@ife when I started suspecting him I have to check his phone.

Once I leave a relationship I would not go back. I really want to know why he is doing this and confirm if he is still sleeping with her

@ferhyntorlah, thanks for comment.

chilovenet, I have a policy that once I break up with someone there is no going back. That is why I don't understand why he keeps calling this lady. He even called her on his way to my house yesterday. Can you just imagine that? It is so difficult for me to just believe they are mere friends.

But I often ask myself why will you keep calling your ex so often and expect the person you are with to be happy about that. Does it make sense?

I have told him previously that he calls his ex too frequently and he as usual was trying to be defensive. He said they are just friends and he sees no reason why he should stop calling her. He says that I am too jealous

i have replied

potency have you checked your email?

Potency I have sent you an email

I tried sending you an email but it came back with failure delivery message

Potency I just sent you an email

thanks potency is that face really yours lol?

thanks potency I really want to deal with this liar. He lies even about things he should not lie about. My heart doesn't trust him at all as he is a cheat. What is your email addy?

Thanks for the advise Freecocoa, I won't call the number

Potency Thanks, looking back at your post, you have advised me to look for my ex. I really don't dig that can of style I would rather start something new. How would you feel if your girlfriend keeps calling her ex? What would you do?

Ok I will ring you. By the way what is the meaning of Bleep?

I have to admit that I love this liar

I am just a bit confused. I am thinking of ending the relationship cos I think he is liar and a cheat after all he his cheated in his previous relationships.

I don't believe in going back to someone I have said its over. I would rather prefer to start with someone new. To me it doesn't add up. Why say someone is your ex and yet you still want to keep close contacts with such a person?

His ex-girlfriend is a white lady and I am black. We don't look similar

Hello Everyone,


I have been looking for a medium like this with which to express myself and I am really glad that I have found one. Please judge this case for me: My Boyfriend calls his ex-girlfriend almost everyday. The only time they don't speak is when he is with me. I have accused him about this before but he told me that they are just friends. But I think if someone is an ex they should not be communicating with the person as often as they used to since the relationship as ended. He calls her more often than she does and I feel that he has not really gotten over her yet.

Please what can I do in this case?