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Karimalism05:
Accept my pm

I've accepted it pls

[quote author=Karimalism05 post=89237479]yes, provided he mention why he's apologizing. but if he didn't it'll be hard to some extent.[/quot

ikh777:
Perfect Evidence. Get a LAWYER or speak to an NGO that specializes in protecting rights and things will go from there.

okay thanks

If you have a recording of a rapist apologizing for commiting the act, does it make enough evidence to take up the case? Or would it be a waste of time?
Given that there is nothing else on ground to prove that a rapê occured. Thanks.

Good evening nairalanders. I did reach out to a nairalander rïyàgódess and she can confirm this is not a made up story. Also the mofo will definitely lose his job and may go to jail if his employers want, not for rapê, but I have fücked him up well with evidence.

Apologies if I'm ignoring any well wishers. I'm not reading any comments or mentions because I'm moving on very fast and don't want to be dragged down by insensitive posts. I didn't do anything that has never been done and some people here have made worse decisions. Thanks.

Graxie:
Where were your parents when you were camping with a man in this lock down season? You went to stay with a man that is not your brother and because you are a virgin, you can arouse him and then seal it up with its painful. You enabled the rape, you people should have regards for your bodies. Meanwhile go to the hospital to treat yourself and prevent pregnancy, don't come here with I was raped and pregnant and I don't know what to do story.

I don't live in my parents house. I live close to the school where I'm doing my masters and working. My parents know who I'm dating. I don't think I was wrong to trust my "lover" not to rapè me under any circumstances. I only trusted the wrong person. I'm 24 and educated. I'm not a baby. I know how to not get pregnant. I didn't ask for advice. I will not be blamed more than necessary.

I should have used the diary section instead of here, to serve the purpose. I just wanted to get it off my chest, my fault or not, not to gather sympathy or for the guy to be attacked. I know my mistake but some people here actually think I should I shouldn't talk at all because I was at his house. That's insensitive and messed up.

I created this thread because I needed to talk immediately. And I felt better. Fortunately, the two people I told this morning blamed me for my part but they are the right people to tell because they will mess up the guy. Even if I have no case in court, he will live a troubled life for quite some time.

As for me I know I will be fine in no time. I will see it as just bad séx. I have what it takes to make him lose his job and I will do it , if that is the only thing I can do myself .

Staying longer and reading some comments will traumatize me more than the violence and I have to move on asap.

donpata:
Oga, the major reason this guy succeeded was cos she let him. He slapped her and that was it. A part of her was still telling her, "he's your bf after all." I still insist that it ain't easy to rape a woman. Even two men will have to struggle to do that. I have seen a video where 3 guys couldn't succeed cos the lady simply didn't let them. I understand she was naive but the earliest attempt is sufficient to force her to leave the house. Even with gagging, she could still scream. Abi he taped her mouth?
I believe less of the story tough.

I don't know if you read in my post that the first thing he did was gag me with a cloth while I was sleeping, holding my hands to the back with just one of his own. He is big. Once I was gagged he tied the hands to the back. Indont know if I mentioned this in my post but I don't want to check that that post again. Of course I resisted what was about to happen but only so much, with no hands to use while struggling to breathe at the same time. I was mouthing "please" with cloth firmly secured in my mouth. He not only slapped me but held a pillow on my face to make me stop. I'm very slim. I'm tall at about 5'11 or 6feet but he is much taller and weighs far more. I'm the one that knows what the experience was and I insist that I couldn't fight him off. You cant blame me for not fighting him off. You can only blame for not running away in the afternoon, or for being there in the first place.

I'm not surprised that some people think I made up the story. I advertise things here on Nairaland with my main monicker. My phone number and first name are all over my posts. That is why I created a new account. I will be willing to unghost to any mature person that wants to talk to me privately.

Good morning and thanks for the comments. I have some stained tissue paper that I kept in a nylon for evidence. It seems me living in his house for about 4 days now, not being the first or second time, I have no case. I will only be reminded that I share the blame. I do want him to suffer though so I will tell someone that knows me first and see how it goes

I'm extremely introverted. It has always affected my relationships with people; family, colleagues, and lovers. I've not been in a real relationship before because of my communication issues. So I thought at 24 years, I need to learn how to be in relationship if I get a good guy. My female classmates are married or engaged and I felt left behind
I met my guy and started staying days in his house at a go. I thought it was for the best. He is a good guy even though very broke. Honestly I put myself in this situation.
We would make out but because I was a virgin, coupled with the fact that I have extremely low sex drive, I always told him to stop when it gets to that point. Even his finger hurt like crazy. It caused little quarells but he always told me he would never force it because he loves me.
So this afternoon we were making out as usual and he started touching me down there. It was so dry and it hurt like crazy, as if the skin was peeling off. I think the fan contributed to the dry ess. Anyway I begged him to stop but he wouldn't and I was almost crying. He started trying to force his dickk in but it didn't enter. All the while, I was begging him while trying not to attract neighbors. It got so painful that I bit his arm very hard and that was when he stopped.

He was very very angry, asking what I did that for. I told him he put me through a lot of pain. He went out and came back at night. I saw he was still angry so I slept in the living room, trying to be understanding and not piss him off further. He came and lovingly moved me to the bedroom. I thought all was well and dozed off.

Only to feel my mouth being gagged all of a sudden. I was still confused because I never expected such a thing. He said he had been thinking of what to do to me for biting him. He put clothes in my mouth and tied my mouth very tight, bound my arms together at the back, forced my legs open. I was crying and begging not to let it be like that but he slapped my face.

He grabbed oil and poured it and began forcing his dick inside until it entered and he rapedd me. I just waited helplessly for it to be over. I bled so much. I cried in the bathroom and came out to leave. He started begging, saying he loves me, etc.

I wanted to WhatsApp my dad to tell him something terrible just happened to me but my heart broke when I saw his picture. My parents really tried.

I just wanted to pour out my feelings in this post. I already know it was my fault even though I feel robbed. I would have given it to him if he had been patient. I hope to get over it soon. Typing with tears. I will shamefully get something at the pharmacy in the morning so that I don't get pregnant