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Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by CaptainMitch: 6:27pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Salute bro, I got it under control now aro1: |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Truthshurts: 6:34am On Nov 26, 2019 |
My name is Alex, I was marry 5 years ago and I have a beautiful son of 3 years Old. I caught my wife cheating some few months to our wedding but I forgave and forget then moved on to the marriage. After my baby was 1 year old, my wife started again in her adulterous ways. I wanted to stop but she said she can’t stop because she is not getting what she wanted in her life from our marriage. Now I wanted to leave her but she is not ready to go. I tried divorcing her but she didn’t sign the documents. She threatened to go away with our son if I leave her. I need your advice 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by AceRoyal: 7:37am On Nov 26, 2019 |
Truthshurts:It's a far greater compliment to be respected than to be loved. I sent u a pm, kindly respond or WhatsApp me via 07053331484. |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Truthshurts: 8:21am On Nov 27, 2019 |
I just did. Thanks AceRoyal: |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by SteveOfu: 10:51am On Nov 27, 2019 |
when the source of getting the alcohol gets dry u will quit CaptainMitch: |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by SteveOfu: 10:52am On Nov 27, 2019 |
na wa o |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by SteveOfu: 10:58am On Nov 27, 2019 |
use chewing stick Ijobagram: |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by CaptainMitch: 12:19pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Ok SteveOfu: |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Mood11: 12:32am On Nov 28, 2019 |
It's okay. |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by BornToSucced(m): 8:29am On Nov 28, 2019 |
Picking women from the club. My previous relationship with my finance ended on a sad note, and starting a new relationship hasn’t been easy. I keep picking girls at random clubs and I hate myself after the whole show. I feel depressed, deserted and shameful every time I do this. I don’t womanised, smoke or drink. I just want to stop this habit and find myself a good lady to settle down. |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by AceRoyal: 11:09am On Nov 28, 2019 |
Mood11: Learn to "respond" instead of "reacting" to issues,people,situation and challenges. There is a huge difference between reacting and responding. A reaction is typically quick, without much thought, tense and aggressive. A response is thought out, calm and non-threatening. A reaction typically provokes more reactions – perpetuating a long line of hatefulness with nothing accomplished. |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by AceRoyal: 11:13am On Nov 28, 2019 |
BornToSucced: Start working to be the kind of man you want your woman to be. picking women from the club shows so many salient issues you have to deal with first. lonliness, low self esteem, the crave for adventure, etc. you might also be yarning for a bad girl that'll truly get to love you, the only thing holding you back might be your religious and social background. admit to yourself what you truly want, thats the first step in finding your solution. 1 Like |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Mood11: 12:23pm On Nov 28, 2019 |
AceRoyal:Thanks. I am conciously working on it right now.. I am getting better. I just want things to turn out well for us. |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by AceRoyal: 12:57pm On Nov 28, 2019 |
Mood11: slow, stable and steady.......... |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by cupidora(f): 10:56pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
yemisolar: I found your response so helpful especially this part Also, as you grow older, things that excite you about life changes and so is your needs in a man. In the next 15 years, you won't just be looking at someone that is handsome and makes you laugh, you will need a good father to your children and someone your family and friends will respect. I'm at the point in my life where I'm struggling with deciding if this man that loves me, is responsible and 'not there' yet but making progress,is the right person for me... |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by adedelight(m): 6:28am On Apr 17, 2020 |
Depression comes in different ways and forms but the solution to it is to find God. It's only God that can give satisfaction,from him you were created and He knows the plans he has for you. In most cases,we compare ourselves with friends,neighbours,colleagues which weigh us down forgetting that God's plan for individual life is different. To overcome depression,ask Jesus to come into your heart,take time to study the Bible as there u get encouragement to move on in life irrespective of the challenges you face. Talk to him every morning,committing your life to His hand and asking for direction on what to do. Find people of like mind that have hope in what God can do and fellowship/relate together and lastly learn to be grateful to God for your situation while you look up to Him for a way out.[color=#990000][/color] |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Glink2018(m): 1:15pm On Apr 17, 2020 |
janefrancisca: When I was wooing in during NYSC, you no gree. You dey jump upandan like a cowboy. now, wey you don turn evening newspaper.....lemme think about it. |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Glink2018(m): 1:24pm On Apr 17, 2020 |
Ijobagram: Keep eating garlic, and bitter kola |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by skyplustk(f): 4:01pm On Apr 17, 2020 |
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Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by BusinessCity: 3:18pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
duchessvikki0: Join a fellowship. It will help you concentrate, focus and grow |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Nobody: 4:56pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
The source of my depression is discussed here: https://www.nairaland.com/6347135/situation-how-does-one-gain I know I would laugh last 2 Likes |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by SteveOfu: 7:16pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Glink2018:And onions |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by surebona(m): 7:26pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Ishilove: Thanks for this, for 5months now all I think about is how everything can stop existing, I come here most times to find solace and what will give me hope... I don't see need to exist but too scared to die. Does that make me selfish. I don't even care about anything anymore. Everything just falling apart . Thanks for this ishi 1 Like |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Prugee: 7:53am On Jan 09, 2021 |
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Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Nobody: 12:21am On Jan 10, 2021 |
SirDelight: By HIS grace, bro. Cc: J111333 https://www.nairaland.com/6347135/situation-how-does-one-gain |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by AeroplaneApple: 10:47pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
weyreypey:Eje |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by fannybaby(f): 5:45am On Jan 14, 2021 |
Ijobagram:. Where do you keep your brush If wall gecko spits or touch your brush, you will keep having mouth odour |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Cutemind: 3:08pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
AceRoyal:Thanks for this,op. Alot on my mind for years now weighing me down day by day. I been totally lost for some long years now and not yet found. You've heard about jack of all trades master of none. Life has not been easy for me from the beginning,put my all in my studies as if it will liberate me to no avail. Tried my hand on sewing too as I felt drawn to it somehow but it doesn't pay me,more of free works. Another time I was sewing,making all types of bags,even as souvenirs and money was coming from it but school made me stopped. Getting back at it thereafter has not been working. Got married in between and children came in too,sign up for teaching beause I detest idleness yet it's not adding up but the last total lockdown put a stop to it anyways. Ever since it's been a sorry case,with every effort to get back on the financial track proving difficult. Not only that,my reading and writing culture that I cherish is lost. Husby is trying and I thank God for his life,if only he can get the kind of contract he needs,if only I can figure how to mend the broken pieces of my life and come alive again. It's overwhelming for me and my family,we are practically hanging on. I'm depressed and it's affecting me already. Where do we start from, and what can l do? 2 Likes |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by AceRoyal: 3:27pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Cutemind: Don't focus so much on finance for now, you need to find yourself first and that'll take studying. Studying yourself and your mind. You'll be surprised that what you've been searching for has been with you all these while but you've not known yourself enough yet to make it work for you and bring you that which you desire. 1 Like |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Nobody: 4:43pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
AceRoyal:I really need money. |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by evadreams(f): 12:08pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
[quote author=Lukewarm post=74959657]I am at crossroads in my relationship life right now. On one hand, I've got this great dude I've been with for some years. Everyone thinks he's perfect for me because he's ready to be responsible and settle down, then he also plans for the future. But the problem? We don't seem to have that connection or chemistry. I find it hard just telling him I love him. But everyone keeps ringing it into my ear that he's one of the good guys and there are quite a few out there. So I promised myself to respect him and hope that is enough to keep a marriage going. Then on to the minor thing: 1. He's a traditional guy. He believes all a woman needs to do is cook, clean, and conceive. He believes a lot of things are frivolities and a wife has got little to no say in the house. This really badgers me. But hey! He's one of the few good ones available.....right? Then I got a shocker. I met someone 2 months ago and its been a totally crazy and new experience for me. It's the first time I've seen someone share the same warped sense of humour I've got. First time I'd meet someone that shares a lot of common interest with me. First time someone will creep into my subconscious and make me smile or even lol at something goofy he did or said. Now, it's got me thinking: Is respect really enough? But my family is having none of that second thoughts. It so happens they'd conveniently bring up the story of a really distant aunt that lost her opportunity to marry by saying No to someone and is still a spinster at 45. And it really isn't helping matters that my new POI is from a different tribe and isn't set for settling now. So conflicted. :-my dear, stay with the guy you already know his flaws. Sometimes this new flame thing with this new guy may just end quickly the way it started, at least get to know him for real before shifting post. [/quote |
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