agabaI23:
You actually don't have to believe it hun.

My dear, you did well, don't fall for all those that are criticizing you. Some girls sha!!!

has he submitted the letter or did u change his mind? PleSe if the company needs any services from a religious study graduate kindly hook me up, am even ready to relocate oh. The hustle is real, my dear.

AdaAda1331:
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my dear, please you sound like a gentle person. marriage changes people even you, please if your not comfortable, back out. I thought like you before getting married but right now I wish I didn't. in my case I heard lots of negative dreams yet I ignored them and moved in. please if his family is divorced it will affect yours. people from separated homes feel they can Remarry when their wives are not behaving well. please look for a family background like urs, please.

simonorkey:
Pls I need more explanation on this N-power programme is it a federal government permanent. Job or just a programme to teach people on vocational job... Anybody in the house to explain to me

Is a voluntary program to enhance the skills of Nigerians with a stipend of 23000 which will last for two years after that a certificate will be given to you, to show u have experience and u participated in the scheme.

Nnaabros:
I must have been among the first 10 or 20

How did you do it? Did u use a laptop?

halfricanadian:

I love ur signature so mch

Thanks

The bad guys have taken all of them. Opposite attracts

Heated arguments does no one any good because we say things we don't mean and sadly can't take it back.

When my husband annoys me knowing how he can like to debate I just send a long e mail stating clearly all my points no accusations, no fault finding infact I bullet the issues so as angry as he may be he can clearly read and understand what I am saying and most times that works as he now understands where I am coming from and we debate on a level playing field and sort out our issues.

You made a threat you didn't mean, he is also doing bragado he may not mean, hoping you will beg because if you self go to your parents and you are both called in you will both feel foolish in the end
Both of you are childish and hot headed talking and acting irrationally without thinking.
You self why threaten to walk out when you can't follow through? Why expect that he will beg you for threatening him? Who told you that works? If you make a threat be ready to follow through especially when you have a marriage situation where your husband has seen you finish and can easily call your bluff.

Anyway, since you self know you can't leave swallow your pride and stay, if you can leave you wont be here asking for advice, swallow your pride, stay and talk when he gets back or send him a message explaining clearly how you feel please no emotional blackmail be straight and concise in your message
Marriage is not as seen on African magic.

Send him a message straight and concise explain how you feel and how hurt the actions you speak about make you feel. Apologise for over reacting and when he comes watch his reaction and sort it out


Lessons learned I hope for you is never to make idle threats else na you go shame

I have observed ur name changes and no one can view ur profile on this forum

Gadaffii:
As above. Dm is open Thanks.
***The definition of "made"is subjective.

This ur name they make someone fear oh

udumosam23:
Terrible, my family left me for the village, they're not even back till now. I feel lonely, no light, had to go draw water for myself, do the cookings, wash the plates and cloths, guy women are trying.


And to think my wife has been doing all this alone with a baby on her back amazes me, she deserve monthly allowances.

When she comes back hope u will start paying her oh,

Equalizer:

Mbok no la click again ooo make thunder no la fire anybody... I've copied the write up for all to read and learn...

Thanks

Nawa

Hmmmm, tell us ways to respect with real life examples thanks

Dheartless:
really nice post , but for me, I will just go with a divorce .

Just like ur name

That game sha.

Skillfullulu:
I'm at level 765....

Hmmmm

Lol, Guy hope ur not annoyed oh

Brother, the love will die off one day then u realize what a great mistake you av done. HE SHOULD PRAY ABOUT IT.

How many times will this story be repeated.

Sex, sex,, sex everywhere

Brother, keep holding ur self. Premarital sex brings God's punishment and lots of set backs in life too, it's important you know this too. KEEP IT UP!!!

Hmmmm, it's serious oh. Get to know the cause and if the quarrels and malice can stop, if not do the needful

No mb to watch it.

EMEKA1MILLION:

Yea definitely. Cooking is tiring my dear that's why I do it once monthly. Rest of the work is to defrost when needed.

Nice ur experiencing it at least when ur wife starts cooking everyday, u will appreciate her.

ufotty2001:
it is easy to spot a lazy girl!

LOL, what are u trying to say?

EMEKA1MILLION:
if I marry na to retire from kitchen.

No oh, don't do that oh, at least once in a while u help ur wife. Ur a good cook and u need to show ur wife that feature.

Nice dishes. Ur wife will cherish you, weldone.

Ehya

Please you guys shouldn't quarrel oh, we are enjoying the conversation