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Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by LadyX(f): 6:36pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
sugarvallly:My advice is: don't lose focus. Continue with the saloon training so that you become financially independent. I know it's hard, but try not to contact him and see how he behaves/takes it. I know you love him and perhaps you are telling yourself that you can't live without him, but lemme assure you that no one indispensable. Try to relax and treat yourself right. |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by sugarvallly(f): 6:44pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
LadyX: thank u swirry,its a great pleasure |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by hebenezher(m): 7:04pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
sugarvallly:look here dear, your man is only acting regarding the fact that he knows you love him... in this type of situation, give him space, no message and never you show that you're hurt even though you're... be very strong and be yourself.... reduce every attention you pay to him, pretend as if you're already moving on with your life.... you can call him on phone, but let it be very short. call him like three times a week.. let him miss you, let him wait all day for your call.. that's how to do it 2 Likes |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by sugarvallly(f): 7:37pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
hebenezher: Thank you very much for this wonderful advice |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by IamLEGEND1: 7:56pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
Dem Punkyveer don hook the brother with oversized packages to him, you now look like someone used pressing iron on ur behind. shít happens, you're 23 for crying out loud... wetin you dey even do with 29yr old man. |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by Nobody: 7:56pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
Uh...Ignore his Ass! Guys Are Annoying most times...you just havetah Show him who's the boss...*****YOU**** My Advice is Thus...Ignore him..totally...Just let Him flex his Life in SA... If I were in Your shoes...he'll actually pay for blocking me...*I'd block him too** Update numerous Updates on BbM about U having fun and flexing...***** Give A Hot NAiralander your pin..to make it Hurt him wella....Upload a Photo of Wizkid and update "My boo"....chat with any Random guy...don't text him anymore abeg..."" it'll make u look thirsty**** *****I'm sure he'll come to his senses Soon! "" just be cool...You're way too young to be giving yourself Headaches over A Conceited Guy... |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by Nobody: 8:03pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
Rubbishes! Use ur brain op, use ur brain handle ur own sh*t! U wouldn't bring every problem af ur life; @ work, with kids, with friends online for us to solve 4 u. Will u? Ur head shouldn't b big 4 nathing I feel so, start practicing |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by Cutehector(m): 8:26pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
Estharfabian:sugarvallly u read what estharfabian wrote, gv me ur pin! |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by oshe11: 11:47pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
sugarvallly:d dude has strted choppin free SA KPOMO..... Jst pray he doesnt gt infected wit HIV b4 he gts bak to his senses n realise dat d KPOMO he is cruising has bn cruised by alotta Nigga b4......... Mek sure he goes 4 HIV test b4 he cruises U..... I no wan hear story dat touches d heart ooooo..... No go waste ur years of study bt gettin infectd(GOD FORBID THO) a word is enuf............ |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by sugarvallly(f): 11:53pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
oshe11: thanks for your words |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by sugarvallly(f): 11:55pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
IamLEGEND1: lolzz |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by sugarvallly(f): 11:57pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
Cutehector: funny dude |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by oshe11: 11:59pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
sugarvallly:u r wlc afta all u b pretty n educated gal, so U deserve beta....... Alws rememba dat sum1 made u alife n also to read dis msg...... So weneva u r hurt..... Jst look up n c behind d sky..... Oluwa Is Involved 1 Like |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by Nobody: 11:59pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
Cutehector:I said an "Hot" dude... |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by Solotone007: 12:37am On Nov 04, 2015 |
Watch and pray girl! |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by Cutehector(m): 6:36am On Nov 04, 2015 |
Estharfabian:and wen u will eventually get married, its ur lot dat will settle wit a fat pot bellied man... 1 Like |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by NemzySeries(m): 7:26am On Nov 04, 2015 |
hmmmmm.....SA of all countries? Immorality dere is as common as pure water sold here in naija, jst kw dat it wud take God to have him bk to normality |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by sugarvallly(f): 7:55am On Nov 04, 2015 |
NemzySeries: Thank you NemzySeriesm, appreciative heart |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by sugarvallly(f): 7:56am On Nov 04, 2015 |
Estharfabian: kikikikikikik |
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Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by Nobody: 8:46am On Nov 04, 2015 |
Cutehector:Uhm...I sense Some sort of "PAINMENT" here..."" LoL...Besides, Having an 8-pack is A Criteria...My Husby must Have 'em....Else, I'll Go and deflate my Boobies..."" |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by Cutehector(m): 9:00am On Nov 04, 2015 |
Estharfabian:chei.. U will so become a flat chested woman! I tell u solemnly. |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by Nobody: 9:20am On Nov 04, 2015 |
Cutehector:Enemy of progress.... |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by Cutehector(m): 10:20am On Nov 04, 2015 |
Estharfabian:babe no be by enemy of progress, I dey try yarn u reality alryt. No worry wen u clock 28 and above, u go knw... |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by aweezy001: 12:20pm On Nov 04, 2015 |
hebenezher:Now this guy has said it all. Am suprised people are saying you should leave or walk away 5 years relationship! Rome wasnt built in a day even if you walk away ,do you know the attitude the new guy would showcase? Your guy loves you cos if he doesnt you guys cant be for 5years long. What annoyed him was that (based on what I read here), he said he was busy but expected you to get back to him which you actually did but was late compared to what he expected (I hope you understand). Every one has his/her ego, what is wrong with him now is that he is doing "am the owner kinda attitude" ..hehehe But just like this my guy has said earlier, let him miss you with the slated processes! ...Now datz how to do it You would be glad you dint walk away! |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by Nobody: 12:21pm On Nov 04, 2015 |
Cutehector:that'd be in the next 10yrs...Long time jaweh... |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by Cutehector(m): 2:45pm On Nov 04, 2015 |
Estharfabian:wait so u r 18? Chei. Child abuse 1 Like |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by NemzySeries(m): 3:19pm On Nov 04, 2015 |
sugarvallly:corper U're always Welkom....i jst passed out last month sha but d important tin here is dat derz a new distraction ur man is facing & 2ndly u cant force a man to luv u bkos luv is best offered free tru sincerity & geniuty. once a man start vexing ova wat he ordinarily ova looks den derz a problem.....open ur eyes & b very observant bkos promising u south Africa is not an xcuse 4 falling into wrong hands....u can always go dere sum orda time jst a mata of time....takia & av a sparkling week ahead 1 Like |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by kinglekan: 7:40am On Nov 05, 2015 |
sugarvallly: You said he hardly forgives or appologises even when he is at fault. When exactly did you notice this change? Has it always been like that for the past 5years? Do you also choke him with a lotta chats? Who starts most of the conversations? |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by sugarvallly(f): 7:49am On Nov 05, 2015 |
kinglekan: it has been like that right from the onset. I dont choke with chats I start the conversation most time |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by kinglekan: 8:17am On Nov 05, 2015 |
sugarvallly:[b] Am thinking you have been compromising from the onset. You cant change him, the only person you can change and improve on is you. Focus more on developing yourself. You made mention of sacrifing a lot for him and immediately followed that up with you being faithful. In an ideal relationship you ought to be faithful, so if thats part of your sacrifice then it really is nothing. From the look of things you are choking him up and ofcos you have allowed him let his ego take the better part of him. The fact that you start most of the convo is clear indication you need to give him space and stop clouding him. Even if you miss him just send a message and dont always expect a reply. Reduce the frequency of your chats and focus on YOUUU. Notice i emphasized the "you". This is because its natural for some other guy to start giving you the attention you crave from your bf during this period which definitely feels good but you need to be cautious not to let your emotions decide for you. One final thing, if you cant stay with someone who doesnt forgive or appologise when they are at fault, then do not completely commit to a lifetime with your fiancee with that hope he would change. If he would change let him change first before you do commit. Although the chances are slim since he has been like that for the past 5years but then again it could just be that he sees you as a liability and you haven't shown him why he cant do without you hence the unforgiving egoistic attitude. [/b] 1 Like |
Re: He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty by sugarvallly(f): 10:54am On Nov 08, 2015 |
kinglekan: Thank you so much,may God bless you for this and happy sunday.have a great day ahead 1 Like |
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