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Northkendal:
nice work dear..thanks

Many thanks

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garfield1:
Seems they selected more mature people this year unlike last year

Yeah

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trapQ:
It's not our fault your low IQ couldn't absorb it's very essence.

Once again, it's boring and highly overrated.. Kill yourself!

Get the fvck outta my mention!

Overrated boring movie..

Though nut to crack

Timekeeper:
Obviously u r the fool here.. Haven't u read stories of cheating with cousins and u bliv ur GF again.. Which kin mumu u b na? Her cousin come dey sleep her house and u think notin go happen...

Ur kin man sef na weak man u be... Dump her jare n forgive her. Don't give her a dime... I can't tolerate such and I pray it wunt happen to me chai he go pain me

Can you respectfully pass your message without being insulting?

Thank you.

Harddiskng:
Changes - 2pac ft you enimem

Its best you move decisively, no call, no text, cut off all forms of communication that would originate from you. Why?

1) Even if you ever make up with her, there would forever be that 800 pound gorrilla in the room. Trust has been tinted.

2) The energy and time you guys would use to straighten-up the relationship would be better spent on a new babes.

3) If you get pass three, it would seem to her as love based on conditions like she is on probation. She would feel suffocated thus the relationship still heading for the wall.

4) Based on number 1, the lies the deceit; thats just who is she. When people reveal their real selves believe them.

Move on bro, it’s necessary for your peace of mind and overall well-being.

Note: you seem like a good guy-man, a note of advise avoid long distance relationships (LDR are no relationship), never get into a serious relationship with an invisible “friend”

Many thanks Bro.
Appreciate

OKOATA:
What's with all these sissy niggas I read on nairaland lately. So at this stage of your life you are still foolish, cousin came to stay at your GF house for 5 days, she told you na my cousin and you believed her. Infact may thunder fire that your dull brain. Are you that ugly that you can't find another girl? Too many foolish boys on the loose these days. If she commit suicide make you join am since you be mumu.

Biko don't pass aggression towards me. What will you allow me do? You are obviously one of the bitter souls on nairaland looking for someone to lash on. If you no get better thing to talk about, kindly shut the fvck up.

stupidity:
Dating a girl thats schooling while your based in another state or based abroad. You try shar.

My brother, na from somewhere person go start from.

Auladimeji:
She told you that they had sex 4times what were you expecting her to say before.My brother I can stand before mountains and tell you that they had sex more than 10 times.


If you wanna dump her it's your choice, And if you don't wanna dump her it's your choice

e go don pass 20 sef and I'm sure per fvck go be more than 2 rounds..

funshint:
Its somehow....mistakes can be forgiven but when it becomes a repeated action. Then that's something else. Follow your heart but also listen to your brain. How much of this infidelity can you tolerate. What about when you get married and besides how old is she presently? Girls btw 20-25 do a lot of things. Infact someone says that's their "hoe period". Maybe we just need to accept that with the hope things will fall into place with time. And finally " Are you also 100% faithful " *winks.

She's 22 yrs.. I'm faithful, I won't have time hoeing around. If I do the same, I won't have any right to be hurt

Good day fellow Nairalanders

I met this girl last year July through a good friend, while I was oversees, we started e-dating and everything went smoothly although, we had series of misunderstandings during December last year but we resolved it afterwards

She called me and told me to me about a particular guy that comes to sleep at her room (she's still schooling), she said the guy was her cousin. I had to believe her because according to her, he is a cousin and I don't think they will be romantically involved in anyway.

The guy slept in my GF's room 3 different times that I'm aware of. He spent 5days the first time, the second time he spent close to a week, the third, he slept and left the following day. She told me each time the guy was visiting, this made me trust her and believed that the guy was her cousin.

My GF and I had a serious argument and misunderstanding this January, my girlfriend's brother had to step in and begged on her behalf. GF's brother and I spoke at length and I used that opportunity to ask my GF's bro about the guy my girlfriend introduced to me as her cousin.

Her brother told me they are not related by blood in any way, that they are JUST close family friends and nothing more and moreso, the guy in question once asked my gf out but due to the closeness of the family, my guy's mum playfully declined the request. Immidately he said this, my blood pressure increased, my heart beat increased 100x faster, one million and one thoughts ran through my head.

Though, I once asked her why the cousin always come to her room and stay longer period of days before leaving, the answer she gave me was that the guy is a serving corps member and whenever he wants to visit his family, he branches to her place and spend some time with her before going home (when I was in Nigeria, I do visit my cousins and spend time with them before leaving so I had no issues with the guy coming over if truly they are related)

To cut the long story short, I asked her about the true identity of the guy, she told me the truth and she swore that they did nothing during her so called 'cousin' numerous sleepovers in her room. I forgave her for lying to me and we moved on.

I got back to Nigeria last month and a source disclosed to me that my GF and her 'cousin' had sex more than five different occasions. (I don't want to reveal my source, my gf is an active nairalander)

I called her and told her about what I heard. She denied at first but later told me that they had sex 4 different times while I was away. (I'm dead sure it must be more than 4 times) She said they made out when we had issues during the December time. If this is true, they had sex 4 DIFFERENT OCCASIONS within the space of 31 days. (if not more than 10 times sef)

I'm so devastated right now. We saw over the weekend, she wasn't feeling too well, I picked her from her school to the school hospital and later brought to my house. She spent the night at my place and begged me all through the night for me to forgive her and that she is truly sorry for the pain she caused me, she also begged in the car with tears and mucus all over her face while I was dropping her off to her place. She said she is a changed person and that her life will be meaningless if I leave and that everybody deserves a second chance.

I honestly don't know what to do at this juncture. I don't tolerate infidelity of any kind more reason why I'm straightforward and loyal to her. I told her I have forgiven her because she wouldn''t leave my car if I don't forgive her. She kept crying and crying making passers-by wonder if I'm trying to kidnap her or something, I felt uncomfortable with the whole situation. The truth is that my heart is far from her the very moment she admitted to having sex with the guy while in a relationship with me. I find it highly disturbing.

How do I leave her without making her hurt herself because she may get herself killed once it's obvious that i am gone for good and secondly, if truly she's changed, is her sin really forgivable and forgettable?

claseek:
as in ehnnn..

Somehow, our mentality has been skewed to always choose between APC or PDP, even if their candidate is the devil himself.

Another group I find annoying are the ones that will admit that yes sowore and the likes are very promising but "sadly they don't stand a chance against buhari and atiku because they're not as popular". WTF?! If we all keep saying this $hit how will they ever stand a chance. It is our responsibility to give them the chance and make them the popular choice! Ain't we tired of these terrible leaders who offer nothing?

Nigerians lets give Sowore a chance ahhh!!!!

My sister the thing taya me o. Seriously, I have been following sowore very very closely, I watch mostly all of his post/ Videos on Facebook. He is the real deal, with his well laid manifesto I believe he will do us real good as a country.

I just wish all Nigerians were just like me. Buhari and Atiku shouldn't be up for debate at allll..

make una open una eyes Oo.. APC and PDP can't take us to the promise land.

spiritedtete:
Sowere is a misplaced priority... We don't know him... He should start from somewhere first... We don't want our problems compounded that it as right now...

If sowere were going for senate or state governor it would have been very good... But to start from the top... Is like walking with your eyes closed to cross the express road.

NB: look at banky... I will give my last 1naira to support him... I don't know him never met him. But I appreciate his drive to take over.

So recycling failed politicians is better than trying new fresh and stainless young Nigerians like Omoyele sowore, Kingsley Moghalu or Fela Durotoye?

I have seen them speak and sell out their selves, they know and have what it takes to run Nigeria.

if by 4 years they don't get things kicking or become lifeless then we keep changing till we get it right.

Why is Nigerian youth not looking at Sowore for crying out loud? you sure say dem never swear for us so ? May God help us ooo