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evb2000:
Research. Youtube is a good place to start.

Good morning, sir. I really hope you see my mention, I don't know if you'd still remember my moniker.

I keep going through your diary to keep my morale high even though I haven't made anything substantial on KDP. On one of your month (January 2022), you were extremely productive, write 19 high quality books. Please, how long were these books? It seems you had constant power supply then?

Please forgive my over curiosity. I literally quitted my job and relocated to the countryside to live with my mom so I can focus on KDP. This is how serious I am, this time. I will appreciate any firm of motivation.

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What exactly is wrong with retards like this? 🤦🏿‍♂️

I might have come across a name like that here. May he rest in peace. Our reward in life is death, let us learn to embrace it.

Grupo:
Wow. Man, you are really killing it. 25k USD in one month is enough money. Jeez.

I have only made around $192 this month on Kindle. I did that with just two books. It has been my best month so far on Amazon. Haha. I'm happy. Considering it is passive income and I haven't done a new book since June.

Seems I should elevate this publishing thing as my primary business and take it seriously.

Hi!


Do you still do kdp?

Kvarachi:
You're saying balderdash, this things happens and will still continue happening and there's nothing you or anybody can do about it.
A little favor to your own person will not cause any harm to anybody

Calm and go eat in the toilet. Yes, you're absolutely right, I merely asked a question but you read to attack not to reflect.

Duchexx:
I don’t know what y’all are saying but if it’s my man that came to buy fuel or anywhere I have the power (bank, fast food etc) I’d attend to him first!
All these people talking rubbish are saying so because they enjoy talking rubbish.
@poster, you are right to feel however you feel!

Interesting!

I hope you and that boring dude zonefree won't complain if someone attends to customers at the back because they are cool with them?

Knightred:
dude,can u pls kill mrcork for me, am begging u,he his so so stupid like u,if u kill him he die
Then u also go to prison and die
And that will make me very happy

So when are u killing him and when are u dying?

Cause celeb waiting

What a poor and greedy man! Even if you didn't have the money, what exactly stopped you from taking a loan from at least 10 of these loan apps? Do you expect the poor girl to stay broke and spread her legs for you while hunger and sickness is 'panelbeating' her like Mike Tyson?

Look at those lips, it's unfortunate she isn't making good use of what has been given to her. Those lips can do better things than lying, if the face is too ugly like that of a stereotypical thief, she better wear a mask and kneel instead of graduating to arm robbery.

Great thread, keep it up.

lacasera14:
Until the challenge is accepted which doesn't have to be time tasking since you'll be ignoring and not focusing your attention, the only place we'll find a common ground is if you say it's subjective. It can work for some low self esteemed women and you have to be extremely attractive and irresistible for it to work. There's no mystery behind an ugly face that's easy to forget. You ignore and be ignored forever. However, I'm not a proponent of choking a woman with love unless you both are officially partners and there can't be enough choking. But completely ignoring a woman with the hopes that it cause her to be attracted to you is laughable and delusional but I can accept that it's subjective - works for some women, some category of women. Peace bro.

That's why I said partially not fully — I think that's where you're misunderstanding this whole concept. Remember "too much of everything is bad," this is why you should start in the middle.

And why would anyone especially a woman want you when you have nothing to offer?

lacasera14:
I like your perspective. Quite thoughtful. However, this reverse psychology hardly works for a couple of reasons.
1. Women have ego, especially the beautiful ones with a ton of admirers.
2. Unless they love you to a fault and that's because of something you possess that none of her courters have. Even at that, the ego in her won't allow her return the attention you didn't give.
3. I believe a woman can love you and crave you after she's known you for who you are not what you're not by distancing yourself from her. You only create an aura of mystery and if she's interested in you because of that, it's because of curiosity not attraction. When she eventually finds out there's nothing special about you she'd leave.
4. If you must roll by the scarcity and ignoring principle, then you have something special about you that when she draws close she gets glued.
5. Also, you have to be lucky that while you're creating scarcity another guy doesn't emerge from the blues and sweeps her away.
6. This theory of ignoring is brazenly dumb and doesn't worth even the sheet of the paper it's written on. I've put out a challenge let's try it. We create a WhatsApp group and share our results let's end this sharade and deception once and for all. It'll be fun while it lasts.

I will be happy to go on this challenge but sadly, I'm currently working on a lot of things.

However, it is important to understand that humans are attracted to things that are scarce. Even in the market, you'd see how people automatically regard anything expensive as the best. But I digress...

You only have to partially ignore not totally, learn from online markets like Amazon and Jumia; they sell things for the full price but once in a while, they give the customers promos. You ignore her partially but when it's time to give her that attention, you give her what she wants 100%.

It took me a while to figure out I subconsciously do the "ignore thing" and I was surprised seeing red pill threads on Nairaland for the first time. I reflected on myself and found out that was 80% my default state. I'm still trying to figure out what makes people attracted to me...

So, what am I trying to say? You gotta have something they find valuable or mysterious to make the 'partial ignoring method' work. You have to understand how to make proper use of your silence and words. Communications between humans is deeper than just talking, sometimes silence pass a message.

Remember when your parents would look at you in a certain way and that's all you'd need to know you've fúcked up?

If you walk into a restaurant dressing and acting on a particular way, and you keep doing that for a week; all attention will be on you. When you disappear and appear a month later, you'd successfully create some kind of mystery in the mind of those who would remember you.

You gotta have something they think they've not seen in others but in reality, you're actually playing with their mind. Even if you're ugly, she'd still wonder why you keep acting that way—curiosity can also kill a monkey. Haha

You're partially right but when we say "ignore her," we do not mean you should keep ignoring her to appear strong — there should be a limit to how you give her attention. You don't keep texting and calling her all the time, the "mystery" that drew her to you will shatter.

It all depends on the kind of person you are, I'm very introverted but confident enough to face anyone, so there's actually this strange aura around me.

And yes, I remember how I started ignoring the first girl I asked her out, her father was strict and I was under him—I tried to play safe. I literally forgot she agreed to be my girl, she agreed to date another guy years later, and I went back to her. I wasn't jealous, humans will always be humans.

She still gave me her attention, love, and everything. If we had stayed for long, she would have left the other guy but she was scared I will break her heart again. Humans partially lose interest in what they feel they can't get but when they do, they grab it.

It was okay for me to flex around but not okay for the other guy. That's the power of mystery.

SmartyPants:
Me too I played with it o. Apparently you may be a well known mumu!