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Forum GamesRe: When Last Did You? by steve49ja(op): 2:33pm On Dec 22, 2008
yester-night



and you?
Forum GamesRe: If You Were Stuck On An Island With by steve49ja(m): 2:32pm On Dec 22, 2008
Take her surfing
Forum GamesRe: Nickname The Person Above You by steve49ja(m): 2:30pm On Dec 22, 2008
Bellis
RomanceRe: Should I Let Her Taste The Waters by steve49ja(m): 12:03pm On Dec 22, 2008
Hmmmn, If you werent doing all she claim then what exactly were you doing? i mean those are your responsibilities, you never know what you gat until its gone embarassed.
Oboy na you do yourself,if you had ya thing going on she wouldnt have cheated on you and trust me she really thought about the consequences before doing it but since you werent understanding and seeing inbetween the line she decided to find happiness else where.
The girl's gone!
Dont make those mistakes in your next relationship.
RomanceRe: How Did You Know He/she Was The "one"? by steve49ja(m): 9:48am On Dec 22, 2008
Sea~Goddes:
i don't believe in such things as the "one" if such saying is true i still wonder why people who claim the moment i met he or she they were the one for me go ahead and still divorce or breakup, i guess they werent the "one"afterall, cox if they would have fought and stayed together.

i rather find the wrong person then we walk things through and be the one for each other rather get the ready made the "one" who will only last as long as i keep deceving myself he is the "one"
It depends on what your definition of 'the one' is, and i also don't believe in divorce that is if the marriage was built on love.

You don't just know she's the one,situations would come serving as a test of love, i mean if she can love me more than she does herself then she is the one.
It takes a lot to be the other half and when you feel he/she is well enough to pass as your other half then thats it.I'll say the keyword is LOVE!conquereth all
RomanceRe: Should I Take Him Back? by steve49ja(m): 9:32am On Dec 22, 2008
[b]Musty450,Thanks mehn seems we're seeing this from same perspective.

Its clear the poster can't let go and will be torturing herself if she does,
From her story it looks like this is the first time he's raised his hands on her apart from ofcourse the late night scenes,
Everyone deserves a second chance even poster's boyfriend,and sending people to talk to you(poster) is a sign of 'i am sorry and don't want to lose you please come back i can't leave without you'.
If the guy came on nairaland saying he caught her with another mahn you'll have some of my fellow nairalanders advicing to take her back and so is this case.
What if you had an issue and needs him to forgive would you like him to stress you for too long??
I mean youll always protect your investment in order not to lose them and thats what he wants NOT TO LOSE YOU!
Raise your rod and spank a child so he wont go astray.
If this action didnt come up the poster might not see the need of giving her male friends some space, or how much effect this whole thing has on him,Your pastor wont even advice you leave him, when you have probems you don't run from them you find solutions.
I really can't picture myself in his shoes but i tell you its not easy on him too.
POSTER, ill advice you GO SEE YOUR GUY,TALK THINGS OVER WIFF HIM
FROM THE WAY YOU GUYS TALK/RELATE YOU'LL KNOW WHAT YOUR FINAL CONCLUSION IS GON BE
if he doesnt want you back or acts like what he did was right thats another case but dude knows what he did was wrong and wants you to forgive him like GOD forgives us when we sin.
CMON GIRL STOP STARVING YOURSELF OF HIS LOVE.
You can't just let go of your sacrifices.
Ofcourse,troubles either tears you apart or make you stronger.
Remember every relationship has a bad side and a secret,It also has hurdles to overcome.
Ill also advice just before you go see him,talk to his mum about this,she's a lady and i tell you none wants to have a wife-beater for a son.She'll make sure it doesnt repeat itself.
Best of luck[/b]
Forum GamesRe: Nickname The Person Above You by steve49ja(m): 8:44am On Dec 22, 2008
Opel omega
RomanceRe: Help! She Is A She-male by steve49ja(m): 4:52pm On Dec 19, 2008
undecided
Forum GamesRe: Nickname The Person Above You by steve49ja(m): 4:51pm On Dec 19, 2008
Dactar Fevri
Forum GamesRe: Guess The Job Of The Person Above You. by steve49ja(m): 4:47pm On Dec 19, 2008
cement mixer sad
Forum GamesRe: If You Were Stuck On An Island With by steve49ja(m): 4:43pm On Dec 19, 2008
Omo na run oh cheesy
RomanceRe: Confession:what's Craziest Thing U've Ever Did To ur Soulmate by steve49ja(m): 2:58pm On Dec 19, 2008
Emm me i no know oh is it when i gave her my phone number? my line has never been the same since that day
Forum GamesRe: Guess The Job Of The Person Above You. by steve49ja(m): 1:22pm On Dec 19, 2008
female body inspector. . . FBI
Forum GamesRe: If You Were Stuck On An Island With by steve49ja(m): 1:20pm On Dec 19, 2008
measure every inch of her body sad
Forum GamesRe: Nickname The Person Above You by steve49ja(m): 1:19pm On Dec 19, 2008
419 wife tongue
Forum GamesRe: Guess The Job Of The Person Above You. by steve49ja(m): 12:28pm On Dec 19, 2008
pastor
Forum GamesRe: Nickname The Person Above You by steve49ja(m): 12:24pm On Dec 19, 2008
Oyinbo
RomanceRe: Should I Take Him Back? by steve49ja(m): 11:48am On Dec 19, 2008
imagine him singing will.i.am's one more chance

Take me back
Take me back
Take me back

I,

girls girls girls girls
girls girls girls girls

Take me back

One more chance - this time around ,
One more chance - let me undo what i've done before

[will.i.am]
[*]

[chorus]
One more chance
this time around ,
One more chance
let me undo what i've done before
Because I don't want to go
another day, annother lonely night
I don't wanna be
Without you in my life
One more chance

baby protect the lovelalala [this time around]
baby protect the love

lalala
baby protect the love
lalala [this time around]

[will.i.am]
[*]

[chorus]
One more chance
This time around it's time for a different flow
A new romance
Do the things we've never done before
,
I love you
I really love you baby

baby protect the love
lalala [this time around]
baby protect the love
lalala
baby protect the love
lalala [this time around]


embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed
RomanceRe: Is It True That The Ugly Girls Make The Best Housewives? by steve49ja(m): 11:32am On Dec 19, 2008
and where did you get that from? sad i mean why do the rich peeps end up with beautifu women?IBB for example even OBJ cheesy well my family is a prove that your assumption is wrong dunno bout yours or the next poster sha tongue
Forum GamesRe: Nickname The Person Above You by steve49ja(m): 10:52am On Dec 19, 2008
terrifik oh my i meant specific tongue
RomanceRe: Should I Go To Nigeria And Marry Or Should I Marry Here In Europe? by steve49ja(m): 10:49am On Dec 19, 2008
mehn anywhere you find love ojare
RomanceRe: Should I Take Him Back? by steve49ja(m): 8:57am On Dec 19, 2008
Hard one!!
I'll say you take some time, think about everything then make a conclusion you'll stand by.
I think someone is feeding him with wrong informations about you cheating on him, you're mosttimes around guys and since you guys aint living together that might get to him.
No one would walk into your room, find a guy on your bed laughing and just say HI and take a seat without thinking youre cheating mostly when he's heard some wrong informations.
About the beat thing, not all men understand 'its better you walk away than lay a finger on her', have elders talk with him, buy him novels/articles/magazines that discuss about this and am sure he'll change.He might have raised his hands on you cos he loved you and the thought of losing you makes him loco.
Point is: dont leave him yet, since you guys love eachother but i'll say you watch your back cos someone is giving out some wrong information so i think, you talk things through with your guy and spend a weekend with him if possible, you guys need sometime alone.
He loves you!! everyone has a bad side they're always willing to let go for the one they love.
You have the final say. smiley
Forum GamesRe: If You Were Stuck On An Island With by steve49ja(m): 8:26am On Dec 19, 2008
Make her a dress

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