osedvgirl:
5 years

coolhumble:
He loves you, hes just enjoying SA he will soon get tired of those things that still freak him. Just take your cool and once in a while let him understand hes hurting you and let him know hes changing and you are not happy about it.

coolhumble:
He loves you, hes just enjoying SA he will soon get tired of those things that still freak him. Just take your cool and once in a while let him understand hes hurting you and let him know hes changing and you are not happy about it.

divinehand2003:
My dear, run for your life now that you have the time and chance. Studies have shown that such unforgiving men might be worse as the relationship progresses unless he becomes born again my dear. Don't u ever believe that you can change a man. It's only God that touches the heart of men for the better.

misspicy:
OP your man has started seeing SA as$ so he gats misbehave....my advice,give him space if he is yours he will come back to his right senses...

sugarvallly:



Thanks dear, funny enough hes on bbm now listening to music but he hasnt read my pings

sugarvallly:



Thanks dear, funny enough hes on bbm now listening to music but he hasnt read my pings

Mutuwa:


A person with pride,vainglory and arrogance rarely yields to his mistakes.

However, if you think you can change him..(which most girls think they can),you may want to stay and continue to endure whatever comes to you.

Mutuwa:


A person with pride,vainglory and arrogance rarely yields to his mistakes.

However, if you think you can change him..(which most girls think they can),you may want to stay and continue to endure whatever comes to you.

osedvgirl:

I can feel your pains dear.


this is what I operate on.......If he is for me, it will BE but if he is not for me, DESTINY

coolhumble:


Dont bother him too much with message, greet him and tell him you miss him then no more message until he read and reply.

lumzybo:
This is what happens when a girl is over-dependent on his man 4 all her expenses.

He thinks less of u and will in no tym misbehave. He believes there is nowhere u can run to as u will always come back to ask 4 support.

Well, if I were u, I wuld stay focused and complete my nysc and apprenticeship and hope 4 a better and independent 2mrw.

Oyind17:
Men and their smelling ego, I no get anything to say o

dmola:


this one way u tlk nko?

sugarvallly:
He Hardly Forgives/Apologise Even When He's Faulty

I'm in a relationship with my Fiance who is 29 and
I'm 23 we've been dating for 5 years now,and we recently got engaged. Last month he left the country For SA,all these while we've been communicating via WhatsApp and and of course calls

Although this guy has helped me and my family financially and I have also helped him too to achieve his goals,have sacrificed alot for this guy and our relationship have never cheated on him because I love him (despite the ups and downs in our relationship,we still managed to sort things out amicably) His families loves me like their own because of what he told them about me, and I was like a daughter/sister to them.

Right now am serving in one of the states in south
south( Batch A 2015) I have just 5 months left in my service year,But last month,he sent me some money
to pay to be an apprentice (stylist) so as to have an handwork because he's making plans towards bringing me over.we've been good,not until 30th of Oct a little strife ensued between us.

I sent him a watsap message on the 29th (morning),
which he told me he was very busy.Expecting he would
call/chat when he's less busy but i was wrong.In
the evenin I sent him a message,he didn't read it
nor reply but it shows he was online (I saw his last seen).The most painful part was that he updated his facebook and posted"club things" even when he came back,he never bothered to check on me.Fast forward to Saturday, he replied the mesage which I left on Friday,calling it a rubbish message or do I think he's in Nigeria?or do I think he is jobless like me? i was so angry with his response,I told him point of correction
am not jobless.Although he said so many annoying
things.but I managed to reply him with "ok" in order to avoid quarrel.So we laughed over it, and asked me where I was,I told him (saloon) and he said I should face my work while he will also face his work.

Due to annoyance, I said "workaholic bye bye o". immediately,he said he will stop chating with me,b4 I knew it he already had me blocked.we'v not been talking since that day till now.yesterday morning, I noticeď he has unblocked me..please what do you suggest I do? please am I at fault?

Have been sending him messages,but he ignored after reading.

Lalasticlala please this is my first topic since I joined Nairaland family please help push to FP.Thanks

sorry about the typo error

LadyX:
Op, he feels he is entitled to treat you however he feels because he's been assisting you financially.

Ashanti0522:


5 years Oh man . that's a long time to just let go but his attitude is only gonna get worse because he's been helping you financially and he knows he has you wrapped around his finger .. You have to let him miss you dear .. If you know what I mean