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Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by Bennysam: 8:41pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
SteadyGrinding:She may have contract it a long time before she meet you , if you love her treat her and marry her 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by CedarHoldings: 8:57pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
Wahala sha! Every time relationship! relationship!! No reasonable thing they talk about |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by Hed0nist: 9:03pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
Treat yourselves. Warn her never to cheat again. Gonorrhea is usually asymptomatic in women so she might have gotten it before y’all started dating. Also was the diagnosis made by a professional? It could have been a UTI |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by imagrg(m): 9:08pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
�Dick Son you sound funny. Dickson178: |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by imagrg(m): 9:10pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
Go do HIV test too. My friend treat her and treat yourself too even if you have HIV. |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by ravensckar(m): 9:11pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by Slmgirldippussy: 9:21pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
I want you to go insane baby so no advice |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by Rickmann: 9:22pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
SteadyGrinding: Truth be told , it can actually hide in the body for so long ,so it's very possible she didn't have sex with anyone while u both have been dating.. But in any case, If you love her and want to settle down with her like you claim, you both must start treatment immediately. My candid advice. |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by Peskid147: 9:46pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
It is treatable and also ask her to go for medical check up to be acertain that she is free from the virus,she might not contact it from sex, it might be from toilet and dirty pad etc. And also remember what she has done for you all this years. Note that it is very hard to meet a supportive and caring lady in this dispensation. So don't lose her. |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by okoroemeka(m): 9:48pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
SteadyGrinding:be reasonable,she can easily get that infection from a toilet,that's not a valid evidence to dump a good girl |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by BBBricks: 9:54pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
Use condom |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by Asceleb16(m): 10:31pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
Orgasmgiver123:This is exactly what i wanted to see... This is just the truth,some infections are contacted from a dirty toilet or even from bending by roadsides to pee... You are great, Mr rain boot |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by Orgasmgiver123(m): 10:33pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
Asceleb16:Normal something bro You are great too bruv 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by AgentGoat: 10:45pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
SteadyGrinding: What d fuvk are you saying. This should be the first time you are having sex with her. How could you know wether she get the infection or not before. And she must have dated someone before you. She could have been living with the infection before she met you. You didn't catch her cheating. |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by fineberry(m): 12:46am On Jul 13, 2022 |
That's why to just have sex any how they fear me..... |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by OMOJOHN001: 1:11am On Jul 13, 2022 |
SteadyGrinding: She didn't cheat on you bro, Don't allow assumption to kill your sweet relationship, I had such encounter with my babe and I was thinking she cheated on me but after thorough investigation, I came to realization that she contacted the disease through sharing of toilet. I treated myself and also took her to the hospital, and Again the best way to solve that problem is to tell your woman to get Palm wine, Let her take that palm wine early in the morning and use part of it to wash her VJ no side effect, all that whitish stuff will evacuate her body once and for all. Please don't loose your good woman because of advice from toddler and some bittered people. 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by frozen70(f): 3:48am On Jul 13, 2022 |
SteadyGrinding: You know what Both if you should get tested and treated Then after that treatment, promise each other to be faithful After that, watch yourself If you get infected again and you are very sure that you did not cheat on her Then you can take any decision you wish, even if it means ending your relationship with her We must learn to be faithful to each other for health reasons |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by MemoriesAndMe: 5:26am On Jul 13, 2022 |
Haynnie: At the boldened, men tend to carry some STDs in their system for years without noticing nor having symptoms of it. The women feel it faster than the men in some cases. OP may have had the STD first and passed it on to the lady. He wouldn't know he had some STD without the symptoms and getting tested, so it's not ok to blame the woman all the time. @OP, you mentioned all the nice things the lady did for you and never mentioned what you did for her. What type of relationship is this? Parasitic? |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by Connected1: 6:31am On Jul 13, 2022 |
SteadyGrinding:She cheated, I am glad you understand that. If I am you then I am sorry your relationship would be in the dust. Make her understand she cheated, don't feel any pity for her, I understand you love her, but if she's going to continue staying with you In that relationship means she has to live with that guilt all her life or she can better still go away. It may be from that hoeing she got enough funds to be financially supportive, personally I can't forget how a woman cheated on me, I would always remember her about it on every opportunity I get to do it, that's why I say women are free to cheat but they should never get caught. I am sorry sir, it's better to marry an unsupportive woman than the one that cheats, make you no go contact HIV or father the children of another man. It's up to you though, I don't think with my emotions, you can follow the advice of those who do or stick with mine. |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by Connected1: 6:33am On Jul 13, 2022 |
MemoriesAndMe:Aunty calm down. Gonorrhea reacts very fast in a man, I don't know about other STIs but not Gonorrhea. Moreover the thread is about the lady in question and I don't see why you want to hear what the man did for his woman, you are just being emotional. |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by SenecaTheYonger: 6:34am On Jul 13, 2022 |
SteadyGrinding: Were you guys dating from birth? She’s obviously had other relationships before you and gono is hard to treat. So it could be from past relationship. Do you guys really think that once a girl ends her previous relationship, all her active STDs will just shut down? Dumb her if you want, but don’t blame spiritual stuff cause that’s one thing with you Africans. You have no mind of your own. You see a good thing and you leave it and complain about spirits attacking you. |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by MemoriesAndMe: 8:57am On Jul 13, 2022 |
Connected1:I no be aunty bro, I'm a dude. I was talking about STDs in general - some show faster than others. Men carry certain STDs for years and don't feel it and the females feel it faster. https://www.nhs.uk/common-health-questions/sexual-health/how-soon-do-sti-symptoms-appear/ On your other point, as a man, I wouldn't like to stress how much a lady has done for me without mentioning what I did for her too. Same page? |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by Dowins1(m): 9:11am On Jul 13, 2022 |
Lol hahahahaha omo you see women girls ladies fear them the kind lie way this people get for mouth I still day laugh i swear |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by Nobody: 9:28am On Jul 13, 2022 |
What if after sometime u find out she've also infected you with hiv? your life ruined ..right? |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by SteadyGrinding: 12:46pm On Jul 13, 2022 |
Wow |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by Connected1: 2:13pm On Jul 13, 2022 |
MemoriesAndMe:You have to acknowledge that everyone isn't like you. People like me see talking about our deeds for someone as bragging, I prefer to say what the person did for me, then person say to others how good I am. Maybe you can condone a cheating woman but I will hate you once, no matter what you have done in the past, well maybe she got it via dirty toilet system, but I doubt that. |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by zed7: 2:20pm On Jul 13, 2022 |
Just to clear the air, gonorrhea is strictly sexually transmitted. The only logical explanation is that the disease has been in her before you met, as it isn't easily noticed in as some women don't show symptoms.. The decision is in your hands. If you ask me, she may have gotten it before you people became an item.
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Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by SteadyGrinding: 2:22pm On Jul 13, 2022 |
zed7: But we've been having sex before I contacted. In fact we started the relationship with sex |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by zed7: 2:26pm On Jul 13, 2022 |
SteadyGrinding:If you've been having sex for about a month and you didn't show symptoms and suddenly you now started showing symptoms, she obviously cheated as the disease shows symptoms in men as early as 3 days to maximum one month. |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by SteadyGrinding: 2:55pm On Jul 13, 2022 |
zed7: This was my mind. |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by iamL(f): 10:04am On Jul 15, 2022 |
zed7: Wrong. I am not in the medical but some of my siblings are. My sister has treated a 3 year old girl who contacted gonorrhea from her school toilet after proper findings and a host of other cases as well that has to do with stds. I am not interested in ops issues just my little contribution for the sake of enlightenment. |
Re: Please I Need Advise. I'm Going Insane by zed7: 10:19am On Jul 15, 2022 |
iamL:We all know that some of our doctors are dumb. Go online and do a simple study. Your sister is not a measurement of what is right. |
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