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eph12:
Is your uncle complaining?

can a wife display all this to his husband within 1yrs of their marriage

PUSSYHOE:
The devil takes two form, money and woman. Today women and money are best of friends and inseparable.

indeed devil takes two form my man

Sometimes you will be thinking which type of brain this set of human being get.

Guys can you live will just that of woman or take her as wife.


Why am saying is because I am fed up with my uncle's wife.
She's lazy, self-centred, wicked and can insult beyond understanding not even a good cook.

I don't just know how some guys will not check their wife character before marriage.

Lavidalocaa:
See what you're worried about at 12 midnight

I tire ooh

How is this your problem op

Na your pregnancy

pedrilo:
bros no vex, if u already know wat to do, why did u come here?
u r very mad!

I don't understand

I can relate

This how my senior bros take win almost 10 girls in his favour before he found true love.

Something is wrong with you

rex444:
I really don't buy the idea of serving anyone but yes with the way things are going in this country,one has to survive one way or the other .... Just be patient,you have come a long way. Do ur bid and when the time comes you will become your own boss....it's in d Bible...before you are served ,u must serve

pedrilo:
endure bro, after the stipulated period u will be free and go away wit some money.
dnt let them force u out wit notin oh

I should continuing enduring being a house maid for 3yrs from now while my mate are out there hustling building customer base.

Where is dino there

Diamond23:
Same to u dear!, wish u well buh make sure u no touch him moni ooooooo

I don't touch his money.

I will keep you inform after I meet next month and his decision.

ghettochild4u:
Why will even marry a woman who won't cook for me n b dependent on my boy...
Hell No, I wonder how some igbo men dey think sef

my brother not that am speaking against but a married woman should care for her husband more than herself.

Can you imagine that since last year she had not clean her husband room or wash his clothes.

wristbangle:
How sure he would settle you when the period of service elapse?

Your future rests on the decision you make today. Discuss about your displeasure routine with your uncle and if the itinerary remains unchanged, it's better you quit instead of wasting precious moment of life gaining nothing.

even if he settled me or not am not too attache to the settlement. All I need is to build contact, customer and so on not what am experiencing in his house

Diamond23:
Just saw this now!!!, best advice xo far. Sonoflord come and carry dz advice tie it round ur waist nd let it be a guide to u why moving abt wit ur apprenticeship buh I dnt support d oda idea of ritualism

even if I will have to enduring this suffering it will never pass this year.

I have made up my mind to meet him and tell him what I have been passing through in his house. The highest thing he will do, is to ask me to leave his house which o will gladly do.


Good morning thank you for your advise sister

ghettochild4u:
Better u leave n chase ur dreams. No time

thanks bro

donstan18:
Mr man. I'm obviously not a type that will be touched with a well sympathy constructed stories.

Now let me ask. Will you love to live with him while you serve him or rent a house with your money while you serve him for years.

Our problem is that we hate challenges, we all want to be going smoothly. The single uncle you use to know is now not the married uncle you know.

Furthermore on advice; make his wife your friend.

ok Thanks bro

Lilisticlili:
who ever did this to you really hated your existence

you still get mouth the talk

donstan18:
You may have a point, but I still think he should endure to the end. Good things don't come easily, successful men v'got stories, any further attempt to cause fracas between him and his uncle's wife might have his past years of services wasted.


You haven't answered me. If your project supervisor give you a work to do, will you tell him/her that you are not a slave, that the mentality needs to be dropped?

I wan make you lie now make ogun kill you

there's no good thing am going to see than 1000000 afterwards.

Have you been in a situation that destabilize your emotions or make you feel Dejected every day.

I have endure enough bro for 2yrs+ I had been enduring bro

RuthDaniels:
If you are not comfortable with your position,change it. Your destiny is in your hands

thank you for your inspirational comment Ruth

Diamond23:
i would advise u to have patience till d 7yrs agreement cux anything u do now will be used against u which may even leads to not settling u..... xo just endure!

they are destabilising my emotions and you say I should have patience.

No ooh

How much with he settle me with after 7yrs just 1000000 I could possible make if I was only my own. But that's not what am counting.

Eberechi24:
talk your boss first then, remind him again your reason for being in his house, if he care-less then you involve your parents.

if they are in need of house help, they should get one.

don't play with ur prime age

ok sister

I appreciate your advise sister

Diamond23:
Somehow u r right shaa ....but I believe he z luking for a reason to send him parking

Eberechi24:
talk your boss first then, remind him again your reason for being in his house, if he care-less then you involve your parents.

if they are in need of house help, they should get one.

NeeKlaus post=67790693:
C'mon naa! He should endure for 7 years? He should continue working as a "maid" for 7 years when his ultimate intention was to serve his Uncle business wise? No naa.

The best thing is to sit down with his Uncle and remind him that he is deviating from the original plan. If the Uncle decides to be obstinate, then he can involve his parents. Or better still, leave the house as soon as possible instead of wasting his prime years there.

don't play with ur prime age

thanks you guys very much

May God continue to bless you guys

I don't know how best to appreciated guys effort than to say thank you very much.

I need advise I beg you guys

Very bad

Because this is not related to sexual topic that's why You guys ignore or refuse to give your opinion.

Oga ebujany thanks for your advice sir

ebujany:
Was there an agreement between your uncle, you and your parent's? If there is,then you need to have a one on one chat with him, let him know his deviating from the initial agreement. Tell him your state of mind

Yes there was an agreement we made sir

Please I Need your advise to weigh the best option I will take by next month.

Good morning Nl

Please am sorry for disturbing you guys with what am facing in life.
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I am in my early 20's but it seems am losing confidence to make a decision on my own. 2014 I passed my Waec but lost the courage to go beyond waec level so I decided to go and serve my Uncle for 7yrs and after 7yrs he will settle me. My parents and I agreed on my decision, fast forward to this day what I expected is not what am seeing in serving my uncle and my emotions is hurting me everyday If I don't make up my mind.

Let me cut the story short.
When I first arrived in my uncle place everything was going well, I could go to business in the morning until 2016 his mom was shot but luckily she survived the gunshot. They made a decision that his mom will start living with him and I will be the one to take care of her.
I accept his decision and start taking care of her but another one strike which destabilize my Emotions and my whole life. He got married to a lazy wife that can't do everything a married woman could do, since he got married they have turn me from a serving Boy to his business to a house maid.

I am the one that prepared food for them every night, do all kind of kitchen stuff, stay with her at home and uncle do not seems to care about my mission in his house.

As am typing this am still at home while my mate are in market doing their business while I have been staying at home or going to business at least by 11am or 12am, since all this things have been going on for more than 3yrs my parents are not aware of what am passing through all this while only my brother is aware.

And right now have made up my mind to meet my uncle and tell him, am sick and tired of what I have been passing through in his house. Or inform my parents my condition or quit serving him.

Please guys I need your opinion on my condition, what's the best option to apply.

Please forgive my write up.

I need serious advice
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