₦airaland Forum

jeromestarks:
Why didn't you marry a virgin?
Why didn't you divorce her immediately you saw evidence of cheating?
Why did you have to call the ex? (As in for what exactly?)
These are the things that made me call you an idiot. But it's not too late though. I take back the insult because you have promised to disolve the marriage.
Please if you can, take the baby after she delivers it anywhere. Make sure you always tell the child what the mother did so that s/he would know that whoring is not good.
Good luck my friend.

You don't get the story,she has given birth already.The baby is almost 2 years now .All her sex excapade with her ex happen 2 years ago when we just newly married.I just got to know through WhatsApp back up chat with her ex.She didn't do it now.

jeromestarks:
God forbid!
An idiot like you can never be my brother.
My mama no born mumu.
Marry a virgin, you no hear. Now see your life.
Mumu still dey wait make she fvck the guy again before hin divorce the ashawo. Chayiii.
Person wey curse you don die. No redemption for you.

why calling me an idiot on issue I can't control?That she cheat with me her ex is my fault.I am not saying I will not disolve the marriage anytime soon but I need time and money before doing that
People like you make matters worst.Any way thanks for your input

henrimoto:
@ op. Which of the tribes in southern kaduna is she from ?

Bajju

We4all:
Hmnnn…. I am baffled that despite catching her red handed, you still want to continue with her. Let me ask you a simple question: ‘If you were financially buoyant, would you have forgiven her so easily’?

no, definitely no,am just too broke to cater for my kids alone

Acidbath:
This story has lies written all over it.

Wait for your fellow f@gg0+s Redpillers to come and tell you stuff so you can w@nk to them this nyt.

if whatever I write up there that my wife cheat with her ex is lie, then I should not see tomorrow.I am sad

Rosrozz:
It seems this nairaland redpill movement is not making impact � � � considering the kind of marital wahala we read on here recently. Married women just cheating woto woto giving the men back to back. My advise to both men and women, never marry a wayward person irrespective of the gender if you wish to live long and happily.

I don't really she is like that ,she always talks about going to church every now and then,I don't doubt her but till this happened.

Vikkoh:
What other advice do you want Bros?

She was pregnant and was still collecting from her EX?
That's the height of it my brother.

You can't cope with someone like that and if you decide to manage the situation hoping she'd change, kindly write down your will and carefully allocate your properties to your Child/Children cos she'll lead you to your grave in years to come.

Dump her sorry a$$ and take care of your children the best way you can.
Forget what the society would say. Your life and sanity matters and you shouldn't joke with that.

Meanwhile, don't listen to the Righteousness guy.
Him go start to dey explain how your story is a sign of end time .

Appreciate alot for this,I also got to know that her last encounter with him was 2020 when we just married.She is seating on gun powder now to be sincere.I am really buoyant to be a single dad but soon I will take decision.Honestly I don't see as wife again

2special:
Yeah cuz it's so obvious

just pray you don't walk my work.Are you blaming me for her promiscuous life?Do you read the story sir?Do you know me real life?Why all this sir?

2special:
oh sorry but you're passing through anything

ok

2special:
I will be making Jest of you but I don't pray to have a brother like you.

just be careful with words you use with me,you don't know what I am passing through

I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.

I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.

Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.

On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!

I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.

This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.

Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.

If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.

Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.