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Back forward to yesterday, I was confided by a close male friend of mine about the challenges he is going through in his relationship with his girlfriend.
Both have known each other for about 2 months. He has always had his eyes on this girl till he decided to give it a shot,So he made out time to visit her place of work there he told her about his feelings for her but then she told him she already have a fiancés, He replied jokingly that it's not a problem as long as she is not yet married he only wants to express his feelings for her and do not want to come in between the both of them. and they both exchanged contacts there and then he noticed the said fiancés call her, both had a short conversion after which the girl went downstairs to get lunch he bought for her. This has always been the case,He always showers her with gifts and would always take care of her needs. He in question was once married but then divorced should be around 39-43 years of age and the girl is just 20 this year. they started dating 2018. The intention of the girl was just to *chop and clean mouth* but then he noticed how caring the man was and how he showers her with gifts so gradually she feel in.
Some months back the man proposed to her but then she told him to first come see her parent to know their decision which the man did,but then she noticed her parents didn't support the idea. how could their young daughter get married not only to a divorced man but also to man more matured than her. ever since then she tried drifting away from the man but then she couldn't still muster enough courage to tell him she is no longer interested. The man in return of all his deeds for the girl make the girl lie about going for choir practise Saturdays but end up at his house with series of marathon sex.
fast forward to meeting my friend she could feel the youthful exuberance she yearned for, both had great times out together But then she couldn't still gather the courage to tell the man she is no longer interested but after series of pleas from my friend she decided to tell him. She got the biggest shocker of her life when the man showed her episodes of sex escapades they both shared, unknowingly to her he has been making videos of both of them when they make love. She was highly demoralized and wept so badly the same man still blackmailed her to having sex with her that same yesterday. the problem now is that she doesn't want her parents to get involved I'm all these because her dad is short tempered and her mum would be totally devastated including the dent it will leave on her.
So please I need your suggestions on what to be done now??
thanks in anticipation of your answers
P.S don't mind the grammer

why must everything be given to you people for free

everyone claiming Lagos..Even sarrki ogbomosho man

luvmijeje:
Is portharcourt not a cosmopolitan city?

What you can't accept, please don't do it to others.

Because they voted for a candidate of their choice they deserve to be killed??
then you should go to oando and Oyo and kill the omoluabis that voted pdp

2019 General election came with a lot of eye popping facts.it has shown the insecurity and hatred some people harbour for the IGBOS.
A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE WHILE YOU STILL CAN START MOVING YOUR WEALTH DOWN EAST

Okoroawusa:
Three Things To Avoid As A Presidential Candidate


1.Rigging

2.Violence

3.Igbos


Thank You

I heard the north feel betrayed by SW

MetaPhysical:
It is already clear, even to the visually challenged, that PDP has lost 2019 election. This was the North round for PDP, which means in 2023 the party Presidential must rotate to South. In 2019 PDP Chairman was Ibo, from SS, its VP was Ibo from SE. PDP cannot and will not field Ibo for Presidency in 2023 if it wants to win.

APC promised to pass Presidency to Ibo in 2023 if it gets support and wins SE zone in 2019. We see now in this election that APC is getting even less than 5% in SE. So APC returns Presidency to SW in 2023. PDP will want to counter that and dilute the APC influence in SW by fielding a Yoruba for 2023.

So either way you look at it, either from the APC angle or the PDP corner, the Yoruba and the SW is the biggest winner in the 2019 election victory for APC....a Yoruba must emerge President in 2023.

you are not wise
APC fielding their president slot to SW
PDP fielding to either kwankwaso or Tambuwal
Now think again

BafanaBafana:
The area is dominated by igbos bros. The guy was branded as an APC thug.

the fact is if the guy had opportunity to kill anyone he would not hesitate to do that while snatching the ballot box.
secondly not only igbos make up that axis other tribes in Nigeria do including Yoruba's
isn't it funny that the security operative posted there are no where to be found??
assuming there is things like this wouldn't have happened.
they strategically left the place unguarded and prone to criminal elements

ifyalways:
I read somewhere here that he actually had an accident with his bike, fell and smashed his head before the mob descended on him as opposed to offering him assistance.

really if we are to go by the narratives here on nairaland, who would have thought ATIKU stand a good chance against buhari
they so demonize the man and tried to cajole the rational thinking Yoruba's.
that having failed they want to put the blame on Igbo's for their Woe's

stephleena:
pls let them be... very confused lots.. First they were angry with their Yoruba Christians folks,now its igbos

I don't understand these lots trying to make it look tribal no one is applauding the angry mob for carying out such heinous act but you shouldn't categorically say Igbos killed the man. these group of Yoruba Muslims are just wicked. simply put the man was killed by an angry mob

Investbrooker:
No need to curse. I am just stating the fact here. Remember 2015 election? This is what is repeating itself. Two Yoruba men were killed by Ibos today and many Yorubas will be aware of this. Those thugs were not there kill voters like what happened in Rivers. Violence just don't start. Violence comes from hate which starts from the heart. Gradually and gradually, they grow. This is what leads to violence. Ethnic clashes between these two tribes is proving to be inevitable.
It will start from Lagos and spread to other south east and south west states. Politics will be the cause.
Just watch and see

dude wtf are you saying??
who said the Igbo's killed him?
were you not applauding buhari when he said snatch ballot box and die?

GoTV:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, the Holy Spirit revealed to me that Oyedepo, Oyakhilome and that nuisance called Suleiman will forever burn in the hottest part of hell fire for supporting PDP. Useless bastards that keeps making Christianity to be a joke to our Muslim brothers

you are a conc Muslim
do not be shy of your faith

Hfavored:
Igbos has shown they they really own Lagos, Mr Bat was really intimidated even his boys ran for their dear life. One unfortunate opc afonja was stoned to death by gallant and brave Igbo warriors. Even MC olo was no where to be found

oga stop spewing gibberish
I do not know if you are Igbo but you made no sense

Investbrooker:
I actually wish it happens.
Ibos will have more casualties. For every Yoruba killed, 8 ibos would pay with their worthless lives.

it will never be well with your generation

using emotional weapons against Ndi Igbo will not atop them from exercising their franchise
quit being lame.
if I no ATIKULATE wetin I gain?

Like for ATIKU Share for ATIKU nothing for baba go slow

N6ix:
If the Igbo's are wise enough they'll vote Atiku.
If Atiku wins the election, with peter obi as vice president. Atiku might get sick like Yar Addua and may probably resign. Then that's when the real game of thrones with start.
Peter Obi will takeover as president, then the next move will be Biafra. But it won't come easily without making a deal with the military that is the country would be handed over to them Immediately after Biafra nation is achieved..
Vote wisely oo
Ndi Ibo use your upper!!!

Another ewedu guzzling fallen demon on the lose.
AFONJA Muslim spotted

whipping up sentiments it's not going to save your demigod aggressively atikulating

Atikulating aggressively

sai kwankwanso slayer of Gandollar and Yoruba muslim

topeorekoy:
That's y an Ibo will never be President. Ur internal issues r too much.

fallen demon,and how is your life better than theirs?

some people sha are very lame.
what will you stand to gain if you do not vote??
its a lose lose situation
you cried about marginalization
here we have qualified candidate
we have Atiku and Peter Obi who are aggressive entrepreneurs meaning more jobs
not voting is the worst option Ndi Igbo can ever choose.
killing spree,marginalization,hate,nepotism and favouritism continues.
Ndi Igbo must come come en mass and vote out incompetence.
fact Ndi Igbo does not hate Hausa Fulani.
in fact we supported the late yaradua massively.
Nnamdi KANU might be correct in some of his utterances but this time around he is very wrong
he cannot dictate to a tribe as educated as the IGBOS not to exercise their franchise.

OP please add Graphics pics,viewers discretion is advised

Fool! was the pilot an Igbo man
Afonja Muslims are so demonic.
for crying out loud it was not.
maybe you are afraid to accuse your masters

O TO GE in LAGOS We say know to the drug baron masquerading ad a leader. your time is up.