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OP! So it is only the Nigerian women who marry for the wrong reasons? Why didn't you highlight that some men also marry for the wrong reasons?

You are taking as if you don't know some men come to Nigeria and go fishing around the nursing schools for innocent nursing students who would get carried away with an abroadian who dangles marriage at them with relocation as the icing on the cake while the real intent of the man is to use her as his retirement plan of her working after nursing school while he lounges. And they will later cry and say I brought her abroad. So because you brought her abroad, you should collect every penny she works for? Who then caters to her family back home? Una don see cash cow na

Or the men who marry and refuse their wives working, for fear that the wives will be spoilt by other women in the diaspora. Who asked you to marry and be scared and not trust your wife? Why ask her not to work, did she fall from the skies? She has a family back home to provide for na.

So as you put all the blame on woman , I have just listed a few to make you know men are the cause.

Who is the head in that marriage? The man.
Who chose his spouse? The man.
Who is the driver in that car/marriage? The man

When a car has accident, who do you question and blame? The driver who s behind the wheels not the passenger.


So the man at the helm of affairs of his marriage is responsible for the outcome of his marriage. If the wife is bad. Naim fault, Naim choose with him own hand, carry him hard earned money to marry knife and not wife.

Know this and know peace

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Madam dump that man.
whenever a woman tries to help, some men will leave every responsibility to her.
do you have kids? If you don't, better not have kids with him yet while you plan your japa move without him
no go die say you dey carry the baggage of lazy and wicked man wey you marry.
who even asked you to marry without courtship, that is how Christians kill themselves, you will open your eyes and go into fire, all a pastor will tell you is to pray, pray, and fast for a comatose marriage that isn't working and will never work because it takes two to make a marriage work.

This girl has abandoned her robotics and followed Peller abi? When people raised an alarmed she said it was because of the facial tumour, now that the tumour has been taken off nko?

That was how Annie left her career to fight women and Pero off Tuface all these years , now she isn't known as an actress but a junkie wailing over her failed marriage in a rehabilitation centre supported by Toke and co

Whoever told ladies to forgo their careers and aspirations to babysit and monitor man is what I don't understand

So knacking her in exhange for the help you will render her is your topmost priority? There is no difference between you and Nedu na.

If you know the unpredictability of life, Wetin go make ex girlfriend go meet her ex boyfriend for financial assistance. If no be say life happens.

While you scheme your way to knack her because she has come to you for financial favours, have you sat down to ask yourself if you know how your future will be financially when you get married? Will you always have money that your wife will not have to seek financial aid from anybody?

Think again.

Only when you can hit your chest and say yes, should you carry out your evil plan of knocking your ex, a married woman because she came to you for help.

Life na turn by turn.
Today, you get and person fit come meet you for help.
Tomorrow e fit be their turn to help you or link you to somebody they know to help you.

A word is enough for the wise.

Sweet news to my ears because majority of the episodes I have enjoyed Nedu was absent and no one brought up 'wiping' and sexual innuendoes like nedu does. And he is always fond of cutting people off as they speak.

Guy, no be li you look better Jare.
But will you also work on your strong yam legs that show whe you wear female skirts in your skits?

Abeg do you.
As long as you are confident and happier now, who are we to say otherwise?

He died of rabies after dog bite illiteracy make una call am mysterious illness.

Mschewww!

This one is not ashamed of herself.
2 mins man yet you stayed and birth 2 kids for him.
2 mins,yet he knack you belle.

The Paulo you are with today, tomorrow you will come and say he last 2 seconds because dem say he don old and people dey brush am not be him dey knack.

Iyabo Ojo ehhhh

HaneefahRN:
You are not ready for a child but ready for unprotected sex. Continue

Make he go check price of Pampers ,Huggies and SMA Gold, he go ready by force.
Irresponsible guy

Don't bother us with your Yen Yen Yen stories. If you are not ready for babies use protection.

If you had used protection, all these mess wouldn't have occurred.

I don't pity you one bit.

If you like abandon your child when he or she s born.

Will you learn from this? No.
You want it skim to skin without babies hahahaha
Kwanrinue gbenshing about and entertaining us with your childish tales

You were going though all these yet you brought your sister in to also suffer Abi?

You yourself you are bad, very bad of you to be in hell and also drag your sibling into the hell.

So did you pull her out when you quit?

GEEBITE:
Wow you have been around for a while
How Vien with poor dentitiion won Miss Nigeria
is astonishing. Those girls are deeply networked., that's why Tubaba as street boy knew he can't wife her. Where is Vien now? [ quote author=SURElee post=133919713]Nonsense!
Yes, they dated.
she was Miss Nigerian, not MBGN
and she didn't lose her crown, She handed it to the next winner.
Vien Tetsola was Millenium queen, she handed it over to the 2001 winner

They ended it because they were not allowed to be in relationships; otherwise, another Bianca and Ojukwu saga would have been out.
Every day, I say Vien dodged a bullet, but then again, she would have had a child because now there is no marriage and no child either.

Vien was attending Household of God and Okotie used them singles to promote his last outcast apocalypse book in TV adverts then they all thought Okotie would wife them, and after he picked Stephanie Henshaw as wife, Vien, Salako and co, ran away from his church.

Vien Tetsola after the Okotie saga moved to South Africa for a while, later returned and lived in Ikeja,
She went under the radar, and after some years, Nike Oshinowo, an MBGN former queen, took over Miss Nigeria, which she revamped, to make the pageant night. She invited past Miss Nigeria Queens, which made Vien show up after years of being underground.
When you say Tubaba knew he couldn't wife her because she is highly networked, the one he married, how has it been for them, before, during the marriage, and now?

I wish Vien married another man and had children .
Tuface isn't it abeg.

Nonsense!
Yes, they dated.
she was Miss Nigerian, not MBGN
and she didn't lose her crown, She handed it to the next winner.
Vien Tetsola was Millenium queen, she handed it over to the 2001 winner

They ended it because they were not allowed to be in relationships; otherwise, another Bianca and Ojukwu saga would have been out.
Every day, I say Vien dodged a bullet, but then again, she would have had a child because now there is no marriage and no child either.

Vien was attending Household of God and Okotie used them singles to promote his last outcast apocalypse book in TV adverts then they all thought Okotie would wife them, and after he picked Stephanie Henshaw as wife, Vien, Salako and co, ran away from his church.

Suffer head people giving us a bad name.
they should lock them up for life or face firing squad jare.
mscheewwww

This isn't news na.
We have heard of this kind of story even in Nigeria.

Now my question is, what sort of discussion was a wife hoping to have with a secondary school side chick of her husband?

Women have been told to avoid confrontations with side chicks, but dem go ever hear? No.

Then the said husband is a disgrace, he has a wife but chooses a secondary school girl for a side chick?

Westin the wife find naim she don see so. Next time ahe will focus on herself and live her life.

Minus one
This one even had a job, so it was a case of being jobless, not having wife or kids or pressure to get married.

Wetin he come want make those unemployed to do in this awalokan era.

Mschewwww!
You kpai yourself because you have no wife and kid, what the do you want those who are married and facing hard economic times to do?


This guy would have kpaied himself if he were married with kids and couldn't care for them, Na God save any woman from early widowhood and kids from his actions of being suicidal.

So after the fast what happens?
The giving to the poor stops?
What did Apostle Paul say about true religion? Didn't he say it is caring for the poor, orphans and widows?

Do you have to be in a fast before you remember those in need around you?

ceejay80s:
I hear u but u hear me....
none of them where standing there when it was paid, how can ur own brother in-law return ur bride price, I don't know the state u are from but u can't do that in anambra except the dad is no longer alive or far away the first son is in position to do so

So you want your friend to keep waiting for the woman who is tired of being his wife?
Okay, let him wait till his father-in-law calls him since he is the lion of the tribe in his house.
nansense!
A sensible man, after receiving that call. should have called his father-in-law if his wife had refused to pick up his calls after several attempts.
Didn't we all read when Olu Jacobs said his wife moved out years ago and he went back to bring her home that same day?

Your almighty friend rather than fix his marriage and home is running to you for advice, na you advise am to marry before>

Marriage is for that marured abeg.

in a marriage, when a wife leaves, a husband makes the first step to get her back, that way it shows the inlaws that he is in charge and knows what he wants.

Every marriage goes through challenges, it takes wisdom to navigate them.

This reminds me of how beggars and aged parents trek to or transport themselves to the saraki's house in Ilorin just to be given one cooked wrap of semovita after sitting in the sun for hours.
mschewww!
Like, who do us this kind thing?
which sane child allows their parents to go through such stress and humiliation?
God!

TUANKU:
My take is not about the church doing good or not, all am saying is the money spent still came from these same individuals in form of tithes,offerings etc or how else does the church raise funds? At least you did not dispute that fact.

Why should I dispute that the money came from the church(people)?
What matters is that the money realized is used to serve the people whether they are members or not.

TUANKU:
Technically it's the people transporting themselves as the funds come from their offerings and tithes and any other way the church can squeeze more money out of them gullible souls.
NB: See these religious zombies without a mind of their own making lame excuses and attacking me. You lot will remain slaves for life. Most of y'all still won't make heaven 😂

Whether it came from tithes and offerings or not, it doesn't matter.
what matters is they used it to alleviate the suffering of the masses whether Christians or Muslims or any other religion in Nigeria.

A top preacher says he has been called to make people rich, yet has no skill empowerment scheme in his church , how is he doing his empowerment to get the members rich. This RCCG gave free buses not to transport people to church to increase offerings and tithes to their purses o, but for citizens to spend less on transport from meager salary, what did the other one do?

Food bank abi welfare scheme announced early in the year, we no see.

abeg RCCH dey try.

The Africa Missions global arm of RCCG recently concluded free online courses for everybody, regardless of whether you are a member or not. I took part in one. What did the other one do?

abeg RCCG, dey try abeg.
I'm not a member, yet I'm saying this.
do you know how much it costs to register for tech courses, the data bundle you will buy for the number of months to take the course yet they did the course for free, now we have moved to the mentorship phase.

if I see something good the church is doing I will say it and the bad one.

On this, the church is doing well.

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A 29year old graduate of Petroleum engineering who has nothing doing but has a pregnant girlfriend he hasn't disclosed to anybody who gets an opportunity to travel out is blabbing about not wanting to leave his friends. Hahaha.

Those your eye friends won't miss the opportunity for a better life because of you o!

Instead of thinking and seeing the bigger picture for not just himself but for his unborn child.

Kai!

A graduate at 29 o!

Abeg stay back and langusih na.

Go window shopping and Chek the price of baby milk and diaper, creche fees etc not to mention school fees for your child o!

Stay back and be blabbing , you hear.

Mschewwww

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As educated and learned as the entire Falana and his family and Chambers claim to be, they spent time on VDM and left Bob who used their names to lie all these weeks.

Dem just wake up after seeing video of Bob supposedly defaming them ni?

Falana himself that should have tackled Bob from day 1 went for VDM? Hahaha

I have been laughing at his level of being learned

So he just dey wake.

From all the Channels, Arise and TVC interviews, he just dey wake up from all his rakings? Mschewww!

It tookRufai of Arise TV telling Falana to include Bob in his lawsuit for aging Falana to do who the real defamer is?
Nansense!


Bob lie ,used all of them. mugus who donated monies to him, just to enrich himself while cooling in a serviced apartment.


He must have been laughing at all their gullibility.


Sebi na Bob dem see donate money for, when it is a worthy cause, you won't see Don Jazzy, Tiwa , Moyo Lawal there to donate, e reach Bob toh risky, dem fall out to out do themselves

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Hope your blood sugar level is within range

Some ladies just know how to disgrace themselves eh.
I keep wondering if they don't have family names, dignity or friendships to protect.

What a disgrace!

I blame some of them who watch the whites do their tell all and they choose to do same.

Mschewww!

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These Pastors should take time to rest, see medical doctors to check their blood pressure and blood sugar and overall body check.

The again, it is another thing to be advised by a doctor ,it is another thing to take their medications.

They need to rest, plenty of rest, not stand for long hours when they feel weak. It is okay to sit down while preaching.

A word is enough for the wise!