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he is in a relationship hes just lying and want a phone date

I cant seriously answer your number one question. I was on my period and when we started that he didnt do good i asked him to take the medication and he said it was finshed. i was shocked that i had to slap him. And that is why i think he has used it with someone when i wasnt around. I am so scared rght now and you cant get the truth out of him. I was thinking he shuld let me know when he was taking the meds so i can assist and prepare myself for sex. atleast i got him to the doctor. Viagra is the only meds for this type of problem and whereelse can i take him. we are 31 and this is just too early. My parents wont understad when i tell them. so you guys are my friend.

TrapQueen77:
I am confused here...

1.is he taking viagra religiously even u both don't engage in sex? Which is crazzzy unless he's using it with somebody when ur not around...

2. Or is he lying to u ( he really don't take them or he throw them away)... He doesn't want help.


As much as possible, I myself don't believe in juju thing.. Take him to another doctor for 2nd or 3rdd opinion... They may find a better solution to his problem...
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I knew my husband couple of year back before i moved out of state. We had a vey good sex 8 years ago before i traveled. Then since they we talked offline for like a year. After several years, we lost touch, we barely speak to each other. 2015 we reconnected back on Whatsapp and decided to marry each other. OH before then, i traveled to Nigeria and we met causally and went to an hotel to have sex but the sex didn't work out. MAY BE I should have suspected the erection (erection) problem then. I rushed into a marriage with him in 2015 and filled for him to come to America and since then 8 months ago, the sexual life hasn't be great. I took him to a Doctor, the doctor prescribed Viagra. When the sex wasnt good i reminded him to use his meds and he told me the meds has finished.
1. I didnt know when he finshed the Viagra because it doesn't even looked like he was using the meds and we i was menstruating the perod he repoerted he used the last meds.
2. he is fighting with erection and our marriage is just a year old and we are still very young. nearly 30
3. please what will you ask me to do. Stay with him and live my life depending on viagra fro life or could this be juju they use to marry me
or i shoudl still around and accept my fate?
PLEASE DONT COME HERE AND FORM HOLY. IF YOU CAN ADVICE AS THO ITS YOUR FAMILY MEMBER DO OR READ AND WAKA GO

Please advice VO,
I recently filed for my husband and he joined me in 2016 this Feb and i have come to realize we are not compatible is there a way his conditional visa because our marriage is less than two years not be permanent? I am not willing to continue with the marriage.. can he go back to Nigeria or just remain here but i am not helping or signing in removing conditions. Thank you

Thanks guys. Time will heal this situation.
like someone said, i didn't test drive. we knew while we were younger and when we got older we just decided to rush in the marriage and now we are living together proper is for me to find out the situation.

Obamina:
Sit him down and discuss it with him

We always talk about it. And he said devil is a liar. If I leave the marriage, am I a bad person

When we ask for sincere opinion that what we need. Atleast this one is not that it is my friend.. true confession na me o

Please I want sincere opinion:
Since my husband and I have been living together for two months now, our sexual lifestyle has been nothing to write home about. He doesn't have erection sometimes and if he does the sex is not always good.
I need an advice on what I can do. I am thinking of leaving the marriage and getting another man or just go out and have sex with another man or just stay with my fate.

Please or what other thing can you suggest. If you have a sincere advice please share with me. Just the sex.. Tho you can't have a 100% guy.. he loves me and always afraid I can leave him... I am confuse. .. I would have love that we have Atleast good sexual life.

How is everyone doing?
Is dyt still making trouble?
Cococandy nko?
I see we gat some new friends too..

LagosNIV:
You have already received your instructions. You can go by the DHL at any time but if you were told to wait 15 days then that might be the best way to not waste your time.

Does it mean the visa hasn't been issued since it showing administrative processing. Or its issued and sometimes shows that.

I am kind of confused.
Thanks for explaining to me

LagosNIV:
You have already received your instructions. You can go by the DHL at any time but if you were told to wait 15 days then that might be the best way to not waste your time.

But CEAC still shows Administrative processing.

Hello VO

Passport dropped off after 2 and half weeks of AP and it's been confirmed received.

I got an email saying we should wait 15 days for pick up. We have been waiting for AP and CEAC usually says if approved, it will be ready within two days.

Does it mean we would have to wait the whole 15days? I have been waiting VO.
My birthday is coming up and want to be with my wife.

Thanks

Does anyone knows a website or agent that sells cheap and affordable flight ticket to US?

Or what is the range in this prices, any recent buyer?

Thanks

kokolet007:
I got married august 15 2015, it was a memorable day!
We had our differences expecially DH won't spend quality time at home during weekends it's bother me more!
I don't want to b a nagging wife, so sometimes I keep to mysef though it makes him uncomfortable but I refer that than arguing everytime.

I hate men for for that? i think they do it on purpose!! why wont you be home with your wife on the weekened. My hubby wants to practioce that

Ill rather say something that remain hurt in silence

LaDivva:
Thread gone quiet, well it's been fun from November till date. Though I'm still a student and had to go back to school late January, tried so hard to get preggy to no avail lol. Though DH came over few days back and we had *fun*, I just hope I get a BFP this month

Sorry what is DH?
Stress can cause the delay you know?
Ill advice you work less hours... are you combining school and work? BFP is what? (my bad )

Aqva:
Why do Nigerians celebrate receiving a Visa to a foreign country? It's quite embarrassing. Some even fast and pray over it. I can understand giving tips and guiding people to complete their forms.

Are you serious with your question? You even narrow it down to Nigeria(ns).. Well
1. Nigeria economy is not good compared to foreign country like US the current thread you are right now
2. There is a lot of opportunity in Us than Nigeria.. Opportunities like good job, good education for your children
3. in foreign country like US, you can acquire generational wealth. that is, you an your generational shall lack no more
4. no traffic
5. constant electricity
6. enough food and water. no Lassa fever, no malaria
7. good roads.. no traffic from morning to night.

Mr man or Mrs woman the list is endless/ I shall sure update as i remember them... I will fast 40 days and 40 nights to get such a good life for me, my kids and generation. You better don't deceive your self...

Hello VO

Please how long does it take for GSS to deliver our passport to embassy once we drop it off. Tho this is a drop off at Lagos GSS.

Thanks

.email has been received
Thanks

Good morning VO

My wife told me that we should be expecting an email from the embassy letting us know when I should bring my passport.
Please I am not receiving any email yet. Let me know if u need my case number Thanks VO