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It's not easy.

culf:
wao, but why giving up? in life, never say never

MedicH:
Lol he who sail must anchor. Alora the great... Awumen!

1. Dont be SILENT on bed
Don't be a mute wife on bed...
Freely express yourself. You will achieve this when you are not shy. Dont just lay on the bed like a dead wood, it makes him think he is not digging deep. Talk dirty etc

2. Introduce new styles, learn new styles, surprise him, Google it, stop
laying on bed as if you are in the mortuary, sometimes go on top of
him, ride him like never before, lick everywhere.

3. NO ATTEMPT TO INITIATE SEX
Why is it that most woman always ask hubby for money but finds it difficult to ask for this sweet thing called SEX.
Tell your man that u wanna ride him tonight or you need to be screwed.
Have a coded slang, use your eyes and contact him.

4, SHYNESS
Most women are just too shy to the extent of finding it difficult to UnCloth in front of their men. They will only like to make love at night without light.
Some women have not seen the size of their hubby's penis They only feel it.

Its sad that, alot of women dont know the size of their Husband's penis, be a prostitude on bed with your husband, play with
him, touch him, intiate sex , don't wait for him to ask for it.

5, Be neat always, shave always unless he likes it bushy, but ensure its clean and smells good, make use of your deodorant, avoid carrying your hair for too long to avoid some offensive smell, brush your mouth, wear good and clean underwears.

LadIes Vagina has a special scent that a man can scent and the eyes of his penis will open and start crying to touch. But when he enters there and perceive an offensive odour, it will irritates him and his small brother
will be weak.

Please Keep that place very neat and clean.
*Shave off bushy hair
*Treat and prevent infection
*Eat good food and fruit
*Above all stay healthy.
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Yes oooooooooo

Blissbath:
I thank God for ur life

In January, Omotola Jalade shared on her IG that she was grateful that at 40, her last child is already in the University. Remember, she has four kids and she married quite early.

Funke Akindele (Jenifa) congratulated her on the post. Funke is 41, and just had her first babies in December of last year.

Now, if you try to compare these two women, you'd fail at it because they are both accomplished. Will you say Funke is unfortunate for just having her first babies at 41 while Omotola's last child is already in the University?

My point here?
Stop comparing yourself with others! Your life journey isn't the same with anyone, irrespective of societal expectations.

Not everyone will get married in their twenties, not every couple will have a baby nine months into marriage, not everyone will become a millionaire in their thirties. Some people will get their dream jobs at 40, it doesn't mean they've failed. Some will become CEOs at 55.

Please, learn to focus on your life. I know it's a difficult thing to do in this era of social media where everyone seems to be doing well in life except you. Don't compare your life journey with others, not even your classmates or siblings.

There are only CLASSMATES, there are no LIFEMATES. You're your only mate in life.

Whenever you're tempted to compare yourself with others (which makes you to feel pressured and sad), come back to this post and digest every word...
Good morning fam❣

Amen

seunmohmoh:
None and I reject it.

I am so so happy dat am alive today, dis story I will surly tell it to my kids one day, on 31 night I went to see my ex in dia village around 1am , When I got to dia junction to take bike or keke to dia house, I did not see anyone, suddenly One keke came out, me I don't like to price things but dat day I started asking the guy how much, he said 200 and I said no I have 150 , he said no and later he was calling me, I don't know the spirit dat entered inside me and I told him no and he left, I was alone dia no bike , no keke , then some minutes another bike came and I paid 300 dat night, on my way going I saw dat keke upside down the driver died and the Keke was into pieces, one army man hit him even the army man was badly injured........... praise the lord

Ladies, would you prefer a very meek man... One who'd heed to your every word or an autocratic one whose decision is final?..

Thank you.

MizzPhoney:
You are strong sis, hang in there. You'll be okay soon, you'll see.

My dad refused me getting married to the love of my life then saying he is too old( 34yrs) and much exposed for my age .He was a personal assistant to Abia state Governor then. I was only 16 and felt I have arrived been fiancé to such person.He cherished me. Truthfully,he never touched me.

Few weeks after,,he traveled for business promising to convince my dad on his return. My father's refusal made me stubborn, I didn't want be around my home cos their over Christian life was making them see everything in another view,i cannot confide in my late mum without getting this look of you must be like a rev in this home. so i ran to my girlfriend's house. She was about 4yrs older than I was then but my body structure made us look like age mates. She convinced me to follow her to PH for her birthday party. Didn't know I was been arranged for her boyfriend's brother.
I was drunk ,first time anyways and he took advantage of me. By morning he was apologizing and professing love and wanting to date me... begged me to take him to my home I refused. I was confused,the love of my life is coming home the next week.how will I face him. I went home,my parents were angry with me but still didn't care to know how I feel, what I wanted but happy I came home alive.

Two weeks later I noticed I was pregnant,i opened up to my man and he said"mummy,do not ever ever tell anyone what happened,this child is mine and it's going to be reason your dad will let me marry you." We hide the pregnancy till it was 6 months,then he came again but my dad stubbornly turned him down again claiming my people don't give out a pregnant woman in marriage till I deliver.

After the delivery of my son whose birthday is today too ,my dad said he is free to marry me but without the boy. He made some underground plan to send us to his mum abroad if after talking to my dad with some relations and it didn't work out. He traveled to his village(Item) to get an uncle to help talk to my dad only for him to come back poisoned,he died two days after 6 months after,i got admission for a preliminary course in fedpoly campus. My parents took my child and I went back to school.avoided men like plague,finished my study then proceeded for my OND. After my OND finals, I went home for my aunty's burial,there I met my daughter's father. He tried everything for us to date and I refused then went ahead to tell him my story. He felt pity on me (so I thought Sha). He started visiting me in school more often, giving me listening ears and all that I lack from home.
I decided to give him a chance.

One month into the relationship, I took in, told him and he asked me to get an abortion because he is from my late aunty's compound,I ran to my cousin who is also his cousin and he called for a meeting. This guy who has been pestering me, traveling all the way from Abuja to Oko to see had the guts to tell everyone present that i am a good girl but he has a fiancé he wants to marry.
When asked the way forward, he said he will do what my people call "agbachaa afo ime"(no English na for it but a kinda way of he has nothing to do with the child and the amount for that was 20k then). I didn't know if I should start crying. I cursed him in tears.
My mum said her pain was she nursed this boy in question while babysitting her elder sister's children in that compound, his own mother pleaded with him to take me as his wife but he was adamant. My dad rejected the money,we left. He warned him never to smell our compound.

I had my daughter 29th January 2004 ,her dad had accident that day, shop burnt, container lost in the sea, the girl left him one month later for his friend then he ran back to me. Begged for marriage but no, not for me, all I did was lift the curse, out of joy he said he will never get married till I do and he kept the promise. My mum started pestering me to accept a suitor, to please her I did in 2013 and by 2016 the marriage ended.
So now,i am happily single.I don't ever want to get married.

This is how I became a single mum of 2 champions,though I will never let anyone I know go through it..

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paix:
I don't know how.

Bro I think is very Important you call her sit her down and talk with her. I did not say talk to her. I mean talk with her. That money In her account might not be her money @ yazga has postulated. What if she spent 3k out of the money and the owner needs her to return the money at that moment and she is on your neck to get it and send back to the owner. Bro communication is very important. Talk with her and when you're not convinced that she is fair to you on that you can then start thinking of options.

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paix:
I don't know any yet.

December Born...... (Lagos residents))
Drop your , location, date of birth, let see if you can find a match..

As you comment please also states what do you like the most about December.

Facts about December

1. The birthstone of December is turquoise.

2. Zodiac signs for December are Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21) and Capricorn (December 22 - January 19).

3.Universal Human Rights Month

Only to mention a few.


Be part of the group https://chat dot whatsapp dot com/Hfjuq0BEECoGxkxOxAHWtU, we can plan a get together for those of us in Lagos.
where you see "dot" replace it with "."

Good question

ifyalways:
Okay. And what if the husband was there for a business meeting too?

Mail will be better

bodaola:
We need to talk... No offence on WhatsApp. Or should i drop mine to guide your privacy?

use chewing stick

Ijobagram:
Help a brother I'm have this chronic mouth odour I'm battling with since two years now I have try all means still don't solve it sometimes I brush my teeth five times a day still it worst I have never been to a dentist because I don't have money ..i don't talk in public or keep friends because I hate reactions I received when I talk sometimes I thought of commit suicide.it has ruined my life I'm depressed I don't know what to do..help me before I kill myself

na wa o

when the source of getting the alcohol gets dry u will quit

CaptainMitch:
I think I am an alcoholic, I drink too much, I am looking for a way to quit totally, I have been drinking steadily for close to 13 years, I wish I could quit.

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bodaola:
Plz drop your number.

In a hotel room?

Nickisindigo:
for a business meeting