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Properties › Re: Classy Iron Works by stacyadams: 12:22am On Feb 23
How much is the least amount u will collect to do and fix a new gate in aba’ the old gate don need changing?
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Travel › Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by stacyadams: 1:37am On Feb 17
Spanishmilf:
There is nothing much to say, nothing much to do
all immigration are on hold cos of the ban or do you want nigerians in america to go and arrest trump. me reading their experiences gives me soo much joy idk why u are like this. there is a ban currently everything is on hold
😁😁 no mind that guy
Travel › Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by stacyadams: 11:23pm On Jan 17
CutieKing:
I didn't attack your personality,only commented on your exaggeration of realities in the US.Just learnt you are still new,its okay to exhibit that exuberance but whatever you decide to do with your life is not my business,your choice and i wish you well.
For the records,no state pays as high as $17/hr min.wage.
These are the issues, cut this unsolicited gratification down a bit.
Best of luck.
im on $ 20 minumum age.
Travel › Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by stacyadams: 11:18pm On Jan 17
Taal17:
1. Concentrate on building work experience and some savings. Decide what career you want to do and plot your way there. After 6months please look for other jobs that you qualify for. If your career gets more pay with certificate courses take them. Best to find someone doing what you want do and research how to get there. Chatgpt is there, use it.
4. You can open with both banks, as you progress you can see what they offer.
2. You can join the military, check out reserves as well. There's navy , airforce so many options. And they pay for school too. So it has its benefits. Find out ppl who've joined and ask about their experience. The math's may not be that bad jare so look for study materials. Im sure reddit has threads on stuff like this.
5. Hmmm I'd say 6months, regardless make sure you contribute something to the household whilst you're there. Whether chores or taking up some bills.
I answered about CC and so did AshiriStay away from women. Use your time to understand the ulture of where you are.
thank you very much for this wonderful piece ...i do all what u said on number 5,i will talk more on that later sha
Travel › Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by stacyadams: 8:40pm On Jan 15
Helpout12345:
6. My opinion is that you should avoid uneducated akata girls, they are in their own world. Educated akata are better.

7. You meet women and form friendship. If she is interested and likes you, she will respond. The only caveats here is that date girls in your economic class or higher. I can't over emphasize that. Or better still, f.irk only women in lower class and be serious with those in your class or higher. This is because of family laws here. That's a big topic for another day.

AND understand what sexual harassment and other similar offenses are and be very careful while dating. You will not run into women problems in America. Amen.
grin grin grin amen at the last sentence grin grin big amen...i dont wanna go down there
Travel › Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by stacyadams: 8:37pm On Jan 15
thank you very much for the write up..its very helpful
Helpout12345:
6. My opinion is that you should avoid uneducated akata girls, they are in their own world. Educated akata are better.

7. You meet women and form friendship. If she is interested and likes you, she will respond. The only caveats here is that date girls in your economic class or higher. I can't over emphasize that. Or better still, f.irk only women in lower class and be serious with those in your class or higher. This is because of family laws here. That's a big topic for another day.

AND understand what sexual harassment and other similar offenses are and be very careful while dating. You will not run into women problems in America. Amen.
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Morocco: AFCON 2025 Semi-Finals 0(2) - (4)0 On 14th January 2026 by stacyadams: 8:35pm On Jan 15
that one concern u
Kushites:
Atlanta 96 nko?

Or World Cup 98 where we flogged Spain and others?

See this man o.. angry
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Morocco: AFCON 2025 Semi-Finals 0(2) - (4)0 On 14th January 2026 by stacyadams: 4:05am On Jan 15
enemyofprogress:
I don't know why I don't feel any pain whenever the super eagles lose any match like I do whenever my premier league club loses their matches. Could it be that I was mistakenly born in Nigeria? tongue tongue
grin grin I rather read I896 evening vanguard newspaper that waste my 90 minutes on Nigeria team...the last naija team we had was in USA 94 grin grin
Travel › Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by stacyadams: 10:47pm On Jan 14
internationalman:
About washing our first paycheck; you just reminded me of Nigeria about how me and my guys made it compulsory for anyone to wash any little progress made with drinks. That country is fun. Nothing beats living among your kinds. Here's is even more fun on it's own, but for someone who's lived first 3 decades of his life in Nigeria, nothing can ever take the Nigerianess in me away. Whenever I see a Nigerian at my place of work, the way we communicate with joy in pidgin English makes the American folks jealous and at the same time marvel. Some even show interest in trying to learn it. I must say I'm also lucky to have a lot of Nigerians at my workplace. They have helped me a lot..

I go send you appreciation card to wash the salary 😂😂😂 you really try for everyone here.
grin grin grin grin grin grin i don meet togo and mali person for my work place..na the mali geh dey ask me whether i go watch naija match today grin grin ;Di no even know say them get match grin ;Dwhen i dey naija i no even dey watch their match or carry them for sporty grin grin grin the naija co worker for my dept don turn akata full time....na rap accent she dey use,,me never see who i wan follow speak pidgin grin
Travel › Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by stacyadams: 10:42pm On Jan 14
1..as a minimum wage earner how long should one do the job before moving to other things?
2 i wan join millitary them say i go write asvab which involves maths and me no know anything bout maths..i go still write am like that and hope i pass the fitness test.
3what career is okay to look into,?
4 i opened an account with BOA,I i never pick up my CC yet..can you expentiate on how to build cc..between BOA and credit union which is better to bank with?
5 how long is cool to stay with your host before finding your way to avoid overstaying ur welcome?
6 are you of the opinion akata gehs are to be avoided ? grin grin grin
7 how una dey take toast woman for here grin grin grin i .
Taal17:
Sure, you can go ahead and ask
Travel › Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by stacyadams: 10:27pm On Jan 14
grin grin grin grin
internationalman:
I just recently started working too and everything you said up there I can relate.

One thing I'd like to clarify is the popular notion that things are more expensive in the US than Nigeria. They usually do so after converting the dollar to naira. But that's a big lie. Things are really cheap here except house rent. I just started driving as well. For example, I get a full tank for my car for $42 and that's just 2% of my salary as a minimum wage earner. Now in contrast a salary earner in Nigeria ( above minimum wage) will use up to quarter or half of their salary to fill their tank. Anytime I enter DDs or Walmart like this I can buy up to 3 good sneakers for $80 without breaking a sweat. To get the equivalent sneakers in Nigeria I had to pay as high as 50k for just one. Imagine the number of Nigerian people that can cough out 50k to by a pair of shoes. If I lose my phone this moment, I can immediately run to Walmart to get another phone and pay in cash. Them nor born me well to replace my phone immediately for Nigeria? I don't want to even talk about food items. Quality wine wey only Yahoo boys dey fit dey buy for Nigeria and they show off after them buy am, if I show you my wine collections as a minimum wage earner you go run. My closet don dey full throway for too much clothes and shoes...

The point is a lot of things are just basic here that you don't need to be rich at all to have them... I swear to God almost everyone at my place of work drives their own cars. It's normal to have a car here no matter what you do.. And unlike Nigeria, you can't really tell the rich from the pour here. Everyone seems equal. I never still see convoy of politicians or rich people since I come here. The only people they give way to on the road are school buses, police, fire department and medical ambulances.

Like you said, here is heaven compared to where we are coming from. The only people that feel Nigeria is better than here are privileged people, not people from poor or average background and I understand..

I still have a lot to say though, but let me stop here before they come for my head.
grin grin grin grin ;Di totally forgot to add..i never go filling station join queue or them say no fuel grin grin grin grin
Travel › Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by stacyadams: 10:24pm On Jan 14
amen brotherly
LORDLARGE:
Congratulations Stacyadams,
God that did it for you will do it for me too this year
Travel › Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by stacyadams: 10:17pm On Jan 14
ecomallchemistt:
I just Dey chop Dey sleep , Dey chop Dey sleep , Dey practice for learners permit test.

I go my first trial for learners permit test last week , I fail am.


My companion na the drivers handbook now , I no wan hear say I no pass am.

DMV see you tomorrow.
hahahhahhhhahhaa grin grin grin grin person no go know say DL dey important here till u observe say u really need to dey drive grin ;Dcongrats
Travel › Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by stacyadams: 10:14pm On Jan 14
thank you very much for this wonderful piece,,been long i came to nairaland...very helpful...i have more questions to ask if you dont mind.thank you
Taal17:
Congrats on getting employed. It gives you your independence.

Good you see the error in installments payment.
Credit in the US is trapdoor unfortunately.
You get used to using CC and paying minimum balance and the cycle of financial poverty starts cos you look rich but you're really poor.

Save if you're still living with ppl and work on putting 6months of savings aside in case of job losses


The downside of capitalism is that it favors the employer not the employee. This also means you can lose your job ..with now warning. Many only get 2 weeks notice and bam.
Thats hard since rent and mortgage s paid monthly.
A friend who moved to Texas with family for work, was there for a 1 yr and bam company restructures he lost his job just after he bought a house. Barely got 1month notice.
He'd been in the US for about 4yrs by then
Travel › Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by stacyadams: 1:50am On Jan 04
Taal17:
To all the new arrivals, how's it going?
Job hunting
School?
Accommodation
Adjusting to a new land

Yes you have your Green Card, however it's not an end of itself.. it's still a privilege
Pls stay out of trouble
Don't Drink and Drive
Volunteer in your community - be of good moral character. , this counts towards citizenship.
This current administration has way more scrutiny on immigrants even with your green card.

Lastly, there's always work in the US regardless of your education level. Also opportunities exist to learn at your pace

One more thing, you can live anywhere so if you don't like the city you landed in you can move.


There's a thread for living in the USA as an immigrant. You can post questions there
i don start work grin grin
i dey drive my sef go work,bus no dey here grin grin
i dey save money to get my own place,to dey with some kain people no be here grin
they say make i stay away from akata gehs grin grin
here na heaven make no body whine u grin


nepa never off light grin
google map 30 minutes journey na 30 minutes grin
salary day ur money go drop for azza grin grin snake no swallow grin grin
i go buy wrist watch,,the guy ask whetther i wan spread the payment installmentsgrin grin grin
i bust laugh grin grin on top 25 dollar watch grin grin
police always dey on the road dey find traffic offenders grin grin
if them say cold dey here,u go think say na upper iweka harmattan...confam cold dey here ooo grin grin prepare well o grin grin
for naija na only AC we dey use for car .for here na car heater grin grin make u no freeze to death..
carry your african food come buh no meats or red oil..african stores dey here buh e dey expensive grin grin
before u leave find way cure ur conji grin grin grin grin if u come u go understand why grin grin
billing full my phone number grin,,i don run get number grin grin make naija people no kee me grin
Politics › Re: Best Answer Win 100k by stacyadams: 8:07pm On Dec 11, 2025
eejo:
Why do Africans especially Nigerians hate their country and says negative things about their Mother land.
Why do Africans support overseas football clubs and cannot remember clubs in their community
Why do black Africans women wear white women hair to feel like a human
Why do Africans sell everything and travel overseas to do a job they will not do at home
Why will Africans change the way they speak when in overseas to feel human
1..no future plans or glimpse of hope for the future.
2.no standard pitch here,insecurity,beating referees,poor marketing and corruption here.
3. the white man is a God to black man..they invented planes,phones internet etc.what did a black man invent?
4 to live the american dream or the white mans dream
5 inferiority complex or to make communication easier..the white man dont really understand the black mans accent..just like a black man struggles to understand a white man when he speaks grin
Travel › Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by stacyadams: 9:35pm On Dec 10, 2025
internationalman:
You did your road test thrice?
yeah in 2 weeks
Romance › Re: Do Guys Really Pay That Amount Of Money To Girls On Codedruns? by stacyadams: 8:44pm On Dec 10, 2025
you have not heard of gehs charging 300k and boys still dey pay[and boys wey dey buy iphone 17 for gehs......some guys sha grin ;Dquote author=Islandboi post=123179514] what people exactly? 30k for sex?[/quote]
Politics › Re: Burkina Faso Releases Nigerian C-130 And 11 Soldiers & Crew Members by stacyadams: 8:39pm On Dec 10, 2025
seunmsg:
Beg who? He should have touched them and let’s see how it will all end now. We don’t even need to send our Military to Burkina Faso. Na just some NURTW boys and few Civil defense go do the work.
as nurtw and civil defense don handle boko grin kontinu
Travel › Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by stacyadams: 7:05pm On Dec 10, 2025
grin grin
Taal17:
Honestly both of you have gingered me to start mine
abeg in the course of your driving test stop for pedestrain,stop any where u see stop sign grin grin grin



the werey instructor failed me inside mva for not stopping for pedestrian grin grin grin
the pedestrian sef never ready cross,him still dey lock motor grin grin grin na so my second test end under 2 minutes grin

u know for naija na pedestrian dey beg driver to cross road grin grin
for here na u go beg pedestrian to cross road grin grin

the first test na right of way fail me grin grin
i no be olodo grin grin na say i no too use car practise grin grin
Travel › Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by stacyadams: 6:59pm On Dec 10, 2025
aiguobs:
download usps app..sign up ,then click informed delivery....it will show your expected mails..some you will see the photos of the mails ur expecting
Ok, thanks
Travel › Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by stacyadams: 8:46pm On Dec 08, 2025
thanks a lot man..i have my DL now..
internationalman:
Since you are not new to driving, you are good to go. All you need to do is watch out for the signs and always double check with your mirrors and look over your shoulders for blind spot (this one is the most important). Trust me, they care more about these things than your actual driving skills..

In my case I hadn't even driven before in my life. I just got here August and started practicing. I only managed to practice for few weeks. I don't think if you combine all the hours I used to practice will accumulate to 6hrs. So I was still a little bit wobbling on the road as a new driver, but they didn't mind probably because they knew you become a better driver through experience..

What they care most about is the safety measures which are the road signs and mirrors checking. They don't forgive you if you make mistakes relating to these; that's why some experienced Nigerian drivers fail it when they get here because most of those signs are not on Nigerian roads. Hell, I know one who failed his the same week I did mine.

Good luck, man.
Travel › Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by stacyadams: 8:44pm On Dec 08, 2025
thank you my manci..hope you are doing great...i greet u special grin grin i dey visit that thread once once
overdrive:
You don japa? Chai so happy for you my brother.
Politics › Re: Christians Genocide: US Congress Delegation Visits Benue State by stacyadams: 8:32pm On Dec 08, 2025
God bless america..the greateast country on planet earth.......argue with your data
Politics › Re: Why Did Tinubu Wait For Trump’s Insults Before Acting? by stacyadams: 8:07pm On Dec 02, 2025
amazingspiderma:
U. S. wasn't paying attention, now they are watching.


From this point forward, Nigeria leadership will be going for evaluation in the U. S.

Una go explain tire.

I pity those who think rigging next election will be easy.

See the last minister of defence, no employment experience in force was just a school lecturer, and asking him to lead defence efforts in a time like this.
Joke..

grin grin jagaban never still wan sit up//this thing get direction wey e dey go..make he better sit up and take this bokoharam issue serios very.
Autos › Re: 2003 Model Toyota Matrix Xr Toks by stacyadams: 8:39pm On Nov 28, 2025
the price don come down?
Travel › Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by stacyadams: 9:08pm On Nov 19, 2025
internationalman:
I have an uncle who's been driving in the US for over 30 years, but he's scared of driving whenever he's in Nigeria. He usually employs the services of a driver.. Even fast and furious drivers got nothing on Nigerian drivers 😂

I had to do the driving stuff because most jobs here require you drive and a driver's license and most of them are in locations not in the line of buses and trains. They are as far as 20 to 50 miles. The city is too big.
i have my driving test tommorow..i don dey used to naija wawawawa driving pattern...here you stop at a stop sign,yield sign etc..give space in between your car and the car in front..i do uber for lag with our bumper to bumper driving grin grin grin i no know how i wan take remove this naija driving pattern..i dey forget myself sometimes grin grin grin i never hear horn since i come sef grin
Politics › Re: What I Noticed During Mass Metering In Aba by stacyadams: 7:00pm On Nov 05, 2025
jmoore:
Currently, there is mass metering going on by Abapower as the company wants to connect every customer to prepaid meter.

Most people are turning off the bulbs that is outside.

Electric stoves have been packed in cartons. In fact, any trader that deals on electric stove in Aba should better change strategy cos it is no longer profitable to sell electric stove in Aba.

Secondly, there is improvement in power supply in areas already covered with prepaid metre. Reason? Darkness is automatic loss for the power company. The era of people paying for darkness with estimated billing is gradually being phased out in Aba.
..how can I get one?am not currently in ABA..is it for free or paid?
Business › Re: Football (+/other Sports) Betting Season 19 ➜ ➜ ➜ by stacyadams: 8:25pm On Nov 01, 2025
RollinTNDA:
This fooo wey no dey drop game grin
grin grin grin grin na big fool grin


If na wetin go make u sleep well for night grin
Business › Re: Football (+/other Sports) Betting Season 19 ➜ ➜ ➜ by stacyadams: 7:19pm On Nov 01, 2025
grin a beautiful November

Travel › Re: My Trip To Washington DC from Lagos by stacyadams: 10:47pm On Oct 21, 2025
Taal17:
You can walk around the terminal, you'll find places to eat, use bathroom and wash up.
Just check the screens for flight status because sometimes your boarding pass may not have the most current boarding gate and terminal. Make sure you are at right terminal. You find chairs and charging ports as well
Thanks a lot Chief

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