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You look cool..................no homo

E go better.

psky: Please do, and this time don't come back.

Adamskuty don chase her,the guy na badoo.

FOOL FINDER: . Wat da fuq? Fighted you have killed me.

lwkmd!

[quote author=dotcom_na_me_na_me]Striker9 [/quote]I'm not Iheanacho dude.

[quote author=dotcom_na_me_na_me]Your name is striker9, why don't you go join City and lets see if you will conquer? [/quote]What has that got to do with the topic.Abeg fade!

2good: I think you have a very good case for divorce if the above really happened. Forget about religious bigots and family that will advice you otherwise. You will not achieve anything in life if you continue like this because she cannot be trusted.

Don't mind them hypocrites,there are times one just gotta face reality.God forbids if the something bad happens to the op due to her lackadaisical attitude,same people will blame him for not sending her away earlier.

Okpuzu01: For women dat r supporting my wife here. Listen to wot I v to say n tell me if cn do same tin my wife did. I am a retired soldier with a monthly pension of 46k. I waz working wit for Intercontinental bank as a security officer. Den I waz earning 35k per month wit overtime allowance of 11k. Den I waz dating my wife. I knew dat der is no job security in d banking sector, I opened up a shop for renting of nigerian movies n selling of foreign movies. After we got married, I left her to be managing d shop while I concentrated on my job. I waz providing everytin in d house including house rent n my daughter sch fees. Months later, my business waz going down. A reliable source informed me dat wen I am nt arnd, my wife's younger brother usually come to collect money from her. Sometyms her dad wuld come by himself. D business finally went down. I talked to my wife to be very careful d way she carries her family burdens. I den open a bar, I bought two deep freezers at d rate of 53k each, bought plastic chairs n table, big gen n everytin needed in a bar business. I then bought all assorted drinks n loaded d freezer. She started d business, at first, tins were moving fine. Wen I came bk from work, I wuld branch to c hw d business waz fairing. Wen Access bank bought Intercontinental bank, majority of us were relieve of our duty. I waz nw depending on my pension, gain from my business n d little money I saved. I discussed wit my wife to take care of d business while I go bk to Lagos cos I waz invited for an interview den in aviation company. Before I got d job, I waz sending 20k monthly to my wife for der upkeep. I had expected her to v some savings from our business since I dnt ask her for money from d business. Wen our house waz due, I told her to pay for six months from d money she must v saved from d business, I got d greatest shock of my life wen she told me der waz no money. I den instructed her to park out to her parents place n wait for my arrival cos I made up my mind den to relocate dem to Lagos. My business waz going down n I equally instructed her too to close d business. She did as I said n I continued to send 20k to her monthly. U know wot happened, she waz using d money to feed her family. A friend called me dat he does nt lyk d way my daughter waz looking. Looking hagard, her hair unkept. He accused me dat I dnt send money for der upkeep. I travelled bk to Awka unannounced. On getting to my in law's house, I met my daughter at home. She waz supposed to be in sch. Wen I asked, my in law told me dat she waz sent home a week ago for nt paying her sch fees. I asked abt my wife, I waz told dat she travelled to Asaba. I took my daughter n left for my aunty's house. I called my wife to come bk home. It waz den ppl told me dat sometyms she do leave my for a month. Once I send d money, she wuld give her parents some n travel wit d rest to Asaba. Wen she came back, I enquired from her y she could nt pay 5k sch fees from d money I v been sending, she could nt give me any reason. I got anoda house n we went to her parents house to park our properties. I discovered dat my 21inch television waz missing. Myu wife said she used d tele to borrow money. I asked her, borrow money for wot? She said for her parents. I asked wot happened to d shop, she said she gave her parents money for house rent. I threatened to abandon her n go bk to Lagos before she could tell me d truth. 20 of my plastic chairs were missing, wen I asked, I waz told dat her brother sold dem. Oi had to pay 25k borrowed before I got my Tv bk. For u women dat r supporting my wife here, tell me were I v done bad?

Sir,Your idea of taking up another wife is JUSTIFIED.Her family will keep asking her for money cause its obvious they are all lazy zombies.I think you need to teach her a lesson,else she won't learn.

weazley: He cant try dat wit lagos danfo drivers

You are very funny walahi,lmao.

Nice one from Mikel,up blues.

I dunno why people think this guy will fail at City,though City might not be the best club in managing young players but I think its good for him,facing tougher challenges from now will only boost his confidence in the future.It would have been a disaster for him to be a bench warmer in Porto just like Rabiu when he was in Lisbon.All he needs his our support and I wish him success.

And yet some people will be supporting ASUU,lazy old fools,fighting for students my foot.

farochron: Just pray that Liverpool does not end Murinho's career. I've you forgotten you have not beaten Liverpool in the last 6 meetings and they are the highest scoring machines after man city. They beat you home and away 3 seasons ago same 2 seasons ago and you managed a draw with them home and away last season at their worst moment ever.

Dream on brother.

Where were you when chelsea beat Liverpool home and away.Since chelsea dealt with liverpool at champions league,they ve not made another appearance.Did you say Chelsea managed a draw both home and away last season?Chelsea was leading 2. 1 when rabbit tooth bite Iva and was still allowed to play before scoring an equalizer 22seconds after injury time.Abeg park well.

This Alhaji ehn,na wa o.

Someborry shout hallelujah!

Okpuzu01: D new trend now is dat my in-laws don't regard me anymore. They feel that d money my wife is giving to them comes from her pocket. For example, they asked my wife for 5k, she gave me 10k to keep for her before she travelled. Her younger brother came to collect the money with a phone I bought for der mum. Could u belive that they received the money and non of dem called me to appreciate cos they tend to beleve dat its der daughter's money.

I think you need a long and deep convo with your wife,I'm talking a bout a convo that will yield results,you need to fix things asap.

oneitalia: Daniel Levy should consider sacking himself because he brought this shambles on spurs.. He should have stick with Redknapp.. How about Baldini that happen to be the director, him and AVB sanctioned the exodus and coming in of new players. He should get the boot also...

Daniel Levy is confused.

Royal Roy: Lol.
Saw it coming. The young lad is
the architect of his own
undoing.
You bought new players and
condemned 75% of your old
players to the bench.
You allow personal sentiments
to get in the way of your
reasoning by totally benching
better players for inefficient
ones.
Well, good luck to him in his
next coaching outing.
Not sure he can be that lucky
again.
He fumbled.

You are very correct,he even sold Van der vaat.He made the same mistake while at Chelsea,benching experience players for newbies.

[quote author=beauty?]Pardon me for what am about to say o, is ur wife igbo? Cos its very common with them to take their inlaws as meal ticket.[/quote]I wanted to ask this question but I had to let it slide.

Okpuzu01: I thank all of for your contributions. For your information, before I got married, I have sisters that were married. Its not we are rich but we tried to provide for our parents so as to allow our sisters enjoy their marriages without putting burdens on them. My wife has grown up brothers who can work and support her parents. I never said I am poor. Igbo ppl said Ejiro akpata etufuo aba ogaranya. U dnt get rich by making money n throwing dem away. I personally do give my wife's parents money n gift from time to time. I know wot I have prepared to give dem dis xmas. I am nt against giving dem money bt I must discuss it with my wife. Does she know If I have enough before giving to her parents? Her father is addicted pool. All his money goes into pool. He can't take care of his responsibility a the head of the family. Wen he bought his bus, I know hw much I put into it, he sold desame bus witout informing me. I did it so that they can take the burden off my wife. I v supported her mum severally finacially in her provision shop, they will keep taking items from the shop until it became empty n they will turn again to my wife n continue to mount pressure on her for money.

This is ridiculous,just try to make her understand her kid should be her priority for now.

Memyselfu2009: So that's a good reason to marry another wife because of her spending habits how sure are u that s orda wife will not do more than d first wife

I didn't want to comment but I gotta answer you.Marrying another wife won't solve his problem but some women are just too adamant.I feel for the op cause his looking at it from a future angle.The wife's sibling aren't working cause they know their aunt will provide,that's stupidity.Her husband and kid's future should be her priority,those lazy siblings of her should also support their parent with little they can afford and she will be relieved.The op is frustrated,that's why he thought about getting another wife,which is not the solution.

2good: Most of the people typing here don't understand what the OP is going through. If you earn alot of money and discover that you still cannot achieve anything in your life because of your wife spending habit, you will understand what the OP is talking about. Many women don't work and are not ready to work yet they want to tell their husband how to spend his money and feel it is his responsibility to take care of her parent and siblings like he doesn't have something useful to do with money in planning his own life.
It is just a pity that Africans have entitlement mentality and due to the high level of poverty, feel they can dump their problem on you just because they have some family affiliation with you or your wife. This is the most annoying thing about being an African and I will advice the OP to remove his mind from that business, give her a fixed amount of money every month to run the home and don't care about what she does with the money as long as she doesn't come for more before the end of the month. Clearly budget your salary as it comes and if possible open a fixed account where you keep your monthly contribution for projects and don't care what people say including your wife.
Also note that being married to a woman does not mean you will die before your time simply because you or her want to proof to people that you have some money that you really don't have. Your child's future is the most important thing at this stage and not your inlaws. Another wife will not solve the problem.

Oga,well said.

seanet02: Omo Ogun ise Ya

Omo iya,ise ti beere.

superstar1: Another worthy investments that surpasses the whole of investments of 2 by 2inches shop owners.

We give glory to God.

We are progressing, they are wailing.

Lol @2 by 2inc,man must wack na.

carlos1: Sorry! We are talking about human beings not some mad men

lmao,bros u wicked oooooo.

Lyoncrescent: Really ? Tade Ogidan, Tunde Kelani and Kunle Afolayon are the best Movie Makers in Nigeria right now. Won't even call them Nollywood standard cos Nollywood is crap. Quality over Quantity from these guys any day any time. Tade and Kelani have been around for a while and Kunle Afolayon is the new kid on the block.

If you think nollywood isn't crap, kindly mention ini edos or rita dominics top 10 nollywood movies ever ? Quantity over quality.

Ignore that guy abeg,we know his type,attention seeking mofo.

sandijey: I just new one of them chest beaters must make a comment like this!!!!!!

Leave them jare,its in there DNA.

You need to slow things down,I know how u feel but you gotta know this life is about ups and downs.Takes some time out to have fun,hang out and worry not about a thing,trust me,you need your happiness more and I believe every other things will fall in place.Be happy sweety!

Good one Mr Clean sheet.

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God punish that Albino

Chai I miss am sha!