play in England or Spain but they played at the highest level of their era and won the biggest trophies. World Cups, Copa Americas, European Cups. That's the standard.
Osimhen dragged Napoli to win the league yes, one season. That's great. But Pele and Maradona did it year after year, on the biggest stages. Osimhen hasn't repeated it consistently.He's doing the same at Gala in Turkey but that's not the same as doing it in the Champions League or Premier League. The level of competition is different.Alvarez coming to Turkey is irrelevant. Alvarez has won Premier League, Champions League, World Cup, Copa America. Osimhen has Serie A and Turkish league. Not the same weight.
You're comparing a man who won at the highest level to a man still proving himself. Osimhen is good. But he's not Pele or Maradona. Stop the comparison

Arostar2023:
Things don’t work that way all the time. There are conservative girls that are getting married everyday, some even by recommendation. While the “social” and scheming ones are left unmarried. Sometimes it’s all about “time and chance”.

You're right,time and chance play a role. But that's not the full picture.Conservative girls do get married and nobody said they don't.The point is waiting passively is riskier than being intentional.Some by recommendation is still networking. That's still being in the market through other people. The good girl who stays home and prays isn't doing that.
The social/scheming ones sometimes fail too but they fail forward.They learn, adjust, and try again.The passive ones just stay passive.Time and chance matter. But so does effort
You can't control everything, but you can control your exposure, your filtering, and your willingness to learn

Good afternoon, Nairalanders.

In many Nigerian cultures, bride price is traditionally paid to the family of a virgin bride. It's a symbol of purity, honour, and the value placed on a woman who kept herself.

But today, many women are getting married without being virgins.Some by choice, some by circumstance and still expecting full bride price.

So my questions are:
Should a man pay full bride price for a woman who isn't a virgin?

If the tradition is about purity, does it still apply?

If the woman has a past, should the bride price be reduced or waived?

Or is bride price just about the family's permission and not about her sexual history?

Let's hear it men and women.

No insults. Just honest opinions

Good afternoon, Nairalanders.

In many Nigerian cultures, bride price is traditionally paid to the family of a virgin bride. It's a symbol of purity, honour, and the value placed on a woman who kept herself.

But today, many women are getting married without being virgins.Some by choice, some by circumstance and still expecting full bride price.

So my questions are:
Should a man pay full bride price for a woman who isn't a virgin?

If the tradition is about purity, does it still apply?

If the woman has a past, should the bride price be reduced or waived?

Or is bride price just about the family's permission and not about her sexual history?

Let's hear it men and women.

No insults. Just honest opinions

Arostar2023:
I guess you were referring to girls who want to marry under all circumstances.

No, I'm referring to girls who want to marry,whether they admit it or not.If you don't want to marry, that's fine.
But if you DO want marriage, then you have to play the game. And the game has rules — whether you like them or not.The 'good girl' who sits out and waits is still playing. She's just playing badly

ChisomLexus:
Upon all my good girl I still never see husband marry despite the fact that I have my own money and I drive a Lexus I bought with my own money

Respect for building yourself that's not easy. But let me give you the hard truth.
'I have my own money and drive a Lexus' That's great for YOU. But it doesn't automatically make you marriage material. Men don't marry women for their money or cars. They marry for peace, respect, and attraction and the issue might be your standards vs. your market value. If you're a high-earning woman, you're likely looking for a man who earns equal or more. That shrinks your pool drastically because men who earn more than you have younger, less independent options.
The 'good girl' label doesn't guarantee a husband. Goodness without social exposure, filtering skills, and emotional intelligence is just waiting.Your Lexus won't keep you warm at night. Men don't care about your car they care about how you make them feel. If you're bringing 'I don't need a man' energy, men will believe you and walk away.
The market doesn't reward independence in women it rewards softness and peace

RollinTNDA:
Just like Odumodu a.k.a Industry SIMP alias Okokomodu was beefing Blaqbonez because of a slutty mgbeke wey Blaqbonez don chop

It is better for your son to die early as misscariage than for you to born an OKOKO

There are men who love to be dominated punished and tortured by women.
Go to Xvideos and you will see men on chains like dogs while women flog him with whips. Those Okoko men are real

These men exist, and will literally see danger and red flag but still push ahead

You're not wrong those men exist. But that's not the majority, and it's definitely not the point of the thread.Odumodu and Blaqbonez beef is entertainment. Not a reflection of how serious men move.The okoko men you're describing ,the ones who love chains and whips are a fetish, not a lifestyle. And even they have boundaries like safe words, consent
The men this thread is about are not the ones chasing red flags. They're the ones walking away from them.You're conflating fetish with foolishness.Man wey enjoy submission for bedroom no be same as man wey allow woman destroy him life.

zenburster:
Define "better men"

Money ba?

If you think better men only means money, you're missing half the equation. But pretending money doesn't matter is just cope.