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freecocoa:
Nothing.

tell me so dat i can correct it

Oyind17:
Buy him a bottle of soft drink or softapple.

lol mrs carrot long time

naughtynaughty:
yes..?

100% YES

YES

tripplephi:
Women are like car. It depends on the product of the car and cost of maintenance.... There are very rich single overripe ladies that only need the ring and a man to represent as married they cost almost nothing to maintain.... Also there are broke high taste ladies who you will have to go broke before they know you are their man.

There is no fixed woman and so there is no fixed amount...

hmmm i concur.

IM SPEECHLESS

basbone:
It doesn't matter what you earn. If you cannot love and maintain your wife, as you would love and maintain that your dream brand new flashy car, then you are unfit for marriage.......

this is where the money comes into play, hw can a man maintain a woman/marriage/family with less than 50 thousand naira salary?

gabinogem:
With this harsh economy that's facing us, I will say between the range of 50-100k for any reasonable & responsible young man.

u mean both introduction,traditional and white wedding?

I WILL JUMP AT THE OPPORTUNITY TO MARRY A VIRGIN, A VIRGIN LADY IS UNIQUE,ROYALTY,HER PRAYERS ARE QUICKLY ANSWERED IN HEAVEN, INFACT OP YES,YES,YES,YES. "DAT HEAVENLY FEELING U HAVE WHEN U REALISE URE HER FIRST. ITS AWESOME.

DesChyko:
What he really needs to earn first is mental preparedness. Irrespective of how much he earns, if this is amiss, the cash is never enough.

In all honesty, it isn't possible to fix a particular sum. Some guys start families with as low as 20k, others are millionaires before starting up. Therefore, their expenses, choices and degrees of sacrifices are different.

From a personal point of view though, I think anything from #50,000 is decent enough to start up and prepare for a family of 3. Although the sacrifices involved are quite tempting, but insignificant in the long run.

Man and wife may manage as hard as they could but still live comfortably with the said amount, but the real sacrifice comes when the baby is coming. Ante natal bills, maternal preferences and preparations, and finally, the baby itself; the new expenses will comfortably dwarf what man and wife have been on previously because at this point, there are little options available.

hmm nice one

so hw may we help u? when will u release another cultural song?

jonaifame22:
Enough knowledge and not money, cos without knowledge the people are destroyed!

ure right but we are talking about money here.

tripplephi:
A MAN SHOULD EARN AS MUCH AS HIS VISION FOR MARRIAGE OR LIFE SUPPORTS BEFORE HE BRINGS IN A WOMAN............... WOMEN SHOULD NEVER BE BROUGHT INTO POVERTY OR SUFFERING IN THE NAME OF MARRIAGE UNLESS THE VISION IS WHAT WILL KEEP THEM AND PRACTICAL ENOUGH TO MAKE HER ENDURE....TILL THINGS CHANGE.

MANY HAVE BEEN DECEIVED INTO MARRIAGE AS THO ITS PUME, IF YOU DO NOT HAVE THE CASH TO MARRY KEEP LOVING EACH OTHER AS SINGLES OR DO NOT DATE AT ALL.. PERIOD

so how much exactly should a man earn before getting married?

Now, let’s properly analyze this.
Here, I am referring to a man who
is ready to settle down with a wife
and have a family. This is
considering the fact that the man
would take up most of the financial
The debate was quite heated and
interesting.
responsibilities of the home and
probably some from the extended
family.
Can we really put a figure to this
income? Let’s try.
A. Exactly or Below N50,000
Monthly
B. Between N50,000 to N100,000
Monthly
C. Way more than N100,000….In
fact, millions!
D. It really doesn’t matter
What is your choice? And why?
cc lalasticlala, dominique,lalasticlala

QueenValerie:
Not rude at all apologies. I'm gon.

Estharfabian ssoftappless the Op wants us of his thread.

a thread that has no aim or use, we have help him with posts to make his dry thread look wet, anyways im leaving.

Estharfabian:
Nah...You weren't atall harsh!
if You were Harsh, I would've commented.


I kept Waiting for someone to say something Worth Quoting. Buh no one did, surprisingly, some actually wanted my name in..

hmmmm but u knew i was joking right?

FRANKOXY:
BUT SOME LADIES HATE FREQUENT CALLS

YES ure right, i dnt really blame them, i blame d guys.

Estharfabian:
LoL!


No, You didn't. I love controversies. ignoring them is bliss!

lol i tried hard to make u say smtin harsh but i failed

QueenValerie:
I'll tell ya now...I'm newly 23.

hmmmmm im shy bcaus ure older than me, i am 21.

Sparkles003:
I wanted a sex free relationship cos i wanted us to know what makes each of us happy,how we could build the relationship without the complications of sex. Thou in my own case sex made me feel guilty before God as my conscience couldn't stand the deception of doing it.Which he agreed to but after months we broke up cos he got tired of waiting for me to change my mind and belief.

SEX wahala

Estharfabian:
I saw Your thread.

You didn't disappoint.

LOL i know i did, iv wrong u for a week now, right!!?

QueenValerie:
Noooo.You gotta stop cause it's wrong not cause me.
How old are you Apples?

hmmmm ure a good influence to me, abt my age, if i tell u mine, will u tell me yours?

QueenValerie:
No.But if you'd just stop preachin' against them it'd be so much better.

ok i will stop but its because u ask me to, u know i will do anytin 4 u

Estharfabian:
dude, I don't hate You!



I Love everyone! et You...

Queenvalerie, is he saintloveren? O,o

hmmmmm anyways team foreign ladies

QueenValerie:
The same.So stop preachin' it?

lol hehehe so u will recommend me to go into a relationship with nigeria girls? i prefare foreign ladies like u

QueenValerie:
She told you she doesn't. An I think she hates your message but not you.

hmmm so wat abt u?

QueenValerie:
Guy,I don't know why you think I should be flattered by that,I'm not.
An you don't hate Esthar do you?

she hates me

QueenValerie:
Provoke us

hehe never mind, so wats stopping u 4rm uploading ur photo? rememba team foreign ladies. "estharfabian is a local girl.

patrickgeddes:
meeeeeen.... .my ex can nagg for africa....she can even complain for d whole world.

LMAO

QueenValerie:
Don't tell me you saint?
If you is I'm tellin' Esthar.

hahahahaha honestly its me saintovern, just wanna provoke u and esthar

THIS GOT ME SMILLING! @OP are old are u?

KAZIBLAKE come and see ur mate