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TMTR:


I hope you have learnt your lessons moving forward and won't start simping for the next girl you meet

My brother. I'm steady on my grind now. I've learnt my lessons. Obirin!!!! God forbid!!!!

Cypress042:
We thank God for your libration.

Another real niggar is back

My brother... The ordeal wansnt easy. Alot of brainwashing. The woman I think is even fighting spiritual battle for me is the one behind my wahala. She even lock me. Love nearly carry me dey go where I no know
Me fine boy wey soft con dey plan how to make kids with a slot of every community

Xggey

Xgge

I will not talk much.

I give thanks to the real red pillars on this thread.

Only a foolish man pity women. Women will kill you


https://www.nairaland.com/7223896/please-need-advise-im-going/3

I simped on the thread link above. All those stupid simps here that mislead me, y'all will never know peace.

I'm not proudly a red pillar. In and out. To hell with y'all vagina people.

Please how many views do you need to have let month to know your blog is doing well?

zed7:
If you've been having sex for about a month and you didn't show symptoms and suddenly you now started showing symptoms, she obviously cheated as the disease shows symptoms in men as early as 3 days to maximum one month.

This was my mind.

zed7:
Just to clear the air, gonorrhea is strictly sexually transmitted. The only logical explanation is that the disease has been in her before you met. The decision is in your hands.

But we've been having sex before I contacted. In fact we started the relationship with sex

Wow

Ola5TP:
Its possible she didnt cheat on u from the firt day u both start dating. Its possible she had the infection a long time ago of which she might not even know,, because gonorrhoea hide in women body system than men. Men sarts feeling pains after three days when contacted it, but it can be in women system as long as possible when not treated. So feel free, get it treated for her and both enjoy life.
..peace..

Thanks Chief. May your home remain blessed

OkoAnike:
Brother, did you hear people's advice or you just want your views to be stamped, this can be gotten in so many ways most especially toilet, relax man and Walk pass this and I assured you, you want regret it

Thanks so much. May God keeps protecting us all

Goodnigga:
Baba, it is hard, I will have said forgive her but forget her. However, a good girl nowadays is hard. So, treat her and yourself medically first. Be stern that you can never marry a cheat, if she is still denying. Don't be hasty to break up.place a watch on her, spy her WhatsApp , Facebook, calls. Make people monitor her for you. If you can find a concrete evidence they she cheated or is still cheating. Confront her with your evidence and bounce her finally. You need a concrete evidence to leave a woman that stayed with you for years.

Thanks Chief

Yes. I brought it here so I would not use the red pillars format to lose a girl that stood by me at a dying time. I know what I'm talking about. This girl covered me from shame.

Not everything I can say here. I know how she have been supportive. I've never experienced that kind of love before. It was so real. Until this infection thing came.

I'm not a simple at the same time. I'm just scared to forgive her because I feel forgive a cheating partner is just wrong. The only thing now is that she wasn't caught. The gonorrhoea thing is just making it look obvious that she cheated.

boxer022:
Since you have confirmed that you have contracted an STD which according to what you wrote is from her. I believe that it is treatable and if she confirms that she is truly infected, the two of you should start treatment immediately. As you said she has been with you through thick and thin, and dumping her like that over this is will be unfair to her, I believe that the best thing to do is for the love you have for each other commence treatment together.

Yes. Thanks so much sir.

ExudeLoveToAll:
Hope you have not started hearing from third parties called 'prophets' if yes jettison those thoughts. They are of no goods.

You will not understand. Everyone with their problem.

Dimples2022:
Oh okay… I thought you said you just had your first sex… if you’ve been sleeping together for the 6 months then it might be a new infection… like you said, you guys have been through worse so maybe write this off just this once. You guys get treatment and define your relationship. New start because love isn’t a walk in the park.Have a serious talk and make it clear that if you ever feel like you can’t trust her then it’s over for good.

Ma'am. All in all. She cheated. Stamp this

Dimples2022:
She’s had the infection for more than 6 months. Gono turns people infertile if left untreated so if you don’t mind that she didn’t cheat on but I had the infection all while you knew her… she’ll need serious medication and she should be concerned about her fertility. My friend had to get a round of injections and hormones treatment because she had gonorrhoea for nearly 10 years : she’s had 5 children since then but the threat was real and the treatment was successful obviously

Please be sincere. You're a woman. With no sentiment. We've been having rounds of sex for 6month now. You mean it hid in her system and I didn't get it during this time?

Stallionhorse:
Gonorrhea is treatable both male and female and gonorrhea can stay in the body of a woman for months without manifestation so think before you act.. Gonorrhea can aslo be contacted by woman by sharing toilet so she might not be a cheat after all.. Instead of you dumping her, take her to the clinic and support her to get proper treatments.. Instead of being stupid.. Your spiritual problems and family issues are wrose than gonorrahea she stood by you..

God bless you chief. She stood by me even when my own mother is after my life.... Only me know this part

OkoAnike:
Infection like that stays for a long time in a woman un-noticed, she can carry it for the next 2-3years without her knowing, but for man it's just 6-10 hours you feels the reaction,
Hence this could have been there Long ago from the past relationships, I'm sure the young woman didn't cheat on you, mind you such infection are difficult to treat in woman, therefore make sure she's properly treated and after a month go for test again to be sure all is clear, She has stood by you in your hours of trouble, here's her own hour of trouble, please stand by her... My little penny

Thanks Chief. Your home will know zero sorrow

Rajahbite:
Maybe she is telling the truth, gono and some other STIs can be gotten from unhygenic/dirty or infected toilets more especially so if the victim is female.
I will suggest both of you get treated immediately and abstain from sex for now until both of you are completely healed.

Op hold that gal tight . . . infact , go pay something for her head to her people before another manchi come snatch am comot for ya hands.

Hmmm. Thanks Chief

tayewomi:
gonorrhea,I've once contacted it from a bitch..Pls try to treat it early,it was kinda dangerous infection if left not treated for long...Use this trick,check her genital areas,if you see whitish stuffs on her..Then it's true cheating,but if there's no whitish on her genital,then Maybe she contacted it from toilet or elsewhere..Though not accurate Though...The other girl who infected me is a pit toilet,i collected injection for three days for crime wey i no commit.Both treat yourselves and move on.

I noticed the white discharge chief

ojun50:
See oh, give her another chance
Both of you should visit the hospital and treat yr self.

Try and rebuild yr relationship with her.

This I'm trying. But it's not also easy to forgive a cheating partner. This is a woman we've planned to have kids together after some while. We even planned to wait a little till my business stand well again. I'm not exaggerating, she have been 1000% supportive. I know this and that's what made it difficult

Haynnie:
Is better the both of you go to the hospital to seek medical attention. If she truly didn’t sleep with another man outside the relationship how then did she contact it?
I think you should tender this issue with mercy And seek medical help to know how she got infected.

Well, it is in your mind to forgive her please do. She has been with Yoh through thick and thin I know it's not easy but I feel she might be a good girl but she she should be truthful with you.

She's just crying and denying

I'm just confused. Sometimes I feel it's spiritual.

Lalasticlala

07kjb:
Dump her,those girls are never loyal

Please read all my write up. This girl stood by me in a very very difficult time. It's just hard to just dump like that. That's why I brought it here.

I'm in the most confused state of my life.

Please I need advice from mature fellows.

I've been in a relationship with this girl for 6month now.
We planned things together. And I swear to God. She's very supportive. When every family ran away from me. She stood by me.

Even supported me when I had some spiritual issues.

We've got plans together. We plan everything together. Life and all.

I will not lie. She is very supportive. She's just my kind. This girl have to break her savings to make sure I achieve some plans. Go broke to see me smile in my difficult times.

I've moved to a new apartment when my landlady was bewitching me. All my business dried up. She stood by me. Supported me in looking for another apartment. Financially she was there. Now I'm just one week in the new apartment. We had our first sex and I contacted gonorrhoea from her.

Now I'm not a simp I know this infection is a sexually transmitted one. She has been swearing with her life that she didn't cheat. Swearing with this. Swearing with that. I know it's all lies. Abi have anyone experience this. Because she was saying maybe it hid in her body system that she didn't sleep with another man.

Now this is the case. I don't want to dump this girl like that. I feel guilt in my mind. After all she has done for me. Please someone talk to me I'm going crazy. This is a girl that has fought spiritual battles for me. I know what I'm talking about.

Sammy101111:
Lol women will lie they will say they got it from toilet lil bro it is from un protected sex lol

.men body go give you sign the next day or before midnight

gonorrhoea is sexually transmitted

So the babe no they knack only you bro

Go and buy red and white capsule with dry gin
For now
And visit your doctor with your gbola
Lol

Please is the red and white capsule effective?

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