₦airaland Forum

Estharfabian:
I said an "Hot" dude...

kikikikikikik

NemzySeries:
hmmmmm.....SA of all countries? Immorality dere is as common as pure water sold here in naija, jst kw dat it wud take God to have him bk to normality

Thank you NemzySeriesm, appreciative heart

Cutehector:
sugarvallly u read what estharfabian wrote, gv me ur pin!

funny dude

IamLEGEND1:
Dem Punkyveer don hook the brother with oversized packages

to him, you now look like someone used pressing iron on ur behind.

shít happens, you're 23 for crying out loud... wetin you dey even do with 29yr old man.

lolzz

oshe11:
d dude has strted choppin free SA KPOMO..... Jst pray he doesnt gt infected wit HIV b4 he gts bak to his senses n realise dat d KPOMO he is cruising has bn cruised by alotta Nigga b4.........





Mek sure he goes 4 HIV test b4 he cruises U..... I no wan hear story dat touches d heart ooooo..... No go waste ur years of study bt gettin infectd(GOD FORBID THO)



a word is enuf............

thanks for your words

hebenezher:
look here dear, your man is only acting regarding the fact that he knows you love him... in this type of situation, give him space, no message and never you show that you're hurt even though you're... be very strong and be yourself.... reduce every attention you pay to him, pretend as if you're already moving on with your life.... you can call him on phone, but let it be very short. call him like three times a week.. let him miss you, let him wait all day for your call.. that's how to do it

Thank you very much for this wonderful advice

LadyX:
My advice is: don't lose focus. Continue with the saloon training so that you become financially independent.

I know it's hard, but try not to contact him and see how he behaves/takes it. I know you love him and perhaps you are telling yourself that you can't live without him, but lemme assure you that no one indispensable.

Try to relax and treat yourself right.

thank u swirry,its a great pleasure

Ashanti0522:
5 years Oh man . that's a long time to just let go but his attitude is only gonna get worse because he's been helping you financially and he knows he has you wrapped around his finger .. You have to let him miss you dear .. If you know what I mean

I will.thanks alot anshanti

LadyX:
Op, he feels he is entitled to treat you however he feels because he's been assisting you financially.

you are right dear

lumzybo:
This is what happens when a girl is over-dependent on his man 4 all her expenses.

He thinks less of u and will in no tym misbehave. He believes there is nowhere u can run to as u will always come back to ask 4 support.

Well, if I were u, I wuld stay focused and complete my nysc and apprenticeship and hope 4 a better and independent 2mrw.

my dear thanks alot for your advice, the fact is am an independent lady.i dont run to him or ask him whenever am in needy!

As a matter of fact,am a contract staff in one of the oil/gas company...Its just that we care for each other

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coolhumble:
Dont bother him too much with message, greet him and tell him you miss him then no more message until he read and reply.

Thank you very much, a grateful heart

osedvgirl:
I can feel your pains dear.


this is what I operate on.......If he is for me, it will BE but if he is not for me, DESTINY

sighs...thanks girlfriend

misspicy:
OP your man has started seeing SA as$ so he gats misbehave....my advice,give him space if he is yours he will come back to his right senses...

Thank you very much missspicy

divinehand2003:
My dear, run for your life now that you have the time and chance. Studies have shown that such unforgiving men might be worse as the relationship progresses unless he becomes born again my dear. Don't u ever believe that you can change a man. It's only God that touches the heart of men for the better.

He's always been like this right from the onset, thinking he was gonna change..smh

coolhumble:
He loves you, hes just enjoying SA he will soon get tired of those things that still freak him. Just take your cool and once in a while let him understand hes hurting you and let him know hes changing and you are not happy about it.

Thanks dear, funny enough hes on bbm now listening to music but he hasnt read my pings

osedvgirl:
5 years

yeah

Pls help

jamesbridget13:
pls be careful how u confront him abt it. D part i dont like is him blaming u for everything. God is by ur side n wont let u down.

My husband came back with his result n mine around august dis year. He dropped both n asked me to look. I was only interested in d infection result. I don't even knw d amount of sperm dats low or normal.

I checked n my huzy count was 13mill. He was d one dat told me d doc said its low but dat he equally said some persons with lower count got their wify pregnant.

Huzy was down i had to encourage him as we both were taking our medications.

Today am preggy to d glory of God. D drugs i n huzy took in total is #5000 worth. Only God could do such a miracle.

Just find a good way to talk to dh. While ttc dh n u re meant to work hand in hand. Even in prayer, u two shld pray together abt it. There is nothing God can not do.

U n all will rejoice very soon

such a nice advice God bless,and congratulations

RipVanWink:
the result is not that bad, though the 6.8ml raises a red flag....how many days abstinence before the sample was produced?
6.8ml is way too much to come from 1 ejac,ulation , that is a case of my cup runnet over!!! normal range is 2 to 4ml.
let him redo the test and do 2 to 3 days abstinence., some hospitals say upto 5 days is ok, but that introduces errors/dead/immotile sp,erm cells.
most of the serious ivf centers demand 2 to 3 days
some1 pls correct me if am wrong

he stayed 4 days..

tsquaure:
people has seen a good improvement with it. like everything in this world it doesn't work for all. Most times it helps to identify d cause for the low motility and or low count. Some may be due to varicocele veins, other nutrition some others lifestyle. I am trying to look for the link on nairaland where male infertility issues are discussed. once i find it I will post d link. As per confronting him. I strongly advice u do it prayfully. Nothing hurts men more o. It is like a direct attack on their man hood. Up until recently my husband n I battled d matter. In fact he has refused to go for the corrective surgery. I don't fight him. I just look for when he is in a relaxed mood to broach d topic. When I see the matter is becoming too hot I back down He started using d supplements but doctors say we have do 3months of drugs before retesting. The Lord will help. Choose ur time Well. Know when to stop. God will give u wisdom n answer ur prayers

oh,I will so much appreciate it.tanks so so much
thanks for the advice

Dazzle86:
Am sorry, but why are you scared of telling him you saw it. You are the one who should be angry for his keeping the knowledge to himself and blaming you. You need to stop walking on eggshells over this issue and tackle it head on. if he wants to be angry let him. it's only for a little while. Then you can both tackle the situation.

Thanks dear,I will do as uv said
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tsquaure:
The count is on d low side. But still women have been known to conceive even with the low sperm count (I am an example). Chances quite low though. The Motility is low. U can try buy fertilaid for men , also buy the one to improve motility. If he is overweight, try to get him to loose weight. He should reduce drinking to d barest minimum if he drinks. All d best

Thank you so much.But this fertilaid,have you heard a testimony from anyone who has used It?

mamakendra:
My dear with God ALL things are possible.
I took in with an sfa of 12mill, a motility of 20%. Even the doctor was marvelled.
God can do it. Let him take the necessary medications, and you, tidy your own area.
It shall end in praise.

thanks mummy k
The most annoying part is my hubby keeps accusing me the cause is from my part.
Hes been hiding this result from me
little did he know I have seen it.and when I asked him about the report he keep saying everything is fine with him.i love him so much,I dont know how best to confront him without getting him angry. thanks once again

Please help, am TTC I have been married for 5 years now all to no avail.

My husband did a sperm analysis. And the result showed he has 15m count, motility 30%, (20% active 10%sluggish) Non-motile 70%, volume 6.8ml

What are my chances of getting pregnant?

yinksob002:
Any amount from 450k upwards will be fine. However, it is equally important to ensure that your account has a good turnover too (i.e Funds come in and go out). For a visitors visa, you need the following docs:

1) International passport
2) Completed visa application form with two passport photographs (White background)
3) Yellow card
4) Letter of Introduction from employer or Self letter of introduction if you are self employed
5) Bank Statement
6) Pay slips
7) Valid hotel booking
Flight reservation
9) Visa application fees
10)Copy of work ID card
You can also include any other supporting documents you have (if any) to boost your chances. All the best.

thanx alot

please,I need to know the requirements for SA visa. I am planning to travel next year (Feb). How much do I need to have as a statement of account? currently, I have 230k.
please I need answers. Thanks

nawao

jaxxy:
U Will go to the North, u will see it and u Will conquer It. Dats all

By broda served in Taraba. Notin happened bt dat Ws b4 boko boy came to being. Bt even now a frnd on mine severed at zamfarA I think. He did he camp there bt I think changed his posting afterwards. Cheer up and hv faith.

its actually a nice place,I camped there but I redeployed to bayelsa..I had fun though.