@OP, did you really say you tried it and it worked or you just copied and pasted something from somewhere?

@Op,
very nice and inspiring post. I hope we will have a larger percentage of Nigerians obeying what you have posted.

Reading some of these posts makes me wonder why some people don't see that unhappy people are people who continuously make choices that make them unhappy. They are simply skilled in making such silly choices and they have their spouses to blame for that?

I am happily married and I can tell you that I chose happiness long before marriage so I had no problems making the right decisions. Many people feel that marriage is suppose to make them happy.Nothing further from the truth. You are happy because you make happy choices and such choices include who to marry and how to continuously live with the person.

One very important thing that I must not leave out. If you are a person that is easily swayed by adverts/packaging you tend to make wrong choices. You need to look at the content of things even if the packaging isn't really appealing. Western media has made a majority of the world population to believe more in packaging than the real content. e.g you lots of people with lots of friends and posting lots of nice pictures on social networks. And they always tend to remember your birthday (lol). It will surprise you that those same people don't only look opposite of what they portray themselves to be but also behave completely opposite in real life.

What can I say to Abacha?
Thank you for showing us the way to China. But then no thanks because I inhaled that smelly fuel that you imported.

People in every society are shaped by the reward and punishment systems. People who do things right should get their just reward and those who do otherwise should get their just punishment. If punishments are too light compared with the wrong deed, innocent people are encouraged to become undecided, undecideds are encouraged to start doing wrong and wrong doers are encouraged to step up their games as if trying to outdo everyone else.

IMHO, if found guilty, he should serve a minimum of life sentence without parole. He has dashed many children's hopes.Turned many wives to widows and of course created lots of psychologically unbalanced people (you will understand this if you have ever been robbed at gun point.The experience lives with you for years if not decades).

@OP, you are complaining of "ordinary" text messages fro airtel. What will you say about a real call (night inclusive)from Glo number 4040 or is 0404 something like that. The call comes in, you wander if there is an emergency or why will anybody be calling you at night and voila ! It's glo number 4040 trying to advertize some bullshits or attempting to give you health tips.Something that you never subscribed to. It is really frustrating.

Easy to see the handwriting on the wall. Go mobile or perish.
Also,it is noteworthy that unlike about three decades ago, large companies now understand that small fast growing companies must be bought. If not, that small fast growing company will become the market leader and your major competitor.It may even send you out of the market.