alexola20:
@akv666,let's put our thinking cap on.
1.why does your fiancee want you to adopt another man's child when the said man is still alive.If he's irresponsible as you narrated,doesn't he have a family your fiancee can report is nonchalance to?
2.What about if the lady was promiscuous in the past,the reason the said baby father didn't give a F about her or her child?
3.What about if the child doesn't even belong to the said baby daddy?
What about if the lady doesn't even know or sure of really owns the child?

Investigate well before even thinking of adopting another man's child.
If the baby daddy is still alive find him and have a man to man chat with him.
This will safe you a ton in the future.

Father Abraham, u got wisdom bro.

heendrix:


If Nigerians are not patronizing the truck driver or whoever is supplying the water the business would have folded up a longtime ago cuz it'll send a signal the people want something better. But people kept accepting or buying thereby making the supplier feels there's no problem. Literally Nigerians re the problem. Y'all should just stop throwing the thrash card at Nigeria at any slightest oppurtunity given

that could be an area like auchi where theres no water beneath the ground. they buy from tankers ,they have no choice .

Don't go for ican yet, finish your degree program, then apply for ican with ur degree result.(bsc). when you apply with your degree you start from a higher lever than when you apply as an 100 level student.

at the end it saves u time and money.

success.

ultimateprof:
If I'm in your shoes I will marry her and these are my reasons: sometimes in life, women like her makes good wife because she has seen it all and shes ready to submit to who so ever that is willing to marry her and accept her the way she is. If she didn't love you and trust you, she will not even mention to you that she has two kids.Truthful and trustworthy women like her are very rare and difficult to find this days more especially in Nigeria.

Lot of women have given birth when they were in primary / secondary school, but later marry as a virgin to their present husbands now without telling the mugu that they are tokunbo raised to power two.

Another reason why I will like you to follow my advice is that this same woman is hardworking and your heart have already accepted that she has almost all the qualities that you desired in a woman. Why not follow your heart? Your heart cannot deceive you, most of these op here are just novice concern this matter.

Above all, I'm talking from experience and I sincerely believe that you will not regret it. Remember that why DNA trend is on today is because of people who followed what other people said and as well as religion .

Nigeria girls are liars and for this one to come out and state it boldly that she has two kids without covering it; guy believe me you've found a treasure, please, cherish her.

she doesn't necessarily need to tell him she have 2 kids. he may just find out freely.

secondly single mother's are evil, they pretend to be all loving and caring till after marriage. let he marry a single baby daddy also. not a young boy wen wan start life.

MyOpinion1:

I see, your point is about the financial aspect of it.
See every children as your children irrespective of whether they are yours or not....
Most rich people even donate most of their wealth to the orphanage, if they have this mindset of not raising people children, will they do that? who knows yours might not be the best version of what you even want them to be..
Life is not always straight my brother.

bros giving to charity is different from marrying a single mother.

imagine those kids in ur house creating wars with ur biological children and the mother threatening to run away with ur kids.

man I love unity n oneness ,no intruder, me ,my wife and my kids, not another mans kids, I don't run a mini orphanage.

zakkxx:
She gave birth to two and the baby daddy did not see her good enough for marriage na you wan carry your big head go enter! if she deal with you no come they ask us for useless advice for here ooo. run for your life, see single girls boku they disturb Baba God for a husband now you wan go waste their prayer request. IF I bit you for ear now them go talk say I wicked.

e be like u done jam them o , if single mother deal with you, you go break down . they have no regard for men.

me I no de try am marry single mother o. they are only good for fun.

foleskay:
I dont even know why i detest single mothers. I met a lady on nairaland last year and we got along, it was after two months she told me she's a single mother. I lost interest totally but did not reveal it to her. There was a time I went to her parent house and I saw d kid. A boy of 7 yrs. I I said to myself, this boy would grow up and starts giving me problem by claiming parts of my properties. I just told d lady after few months that it can't work out tho after series of fvking . I had to manipulate her to believing my excuse. Uptill now she still calls to abuse and threaten me ask for d 8k sh borrowed me. And by God's grace she's gonna hv her money back this month.

the problems with single mothers too many.. for me its a no no. no need to think twice. I can't marry a woman with a child even if the child no go stay with me. they pretend at first but they have a dirty character.

my dear brothers and fathers ,if you suspect foul play , please arrange for a DNA for your child.

don't allow anybody tell you DNA company's wants to steal your data.

that how one girl used me to feed another man's child for 5 months, thank God I discovered on time and ran away. whether you're married or not to the girl, DNA is better than taking care of another man's child for years.

the money may not be the problem but the emotions attached to the child. i had showed the child to all my friends and families. you know the worse thing , the girl was aware im not d dad.lol.

my family was embarassed.

it was hard for me to let the child go, it took a lot of counselling. it took me more than a year to stop thinking. I was placed on bp medications.

a word is enough for the wise.

lalastica

simplesearch:


Bought you said?! whoever sells two babies from same parent? This actually sounds like an impossible scenario except they are twins, and if they are diff persons how can they both wait till 18 to show up at the same time. In any case the woman can get a good lawyer and appeal the order, except it was a backyard purchase sealed on the altar of mutual understanding.

Yes they are twins. Selling of babies is illegal, you cant drag It at any court. You're liable to go to jail.

Selling is different from adopting from the real parents when its documented by a lawyer. That way the original parent can't have the child or come near them.

maynia:


It's nearly impossible for that to happen, the switching of baby thing.

Na only mugu baby them fit switch . if my wife de labour my sister go follow the nurse anywhere she carry the baby go after delivery. Na sense be life.

simplesearch:


Then he should be ready to pay back all accumulated child support from pregnancy till the day custody is taken. Except where the beneficiary decides to let go.

A friend had an uncle whose wife bought 2 kids, at the age of 18 the real parents showed up with DNA. They have no right, its a court order. U can't drag a child with their bio dad, except he Gave them for adoption by himself and its documented.

Jack005:
You are right though, but if my son or daughter is grown up and I take the test and then i find out that the kids ain't mine, I will adopt them and still take them to be mine... I will not allow the innocent kid suffer and my investment go down the drain because of a promiscuous hoeing mother.

Their real parent has the right to take them if he provides a DNA to prove they are his. U can't adopt them without his concent except he's not interested in the kid

Kamdil:
that is what she told you. Confirm from the guy,and you will be shocked.

No mind that guy ,me I no fit marry single mother, the child will now be in my house and there is every tendency he or she will be a head ache to my own kids and it will be hard to seperate from the mother.

Because anything u talk , her attitude is separating u from your kids. So she has u at her palms. Single mother for me is a no no.

Happy new year great people of the earth.

Check for ulcer also n ur blood level.

justwise:


The most important thing is having consistent first and last name in all your forms or certificates.

If onyema chidi is your first and last name in all your documents then you will be find

thanks.

justwise:

What is your first and last name?

onyema chidi

its present in all my documents but the Morgan isnt in all.

On my jamb I used 3 names
Onyema Chidi Morgan
On my nd result I used 2 names
Onyema Chidi
On my HND and international passport i used 3 names
Onyema chidi Morgan
On my neco I used 2 names
Onyema Chidi.
Will i have problems going for masters because of the third name which is missing on my nd result and neco? Will i also have problems with nysc.
If yes , what can i do about it.

justwise:


Are you applying together with your family?

Hi justwise , sorry I had to post this here , please i have a question I'll be glad If you attend to.

On my jamb I used 3 names
Onyema Chidi Morgan
On my nd result I used 2 names
Onyema Chidi
On my HND and international passport i used 3 names
Onyema chidi Morgan
On my neco I used 2 names
Onyema Chidi.

Will i have problems going for masters because of the third names which are missing? Will i also have problems with nysc.

If yes , what can i do about it.

WandaMaximoff:
When village people mean you ehn.
But is ASUU not on strike?
From that red beret, you can conclude on what must have happened.
Drowning fire.

delsu done pull out from assu.

sammysmiles:
That California jxt amassed votes for Biden... All those celebrities na there dem full..... Not that they like Biden, but they jxt want trump out and voting bidden is the only option... Nonsense and ingredients...

cali has always been a blue state, not about biden.

Problem.
cultists in the house will tell you the answer.

TecM0:




..How people are dumb enough to film a crime and post it on the internet I still don't get

Beating anybody is an assualt, detaining them against their wish is kidnapping... No matter the anger never record yourself commiting this crimes, because it might hunt you later,. R Kelly and Bill Cosby are paying heavily for stupidity of many many years



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this is Africa a shithole continent where we behave insane

Kyase:

True, in PA Trump is currently leading with popular votes but may lose the state to college vote

how can he loose the state if he has popular vote?

Oladeji245:
pls what is turning blue turning red we just dey see 4 dis thread?

Its like wen u use umbrella for PDP broom for APC , red is for trumps party while blue for biden

If its turning red, its for trump ,if its turning blue its for biden. Check on the live update on google.

mman830:


So is it Biden thats loves your country and your skin color?

Besides, tell me, what was Obama/Biden's legacy in Africa?

At least one is pretending while the other is not

Don't mind them as if it was not Obama that killed ghadafi who has been holding lybia down with his dictatorial leadership, the moment he died lybia became a dangerous country. From slave trade of Africans to war etc. All the amunations ghadafi bought in now in wrong hands.


Trump all the way, he fights terrorism, during the time of Obama he let Iran grow even boko boys came to Nigeria.

This is wickedness, where the community go see transformer now , them no fit even ask government , same government wen no fit give them comom indomie palative na won give them transformer .

Nawa

I tap from your grace NOI.

Rowlandjude:
Seriously I have not experience any before and I pray not to encounter it.

Amen ooo

Mgbadike80:
Next year, APGA would present a
candidate with Obiano as the
godfather, PDP would present a
candidate with Peter Obi as the
Godfather, APC would present a
candidate with Arthur Eze as the
Godfather, Which party would
represent the youths? If you're
interested to join this new youth
movement, drop your phone number
so that we can move to a whatsapp
group for proper planning. Time is
still on our hands. God bless us all.
The platform is open to all youths resident in Anambra state regardless of your state of origin.Let's take over.

WhatsApp no fit contain pass 300 persons per group.use Facebook.

Military man come civil pass police.