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Money or good job can't buy you love but would help you keep or maintain a relationship filled with pseudo love.

This guy fit don hide money inside those statues o

I go for the most important of them all " Traditional marriage " and if she insists on court marriage it means she has "skeleton in her cupboard" according to your post.

And you have slept with countless married women Op. You no sure say you go first the married women husbands get heart attack so?

And they barely know how to cook..

TamedWolf90:
Why do I doubt ?



And I doubt too

It's not your fault bro, when my sister met my friend and I eating it, she just called neighbours to witness in case of anything.

After eating, I doubted I actually ate such

ok

Thanks op

Probz:
Did you use the Milo as stew?

Yes Sir. that was the only option then coupled with the presence of that one lovely stupid friend we have.

White Rice and Bournvita

Madam please check yourself, why would everybody hate you, husband, mother in-law, father in-law, younger ones, younger one's girlfriend.

Everything about you is just tragic or negative if your story is correct.
I don't believe you for a second and if am wrong please run away from that bondage you call marriage.

curse you in my mind then go back to my room and cry!!!

seunny4lif:
The British are like Yoruba people The Yorubas weapons is pen like British

I hear you Sir

FearlessDapsin:
Pls do.

It was about 3pm two days ago when I heard my dad calling for me to check who was knocking so I left for the door and opened to find a woman.

ME: good afternoon ma
WOMAN: ur dad dey house?
ME: not recognising this woman, I asked, which person u dey find? because most people mistake my place for my neighbour's

WOMAN: that ................ man. (family name) and I be wife of .......
ME: Ok, come in

She came in,sat down and greeted my dad and introduced herself to my dad without waiting for a second she started talking

WOMAN: Una brother (her husband) stroke don hold am for ground o

before my dad and I could say anything she dropped another
WOMAN: MY son belle don swell and dem say na ancestors hold am.

my dad and I looked at each other and the next thing we heard was..
WOMAN: and na me cause am ( they way she said it a blind man would see she needs help urgently)
DAD: madam thank u say u talk am quick o, so watin we go fit do for u?

WOMAN: since my husband dey suffer stroke and we dey far from home so dem say make we find any of he tribe person make he blow native chalk for my son body before the ancestors go leave am na him we say make we come meet u o.

DAD: madam thank u o, I no sabi blow native chalk but the only thing I fit tell u be say go tell our son say since u don come God don takeover everything the ancestors go leave am now.

the woman was so interested in the native chalk stuff so my dad told her straight that he can't blow any native chalk and if she doesn't like it she should look for another person.
WOMAN: OK make I bring am come make u pray for am
DAD: bring am come make we pray together

Not long a fully pregnant guy about 24-26 yrs was helped inside and I couldn't help but stare at my "pregnant brother" because I have heard but never seen such.
two other people came in too,one being the wife of a man from my village

PRAYER

DAD: God we surrender ur son into ur loving and caring hands, take control of everything and may ur blessing be.

FINISH.

Husband's stroke not by mistake.

Ask the woman to chose between beating and this situation and u will be shocked.

Op you are right in the sense that it's not good to show power or beat our wives but remember we have different traditions. I have heard many stories of ancestors disturbing the woman or the children and I kept saying they are just stories to maintain order in my community till I witnessed one two days ago.

Let me not derail your thread with the story but in conclusion from what I saw beating would be better compared to traditional things o.

if u want I can drop short details of the story.

You can check Luno wallet or Local Bitcoin

It isn't worth it bro

namdo:
spiritual discharge? well in life there is always a battle to fight you just have to figure out a way forward.

Getting to this position shows he's a great hunter, just that his bullet or gun got finished and as an African hunter there is always that plan B.

On a more serious note, the most friendly of all his companions is the snake so that shouldn't be a big deal for him.

dayo2me:
how will you feel like, if after you quit the relationship with the other ladies and your main chic suddenly or unexpectedly change and tell you she is not interested in the relationship with you anymore?

That's the risk in life, he should just pray he's not a side guy to the main chick

alexialin:
My dear, don't rush and marry.
Let him do intro this December sef, traditional end of next year, white wedding end of the second year. Biko don't throw your career away oo, because of I love you, and sweet words from bf.

Intro= December 2017
Traditional= June 2018
White wedding= December 2018

Which of the dates will then be the anniversary?

ladensmith:
it isn't about been fearful, but been tactical. The brave one lives to see tomorrow.

On point

interesting

They are one of the most educated people in Nigeria and at the same time the most fearful

Keep waiting o, wait till after Nysc self but don't forget that the blessings you take for granted are the prayer points of others.

Maybe you are not really ready to settle down with him.

Do as you please, na your life

Last week of the month + First week of the month= Girlfriend Sweet
Second week of the month + Third week of the month= Girlfriend Bitter
I know am wrong

Last week of the month + First week of the month= Girlfriend Sweet
Second week of the month + Third week of the month= Girlfriend Bitter
I know am wrong

disappear!

Op hope u don get the answers because schools go resume tomorrow o if not, be prepared to refund all the school fees, pocket money and house rent to ur Uncle, Aunty or Ancestors.

Fish or better still evil fish because it's bone got stuck in my throat for two days.

Angy55:
Not only movie, it happens in real life. I have a peep who has lived such life, she opened up to the guy, told him all the shits she has done in the past.
The guy was a learner/novice compared to her scores.
He still married the lady.

Till date, she still says "Thank God for giving me such a man who overlooked my pasts and loved me like I am saint".
But believe me 60% of guys can't deal with the ugly pasts of their girlfriends.

It happens, I remembered when I was about 12-13yrs a man's family was on his neck simply because he wanted to marry an Olosho from a nearby motel. To cut the long story short he went ahead and they are still in the institution called marriage till today with children. It all depends on the individuals and their degree of love.

It reminds me of a movie I watched, this guy asked a babe how many men she has slept with and she said 32, the guy looked at the lady and said " what the f u c k have I been doing with my life, I have only slept with 6 girls " at the end he still married her because of the love.