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Truvelisback:
Which body did he expose? He was in a gym and such wears are expected. The pics coming online is the only problem.

Next time he should go to the Olympic swimming pool in Uniport, Unilag or Uniben to swim, wearing only a boxers pant because that's the accepted dress code there. I'm tired of explaining to guys.

I thought egg freezing is a step against future conception? So the frozen eggs can be awakened or heated up when the woman is ready to give birth? 🤔

I don't support the brickbat on him because of this. But again, I still wonder how Oyedepo and other men of God his calibre and building billion dollar cathedrals without raising a single dime. If at this age of the RCCG they still need to raise money for renovations it's really something to be ashamed of. He should have just said there's a need to renovate the church and people will just be donating. When men like Herbert Wiwge were there and even now that the wife of the president is a member, he shouldn't be calling for donations considering how he's been a target of online urchins for criticism. I think he should just retire. There's a time for everything.

sprints1:
am so sorry bro your moniker indicates male but you sound like a princess. So as a man I can't wear boxers outside my bedroom. As long as am not roaming the streets with it I don't think that should be a problem and besides if not because of the way people reason I will gladly flaunt my boxers outside. What the pastor is wearing is not even a boxer bro those are shorts with inner. Get a life and stop gooning on other people's business. We are the only species of animals alive who bother about absolute nonsense

you are sounding like the media aide of an APC politician trying so hard to defend the gaffer of his principal in public. Why was this brought to public space? Because he's a man of God. If he was a banker this won't be news. Same with Pst Paul. If it was an engineer who pointed a fake gun at someone in traffic, it won't be news. Unless you're not a Christian and unfortunately, most people arguing here on the defense are not really Christians. True Christ like fellows will know that there is everything wrong with his dressing I don't care if it's boxers, pants or shorts. But some don't even read their Bible.

Truvelisback:
Exactly. When i red the topic, I thought he was stark naked. Where they expecting him to wear plain trouser and suit there?

You people are not even getting the context. He's a public figure in a religion that preaches decency, morals and anything against seduction. There are women in that gym who will be tempted by the skin they saw and even himself preaches from the Bible passage "If any one of you causes these little ones to fail, it'll be better a stone be tied to his neck and he cast into the sea" So why using yourself as the very tool to propagate the exact same thing you're fighting against? As a pastor, not just a pastor, but a fire brand who speaks in tongues for a living, how can you be that holy and be exposing your body like that?

Dzzzz:
He for wear agbada to cover body ba😒

No he should wear altar curtain.

For a man who's rich enough to have 10 gyms at home but always go to the gym and as if that's not enough, he wears tight fit clothing to show some skin. You can put two and two together and tell where he's going with this lifestyle.

Let's just say he's liquid enough to run the airline if not he would have gone public since.

One of the hardest things for Nigerians to do is admit their wrong. They'll always deny. Even the pilot will deny not driving the plane on the runway and attempting to crush the Musician who I'm hearing the name for the first time. That's Nigeria for you. Someone will come out in public and say "All lawyers will go to hell" when lawyers sue him, he'll say "I didn't say All lawyers will go to hell" I was quoted out of context, I meant all lawyers go through hell on earth or he'll say AI cloned voice. We thrive on denials. Now this statement didn't add where the musician rested on the fuselage.

Goodlady:
It's never too late.
Late never it's too.
Too late it's never.
Never late too it's.

What did you take this morning you're supposed to be a good lady. 😂

Scarrr:
But you were already on the right direction, you were a backup singer for Mary J b , Brandy,Whitney Houston,Beyonce,Kelly Clarkson ...etc before then... include that part too so the 30's that wants to start their own music journey today can really think it through, that it's not magic 🥱

Don't mind her. People in their 30s will now hop on the train inspired by this not knowing she has some leverage. All those people who keep saying "I started with nothing" they leave out a lot of details. A friend lent them money, they had a family roof, one rich uncle made a call, they had a property to sell, or luck came in at one point and not everyone is lucky. We go de alright sha but not with the inspiration from others because they are adulterated.

The annoying part is those non virgins saying no sex before marriage. Pls what are you preserving? You already lost it, there's nothing new the man will enjoy in the marriage. The cockpit has seen many pilots so let this pilot get his dig.

LofP:
Context is important.

First, the guy isn't living in Nigeria. He is a doctor in the US.

Second, his wife is not Nigerian, she is American either Haitian or some other central American country, but she isn't Nigerian.

The guy just wants to pepper you guys and everyone is arguing about this.

The rich father in law he is talking about is just another American citizen living a great life in America, not under T-pain's reign.

See why I said context is important?

Yes context is good and we are arguing in the Nigerian context so allow us argue after all we are in Nigeria as Nigerians not Americans. We have to funnel it down to our dynamics and narratives in this subject.

He's been used as an errand boy and he's happy. Marry from a decent family where everyone is doing well and you're also doing well. If your wife's family is way richer than you and yours, they'll always talk about it behind closed doors, how much of a gold digger you look, how less of a man you're.

Eniolohunda:
I will continue to preach early marriage. You don't expect a lady to start carrying pregnancy at 45, that's if she still have a viable egg self. And start the stress of motherhood when her mates are becoming grandma and enjoying their second sisi period. Well I thank God for myself sha. I always say, its person that will design his/her life while God will solidify their desires.

This post was never about women. Women are better off getting married between 18 and 28 because of pregnancy and menopause - a limitation.

Jieta2:
He's just dishing out wrong advice, what can be more prideful than watching your children graduate from the University in your late 40s and early 50s?

The most important thing is financial stability. If you don't have enough money to comfortably feed yourself and three others as a man, you have no business getting married. If the money comes at 40, marry and raise your kids. Let them graduate whenever they want. If the money sit there sef you can send them abroad to graduate in 3 yrs from a college taking the early exit program in high school. So long as there is money, all we pray for is life. Some people give birth to four children in their 20s but can't train them. They end up miscreants to the society. If we can birth children we can afford to raise, crime rate will reduce and we won't be the most populous yet poorest black nation.

Almunjid:
Seventy percent of what you said above is wrong—especially the part about two consenting adults having sex not being a sin. I’m sorry to tell you this, but your conscience must be numb due to your repeated practice of fornication. People who are in the business of killing others feel nothing wrong about it because they are accustomed to it; they justify their actions just as you justify fornication. There is nothing good about sleeping with random people under the guise of “consenting adults.” Some animals behave that way, which makes me wonder if some animals have been reincarnated into humans—looking like humans but still behaving like animals.

As for your first comment, you spoke about maturity, yet you equated it with age—when does age equal maturity? Our grandfathers and great-grandfathers married during their teenage years, often before they were mature, and they lived with their wives until death parted them. Likewise, our great-grandmothers did the same. This alone is enough to dismiss your claim about age in marriage.

Marriage is not tied to age and timing. When you feel ready, go for it—even if you are in your twenties. But if you don’t feel ready, don’t rush it, even if you are in your thirties or forties. Understanding oneself is not a matter of age; a young person in their teens can know themselves better than a man in his forties who is still struggling. The same applies to financial literacy—it is not about age or maturity. Your opinion is fundamentally wrong—about eighty percent wrong.

What really affects marriage nowadays is not the things you enumerated; it is mostly the influence of Western culture, irreligiosity, materialism, and moral decline. In the days when marriage worked well, people followed their culture and traditions—not the lifestyle of Westerners, which makes marriage difficult. We destroyed our culture, traditional religion, and customs and embraced a culture and way of life that kills marriage. Even Westerners in their fifties find it hard to sustain marriage. We are heading that way too, if we don’t abandon their lifestyle and return to ours.


Peace!

You sef 90% of what you said is wrong but you're so convinced you're right and have refused to rethink your thoughts.

What is wrong about two adults who are in love and decide to have sex? Or someone who pays a call girl for satisfaction? I don't engage in both but I can't criticize it either. And when you say random, how random is it having sex? You think it's that easy that you had to equate humans with animals.

Age comes with maturity and more self discovery. You can take this to the North Pole and back and it'll remain the same. That there immature people at 40 doesn't mean age is not equal to maturity. The experiences I've had in my life at my age now, I didn't have them when I was 16 and these experiences have helped shaped me into a more mature man. Take experiences like traveling. Most kids below 18 are under their parents apron strings and can't travel. With age they can travel more and learn more about themselves when they relate with others. First time I traveled and stayed in a hostel I discovered I don't like sharing things. Some people are not allowed to date until they are 18. From 18 you enter the dating pool and learn more about love until maybe 28 30 when you marry with lots of experiences that makes you more mature. So I don't know what you people are saying with so much conviction.

femi4:
Maturity n age aint synonymous. You can be 40 n still behave like 21.

You don't want to use your pension to train your kids in the university

Why will you be thinking of pension in the 21st century? That's outdated. The goal is to build self sufficient business empires not pension. And yes, age comes with maturity. There are some things you will never experience in life until you age and that experience gives you maturity. That's why a 20-yr old can't be president no matter how smart he is.

Maeve7:
I agree. But the biggest disadvantage is that you get to have kids rather late so you might not live long enough to see your grandchildren.

I think I'm fine with my children. Grandchildren are not necessary. Some people have grandkids that they don't even see. People abroad and even here in Nigeria, some have never met their grandparents. Children is my priority, their own children is just an icing on the cake and I'm so good with the cake I don't need icing.

Who is Kwam 1? And why am I hearing his name for the first time?

The women be doing better like Arsenal while the men have nothing but past glory and sexy football.

Shows in his looks. You can't spend that much and not dance like that. He eats 1B in 6 months, rises up like a bread and dances like a showman for a circus. Osun is blessed.

Eze Abata by Chinyere Udoma. That song is gold. Should be number one.

Lere making enemies up and down because of Wike who can discard him whenever he pleases. What's his business with the renaming of streets in Lagos, not even in Abuja where his boss is the CEO.

Complete this road already! It's long overdue. They'll be there coastal highway will wrap up.

When you have too much money that you don't know what to do with it anymore you can just look at one toothpick and tell them to gold plate it then you buy it for 10 million and flaunt it on social media saying "I bought this toothpick for 10m"

Bahamas95:
Injection pain is just for few seconds, when the needle goes in and out.

But you see drugs, the smell would disturb me for a whole day.....It gets worse if I mistakenly belch.

That's not true. I feel the pain of the injections for at least 48 hours that's why when nurses want to inject you they ask which ass cheeks took the last shot cos the pain is still there. Which one is after a few seconds. Besides drugs after taking it you can eat bread or something heavy and the belch won't survive. You can also insert the drug in eba and swallow. What alternatives do you have for needles piercing your body and numbing the pain?

So your friend got the big ass?

fuckJones:
We're is the federal characters in his donation?Peter will never be president

There's no federal character when you donate from your pocket. He can donate anywhere he pleases. From South Africa to Russia e no concern anybody.

This is so beautiful 😍❤️

This is creative. Well done. Every problem is an opportunity to make money and that's why problems will never end.

His father is not on the list of top 10 richest Nigerians or even top 20. So where will the $Billions come from. Even Dangote's daughter can't brag on this. Abi his father is now Elon Musk?