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Crossing over in church then coming home afterwards to have a quite time with God and after finish the seasonal movie I just started watching on Netflix TROY

Mcreloaded:
Walk away.
Just continue life as if she was never there and you had no children from her.
It's not easy but then you get to preserve ur sanity.

It better people laugh you than say them cry for you.

You will come out stronger

Best advice so far, op follow this advice it will do u a lot of good

marsup:
Why can't you just fix the shower or the drain yourselves?

As in ehh, I see no problem here, just fix up the toilet and she won't be coming to your room to bath, nah because they thought the responsibility is for the landlord that's why she doesn't want to fix it, but fixing it could save cost comparing to renting her a new apartment

Pojomojo:
SOCIALISM: You have two cows, and you give one to your neighbor.

COMMUNISM: You have two cows, the government takes both and gives you milk.

FASCISM: You have two cows, the government takes both and sells you milk.

NAZISM: You have two cows, the government takes them and kills you.

CAPITALISM: You have two cows, you sell one and buy a male. You multiply your cows and there is economic growth. You sell them, you retire and you live on your profits.

MODERN CAPITALISM: You have two cows, you sell one and buy a male. You multiply your cows and you buy those of your neighbors. The latter become your shepherds, you pay them in monkey currencies and they die poor.

AMERICAN SOCIETY: You have two cows, you sell one and you have to make the other one to produce milk like 4 cows. By dint of producing beyond her capacity, she dies. You take a consultant to understand this death.

FRENCH SOCIETY: You have two cows, you go on strike because you want a third.

GERMAN SOCIETY: You have two cows, you modify them so that they live 100 years, eat once a month and treat themselves.

CHINESE SOCIETY: You have two cows, you sell milk to your compatriots and you produce plastic milk to export to the rest of the world.

AFRICAN SOCIETY: You have two cows, you eat them all the same day and you dream that donors or the international community give you others. You go to a church and hope for miracle cattle. You fast 40 days and 40 nights without eating or drinking so that the cows will fall from Heaven.

At last You die in extreme poverty.

Mind set is paramount.

This is very deep 😎

Odafe360:
I posted a previous topic about my divorce with my wife and i got alot of advice on this platform which really encouraged & have me strength.

I'm really grateful for the nairaland community. The only issue i'm still battling with right now is how to move on, i'm trying everyday to forget the past, but the more i try, the more it's becoming fresh in my heart and the pains too. I won't lie to you it's difficult. Sincerely sometimes i cry and the thoughts of ending my life comes and goes. I don't drink, I don't smoke, neither do i womannize and worst of all i don't have much friends cos I'm more of an introvert.

A snippet of the entire problem is that most times we have an issue and she leaves the house, i've always been the one going to speak to her mum, plead and bring them back home, that's why whenever there's problem and she goes back to her mom's place, nobody from her family would contact me to even hear my side because I've become like a fool to them cos they know i'll still come. This last one that she left, we just had a little issue and she packed a her things and left. So many people not to go to her family house and beg this time around since i didn't send them packing. I swear guys, i've forgiven and tolerated what 90% of men won't forgive nor tolerate from her.

Please guys help a brother with more advice, how do i move on?

First of all, which state do u reside ?

The guy nah big fool, me run away from Police while riding a car I bought with my sweat?
May God Forbid.

If I was him and I haven't done wrong I will stop immediately they flag me down and demand to know why they stopping me, as far as nah broad day light, I ain't moving

diamond68:
Beat that nigga into the shadow realm 😆

What the fvck u laughing at?, 😠
Did u watch the video or just want to be unfortunate in life?

bukatyne:
Wait, your mother was busy 'keeping her home' while your dad was busy committing adultery?

It is well.

Read again.

michigang:
e sabi nack your mama wella?

Normally,
Them suppose enjoy their marriage nah

LilMissFavvy:
I don't know what you are talking about, but any man who would bring in a hoe into his matrimonial bed on his wife's absence is a very bad/irresponsible SOG. That's why I'm always happy when these men suffer in old age.

You ended up saying nothing,
Thanks for your time anyways 👍

LilMissFavvy:
Tell your mother. Only a very irresponsible man would bring a hoe home to his matrimonial bed, your mom deserves to know.

Shebi ned nwoko is irresponsible abi? Abi the society only frown at this only when the man is not super rich,

That's how you ladies hated and castigated Yul Edochie and never see anything wrong with Ned Nwoko,

Double-standard online inlaws association with their nose constantly poking where it doesn't belong 😂😂😂😂😂

efemena5050:
ur matter get as e be oooo....
Ur dad bribed u so he can continue cheating on ur mom...

He's living his life, who am I to stop him ?

If he's as rich as Ned Nwoko and decide to marry younger girls, the society won't see anything wrong with it right? My mom is too busy keeping her home, she knows my dad better than we all do, so she handle things her own way and I never have them quarrel or argue about anything before

My dad was alive to his responsibilities and he made sure we lacked nothing and my mom too, so what ever rocks his boat is really cool by me, no be me devil go use spoil my family

nams77:
Na me be that. My father was that kind of man too. My son go understand say him papa na OG when the time comes

Aswear down

Ikpongiton:
I have been following you guys and your bunch of wisdom,I wish a son or brother like you for myself.but for the op,he is an idiot.

I greet you bossman 🙌☺️

Nnamdipapa:
You are lucky. Me I be the kind dad wey go even provide condoms to my sons and teach them safe sex.

Same thing my dad always teach me when I got to adulthood especially when I got admission

Son, I use to see your kurukere movement with that girl, abeg try bring her home at least make I know her well, and if u both can't wait to get married, if u must have sex make sure u use a condom at least..

My dad use to say, if u don't teach your kids sex education, they will go out and learn it from the wrong people with wrong orientation

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

My brother no talk much your parle na confirm gee, when I was much younger my parle dey pack babes left right center and I Sabi all of them but never did I tell my mum even when my marle dey suspect I go still keep mute cuz you know the funny thing it's non of my business, if you use your mouth take scatter the fam e no go only end for your mama and papa matters but other issues go come board and trust me that family will never remain the same, it's better if that guy parle is caught by his mum rather than him doing the reporting.

Apt

LordBiden:
Mtchweeeeww...

How will Madagascar people even vibe to his songs since they don't speak or hear English let alone pidgin English.

Same way we all vibed to Awilo Logomba and we don't understand shit that he saying in his songs 😂😂

Music is an universal language, never heard of that ?

ITbomb:
Make him proud pls, his kind and even your kind (as a son) are rare

Sure boss, my dad is one of my best friends, that father son relationship he made sure we enjoy it to the fullest, I will never disappoint him and so I will have same relationship with my sons

Smilleydr:
Omo you dey crack me oooo, I swear I like that man, I want to be like him when I grow up

Me too oh, my dad nah very cool guy man 😂

PeterObi4Presid:
Lols....ur papa na bad guy.....
Thank God u were a wise son
I can bet that even if u had not received any shut-up-cash , u wouldn't have told on him....unlike this OP wey no one geh sense....lol...
..

My papa nah serious guy man, when I was 20 years old, I took a girl out to a lounge, we where there for more than 30 minutes just gisting without ordering anything, I was clueless 😂

Until the waitress brought us a grilled fish with chill Hollandiaa and two glasses, I was surprised because I didn't order anything, she said the bill has been taken care of by that man, she pointed and I saw my dad chilling with his friends eating fish and drinking Arabian tea. I went and greeted him and his friends and he said

You this boy, you don't have sense oh, you don't know how to treat a lady, why u go carry your girlfriend come for lounge and for more than 30 minutes u no order anything for u guys to eat and drink, next time if u no get money stay at home and help your mummy in the kitchen 😂😂😂😂
His friends bust out serious laughter. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

I miss my papi seriously

Meteng:
You didn’t catch him. You just saw condom and the rest in his room. Is that catching?

This picture always crack me up 😂😂😂😂

ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me


Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??

your dad is an adult and can decide to do whatever rocks his boat, Think about things that will better your 2025, don't be a snitch, reporting him is foolery, your dad can even decide to marry her officially and you can't do nothing about it,

When I was n the university like 10 years ago, ASUU was on strike and I parked my stuff and went back home, as I approached my street leading to our house, I saw my dad dropped off a girl before heading to the junction that led to our street, I flagged him, and he gave me a lift, the ride was a quite and awkward one until my dad stopped and started pressing his phone, after a few minutes he said to me, check your phone, I did and he had sent me money, he said remember that shoe u told me u like, go and get it for your self, and remember, you saw nothing I answered yes boss 🙌😂,

He's an adult, and I can't tell him what to do, me snitch on my dad ke, I dey mad ni 😂😂😂😂😂

richiemcgold:
I graduated in 2010 and went into business right away. I've got no time for Law School since then.

You should have just gone to law school and be called to bar, u could pursue other venture afterward

richiemcgold:
My insistence on reading Law in my early 20s. I was already a 200L Edu student but I decided to drop out so as to pursue a Law degree in another institution. Both my parents and a very close friend advised me against the decision but I was too stubborn. I regret it till today.

Have u been called to bar ?

Alakoriomo:
Dangote is only worth around $28Billion US dollars. That’s just a little compare to what a cleaner earn per week in the USA.

Omo, wetin u smoke abeg ?😂😂

Which kind gutter talk be this, do u know what dangote really worth, abi nah Christmas overfeeding they worry op? 🙄🙄

Beautiful couple, but money spraying is totally unnecessary here, makes it look like she accepted the proposal for the wrong reasons, anyway, what do I know, 🙉

lemme focus on my amarula and chicken way dey my front

Merry Christmas people ,🎉

So called saner clime

aysnoopy:
Which money u have wey dem dey feast on?

I weak oh
Guys plenty werey full naira land oh 😂😂

hakeemhakeem:
I want to ask for a friend which one is federal employment is it a ministry/dept/agency

Ask for your enemy if u want, it ministry

Believe it, or not, non of my concern

gr8ofnnetwork:
Liars on the sprawl😂😂😂😂.

I don't need to prove anything for you and I don't need you to believe me, but fact remains that federal workers haven't been paid, it's not matter of the bank I use, all my colleagues non has seen alert yet

WesleyPepper:
I am a civil servant and I work in one of the federal government owned hospitals in Lagos .
We were paid in my Centre 2 days ago.

So stop with the generalization

If u have been paid just keep mute and stop using your center to make a general statement, I am a civil servant too, I work in Abuja, federal employment and non of us has been paid