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Politics / Re: Emmanuel Iwuanyawu's Younger Wife Is Pregnant (pics) by SuPeRq(f): 9:41am On Nov 10, 2015 |
Ok 1 Like |
Business / Re: MTN Group CEO Dabengwa Resigns Over N1.04tn Fine by SuPeRq(f): 8:42am On Nov 09, 2015 |
Celebrities / Re: 5 Irritating Social Media Pictures by SuPeRq(f): 8:42am On Nov 08, 2015 |
Lol |
Celebrities / Re: What Acting Wicked Characters Did To My Life — Chiwetalu Agu by SuPeRq(f): 8:25pm On Nov 07, 2015 |
Lolification |
Celebrities / Re: Is Jude Okoye’s Daughter Emma The Cutest Nigerian Celebrity Baby?(See Photos) by SuPeRq(f): 8:11pm On Nov 07, 2015 |
Cuttie |
Celebrities / Re: 2face Vs Davido:Who Rocks The N1million Gold Encrusted Sneakers Better?(pics by SuPeRq(f): 2:29pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
Ok |
Family / Re: Baby Dumped At Filling Station In Katsina (Photo) by SuPeRq(f): 12:43pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
Hmmm |
Islam for Muslims / Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by SuPeRq(f): 12:05pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
Jazakummullah khayran op 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Obiano Launches Anambra Daily Road Sweepers, 300 Employed by SuPeRq(f): 10:57am On Nov 06, 2015 |
Ok |
Crime / Re: Indian Steals Nigerian Man's joystick In Satellite Town (pics,video) by SuPeRq(f): 9:47am On Nov 04, 2015 |
Politics / Re: EFCC Moves Against Diezani’s Associates, Seizes Cars, Cash, Jewellery by SuPeRq(f): 10:56am On Nov 03, 2015 |
Good |
Phones / Re: Nokia Phone Saves Owner's Life By Stopping A Bullet (photos) by SuPeRq(f): 10:50am On Nov 03, 2015 |
Hmmmmmmm |
Business / Re: 10 Men Aliko Dangote Cannot Do Without by SuPeRq(f): 10:00am On Nov 03, 2015 |
Interesting |
Literature / Re: Chimamanda Adichie's 'half Of A Yellow Sun' Bags Decade's Best Female Authored by SuPeRq(f): 9:54am On Nov 03, 2015 |
Great |
Celebrities / Re: Sandra Achums' Beautiful Daughter Chisom (photos) by SuPeRq(f): 2:10pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
Great |
Crime / Re: 18-year-old Slits Peacemaker’s Neck (photo) by SuPeRq(f): 11:15am On Oct 30, 2015 |
Ok now |
Politics / Re: National Institute For Cultural Orientation (NICO) In SHAMBLES by SuPeRq(f): 11:00am On Oct 30, 2015 |
Hawlahscho:and I told you I am unemployed right?? I don't know why minding your own business is a great task for you....... Smh |
Islam for Muslims / Re: Seeking Forgiveness From The Most Merciful. by SuPeRq(f): 10:57am On Oct 30, 2015 |
Jazakummullah khayran |
Politics / Re: National Institute For Cultural Orientation (NICO) In SHAMBLES by SuPeRq(f): 10:30am On Oct 30, 2015 |
Hawlahscho:wetin be your own |
Celebrities / Re: Chidinma Ekile Cozying Up To Tekno On Set (Pictured) by SuPeRq(f): 10:28am On Oct 30, 2015 |
Ok |
Politics / Re: National Institute For Cultural Orientation (NICO) In SHAMBLES by SuPeRq(f): 8:52am On Oct 30, 2015 |
L |
Politics / Re: National Institute For Cultural Orientation (NICO) In SHAMBLES by SuPeRq(f): 8:51am On Oct 30, 2015 |
K |
Politics / Re: National Institute For Cultural Orientation (NICO) In SHAMBLES by SuPeRq(f): 8:51am On Oct 30, 2015 |
J |
Health / Re: SHOCKING PHOTOS: Girl Suffers Burns After Transformer Explodes At Epe,lagos by SuPeRq(f): 8:47am On Oct 30, 2015 |
I wish her accelerated recovery |
Family / Husband Scarcity by SuPeRq(f): 6:18pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
My little thought on HUSBAND SCARCITY!!! By: JUSTICE PETER This may not be the best time for me to write on this because of misinterpretations, but I can no longer resist the push. "Husband Scarcity" has become one of the challenges faced by many young girls today. If you go to prayer houses, majority of the intentions are prayer for a life partner. And this calls for concern. Casting our minds back to the time of our mothers and grandmothers, was there really much of a "Husband Scarcity" problem? Or, maybe there were more men than women then, or there was an adequate corresponding numbers of both genders. I don't think so. Maybe then, the women had values and were prepared to build a home and not park into a built home. Then, once a young man comes of age and can at least feed himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman really appreciates him and helps him to build a future. What am I really trying to say? We created what we now see as "Husband Scarcity" for ourselves. Today, the reverse is the case. Ask an average girl to define her dream husband; you get things like "he has to be tall, handsome, fair, and rich, own a house at least, and be presentable" and then she adds "God fearing" in order not to sound so worldly. Then, check the number of girls around you and the number of men that meet that standard, and you will see the problem. You hear girls say, "I cannot suffer in my father's house and then go and start suffering with a man." What a wonderful dream! What if from the beginning, you have everything you want and there is no suffering, and later in the marriage, the table turns around, then comes suffering? Will you run away? No one prays for suffering, but it is good to start small and end big, than start big and end small. The problem is that the description majority of girls give of their ideal man is virtually the same. When 50 girls want the same kind of man and the man that fits what they want is just 1 man, and the man can only pick one. Then, what becomes of 49 others? They simply start lamenting of "Husband Scarcity". Another irony of our time is that it is hard, due to the face of our economy to find a man who is of marriage age who possesses all those things these ladies want, legally (except those involved in Internet fraud); even the number of those in Internet fraud is not enough to match all those searching for already made husbands. If you look around, majority of the ladies of substance, of good value and virtue, who are ready to build a home with a man who has prospects, are married and not complaining of husband scarcity. The easiest way to find a husband now, is to change your view of who a husband is. A husband is that man God made and then saw that it may be hard for him to really actualize his purpose for making him, without a help mate and then made the woman and gave to him, and he felt complete and fulfilled. MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. It is a mission of building the family of God here on earth. For those who see marriage as a way out of poverty, it is a way into bondage. Women are HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS... DON'T CONFUSE A MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY. Where he is today, may only be a route to where God has destined him to be tomorrow. Another truth is that YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT HIS DESTINATION. Join in alleviating "husband scarcity". PICK UP THE RIGHT VALUES. I am not saying that you should pick anyone that comes your way and talks of marriage, not all men are husband materials. What I am saying is that you should stop setting your standard on material acquisitions or physical appearances. Look beyond the physical. WHAT MAKES A MAN WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE OWNS OR HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE IS MADE UP OF. And that which he is made of is, most times, not seen with the physical eyes, only its effects can be seen. Marriage is a permanent thing. Whatever is seen is temporal and that which is not seen is permanent. Relax and go to God in prayer. God did not just make Eve for making sake; He made her for Adam's need to become complete and fulfilled. Ladies in the house no cruisify me oooooo Cc: lalasticlala Help us push it to front page so that we ladies can learn......... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Husband Scarcity by SuPeRq(f): 6:10pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
My little thought on HUSBAND SCARCITY!!! By: JUSTICE PETER This may not be the best time for me to write on this because of misinterpretations, but I can no longer resist the push. "Husband Scarcity" has become one of the challenges faced by many young girls today. If you go to prayer houses, majority of the intentions are prayer for a life partner. And this calls for concern. Casting our minds back to the time of our mothers and grandmothers, was there really much of a "Husband Scarcity" problem? Or, maybe there were more men than women then, or there was an adequate corresponding numbers of both genders. I don't think so. Maybe then, the women had values and were prepared to build a home and not park into a built home. Then, once a young man comes of age and can at least feed himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman really appreciates him and helps him to build a future. What am I really trying to say? We created what we now see as "Husband Scarcity" for ourselves. Today, the reverse is the case. Ask an average girl to define her dream husband; you get things like "he has to be tall, handsome, fair, and rich, own a house at least, and be presentable" and then she adds "God fearing" in order not to sound so worldly. Then, check the number of girls around you and the number of men that meet that standard, and you will see the problem. You hear girls say, "I cannot suffer in my father's house and then go and start suffering with a man." What a wonderful dream! What if from the beginning, you have everything you want and there is no suffering, and later in the marriage, the table turns around, then comes suffering? Will you run away? No one prays for suffering, but it is good to start small and end big, than start big and end small. The problem is that the description majority of girls give of their ideal man is virtually the same. When 50 girls want the same kind of man and the man that fits what they want is just 1 man, and the man can only pick one. Then, what becomes of 49 others? They simply start lamenting of "Husband Scarcity". Another irony of our time is that it is hard, due to the face of our economy to find a man who is of marriage age who possesses all those things these ladies want, legally (except those involved in Internet fraud); even the number of those in Internet fraud is not enough to match all those searching for already made husbands. If you look around, majority of the ladies of substance, of good value and virtue, who are ready to build a home with a man who has prospects, are married and not complaining of husband scarcity. The easiest way to find a husband now, is to change your view of who a husband is. A husband is that man God made and then saw that it may be hard for him to really actualize his purpose for making him, without a help mate and then made the woman and gave to him, and he felt complete and fulfilled. MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. It is a mission of building the family of God here on earth. For those who see marriage as a way out of poverty, it is a way into bondage. Women are HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS... DON'T CONFUSE A MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY. Where he is today, may only be a route to where God has destined him to be tomorrow. Another truth is that YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT HIS DESTINATION. Join in alleviating "husband scarcity". PICK UP THE RIGHT VALUES. I am not saying that you should pick anyone that comes your way and talks of marriage, not all men are husband materials. What I am saying is that you should stop setting your standard on material acquisitions or physical appearances. Look beyond the physical. WHAT MAKES A MAN WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE OWNS OR HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE IS MADE UP OF. And that which he is made of is, most times, not seen with the physical eyes, only its effects can be seen. Marriage is a permanent thing. Whatever is seen is temporal and that which is not seen is permanent. Relax and go to God in prayer. God did not just make Eve for making sake; He made her for Adam's need to become complete and fulfilled. Ladies in the house no cruisify me oooooo 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Woman Who Cooks With Menstrual Blood Says "No Regrets" by SuPeRq(f): 1:11pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Hmmmmmmm |
Celebrities / Re: 2015 MBGN Queen, Unoaku Anyadike Contested Last Year But Lost (photos) by SuPeRq(f): 9:30am On Oct 25, 2015 |
My hausa sister |
Celebrities / Re: 2015 MBGN Queen, Unoaku Anyadike Contested Last Year But Lost (photos) by SuPeRq(f): 9:24am On Oct 25, 2015 |
.......... |
Politics / Re: Breaking! Scores Killed In Yola Blast by SuPeRq(f): 3:46pm On Oct 23, 2015 |
God have mercy |
Phones / Re: The power of Lumia 520 Lens by SuPeRq(f): 9:29pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
K |
Health / Re: NAFDAC Closes Illegal Chinese Factory Producing Mosquito Coil In Kano by SuPeRq(f): 7:33pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
Chuchisinnn |
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