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VenExchangee:
Good day Nairalanders, I need sincere advice.
I met a lady called Chinelo on TikTok around November 2024. We later moved to WhatsApp and became close. She is from Anambra State, I am from Delta State, and she stays in Asaba.

During the Christmas period, I suggested she visit me, but she insisted that I should come to Asaba instead. After some arguments, I agreed.

I travelled to Asaba on December 24. We met around the Coca-Cola area, stayed together in a hotel for about five days, and I later returned home.

About one week later, she told me she was pregnant for me. I was surprised but asked her to go for a pregnancy test and even offered to send money for it. She refused, which made me uncomfortable, so I decided to end the relationship.

About a week after the breakup, she sent me a message saying she would soon get married to another man and mocked the pregnancy issue. I congratulated her, after which she blocked me.
A few days later, she unblocked me and we chatted briefly. She later asked if I could come to Asaba so we could have s*x one more time. I refused, and she blocked me again.

On Sunday, February 1, someone messaged me saying they were looking for her and asked if I had seen her. I thought it was a prank but still shared the little information I had.

Out of concern, I later messaged her younger brother to ask if it was true that they were looking for her. He responded angrily and told me not to message him, so I blocked him.

This morning, I received a WhatsApp message from someone claiming to be her mother, accusing me of kidnapping her daughter. She threatened me with deities, said she has my picture, demanded that I return her daughter within one week, and said I would pay back everything collected from her daughter double.

No police has contacted me. I am only receiving threats via WhatsApp.

For clarity:
I have not seen her since December
I do not know her current location
I did not kidnap anyone
I am only being threatened online

Please, I need advice:

What is the best step to take immediately?

Should I report this at the police station now?

Oga, phone records are there and can be obtained via court order. Also, your location throughout that period can easily be provided to the law enforcement agencies by the telecom companies. You have nothing to fear.

Your own lusts nearly pushed you into it.

Putindbutt:
You even see wailers and Bitter people plying the road, the road they were calling " highway to fraud". People wey their shame no get shame... shamelessly shameless people. How can you be wicked to yourselves in the name of opposition.

The same way the people in power now were in opposition in 2012 talking all kinds of nonsense. You should know politicians are all the same and the sole aim is to snatch power and deceive all of you.

hopexter:
You quoting me without even getting a single like will not stop the inflow of Nelfund loans to Nigerian students. Imagine if those students where to vote, they will vote for who who didn’t provide them Students grands and stipends?

Stop lying. All liars are bound for hell.

HacheNoire:
British citizenship not working and his minions had to go get that of Georgia!

I remember those good old days before Kanu was arrested. His online minions be boasting how the UK government would rescue him if he was arrested.

One even insulted my person that, You think it’s like Nigeria where they don’t regard their citizens.

The rest is history……

The person insulting you does not know who was supplying arms to Gowon's govt during that war? Hahaha

A happy wife is a happy home. Receive wisdom.

lordm:
Must we kill and eat everything. We are becoming a plague to wild animals

Responsible hunting is allowed. Buffaloes do not have many natural predators in our environment.

You mean Maina is walking free?

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robosky02:
This CAF president wanted to please Morocco by all means


But Senegal learnt well from Nigeria...
Even Hakimi dey carry me dy towel hide

Watch the incident here. Hakimi was baited. He is a decent guy.

https://youtube.com/shorts/SebVw795pQU?si=YjiiH60mRs-3-C-v

helinues:
Diaz probably deliberately missed that penalty just to make the game to continue

They almost abandoned the game with that late penalty which shouldn't have been given because if it was Senegal that had such foul at that last mins, the referee would have over looked

At least , I was glad the Senegalese returned to complete the match cos they would have been heavily fined and sanctions for abandoning the game

You must be drunk. It is not even 2pm yet.

gerrardomendes:
They will now sandfill it, find one sweet name and call the area and then start selling portions at very exhorbitant prices.

Just like Raji Rasaki did with Maroko.

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WhiteIverson:
Why will CAF allow Morocco host WAFCON back to back??

Due to COVID, tournaments have played catchup with 2024 WAFCON being played in 2025. The original hosts were not ready and Morocco got the nod. The next WAFCON will be played with just one year gap. There will be no time to get a new host that will build stadia, hotels, etc.

So CAF opted to use a host which already has all those in place.

This heifer needs some weight loss sessions. Haba. How does he breathe?

Lovelink1991:
Portable should have known and escape the trap. But he fail to comprehend it and today they are charging him with a lot of other things which were not part of what he did to the woman

Threatening people with an axe? Is he crazy?

Most people do things they consider as normal behaviour, until they meet with the law and find out that it is not acceptable behaviour anywhere. Like the one who said he used a stone to threaten a woman whose car he pushed and received pittance as "thank you" money. He thought it was normal, until a police guy got him arrested and put in awaiting trial facility.

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brain54:
Over immigration and customs issues...


Not related to the extradition case filled against him by the Ghanian government?

This report isn't clear or specific but if its the former I think the US is just trying to play smart and beat around their own laws to repartrait him back to Ghana to face his corruption charges.

If he gets to Ghana. No how he would not end in jail!

The man is accused of using his companies to run the entire tax administration system.

TallNigerian:
Abi o. The one he is using to fund his lifestyle drops directly from heaven like manna.

Oga, enjoy your life and don't give us explanations we didn't ask for. Let everyone do as they deem right.

At the end, we will all face our creator individually, not as a group.

Some of us knew how Dunamis began. Those days in D-Line PH, off Agudama road. Very modest beginnings. Where was money to fund any lifestyle?

The same way people who see my wife running a business with 4 branches do not know where she started from nearly 20 years ago. Now they are making noise.

Dump him from the national team.

Siasia, Keshi and many key players made all kinds of crazy demands from the NFA then before the Italia 90 qualifier against Cameroon in Yaounde. They had to be dropped and we ended up losing that match, costing us the qualification. Those same players later had to beg to come back to the national team and that's how they made it to USA 94.

If Osimhen likes, let him go. We are not in the World Cup anyway and his goals have largely been tap ins. Onuachu is leading him on the Turkish scorer's chart. He better control his temperament or it will cost him dearly.

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kpankpangolo:
Believe this at your peril. The Swiss don’t care how you made money. Their job is to keep it tightly in their vaults. If this was true, they would have long frozen all of Abacha’s loot or returned them. Besides, these men have percentages of wealth which they hide under different names.

Oil dey your head brother.

WriterNig:
Maduro just met with Chinese officials less than 9 hours ago.

What is China doing about this? Because they have massive investments in Venezuela.

What can China do? Nothing! Their military has not fought one war. They do not want to be exposed.

WYZAD:
Rotimi is from North Central...I think from kwara South (Omu-aran ) in irepodun LGA.
His job with EFCC is well documented and he deserves whatever better appointment.
What he did during Saraki prosecution was superb.

"it is a sad day for our country..."; his famous quote when Saraki's bail was met with heavy applause.

Kaliningrad:
In my opinion they are the best kitted and best armed military in Africa. Do you agree?

I don't think there's anyone on the African continent more armed than the 🇧🇫 Burkina Faso Army. They're a proper modern army.

Their kits and rifles are specially made in Russia. 70% of thier military equipment comes from Russia, the other 30% from China.

When will the Nigerian army ever get to this level? Our soldiers are always dressed in rags, even the Presidential guards. It's sad.

Some of you just come online and display a baffling level of ignorance. How many of the strike units of the Nigerian military have you seen? Have you been inside a military base in Nigeria before?

Afriifa:
The man had always been a terrorist and an Islamist. Believe me, the average northern Muslim man from Professor down to aboki shares this forceful Islamisation agenda

That is his father, who died in 1992.

Hemanwel:
How on mother earth would you forget to mention Pastor Francis Awuzie of ZOE Ministry?

His crime?

He was caught pushing drugs.

Anwuzia is the name

Goo0dHardDick:
Nigeria has no business going to the world cup. We prefer everything backdoor.

Even Congo plays better than Nigeria. Congo and SA should go ahead in the world cup. Nigeria should be ashamed of itself as the ant of Africa

Why is there a backdoor? If you lose your front door access, you enter from the back. No be so?

Precious201010:
The first wife was from Cameron, she left him, every effort made to settle them proved abortive... And that's almost 8 years now...

So getting married again is the best option.... As for the lady accusing him of sleeping with her, if she has enough evidence that the man bridged their agreement, she should sue the man...

Is this from the bible? Why do you think Mike Murdoch never remarried?

This pastor has been married before. How is he marrying again?

God is typing them out of the earth one by one.

I am sorry to say that 99% of people getting married know nothing about it. Marriage is supposed to compound you. One shall chase 1,000, while two shall put 10,000 to flight.

Find out from the likes of Cosmos Maduka and all the men who have been married to their wives for decades from that generation, even when the wives are now deceased.

seunmsg:
I saw this very interesting question on Twitter.

“ So after burning us in hell what will God actually gain?”

What do you think?

He would have rid humanity of all the vile human beings.

ColdHunter:
As a matter of fact, from Mile 2 down to Okokomaiko axis have very questionable water. Including Festac and Satellite Town

Fact. The water is brown. Iron content is too high.

Benin that we went to help to put down a coup plot has pipe borne water access from the water board.

We are here talking of borehole water.