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Romance › Re: Does A Woman Has The Ability To Choose The Man She Wants To Marry? by SURElee(f): 1:38am On Jul 30
Bendeco02:
Is left for the woman to accept or decline not choose.

If women are to choose, which woman will go for barrow pusher or gate man?

Even male beggers have wife

Can you choose Davido or Wiskid because you like him if he didn't show interest in you?
I have madey points clear, I won't waste my time bantering with you.

You mentioned barrow pushers, the women with the narrow pushers made their choice. Don't you get it?

The accepting or declining is still a choice ( a choice to say yes or no.
Romance › Re: Does A Woman Has The Ability To Choose The Man She Wants To Marry? by SURElee(f): 9:17am On Jul 29
Toolegit123:
Good day everyone.

There's this question I want to ask. Please can a woman choose a man whom she want to marry? Because there was a time I kept chasing my ex and she told me that I shouldn't pressure her,that shes the one who has the power to choose but I think she was wrong. From my own perspective so far,I think and believe it's a man who has the ability to choose the kind of woman he wants to settle down with and the time to do so.


So ,my brethren,what do you think about it ? Does a woman has the ability to choose the kind of man she wants to settle down with?
Before a man marries, do he say to his female partner "will you marry me"?

What does that say to you?

When she says yes or no.

What does that mean to you?

It simply means the woman chose who to end up with.
She made her choose.

A man decides this is the one, if a woman doesn't agree , it doesn't stand.

So a woman's final decision is the ultimate for herself as a husband and her kids as a father figure.


So erase that "ability" rooted in ego as if the woman is handicapped.
Business › Re: The ₦1.2M Opay Loan I Took To Buy Phone & Wigs Is Now ₦9.6 Million - Mardiyyah by SURElee(f): 3:02pm On Jul 27
Who borrows money to buy a phone and wigs?
She didn't say it was to start a hair business; rather, it must be to wear on an empty skull.

This " I must belong" mentality will be the undoing of some ladies.
Kasa!
Romance › Re: “I Cleaned Poop With My Bare Hands” – Man's Embarrassing date with talking stage by SURElee(f): 6:50pm On Jul 26
Hmmm....
Some stories are wild.
Romance › Re: Lady Says Relationship Ended After Discovering Boyfriend Was A Vulcaniser by SURElee(f): 6:42pm On Jul 26
As a female, I blame the man for hiding what he does for a living.
I blame him for investing in a nut case.

As a female, I want to ask this less privileged girl what her father, whose semen formed her, does for a living
Because if he were capable, another struggling man wouldn't be arranging a business for his daughter to enable her to make headway in life for comfort and independence.

It is always the less privileged ones who are looking down on other humans' struggles in life.
Celebrities › Re: Halima Abubakar Bounces Back With Strength And Gratitude by SURElee(f): 8:09pm On Jul 22
Now that she is back.
Make she no learn her lessons.
Let her follow the wrong female crowd who sleep with occultic men parading themselves on man made stages called 'altars' with blue rugs ', na she sabi.

Dem no dey tell person twice to get sense.

Pikin wey say him mama no go sleep, him sef no go sleep.
Celebrities › Re: ‘Her Accent Is South African’ – Chidimma Adetshina’s Lawyer In Court by SURElee(f): 8:04pm On Jul 22
seppuku:
Give her Canadian citizenship first nah!
She can use the PR route na
Celebrities › Re: ‘Her Accent Is South African’ – Chidimma Adetshina’s Lawyer In Court by SURElee(f): 3:21pm On Jul 22
Must this Chidinma Adeshina stay in South Africa?
Isn't there any other place she and her family can stay? Must she stay there?
Isn't there Canada and other places?
Even if she wins this court battle, they can still shoot her. The people who shot their own Lucky Dube thinking he was Nigerian, na she dem no go kpai?
Mschewww!
Travel › Re: Is America Better Than Canada For Immigration by SURElee(f): 8:24pm On Jul 20
irumole1975:
If you were offered a US 🇺🇸 passport today and a Canadian passport 🇨🇦 which would rather pick?

Likewise, I notice there is a US embassy in Lagos; I saw one on Sunday, if I walk in, is it possible to demand tor a US passport and get it printed the same day if my plan is to relocate to the USA next month for work ?

Or should I do Canada? I don’t know if there’s a Canada embassy in Lagos.
You have a smart phone and you can't use your smart phone to find out if Canada has an embassy in Lagos?

Then what is the use of the phone?
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Share Your Experience On This Job Advert by SURElee(f): 8:47pm On Jul 19
K
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
I remember back then in 2016, when i Ieft Delta for Niger state in search of Greener pastures. When I was leaving,I could remember my father warning me of the dangerous trip I was embarking on. Even my girlfriend then also warned me but my elder sister who was inviting me over kept pestering me to come over,that there were numerous job opportunities. angry. Omoh,na so I jump enter BIGJOE bus one early morning enter suleja that evening angry. The following day,when my mind was already settled down,I asked my sister what kind of job offer did she have for me, only for the werey to open her mouth and say that it was one of these adverts she saw angry. At that moment,I felt cold , running allover my body and I knew I must had equally lost my erection too ,cuz all my ginger and morale was killed immediately angry. I knew my father would roast me if I should call him and tell him about everything.

Las las,na furniture workshop,in the midst of abokis I take find myself angry.

Since then, whenever I come across these kind of adverts,I dey always dey imagine my sister face for inside and it always increase my anger issues 😡.

6 months of my life wasted for nothing. Las las,it was still my father who sent me transport for me to come back to ughelli.
Next time, listen to the elders hahaha
Family › Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by SURElee(f): 1:42am On Jul 18
Dreal1247:
This is a business oriented woman while the man and his family are corporate gold diggers. She should run very far. The man won't mind getting her murdered and convert her properties to his family property.
God bless you.
That man and his family especially his mom are evil.

Imagine a man wants to Lord over her inheritance?
Why didn't his father leave him inheritance? What was his father doing when he father was working and leaving behind an inheritance for his daughter?


Foolish family who wants to use threat of marrying another wife to collect her inheritance say na horseband he be.

Mschewww
Celebrities › Re: 'he Now Drives A Cab In Sweden': Tunde Perry Exposes May D's Life Abroad (video) by SURElee(f): 2:42pm On Jul 15
And what is wrong with him driving cab in Sweden?
Is he the first person to drive cars in abroad for a living?

Is he able to foot his bills in Sweden with the honest work he is doing?

Even only some Nigerians know how some celebs struggle and just keep up appearances in Nigeria on social media hoping to blow, they would mock the ones who Japa and making a honest living abroad.
Travel › Re: 27 African Countries Granted Easier Entry To Canada Under 2026 Rules (Full List by SURElee(f): 5:21pm On Jul 13
Why is the gigantic giant of Africa not on the list?

See what bad governance can do? See how other countries are us as a nation?

Do I blame them?

Put Nigeria as Visa free or Visa on arrival and citizens of za kwantri will go and miss once they step in to that nation🤣
Romance › Re: I Still Control My Ex From Her Husband's House by SURElee(f): 1:23pm On Jul 09
YourGFsnatcher:
My ex married a very nice man.
But she's still loyal to me. She doesn't take any major decision without consulting me.
She completely believes in my judgement.
Thought I always give her sound judgement, but I think it's time for her to look unto her husband.

I wouldn't want my wife to rely on her ex before taking any major decision.


Continue!
An ex's input will be top priority when you marry.

How can I pull out?
Crime › Re: Suspected Chicken Thief Tied To Streetlight, Publicly Shamed In Ibadan(video) by SURElee(f): 11:24pm On Jul 05
When you think you have seen it all in Naija, you end up seeing a thief tied to a streetlight with chicken hamung in his neck?

What if this act, destroyed the street light?
So they thought it wise to destroy govt infrastructure meant for citizens while they punished a thief!


Nigerian no dey think, walai!
Crime › Re: NDLEA Arrests Nigerian-British Grandma With 13kg Cocaine Hidden In Plantain by SURElee(f): 10:00pm On Jul 05
What a colossal disgrace of a 67-year-old woman.
They should jail her and throw the keys into a pit latrine.
An old phool giving Nigerians bad name in the diaspora
Family › Re: Relationship Dilemma by SURElee(f):
Whether your sister is 31 or 51.
She should terminate that relationship.
There is nothing like a pastor or blah blah blah!
It is frustrated people with no life path who claim to be called to ministry to live off members' contributions.

I expect a 31-year-old with a good job in an NGO to know better and also look into the family she is entering.

The first complaint she would have later is his not furthering his education because she go carry her family bukata alone, then the interference of her MIL in her husband.

Suffer head will be her first name in this Tinubu economy and in that marriage.

If, as a male son and brother, you can't advise your sister correctly and even back your mum to urge her to abort the mission due to the desperation of being 31.

Should she go ahead, when the lamentations begin, and you come back here, remember to tag us to this initial post so I remember that I advised against it, and also so I can read the lamentations as entertainment when it begins to happen.


She should be marrying up, not marrying down.

He should go find a hairdresser, Agbo hawker his level to marry biko.
Crime › Re: 35-Year-Old Nigerian Who Raped A Child In Canadian Store Arrested (Photo) by SURElee(f): 2:04pm On Jul 04
Such a cursed soul.
He carried his bad character all the way to Toronto, Canada.
Now, let them show him how sex offenders are treated in sane countries not Nigeria where how family with connections would have threatened the victims family's with shinkini money and "do you know who we are" mumu chant.

Let him rot in Canada jail for all I care.

Ejots like him can't be giving us a bad name in diaspora.
Celebrities › Re: Uche Montana Shows Off Her Amazing Body As She Works Out In The Gym (Video) by SURElee(f): 10:37am On Jun 30
Na lie.
Once you see Nigerian actress hit the gym, just know they are about to do or after BBL or body work so they fool their fans thinking it is work out sessions at the gym that gave them that body.

Caroline Danjuma played this script years ago after she had her last baby, after her body work by plastic surgeons, she hit the gym like say na gym firm her boobs and enlarge and sculpt her butt.

Abegi!
Family › Re: See why am leaving my parents house at 31(pics) by SURElee(f): 8:05am On Jun 29
See what a supposed adult came online to write.
Mschewwww!
Celebrities › Re: Court Declares Adenike Lawful Widow Of Tosin Ajayi, Rejects Helen Prest’s Claim by SURElee(f): 4:13pm On Jun 21
RecentHistory:
If not married men, who will marry these beauty queens?
Look at Nike Oshinowo, after she left Duro, did you hear about her again?
Without married men, these beauty queens will starve.

Go and check. Most women whose claim to fame is their beauty always end up with married men. Unfortunately in those relationships, the married men hold the aces economically and the women can't leave because of greed.
Hahahaha
My people wey sabi this story full here o!
I purposely skipped Dr name o!

Good one!
Their greed no dey let them be.

Sebi one beauty queen into turban today sef dey do her own, another beauty queen from. Rivers marry one billionaire born baby girl same story blah blah blah


Their wahala too much.


Young ladies should wise up and avoid these married men biko and save themselves these wahala
Celebrities › Re: Court Declares Adenike Lawful Widow Of Tosin Ajayi, Rejects Helen Prest’s Claim by SURElee(f):
sharone21:
Erelu ( older) was her best friend/ socialite friend then for Nike, so no shaking as Dr was in their handbags....Lol..... When she wised up and respected herself, she went to quickly use her frozen eggs to get herself surrogate kids and live peacefully with them.
You sabi Nike well well.
Even Dr Talk say she will come back and beg on her knees, when I read that interview, I showed my friend and I burst laugh. The beauty queen never crawl on her knees to go beg am since o! Hahahaha


Some married men will just ruin their marriages and be looking for single ladies or beauty queens crywey their heads no correct to sink into their martial potopoto
Celebrities › Re: Court Declares Adenike Lawful Widow Of Tosin Ajayi, Rejects Helen Prest’s Claim by SURElee(f):
What a waste of beauty.
I'm ashamed of Helen Prest! You waste 20 years on a man who didn't wife you?
Taaaaa!

She claims she was married to him without evidence? She is also a lawyer o! What did she learn as a lawyer sef?

I wonder what is wrong with some of these beauty queens, that was how Nike Osinowo yoked herself to a Dr with his practice on Allen Avenue and he was embattled with his own wife.

Why do they shook their heads into marriages with men that are married? Anyway,I'm glad Nike wised up and stopped being the hand bag trophy wife that Dr wanted her to be and left that thing called marriage if not her case for be like this also.

Helen Prest doesn't know the difference with common law partner and civil law partner, for a trained lawyer?

God abeg o!

I hope young girls will learn.

And she go born for this late Dr Ajayi, that child will be so angry eh! I hope the siblings from the first wife consider her sha if not na her mama put her for the condition wey she dey today.

Ladies avoid married men, make una dey hear word o! Any man claiming to be separated from his wife and not fully divorced na bad product o! If Una like go dey cultivate another woman garden, when time reach dem go use insecticide flush you and your shudrenses commot una eyes go clear in old age.
Nairaland General › Re: 8-Year-Old Nigerian Pupil Drives Siblings To School (Video) by SURElee(f): 3:11pm On Jun 17
Rough play by their parents.
Maybe the parents no suffer born those children.
they should continue
Crime › Re: Woman Plunges 40m To Death As Bungee Crew Forget To Attach Safety Cord In Brazil by SURElee(f): 12:11pm On Jun 14
This kinda of things only happens in countries where dem don chop belleful, where dem get basic daily amenities provided by systems that work.


Is it Nigeria where you hustle your own light with generator set, or solar systems, your water with borehole or your own security where you never fit chop belleful you will sit down and plan how to go jump or be thrown from height?

One of the reasons I love my fellow Naija citizens, dem no dey see die say dem wan go try am as being adventurous.
Christianity Etc › Re: Kumuyi: My Sons Will Not Succeed Me, Deeper Life Is Not A Family Inheritance by SURElee(f): 9:04am On Jun 11
Hussein035:
Keep quiet. The man is taking a wrong decision

A business that gives him almost 1 billion every month end through tithe alone, he should leave it to outsider

Do you think your so called God is calling this people. They are doing business

Ask your pastors " if tithe and offering is removed will you remain a pastor"
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God bless you. they are so quick to chant God this, God that,
whereas na the money dem dey after.
Which God called them?
Christianity Etc › Re: Kumuyi: My Sons Will Not Succeed Me, Deeper Life Is Not A Family Inheritance by SURElee(f): 8:56am On Jun 11
So nobody is seeing that Kumuyi said this when he was younger?
how many years ago did he say this?
He is older now.
At the time he said this, we didn't know his sons.
Now we see one of his sons actively today.

Years ago he said TV was devil's box, today it is otherwise,
Make we wait first till handing over ceremony, I no trust these African pastors of Nigerian descent.
Anyway not like I'm bothered who they hand over to sef.

All na business to them and na business centers dem dey run.
Politics › Re: Women Loot Drinks During A Political Rally In Enugu State (Video) by SURElee(f): 3:47pm On Jun 06
Poverty of the mind is a menace.
These are wives to some men and mothers to children.

What a collosal disgrace!
Christianity Etc › Re: Mountain Of Fire: MFM Suspends Vigils Nationwide Over Security Concerns by SURElee(f): 3:45pm On Jun 06
Why suspend vigils nationwide?
Does it mean all the faya faya prayers aren't effective?
Can't the faya prayers be prayed now against the insurgents and bandits?

This is how they haveade a caricature of what Christianity is.

Mschewwwww!

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