i dont know of Lagos, but i know of Abuja, Perfect Trust.

@ poster, even though love cannot be "measured", it is good that a man's love in a relationship is more than the woman's. Even the Bible says it, that a man should love his wife as Christ loved the church and laid down his life for her. nowhere did it mention the woman loving the man but the woman being submissive to the man.

atleast she loves you and dats what matters most, you get along fine, dats another. if she sees you with another woman and doesnt send, then maybe she doesnt even love u as she says, by the time any woman starts coming close to you, u wud see her fight back and flood u with love.

sumtimes, women can be confused and need sumfin a lil bit rash to wake us to reality

atutupoyo:

I used to dress up in d presence of my BF, but stopped immedaitely we broke up.

yemivictor:

LOL . . . what wont i read on nairaland!

ademiller:

Atutupoyo, na wa o

i havent laffed this hard for sum days now. thanx Atutu

Atutupoyo, na wa to u!!!

thanx Sistas, ll sure go and make sum findings on laser in ABuja.

@ Bleep u, seriously, you need help. Talk to sum1 and get help fast!

@ Chikito ans Sean, thanx, i appreciate. i think i'll go for the laser.

do u have an idea where i could get such service in Abuja?

thanx again.

a na m e miss i.

dats ibo, it may come in handy

Hi. I shave the hairs on my legs and arms, not like they are that hairy though but i just love a hairless skin.

Initially, i was using veet, but then like 2 days after, my arms start feeling rough, feels like tiny bits of sand was poured on mi. So i stopped veet and moved to shaving stick, i shave when there's soap lather on my body, so it doesnt itch mi after shaving, but i still feel same way on my arms.


please does anyone know how i can comfortably shave without this feeling.

i would be appreciate helpful pieces of advice.

thanx all.

Cant do without my foundation.

i seriously wonder y we have to pretend to b what we are not. if i am not a virgin, why would i say i am 1, to win a trophy or what? even the man m lieing to, is not a virgin himself, so why d pretence.

Any relationship built on pretences/deceit must crumble sooner or later.

marriage is alot more than hymen or hywomen.

Tribalism is fast fading out with this generation. We are beginning to see the good in tribes outside of ours.

loving the responses so far


@ busy body, u r really living up to ur name. if i say i am not dazed, ll b lying. to say u remember mi and happy for mi, u MUST truly know mi. U try, keep it up. Journalism may suit u just fine, u know

@ busy body, m really happy and grateful to God for not letting me throw away d gift he's given mi out of stupidity and ignorance

@ nila, i just looked up blackup products, they look and sound nice. which of them do u use?

i like the complexion concealer, oil free liquid foundation, stick foundation and creme to powder foundation.

quite confusing. finding difficult to make a choice and its online i want to buy. no room for testers.

i don't know if anyone has noticed it or is it just mi? Yoruba Boys are just marrying Igbo Gals anyhow. But why?

Please what is it about Igbo Gals that keeps attracting Yoruba Boys or what is it about Yoruba Boys that keep attracting Igbo Gals.

please tell mi. i think m finding myself in dat same situation too

@ Daphoenix, i couldnt help laughing. very funny

@ poster, i feel u r too young to marry @ 23

fake or no fake, sumbody sumwia is in this same position and would only be grateful if u offer ur candid opinion.

No basis for comparism, what is money without life? Ask Abacha

Neutrogena active copper for ma face, dove and natureessence for my body. i simply lovr moisturisers.

thanx sistas,

it finally came 1st december. i wasnt able to go see a gynae. to talk to but still hope to go atleast know what they can advise about d irregularity.

@all, thanx for d concern

Na wa o Anita abi Monia, u must have really really loved dis guy different ids just for an issue on him? Men, that's love

Unfortunately, u just have to move on with ur life. He's done same. Whether karma catches up with him or not should not be ur business.

Take ur decision, stand by it no matter how difficult it may seem, u'd get ova it. people have lost loved and very dear ones to death and they are still living and lovin sumone else

What more sum1 who doesn't even care.

MOVE ON, DON'T BE CAUGHT STAGNANT. Move on Girl, u would be happier u did

Crystalz and 25%, thanx so much., i appreciate the concern.

@crystalz, m already reading the article, i think i'll have to go buy one of these GNLD vitamins or beta still talk to a pharmacist before i buy.

i've been a bit worried, thinking it was peculiar to me.

thanx a great deal

Sistas, have u ever missed your period before without being pregnant at the end of the day?

Currently, my period is more than a week long due and i am yet to see it. Not like my period is that regular tho but i really cant remember it taking this long. Its not pregnancy cause i know i haven't been naughty for quite sumtime.

I'm thinking of going for a check-up generally but just wanted to know if anyone has experienced similar stuff.

please talk to a worried sista

@hotstepper, i went fo FGGC Onitsha too, 1998 Grad. What year did u grad?

@snazzy, who be ur mama? Is it Mrs Obiesie or Mrs Obienu?

@poster, i am qualify na, my no 0809189076383.

Your question is rather vague? Which are you using now? why do u want to change it? Has it become too oily for you? So people can have an idea of where u r comin from

@ OP, I am a born again christian and a leader in my youth fellowship but i have deliberately decided not to get too close to all them pastors and church authority.

there are alot of issues involved in church especially d pentecostals. i hear the way they call people on phones, most times the self-employed, ask them to do this, do that at a time when they should be at their place of work, and i wonder can't these people say something? but then i always say, who am i to complain, wouldn't i be a dog in a manger? I would not do and then i try to stop others from doing.

Most pentecostals these days are so so full of activities, month in month out. i always try not to attend all, atleast socialise or even rest sumtimes, but then i begin to feel guilty, when things are happening and m not there. and then, Pastors too would preach and say you go to work from 8am to 6pm and then come spend a few hrs in the house of the God who gave u d work and u r complaining. My Pastor is this very energetic one and can actually go days on without resting, but then i dont have that, even tho sumhow, he has groomed us his church to a large extent lettin us know that we could do anythin we set our minds on to do.

anyways, i seem to have deviated, but one thing i have decided is to do things without feeling guilty. I appreciate the role of my spiritual head but then i should also have a life to live. serve God in all sincerity, its about havin a relationship with him. Its not about church but i must hastily add that some churches help foster/strengthen your relationship with God.


Above all, it is also not easy being a pastor, trust me. Give them d respect they deserve, they too go thru alot, and that is the honest pastors. I must say that it isnt easy leading people especiallypeople in church where ther's no salary to say u r deducting money from as way of punishment.

BE AS GENTLE AS A DOVE AND AS WISE AS A SERPENT