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Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Soylife(m): 12:47pm On May 06, 2023
inches LG LCD television.....55k(sold)

26inches LG plasma tv(comes with hanger).....26k

32inches Toshiba plasma television(comes with hanger and TV guide).....38k

30inches philips plasma television(comes with hanger)....28k

Long padded benches(3pieces)......18k

43inches LG plasma television....50k(sold)

Nokia 5.3(4gb ram 64gb ROM,6.5' screen, android 12,4100mah,very good camera)....65k

Infinix hot 10(2gb 32gb 5000mah)....45k(sold)

Infinix hot 8(2gb,32gb,5000mah)....40k(sold)

All are in good condition

Serious buyers only
Location is festac Lagos

WhatsApp09013065727 09016370001
RomanceRe: 1gb Data Giveaway. by Soylife(m): 6:48am On May 05, 2023
Silentgroper:
I went through both threads and I discovered that the requirement needed to get both amounts of data are the same .. some people did all of these for 500mb .. now some are going to do the same for something higher ..


feels like cheating.. it's either the one doing these for 1gig are given more task or the ones that did the same for 500mb are topped up ...
Na wa,people dey o
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Soylife(m): 6:32am On May 05, 2023
inches LG LCD television.....55k(sold)

26inches LG plasma tv(comes with hanger).....26k

32inches Toshiba plasma television(comes with hanger and TV guide).....38k

30inches philips plasma television(comes with hanger)....28k

Long padded benches(3pieces)......18k

43inches LG plasma television....50k(sold)

Nokia 5.3(4gb ram 64gb ROM,6.5' screen, android 12,4100mah,very good camera)....65k

Infinix hot 10(2gb 32gb 5000mah)....45k

Infinix hot 8(2gb,32gb,5000mah)....40k(sold)

All are in good condition

Serious buyers only
Location is festac Lagos

WhatsApp09013065727 09016370001
FamilyRe: Share Your Experience Married To An Mbaise Spouse by Soylife(m): 10:28am On May 04, 2023
There was a day my roommate from mbaise was hungry and what he had was 200#,he went to my neighbor who was a student to ask for food, luckily for him the guy had soup,but no meat in it,my roommate used the 200# to buy four pieces of meat brought it back to the guys room. The guy had already made garri and was serving soup in different plates,my roommate collected his own soup and poured the meat inside the soup. The guy begged him for a piece but my roommate told him that the meat won't be enough for him,that he likes let there be enough meat in his soup.
This and many experiences makes me fear mbaise people. Their stinginess na high rating. You fit buy crate of drink for them,then ask for just one bottle from them,them no go gree give u
SportsRe: Erling Haaland Breaks Premier League Record For Most Goals In A Season by Soylife(m): 9:40am On May 04, 2023
yinkus6750:
Great performance.
His the GOAT for now.
What an impeccable record.
And still young at 22, the future seems brighter for him.
Keep it up.
The only GOAT in football is Messi. All other players that had or will have a good career are among the GREATS
SportsRe: Erling Haaland Breaks Premier League Record For Most Goals In A Season by Soylife(m): 9:36am On May 04, 2023
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SportsRe: PSG Suspends Lionel Messi For 2 Weeks over Unauthorized Trip To Saudi Arabia by Soylife(m): 8:43pm On May 02, 2023
Messi should retire,he shouldn't be disrespected by a common club like psg,if it is Madrid or barca or Liverpool I will understand.
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Soylife(m): 9:45am On May 01, 2023
hopefulLandlord:
pics of the benches
Chat me up,or you can drop your number let me chat you up
RomanceRe: See What I Wore To The Mall that people were staring (pics) by Soylife(m): 8:02pm On Apr 30, 2023
Nigerians are the worse set of people on earth,see someone that is hustling legitimately and they are trying to put him down. Bro just keep doing your thing, believe me when you make am,all of them go want gum body you.
You are looking super dope in your outfit
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Soylife(m): 6:58pm On Apr 30, 2023
43 inches LG LCD television.....55k(sold)



26inches LG plasma tv(comes with hanger).....30k



32inches Toshiba plasma television(comes with hanger and TV guide).....42k



30inches philips plasma television(comes with hanger)....35k



Long padded benches(3pieces)......18k



43inches LG plasma television....50k(sold)

Nokia 5.3(4gb ram 64gb ROM,6.5' screen, android 12,4100mah,very good camera)....65k
Infinix hot 10(2gb 32gb 5000mah)....45k

Infinix hot 8(2gb,32gb,5000mah)....40k(sold)

All are in good condition

Serious buyers only
Location is festac Lagos

WhatsApp09013065727 09016370001
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Soylife(m): 12:40pm On Apr 30, 2023
43 inches LG LCD television.....55k(sold)



26inches LG plasma tv(comes with hanger).....30k



32inches Toshiba plasma television(comes with hanger and TV guide).....42k



30inches philips plasma television(comes with hanger)....35k



Long padded benches(3pieces)......18k



43inches LG plasma television....50k(sold)

Nokia 5.3(4gb ram 64gb ROM,6.5' screen, android 12,4100mah,very good camera)....65k
Infinix hot 10(2gb 32gb 5000mah)....45k

Infinix hot 8(2gb,32gb,5000mah)....40k(sold)

All are in good condition

Serious buyers only
Location is festac Lagos

WhatsApp 09013065727,09016370001
PoliticsRe: After Goliath, Another Giant Existed by Soylife(m): 8:02pm On Apr 29, 2023
Gun no fit kill this one o,na intercontinental ballistic missile dem go shoot am.
SportsRe: Pep's Man City Would Have Been No Match For Man Utd Under Sir Alex Ferguson by Soylife(m): 10:41am On Apr 29, 2023
But his Barca team finished you guys in two cl final.
Phone/Internet MarketRe: Clean Redmi 10 6-18gig For Sale- SOLD by Soylife(m): 9:53pm On Apr 27, 2023
Daviestunech:
Going... Come buy peace of mind ooo grin
80k
FamilyRe: Should I Avoid My Mom? by Soylife(m): 9:37pm On Apr 27, 2023
BRATISLAVA:
Some parents aren't mentally equipped to handle children, and that's the thing nobody here wants to acknowledge. They are people prone to failure like everyone else, too. They aren't perfect people. Even the op isn't a perfect person.

Some people will say their toxic boss has made them depressed and suicidal, but they've never left their job. Quite alright the expectations are different, but managing a boss is managing a person, just as managing the failings of a parent who is also a person. The thing is that most responses here are emotional, without t even considering if his own mother was scarred by her own upbringing, if she has a mental health issue, if his childhood was traumatic to her.

There's no excuse for bad parenting, but people should understand that most people with antisocial behaviors are on a spectrum or have mental health issues. Cutting off, shutting down will not cure the child or parent. It's only covering resentment. Creating more damage in future generations. Empathy works better. Care, too.

The advice on the thread will not help anyone who doesn't want to conceal wounds and create more hurt
Parents that are not mentally equipped don't have business raising children. If a father or mother has mental health issues that is affecting their behaviour let them seek solution. An innocent kid should not suffer from issues affecting the mother. If the mother faced bad upbringing,she should seek help. There is no excuse here for the mother,she purposely causes rifts in the family,do you know this can cause permanent discord between two siblings. I have seen things like this happen. She should be the one bonding them not separating them.
If I should follow your logic,if the op should become a bad mum tomorrow she should be excused because she had a bad upbringing and people should instead show empathy towards her.
To the op,protect your mental health,if you think you have been affected by your mum's toxicity visit a psychologist
FamilyRe: Should I Avoid My Mom? by Soylife(m): 9:08pm On Apr 27, 2023
[quote author=Babastrong post=122791197][/quote]So you are past 30,your advice be like wetin pikin go type
FamilyRe: Should I Avoid My Mom? by Soylife(m): 9:00pm On Apr 27, 2023
BRATISLAVA:
When you guys finally have empathy, real empathy, and can understand why people behave the way they do, you will finally learn to accommodate certain behaviors. For all you know, he's not been a stellar child himself or he knows his parent has mental health issues. These things happen.

Instead he's come here to paint a devil.

Let him cut her off. Or whatever else is prescribed here. Many people work for toxic bosses for a long time, under much worse conditions but will never cut them off, instead they learn to manage them. But heavens forbid a family member does what they don't like. It's off to the guillotine for them.
You are speaking like this because you haven't experienced what the op is going through. Do you know what it means for a child to be going through all this early in life,parents are already mentally equipped to manage a child and all their troubles but a child needs all the love and care of the parents to grow into a confident person. Most children that face issues like this grow to have self esteem issues, depression and anxiety disorders.
Dealing with a toxic boss is different,I don't expect love from him,if he is a nice person,good,if not I work and go home but a toxic mother is different,her words and opinions matters to you. Do you know if your mum tells people that her child is bad chances that they will believe her without hearing from you is high.
What the Op's mother is doing is very bad because what she is doing would continue to cause issues and problems even after she is gone
FamilyRe: Should I Avoid My Mom? by Soylife(m): 8:41pm On Apr 27, 2023
Babastrong:
What if your mother has avoided you when you are in her womb?
you did alot of shits in her womb yet he brought you here.
omo get sense.
Nonsense!
No be the mama decide get belle,dem beg am,so bcus she gave birth to a child and brought up the child,she can do whatever she wishes,make she kuku kill am na.
No worry by the time you marry wife wey be chief manipulator you go understand.
FamilyRe: Should I Avoid My Mom? by Soylife(m): 8:27pm On Apr 27, 2023
BRATISLAVA:
Anyone having issues with a parent who listens to anything here will end up with a problem twice as worse. Or maybe stabbed to death. Or in jail. Or at a funeral that doesn't need to happen yet. A lot of people are lacking in balanced approaches to life, and unsurprisingly they are the quickest to give advice. Some are transferring hate while giving advice.

"Cut her off! She's gaslighting you! Ignore her! Do what you want!"

When you get old and gray and you are cut off by your children, because you will always be annoying to your own children, you will think harder about the right approach to such matters. Most people commenting on the thread are self-centered and lack empathy in their dealings.
The only person that lacks empathy and is self centered is the op's mother. You talk like this because you haven't experienced it. What makes a person intelligent is seeing things from different perspective,you may not have experienced this but imagine yourself going through this. We have lots of individuals with self esteem issues,depression,anxiety issues and in worst cases madness because of issues like this. It is women like this that drive their husband to heavy drinking.
My advice to the op is to run,cut off completely from her,if she has issues she is going through that is affecting her behaviour let her seek help instead of frustrating her children
FamilyRe: Should I Avoid My Mom? by Soylife(m): 9:56am On Apr 27, 2023
brain54:
Your mom is the real drama queen…


She sounds interesting.

I like her… never a dull moment!

Pls don’t query me oh… sh3 you know my blood pressure will rise?
It sounds interesting until you deal with someone like the mom in life.
FamilyRe: Should I Avoid My Mom? by Soylife(m): 9:54am On Apr 27, 2023
moadxist2:
Patience is a virtue, and the Bible says "honour thy father and thy mother, that your days might be long on earth". You can't bless her, she can bless you. You choose...
What comes after this verse? Parents don't push your children to anger lest you get their wrath.
Most parents na this verse them dey use blackmail there children or laying curse on them.
Phone/Internet MarketRe: Tecno Camon 11 3GB/32GB by Soylife(m): 11:45pm On Apr 26, 2023
danyx:
smiley
30k
Phone/Internet MarketRe: Redmi 10a For Sale by Soylife(m): 11:43pm On Apr 26, 2023
mosho2good:
Redmi 10a for sale at affordable price
Selling with all the accessories
Location is Lagos
Can be waybill to any part in Nigeria
4gb Ram
128Gb ROM
Price 68k
Negotiable
Call or WhatsApp me on 08104202801
Where in Lagos?
Phone/Internet MarketRe: Galaxy Note 4 With 32GB Memory 3GB Ram 4G Network by Soylife(m): 11:41pm On Apr 26, 2023
timmyblast:
Oppo A3s
16g + 2g
Lagos
08066880963

Note: Broken Touch screen

#18000
I will repair touch screen
Sell for 8k

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