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Seandisputed:
Thank God in the examples you gave... you said "daughter" and not "girlfriend"

It's the common denominator bro. I don't have a daughter, all I have had was a lady in my life whom I cherished and loved so much to the extent that I was willing to gamble my rent to attend to her needs. Love is sick. I've thrown my heart outta the window, I'm letting my head take charge of all my relationships hence.

WrittyWritter:
Not all ladies are d same ...And I am a lady 4 d last time

Wow, you're so awesome Okay, out of curiosity, would you advice your BF the same?

WrittyWritter:
A wise man was once a fool ..as long as u have learnt ur lesson..just never make d mistake of hustling to impress any girl..hustle 4 yourself and to impress only one female (your mother)

Volume please And yeah, you definitely ain't a lady Ladies don't give this kid a advice...

GLYCOLYSISS:
I deeply appreciate your honesty in these situation and the balls to own up your BS.
That's a great place to start from.

Know these and know peace :

Women are incapable of genuinely appreciating the sacrifices men make to facilitate their reality and feed their vanities.
You only got to learn it the harsh way, just like thousands of men out there do on a daily basis.
And I appreciate your resolution not to get yourself hurt again because of the flawed idea of love you where conditioned to believe, but what happens when you meet that lady that got oxytocin bubbling in all your blood vessels ?
Yea, " the one" ,as your feelings will make you believe, are you still going to remember your earlier resolution about not loving again ?
You see, apart from your resolutions, you need to go deeper and further to understand the way a man and a woman loves, and most importantly,understand women nature, and trust me,you will never regret you spend little of your time to do just that.

To begin these journey, just click that link you see on my signature,all the best!

Good evening..

Thanks man, I've been read your article once.. I even saved some pages in my browser so I can access it offline anytime If I may speak freely, I tell you, it's not easy to transition from a good guy to a bad one over night... We may know all the pills but if we're too soft to employ them on a daily, it becomes meaningless. It's experiences like this that hardens us and i tell you man, my next encounter with a lady will be about what I want. Not the other way round.

WrittyWritter:
Any girl who is with u BECAUSE OF MONEY..will always be ready to pack her load wen she sees a wealthier guy ..

That's why I'm a fool. I didn't see it coming

WrittyWritter:
I don't understand boys ..with all dat is going on..one lady will tell u she will leave u because u don't have money and u will still be begging her...Even if u become a billionaire..she will leave u if she sees a wealthier billionaire ..i

SO WISE UP AND STOP BEING A FOOL..

Are you talking about my girl or yourself or the entire female species in general?

DhanBaba:
You lost #78k and she didn't feel sympathy for you

It shows she didn't love you the way you love her

You haven't meet your type....

Hustle hard my brother....

The problem guys who truly love have is that, you love at times you need to hustle

I don't think so. She do love me but pressure is on her head, being a beautiful lady has its ups and downs I guess. She gets about 12 relationship request from well-doing men weekly. With the rate that Yahoo boys are splashing cash up and down on their dates nowadays, it's wickedness to ask her not to long for those things na. I'm not making excuses for her, just that I do not blame her honestly. I wasn't equipped for serious relationship now... I'm just gon' be a bad boy till I'm ready

PFMBabe:
Sorry for this bad experience. If this is true, I hope it has thought you to focus on yourself. Let your goals and where you want to be in the future be your drive. Save up as much as you can from any allowances or income you get and stop looking for quick money solutions, you'll lose money in the process. Hope your heart heals soon.

I just took a screenshot of this. I'm gon' print it out, frame it and keep it by my bedside Thanks dear, this is a beautiful advice

YoonSung50:
That's your problem! You and I know you a not just a fool but a big one.

The only woman you can please is your MOTHER!

You can't blame me for loving. I'm human and love makes us do inexplicable things sometimes.
you know Pablo Escobar? He burnt millions to keep his daughter warm.
You know Raymond Reddington from #BlackList? The concierge of crime, he gave up his empire for his daughter.
Its love bro, love made me a fool.
You can memorize all the Redpill in this world but once you fall in love, it becomes obsolete.

Babe was complaining a lot, saying a lot of boys are pestering her to go into a relationship with them. And since I've stop taking care of her, she's really weighing her options. "Yes, I do love you but a girl has needs na. If I tell you to send me even airtime, you complain" "All my friends' boyfriend are really showering them with cash... blah blah blah
Tried explaining that I'm a student, I don't deal online scams, I only manage to get a few meagre from odd jobs I do and I give almost all of it to you even though it's not much, exercise patience please.
So last week, I got my rent from my mother (100k), I decided to Forex it hopefully to get a little extra cash at least for my girl. After some reckless fluctuations on the graph, I've lost 78k out of it.
So yesterday, I told her and instead of showing sympathy, she got infuriated and told me she wants to break up. Instead of me to send her the money, I just wasted it.
To cut the story short, I'm a fool. No girl, I repeat no girl, truly loves a mediocre guy in this era. And to think I lost the money in an attempt to please her...
Gosh! I'll never love again

Vicyace:
You have to take control.

You have to define your fate.

When push comes to shove, it's your life Las Las. So if you wanna stop, make conscious effort and steps.

It's not easy o but start with 1 week nofap challenge and steadily increase it.

Stop watching porn.

Recondition your mind to be irritated at the sight of xrated images.

Pray to God.

That's the problem. I don't wanna stop.

Stewart883:
Yes I have been doing it everyday for that long but I don't do it more than 2 times a day everyday ( I have a very high libido right from my teenage years).

I have never been unconscious doing it before. I only do it 2 times everyday (Monday to Sunday).

Wow! Maybe my unconsciousness isn't induced by masturbation I'll seek medical help immediately. Thanks a lot bro, you just revived my spirit... I thought I was a goner already, I'm going 2 rounds to celebrate this discovery

Stewart883:
I have masturbated for 30 years and noting happened. You guys just make out issues over nothing

Did you do it everyday for 30years? Have you gone unconscious as a result of masturbating before? Enlighten me

purplecoco:
I’m not wishing bad thoughts on you. I’m just hoping you find peace with yourself to overcome masturbation. Yeah the feeling is good letting that nut out, but sometimes you feel like crap afterwards, which is giving you that suicidal feelings, so make peace with your self to balance that energy out

this is insightful Now I understand myself better, thank you

Millenniumlady:
If only you you're close i would have suck your d*ck this morning and give you two rounds before I go to work Better don't kill yourself there's more to life inugo

Haha haha Just know you're one of the few people who pushed me down this path... I'll never forgive YOU.

MhisTahrah:
You are addicted to it.The truth is, I don't think you can stop.But you can reduce the frequency, from like 5times a day to twice daily to once and so on.
Don't be unrealistic by thinking you can stop overnight.It would also help to have another person with you.

Thanks a bunch... I'll try reducing the frequency but I'm not gon' stop

purplecoco:
Hmmm Sorry. I hope you find peace. Is it really that hard to stop beating your meat

No it's not, I just love the feel that comes with it Thanks for the condolence but I don't really want it. Like I said, "If I pass, don't mourn. I died while pleasuring myself, it's a blessing. "

gregyboy:
Our ladies should help him out with free pussy

I'm quite picky I want Millienium.Lady

thatsleepboy1:
I self-service too and bruh, you're playing with cancer, hair loss, an unequal face, memory loss, ED, QE etc. And these things I mentioned above except cancer, I've noticed the rest and that's why I'm calling it quit. Good luck anyways cos it'll affect your future.

It's not a lie, I find my self forgetful these days... I had to change the password to my PC to a simpler something because I kept forgetting the previous one, took many attempt to open it once

thatsleepboy1:
Masturbation? I only see it as a problem for us guys cos I self-service alot and I'm on the morning be to stop it with an alternative. Maybe you need a partner or sth.

A partner? What if I impregnate someone's daughter? One thing I know for sure is that I'm not bringing my boy or girl into this world when I ain't got sh¡t to give 'em. I've thought of the alternative and it's a No No.... Thanks anyway

Chommybaby:
I just pray that this is not a real suicide note cos I believe you can still solve your problems and you still have much to live for....

I'm also fighting the same battle so don't give up please...

I'm not exactly giving up, I'm just in acceptance of my prepared fate Best of luck with yours anyway... Stay Strong

dudesexy111:
nigga I use to be like you before but one day I had to stand my ground and said I will never do this shit again...I am currently in day 97 of nofap and the benefits am getting is so good that I don’t want to fap again and I am also in self control of my mind now....please don’t give up you can do it

Thanks man but this lockdown have been making life the hardest and it's not easy fighting the urge to run into the bathroom every hour of the day... I'll do my best but whatever my fate is, I'm ready

Orces:
All you fools above, does the op sound like someone who regrets or wishes to stop?

Could you fvckers get off your high horse and stop judging people?
Like seriously, you dumbfvcks want to tell me you haven't masturbates recently?

Don't mind 'em, they are making it look as if it's a bad thing Would they prefer the alternative?

lightangel65i:
This is serious passing out while doing the deed lol.

It's probably a lost cause stopping during lockdown will be hard for you.
So just learn how to deal with your self guild, that's the primary step after you will overcome it.

And pray always spiritual things remove that urge, and know you are not useless or sinful before God, he forgives all even if you keep relapsing, he is there for you just don't give up on him.

One day we will drink wine in heaven

I feel elated, bro. But, I really do enjoy it so why stop? I kept calling this world a crazy one but nobody cares to know why Masturbation is my escape, God understands too.

"I believe if God is real, he'd never judge a man. 'cause he knows us all and therefore he would understand" J. Cole - Change


Thanks for your support anyways, it means a lot.

Shormiey:
Good luck bro on your quest

Thanks Man, this means a lot. Really

VickyRotex:
Get well soon!

I've got no reply for you. I hope you find your peace too

VickyRotex:
You didn't spell lala's name correctly, let me help you.

Lalasticlala

Btw, I cant be the only one that thinks/knows the op is trolling.

Don't ruin a man's solemn moment Moreover, I don't remember tagging you. If you wanna be skeptical, keep it to yourself but this sh¡t right here is real for me

suzzyboss:
Guy collect a workout app and work out... Put your sef on diet.. Avoid browsing for long.. Don't stay indoor for too long... If you don't have where to go find a handwork shop.. And just sit with them and chat... With time you'll get over it....
The time you fell the pressure ( konji) just start your work out.. Or listening to heartbreak musics... With the music you'll remember your ex and heartbreak will spoil the konji

Thanks man, this means a lot. Surely, I can't start working out in the middle of the night? Cause I wake up sometimes just to mastubate

dudesexy111:
Nigga you can stop this shit...it all in your mind

I don't want to. The pleasure is my means of escaping this crazy world

I started masturbating at the age of 12. Now I'm 27 and masturbation is still a crucial part of me, I've graduated from using lubricants such as soap, saliva, vaseline, ointments to using bare hands.
But my control switch has broken since this lockdown commenced, I can swear I've masturbated every single day since this lockdown started 2 months ago, there was a time I passed out while stroking it, I don't even know how much time passed before I woke up but it should be more than 30mins cause the p*rn video I was using to aid myself was about 70mins and it has stopped before I woke up.
With each ejaculation, I feel my life force sipping out gradually but I can't stop it, I love the feeling, it's the cheapest pleasure I can offer myself in this crazy world. With that said, I wanna wear my heart upon my sleeve and clear my conscience:
Scientists: I'm truly proud of you Sir, iffa pass, I'll personally hand your file to the Devil for assessment
Millenniumlady: I only had one wish, you could have made it come through but you ignored. I'll never forgive you
Lalalastica.Lala: You are my favourite mod
Pocohantas: I'm truly sorry, You're a nice person.
Ubunja: You made me a man. I owe much of my failed relationship to you. May you burn in the depths of Shiloh for ruining my love life
iLegendd: You're a nuisance to romance section albeit a necessary one. Keep up the hardwork.
Lefulefu: My uncle had a heart condition, the doctors said it was because he has a big heart. Learn to be wicked at times, people deserve it.
Greatresearcher1: You're the only one who swallowed the pill, the rest chewed theirs and now it has the bitter effect on 'em. God bless you
CAPLOCKED: I don't like you but you've got a brilliant mind I must say.
Luv9jawomen: You're the man after my heart. If I'd met you sooner, I'm not sure I would surpass age 20. Keep up the picture work.


Okay, that's it. If I pass, don't mourn. Just know I died pleasuring myself, it's a blessing.

Yours Truly,
M.G

Let me go another round before today ends.

Leave that thing, it's pure superstition... My Uncle has been fvcking since age 11, now he's 53 and still rolling hard nothing like destiny destroyed because you're helping yourself and other helpless ones around to relief pressure

I'm proud to be your student sir, more oil to your engine but be careful tho, 'cause it will be a huge loss if mama sends her away